Dr Cass: *grumpily* Today in the studio ...

Anger: Woah. Where has the announcer gone? What happened?

Dr Cass: I am pissed.

Anger: Obviously. But why?

Dr Cass: Bad experience. Once again.

Anger: Tell me. Spit it out. Relief helps.

Dr Cass: I had that user yesterday, offering control over a toy of his. Bad manners. Still, I jumped on the offer. Communication delay, back and forth, it was getting late. He offered...

ASL = Age Sex Location

It's one of the most annoying questions for me popping up, especially via the abbreviation as it is used early on in conversations. For me, it's one of the most horrific turn offs.


Age = for me, the difference between this year and the year of my birth

For you: Most positively thinking, you might try to guess what music, culture, and habits I know or am into on the base of my age. That's the most mannered I can think of. But...

Inspired by knorke's blog post. Many thanks for the perspective.


More often bottom than top, I go through phases of submission, domination, and not much desire for kinky play at all. That's why I have been unable to keep up a long-term BDSM partnership, in what role whatsoever. For me, the most important aspect of my tasks is to do it for others, due to others, "forced" or better spelled decided by others. I love to please and satisfy people. That works better when I...

Disclaimer: I explicitely state that I don't live up to the following standards I may provide in the following text. I am just Human afterall.

Welcome to the internet, a world of anonymity.
That means, you can just jump in, so much is free today, so less effort is needed. No need to pay an entry fee, show your passport or even a pic of yourself. No one needs to know who you are until you decide to reveal it.

Don't overestimate your disconnect between your virtual persona...

Another show, another guest. Today in the studio:

A. Lurker
Curious but not ready to get involved yet

Dr Cass: Welcome to our show, A. Lurker.

A. Lurker: Thank you. Now, could you turn down that spotlight, please? Or shift it away. ... Okay, better.

Dr Cass: Why isn't that a surprise to me?

A. Lurker: Maybe because you summoned me here. What can I do for you?

Dr Cass: Let's talk about how you don't...

Today in our studio, live and exclusively for you:

PM me "FORWARD" and another user's PM dare list link(s), and I will PM dares to that user.


Dr Cass: Hi everyone,
I am your host today, Dr Cass. Pleae give a very warm welcome to our current guest, FORWARD. How do you do?

Forward: Thank you, Dr Cass. I am very relaxed. Especially important these days, I think. But I could be quote and used quite more often.

Dr Cass...

Hello folks, dear readers and friends,

Very recently I had a brief reminder about play and rules again. Last times it was more about overdoing it and taking care of yourself. This time it's not about sticking to rules not only as a paragraph to stick to the rules.

I put up a new add thread, free-for-all this time. So everyone can make a promise there about what to do controlled by others, in this case via posts. And of course, when we make such a promise, we want others...