While you were sleeping.
Posted 08-30-2018 at 03:50 AM by AbusiveMaster
My IceMaiden has troubles sleeping, and even more troubles waking up. As such, the laptop in her bedroom is always turned on overmight, and Skype is set to auto-answer with video. We used to have it set up on her main computer also, but with her child around, this became impractical. I am, I think, the only person who has access to this account (I forget if there are a few select others or not,) and am the only one who calls her.
So at night, wherever life allows, I call my little girl when she goes to bed, "tuck her in" and sit and tak with her until she falls asleep. I very much enjoy that. I also, more importantly, call her in the morning to wake her up. alarms just dont seem to do the trick for my little girl, but me speaking to her has a much higher success rate. It is difficult to get her into a healthy sleep routine, and when we get there, circumstances always seem to assassinate it, making us start over.
Aside from sending her to sleep, and waking her up, however, I also just sit and watch her sleep. I am doing it as I write this, I will wake her at the conclusion. It may seem odd, it may seem creepy, perhaps even stalker-like. It is, however, something I very much enjoy. If our lives were easier, if we lived in a perfect world, we would be together 24/7. And while we have vague plans of "one day" this happening, that day is still quite a long way in our future.
Until then, I enjoy every closeness, every part of my little girl's life that I can get involved with. Don't get me wrong, I am not just looking at the monitor like a dog watching a washing machine. I play games, watch some TV, occasionally post here - as well as real world things, cooking, doing the housework.
There have been times my princess has been whimpering through bad dreams, and a soft voice reassures her. There have been times she has snored so loudly I am grateful the computer has volume controls. There have been days when I can't wake her, she has had a terrible, sleepless night or is unwell. It isn't perfect, but it is good.
Time to wake up, baby girl.
So at night, wherever life allows, I call my little girl when she goes to bed, "tuck her in" and sit and tak with her until she falls asleep. I very much enjoy that. I also, more importantly, call her in the morning to wake her up. alarms just dont seem to do the trick for my little girl, but me speaking to her has a much higher success rate. It is difficult to get her into a healthy sleep routine, and when we get there, circumstances always seem to assassinate it, making us start over.
Aside from sending her to sleep, and waking her up, however, I also just sit and watch her sleep. I am doing it as I write this, I will wake her at the conclusion. It may seem odd, it may seem creepy, perhaps even stalker-like. It is, however, something I very much enjoy. If our lives were easier, if we lived in a perfect world, we would be together 24/7. And while we have vague plans of "one day" this happening, that day is still quite a long way in our future.
Until then, I enjoy every closeness, every part of my little girl's life that I can get involved with. Don't get me wrong, I am not just looking at the monitor like a dog watching a washing machine. I play games, watch some TV, occasionally post here - as well as real world things, cooking, doing the housework.
There have been times my princess has been whimpering through bad dreams, and a soft voice reassures her. There have been times she has snored so loudly I am grateful the computer has volume controls. There have been days when I can't wake her, she has had a terrible, sleepless night or is unwell. It isn't perfect, but it is good.
Time to wake up, baby girl.
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This is super cute.
One of my favorite things when Mr. Devious and I were apart was him reading or talking me to sleep. It was so comforting to know he was there. I would tell friends about it and so.e thought it was downright stalkerish, but I loved when he would stick around on the call even after I was sleeping.
If I woke up to go pee or had a bad dream, it was so nice to have him there. And I think listening to me breath, snore, and make sleepy noises was comforting to him to.Posted 08-30-2018 at 04:06 AM by Butterfly 
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Gosh, wonderful entries. Thanks for writing. I'm at a loss for much words again. You two are simply beautiful.Posted 08-30-2018 at 05:26 AM by Joan Sky
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Yah.. interesting..looking forward to your next post abusive master
Posted 08-30-2018 at 05:32 AM by Mariz39
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This seems so nice. If it weren't for your good relationship it would be creepy.
I like how you are helping her so much by these things. And it seems you enjoy them as well.
*Hugs*
Posted 08-30-2018 at 05:41 AM by Pariahterror
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This is perfect ❤️ I've always found falling asleep while being on the phone with my partner very intimate and it always makes me feel very safe when I wake up from a bad dream and I hear him make sleepy noises as he sleeps. Long distance relationships are undoubtedly very hard but there are ways around it. Big hugs to whoever made Skype haha!Posted 08-30-2018 at 07:30 AM by lilith_
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I thought I had commented on this ages ago...
Yes only you have access to the laptop Skype. I don't fancy anyone else randomly calling me while I'm getting dressed, I would die!
It is very nice and makes me feel soooo safe when I wake from bad dreams and hear you right there with me <3 <3Posted 10-12-2018 at 09:50 AM by IceMaiden
