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Orgasm Update
Posted 04-03-2018 at 03:13 PM by Butterfly
My new years resolution for 2018 was to cum once a day (on average). If I were to fall behind, I wanted to try my best to catch up each week.
Now, for those that don't know, 2018 has been pretty shitty for me. I have been in pain almost each and everyday (due to injuries from my car accident in August 2017), I had a miscarriage at the end of January, and I went through some very traumatic events which led up to the death of my aunt on March 1. I have been grieving a lot, and this has really affected my desire to orgasm. That being said, I think I have done pretty well!
I also want to mention that usually once a week we set a day aside for "little" time, and on those days I do not do anything sexual. Therefore those day do not have orgasms either.
Let's take a look at some statistics:
Typical Orgasm
Most of the orgasms during the week were completed with the use of my magic wand, laying in bed, with the instruction of Mr. Devious. He would either unplug the wand or tell me to turn it off multiple times before he would allow me to cum. I would average probably 5 edges before each orgasm.
On the weekends my orgasms typically happen during play time. This can range from spanking and edging session, sex while bound, anal play, etc.
Thursday nights I am usually home alone, so when i get to have my orgasms, I usually lay in my bed and tease myself mercilessly while watching porn. I will typically do 20-30 edges before allowing myself an orgasm.
How much time does this typically take out of my day?
I can orgasm rather quickly. Even with a few edges, the weekday orgasms usually only takes about 10 minutes out of my night. Weekend play sessions can take a few hours depending on what we are doing.
What has surprised me about the experience?
I was surprised at how well orgasms help with pain management. On days that I am feeling slightly sore, and I push through to have an orgasm anyways, it would almost always make me feel better and allow me to get to sleep easier.
How it affects me?
I want to say that daily orgasms affect my mood. It is hard to say though, because there has been a lot of sadness and grieving over the past 2 months, but overall I think orgasms help me feel better, more energetic, and it does help my sex drive. When I am experiencing frequent orgasms, it makes me want more.
Plans and goals for the next quarter:
Over the next three months, I would like to try to get back in a rhythm where I start to have orgasms more regularly (ie. most days out of a week). I do have a goal to complete at least one month this year where I have an orgasm each and every day! I would also like to make up for the 3 orgasm deficit.
Now, for those that don't know, 2018 has been pretty shitty for me. I have been in pain almost each and everyday (due to injuries from my car accident in August 2017), I had a miscarriage at the end of January, and I went through some very traumatic events which led up to the death of my aunt on March 1. I have been grieving a lot, and this has really affected my desire to orgasm. That being said, I think I have done pretty well!
I also want to mention that usually once a week we set a day aside for "little" time, and on those days I do not do anything sexual. Therefore those day do not have orgasms either.
Let's take a look at some statistics:
January
Total Orgasms: 30
# of days I had an orgasm: 21
Average # of orgasms each day:
1.42 orgasms per day that I had an orgasm, OR 0.97 orgasms daily
Most orgasms in one day:
January 21 - 4 orgasms
Unusual Findings:
Because of how we planned little days, I did not have an orgasm on Wednesday at all during the month of January. I also found that the middle of the week was when I was most likely to skip an orgasm due to pain or being too tired.
Overall Progress:
I was only 1 orgasm short for the month.
*You will note that after the 28th, I had no orgasms, as this was when I had my miscarriage and I was recovering. Otherwise I would have been ahead of schedule.
February
Total Orgasms: 29
# of days I had an orgasm: 17
Average # of orgasms each day:
1.70 orgasms per day that I had an orgasm, OR 1.04 orgasms daily
Most orgasms in one day:
February 3 - 4 orgasms
Unusual Findings:
Because I was very aware of the pattern of no Wednesdays in January, I changed things up a bit for February and tried my best to devote myself to more midweek orgasms. However, we had a few very busy weekends which left us extra tired on Sundays (or hung over) which made playtime hard. So there were a lot of Sundays where we didn't have our playtime.
Overall Progress:
I was able to end with 1 orgasm over par, which made up for the one orgasm deficit from January.
*You will note that I was on track to be way over the number of orgasms needed for February, but February 24, I had to travel to Ontario where I slept in the same bed as my mom for two weeks. This, coupled with dealing with emotional trauma prevented me from having any further orgasms in February, which brought down my total.
March
Total Orgasms: 28
# of days I had an orgasm: 14
Average # of orgasms each day:
2 orgasms per day that I had an orgasm, OR 0.90 orgasms daily
Most orgasms in one day:
March 16 & 19- 5 orgasms
Unusual Findings:
This month was very sporadic as I was feeling a lot of sadness. For that reason, when I was having a good day, I would have multiple orgasms where possible.
Overall Progress:
This left me with a 3 orgasm deficit at the end of March.
