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Worth the wait

Posted 03-12-2019 at 02:00 AM by Butterfly

Anytime anybody asks for advice when it comes to finding a partner (online, or in person, kink or vanilla), I always end my advice with a variation of: It might suck now, but don't give up because when you find that special person, it is well worth the wait.


I believe that whole heartedly! But let me tell you ... it is so hard when you are searching and waiting and looking and wanting and nothing seems to happen. I spent over two years actively looking. Waiting as patiently as I can for the right Dom to come along and sweep me off my feet. I almost gave up so many times!

But, I am so glad I didn't...

Because one month ago today, I got a lovely private message. The title was so confident: "Well...here goes nothing." :P But all joking aside, his message did impress me.

We began chatting right away, and I could tell very quickly that this man was special. He was smart, open, funny, quick witted, and took my banter like the bitch he is (just kidding).

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I haven't felt a connection like this since I met Mr. Devious. To be honest it has been a bit scary. The more I fall for him, the more scared I am to lose him.

However, I have been pretty distracted and trying not to worry. It has been an exciting month of getting to know each other, bossing him around, learning what makes each other tick, a few voice calls, some orgasms and even one audio play session (Yum!).

Dr. Dom, knowing you has been amazing. It may have only been a month, but I feel like we have known each other much longer than that. You have made me so happy. I have smiled lots, laughed even more, and generally feel lighter and more joyful. You are lovely and supportive and deliciously dommy. I am looking forward to what the next few months have in store for us. I adore you <3

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  1. Old Comment
    Dr.Dom's Avatar
    Hard to know what to say to something as wonderful as this...but I adore you, even if you're a a-grade brat! The last month has been fun and I'm sure will have loads more moving forward.

    And yes, I am totally worth the wait!
    Posted 03-12-2019 at 06:03 AM by Dr.Dom Dr.Dom is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar
    Quote:
    Originally Posted by Dr.Dom View Comment
    Hard to know what to say to something as wonderful as this...but I adore you, even if you're a a-grade brat! The last month has been fun and I'm sure will have loads more moving forward.

    And yes, I am totally worth the wait!
    I might need to write a blog about how mean you are now to counteract all the nice things I said. Reading this over again has almost made me want to barf! What got into me :P
    Posted 03-12-2019 at 09:17 AM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
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    Bloxo's Avatar
    This is an important message and indeed patience is most certainly a virtue I respect.
    It’s also important not to dishearten yourself, keep a positive attitude and you never know where things will go, but the moment you give up is often the moment that leads to a dark path in life!

    Very happy for you both, may you each annoy each other like crazy (in a good way of course haha)!
    Posted 03-12-2019 at 04:31 PM by Bloxo Bloxo is online now
 

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