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Daddy Dom and My Little Princess

Posted 01-25-2015 at 11:01 AM by Tease


Daddy Dom and My Little Princess


I find myself in unfamiliar territory; blogging about a topic that I never thought I would find myself involved with, whilst it's an area I knew existed it's never been one that I've had the desire to explore or taken more than cursory glance at. Well, that was until I was talking to JLStockton25 one evening and getting close to bed time came the comment out of nowhere:

"I want my Daddy. I want to feel safe and snuggled and protected and to be his good princess, his happy sweet little girl.

Sorry that probably sounds weird I just... really want to be little at the moment"


It did throw me for a moment or two (ok ok I flapped with an Ummm... errr... what do I do) but given the conversation we were having I decided to go with it and we cuddled, she curled up into bed with me holding her and stroking her hair she relaxed and was able to leave the stress and drift off to sleep -- it was only very brief but WOW it felt so good, had such an impact on me and really did feel so right. I've always had a warm caring nature wanting to look out and care for others alongside my harder sadistic side so it felt so so natural and well...

...That's how I became Daddy



I stayed up all night that night, reading all that I could, scouring blogs, youtube and the internet (who knew there was more than porn on there). I was lucky enough to chat to minimarshmellow that night who was amazing and really supportive with the information and advice she shared along with some links to threads and MysticalMadness' blog. I also spoke with **mandi** a little later on who was really helpful with her views too and it's been really helpful to see how she is when Emmie comes out to play (Hey Stitch).

So now when little JLS comes out to play we may do some colouring or hide from scary monsters and apparently Daddy is mean old dinosaur so he hunts down little JLS to tickle her lots (usually found giggling in the wardrobe but shhhhh). Note: the back of the knee is her most ticklish of spots.

Bed times may consist of tucking her in and gently kissing her good night whilst Daddy stands guard and stops any of the evil monsters coming out. Rawr!!!

We also enjoy our disney and sat to watch Beauty and the Beast together in the week (thanks Brony). Our favourite though is Aladdin, I'm pretty sure there are plenty of traits of Abu in her (*cough* cheeky monkey *cough*) but she insists she's much more like Jasmine and of course with little JLS being my beautiful little Princess <3 that would make sense.


I will admit I've had a few thoughts how others may react and judge JL or myself for being open about it; as supportive as the fetish communities should be there are still many judgemental people around. It's been amazing though, the responses and support we've had so far from everyone has been really positive.

If you're reading this and think you may have a Daddy/Caregiver or Little side to you and have always felt it's a bit wrong or that you'd be judged then please don't worry; don't be afraid to talk or ask in private some advice and give it a try to explore about yourself. Like me you may find you love it.

I'm a smart, successful guy and JL may be a little but she's also incredibly smart and strong, an independent woman, wonderful mother and loving wife. This is also just another side to both of us.
(and even if people were to ridicule I fear they'd have an army of littles to deal with on here).




It is taking a little getting used to, although our D/s side is very dynamic it's new for us to be shifting into our daddy/little mindset as our needs/desires necessitate and Daddy does get told off for using naughty words at times, thanks lil JLS . Overall though it really does feel fantastic and I'm truly excited to delve further into the scene and enjoy this journey learning more about myself and my princess.

My special thanks really must go to you JL for opening my eyes and helping me discover more about myself, I know it's new for us both but I'm so looking forward to us continuing to develop this side to our relationship further and couldn't be happier that I get to share it with you.

For the foreseeable future my D/s comes armed with crayons, disney, colouring books and dinosaurs.

RAWR!!




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  1. Old Comment
    You're welcome for throwing my little side at you with no warning. :P You have been truly amazing and so supportive with my everything. It's so new to me too, and I can't thank you enough for making me feel comfortable embracing it.

    It is always so fun having Daddy around, whether it's Disney time or playing with my dinosaurs. No tickling my knees! Daddy is always there when I need him, to tuck me in and protect me.

    I hope both Tease and I coming out and talking about our Daddy/little dynamic will encourage anyone who thinks they have that side to them to give it a try. I've kept my little side under wraps for fear of being judged or looked at differently, but Tease has helped me realize it's nothing to be ashamed of. We aren't just Daddy/little, we still also have a "traditional" D/s dynamic. I have a little side, I'm not little all the time. It's definitely not all or nothing.

