A random assortment of reports, thoughts, ramblings and information. Pretty much a view inside my wonderfully complicated, sometimes broken, and entertaining mind.
Swan Song
Posted 05-11-2023 at 05:07 PM by Butterfly
getDare has always held such a special place in my heart. This is where I met my husband, and my little worm. It is where I found myself. I learned to be a Domme. This is where I have grown into the person that I am today.
I have been here pretty steadily for the last 10+ years. When I am not writing blogs or hanging out in the chat, I am always in the background responding to reports, putting out fires, listening to people whine and complain. It is tiring at times, discouraging at others. I have been harassed, yelled at and seen so many things that I will never be able to unsee. I am not bitter, I am just tired.
I think I have outgrown getDare. I think it is time for me to leave, at least for now. Maybe this place will draw me back in, but maybe not. For now. I just know that I need to go.
For those that want to keep in touch, please do! I love to hear from you (as long as you aren't asking me for unsolicited things).
Discord: Butterfly#3687
Kik: Butterfly.cm
Fetlife: Butterfly_cm
I also still will receive emails when I get PMs (for now). So feel free to reach out that way if you wish.
Thank you for 10 years of awesomeness my friends!
I have been here pretty steadily for the last 10+ years. When I am not writing blogs or hanging out in the chat, I am always in the background responding to reports, putting out fires, listening to people whine and complain. It is tiring at times, discouraging at others. I have been harassed, yelled at and seen so many things that I will never be able to unsee. I am not bitter, I am just tired.
I think I have outgrown getDare. I think it is time for me to leave, at least for now. Maybe this place will draw me back in, but maybe not. For now. I just know that I need to go.
For those that want to keep in touch, please do! I love to hear from you (as long as you aren't asking me for unsolicited things).
Discord: Butterfly#3687
Kik: Butterfly.cm
Fetlife: Butterfly_cm
I also still will receive emails when I get PMs (for now). So feel free to reach out that way if you wish.
Thank you for 10 years of awesomeness my friends!
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Posted 05-11-2023 at 05:23 PM by centurion01 -
Posted 05-11-2023 at 05:25 PM by Azyliux -
This is such sad news. To me you are gD.
It will not be the same without you.
Thank you for lots of fun times on here. Thank you for making me feel part of this community, for all the little adminy things you have helped me with and for not covering me in glitter too much
I know our friendship will carry on outside of gD, but it's still sad to think you won't be around here.
<3Posted 05-11-2023 at 05:58 PM by DeepInnerFreak
Updated 05-11-2023 at 06:00 PM by DeepInnerFreak (Stupid spelling error. Reason: Fat fingers.) -
Posted 05-11-2023 at 06:00 PM by wolf82 -
Posted 05-11-2023 at 11:55 PM by Andrew 25:17 -
Your importance for this community can not be overstated, and if I were to try to say anything about it I would only wildly understate, but I'm speaking from the bottom of my heart when I whimper:
Oh no!
I am going to miss you so much! We've never really interacted a lot, but you have always been there, like a... well, like a rock. The anchor of gD?
I don't know what to say. I can't imagine gD without you.
I'm going to call you Butty one last time: Fare thee well, dear Butty. Live long and prosper.Posted 05-12-2023 at 03:03 AM by Cstelle -
Posted 05-12-2023 at 09:50 AM by FrostbittenSoul -
Posted 05-12-2023 at 09:55 AM by pluky -
Posted 05-13-2023 at 06:54 AM by bluedieblub -
Posted 05-14-2023 at 01:09 AM by silverdarknight -
Posted 05-14-2023 at 04:24 PM by Come-Here
Updated 05-14-2023 at 04:27 PM by Come-Here -
Posted 05-26-2023 at 08:20 AM by Blue Fox