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Quarterly Overview
Total Orgasms: 87
# of days I had an orgasm: 52
Average # of orgasms each day:
1.67 orgasms per day that I had an orgasm, OR 0.96 orgasms daily.
Overall Progress:
I am in a 3 orgasm deficit at this time.
Total Orgasms: 30
# of days I had an orgasm: 21
Average # of orgasms each day:
1.42 orgasms per day that I had an orgasm, OR 0.97 orgasms daily
Most orgasms in one day:
January 21 - 4 orgasms
Unusual Findings:
Because of how we planned little days, I did not have an orgasm on Wednesday at all during the month of January. I also found that the middle of the week was when I was most likely to skip an orgasm due to pain or being too tired.
Overall Progress:
I was only 1 orgasm short for the month.
*You will note that after the 28th, I had no orgasms, as this was when I had my miscarriage and I was recovering. Otherwise I would have been ahead of schedule.
February
Total Orgasms: 29
# of days I had an orgasm: 17
Average # of orgasms each day:
1.70 orgasms per day that I had an orgasm, OR 1.04 orgasms daily
Most orgasms in one day:
February 3 - 4 orgasms
Unusual Findings:
Because I was very aware of the pattern of no Wednesdays in January, I changed things up a bit for February and tried my best to devote myself to more midweek orgasms. However, we had a few very busy weekends which left us extra tired on Sundays (or hung over) which made playtime hard. So there were a lot of Sundays where we didn't have our playtime.
Overall Progress:
I was able to end with 1 orgasm over par, which made up for the one orgasm deficit from January.
*You will note that I was on track to be way over the number of orgasms needed for February, but February 24, I had to travel to Ontario where I slept in the same bed as my mom for two weeks. This, coupled with dealing with emotional trauma prevented me from having any further orgasms in February, which brought down my total.
March
Total Orgasms: 28
# of days I had an orgasm: 14
Average # of orgasms each day:
2 orgasms per day that I had an orgasm, OR 0.90 orgasms daily
Most orgasms in one day:
March 16 & 19- 5 orgasms
Unusual Findings:
This month was very sporadic as I was feeling a lot of sadness. For that reason, when I was having a good day, I would have multiple orgasms where possible.
Overall Progress:
This left me with a 3 orgasm deficit at the end of March.
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Quarterly Overview
Total Orgasms: 87
# of days I had an orgasm: 52
Average # of orgasms each day:
1.67 orgasms per day that I had an orgasm, OR 0.96 orgasms daily.
Overall Progress:
I am in a 3 orgasm deficit at this time.
Typical Orgasm
Most of the orgasms during the week were completed with the use of my magic wand, laying in bed, with the instruction of Mr. Devious. He would either unplug the wand or tell me to turn it off multiple times before he would allow me to cum. I would average probably 5 edges before each orgasm.
On the weekends my orgasms typically happen during play time. This can range from spanking and edging session, sex while bound, anal play, etc.
Thursday nights I am usually home alone, so when i get to have my orgasms, I usually lay in my bed and tease myself mercilessly while watching porn. I will typically do 20-30 edges before allowing myself an orgasm.
How much time does this typically take out of my day?
I can orgasm rather quickly. Even with a few edges, the weekday orgasms usually only takes about 10 minutes out of my night. Weekend play sessions can take a few hours depending on what we are doing.
What has surprised me about the experience?
I was surprised at how well orgasms help with pain management. On days that I am feeling slightly sore, and I push through to have an orgasm anyways, it would almost always make me feel better and allow me to get to sleep easier.
How it affects me?
I want to say that daily orgasms affect my mood. It is hard to say though, because there has been a lot of sadness and grieving over the past 2 months, but overall I think orgasms help me feel better, more energetic, and it does help my sex drive. When I am experiencing frequent orgasms, it makes me want more.
Plans and goals for the next quarter:
Over the next three months, I would like to try to get back in a rhythm where I start to have orgasms more regularly (ie. most days out of a week). I do have a goal to complete at least one month this year where I have an orgasm each and every day! I would also like to make up for the 3 orgasm deficit.
If you have any other questions you would like me to include, or further stats, please pm or comment!
Total Comments 3
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I can agree with you an orgasm a day does help a lot with your mood and sleeping once again very detailed and to the point.Posted 04-03-2018 at 03:21 PM by CagedHiruzen 
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This was such a great writeup! I'm especially interested in the findings about pain management and energy. 10 minutes a day sounds like a very small investment for a real payoff (plus a few very sexy hours on the weekend).
I can't wait to hear how you feel in a few more months. I'm pulling for the spring to offer you better times as we move into summer.Posted 04-03-2018 at 08:40 PM by kurious kat
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You stayed all caught up even through the “Month of Hell” and the “-100,000” Canadian weather. You’ll probably get well over your goal once Summer smacks Canada into submission and makes it start behaving. Keep us updated.Posted 04-10-2018 at 11:58 AM by SecondChance