    Thank you to my amazing Daddy Dom for taking this journey with me. You're incredible, and I'm so thankful we found each other.
    Posted 01-25-2015 at 11:46 AM by jlstockton25 jlstockton25 is offline
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    minimarshmellow's Avatar
    WooHoo!! I get so excited when I hear about new caregivers and littles.

    I love being a little! It is the one place in the whole world that is safe. I don't have to think about school, money, stress, or anything other than giving my caregiver cuddles and coloring pages.

    I am so happy for the two of you May your relationship be filled with lots of cuddles and snuggles and no toe noming monsters!
    Posted 01-25-2015 at 12:49 PM by minimarshmellow minimarshmellow is offline
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    naughtylittlegirl's Avatar
    This was such a joy to read! I'm happy you both are having such a wonderful time exploring this new aspect of your dynamic - it snuck up on Wardell and I too, and it turned out it fit us remarkably well, so I'm very excited for you And I'm glad that you have such good support around you (minimarshmallow sure knows her stuff!) because you are both lovely and deserve it.
    Posted 01-25-2015 at 02:55 PM by naughtylittlegirl naughtylittlegirl is offline
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    Alexis Rune's Avatar
    Tease, its surprising that you took to it so readily and completely. I think that says a lot about you as a Dom and as a person. Good luck with everything as you move forward down that path!

    Its awesome that you were able to express yourself so directly to him, JLStockton! I could imagine it might have been nerve wracking to say that without any previous discussion of that interest.

    While I don't associate CLOSELY with littles overall, I think I have a decent amount in common with the many littles. At any rate, I truly respect them and the scene as a whole!
    Posted 01-25-2015 at 03:16 PM by Alexis Rune Alexis Rune is offline
  5. Old Comment
    Tease's Avatar
    @minimarshmellow - Oh I'm sure it's going to be full of cuddles and fun Hope that your new daddy is giving you loads of them as well

    @naughtylittlegirl - Thank you for the kind words, so happy that it works for Wardell and yourself and how great that you find it.

    @Alexis Rune - I'll be the first to admit it is surprising and caught me completely off guard but sometimes in life it's those surprises that yield the best rewards. Could be happier.

    @JLStockton25 - Well Well fancy seeing you here. he he he. Yes you do like to throw surprises my way but I'm so glad that you did, it's amazing. There's really no need to thank me at all, I'll continue to be here to support you as I know that you will be when I need support as well.

    It really is the start of something so very special so lets enjoy it
    Posted 01-25-2015 at 04:00 PM by Tease Tease is offline
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    Butterfly's Avatar
    I really so happy that the two of you have found each other. You both deserve to be happy, and every time I see you two together, I just can't help but smile.

    I want to commend you on going with the flow when she "threw" her little side at you that night. A lot of people might have had a "what the heck is this" moment and run away, but you embraced it and went it and look where it has landed you.

    It makes an already exciting journey, even more incredible when you can explore and learn and grow with each other as you go, and this is something that both of you are just starting to explore. I am so glad I am one of the people who get to spy on your journey. Thanks to you both, I have had the confidence to start exploring my little side a bit as well. I have always hidden her away or suppressed it, not fully understanding it. But it has been extremely helpful the past weeks to be able to retreat into a bit of a little state when my stress level has reached all time highs. So thank you both for that as well.

    Good luck, and best wishes on your journey together.

    Oh and PS. I still want little JL to color me a butterfly with her glitter crayons.
    Posted 01-25-2015 at 11:50 PM by Butterfly Butterfly is offline
  7. Old Comment
    Mini, I have to thank you so much for being so helpful when Tease reached out to you, and for all your help with our own little discussions. You should go into business, you'd make a killing! Just, let someone else handle all the boring big kid stuff so you can just have fun!

    Alexis, it WAS scary saying that, not knowing how he would react. At that point, only a small handful of people knew I even had a little side, so to expose it so early was frightening but once I'm in a little mindset, I can't shut it off. I'm so lucky he was so receptive and went with it.

    Butterfly, I will draw the best glittery butterfly ever!

    NLG and butterfly both, I'm so happy you have also recently/semi-recently embraced your little sides! It is crazy how the right person or situation can bring it out of you, and it's so fulfilling when you find someone who cares for you enough to indulge your little side, and even more when they happily becoming your caregiver! Very happy for you both, and I know how scary it can be to be comfortable enough to silence your insecurities and let this side of you out. Congrats to you both for doing so!
    Posted 01-26-2015 at 02:59 PM by jlstockton25 jlstockton25 is offline
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    Wardell's Avatar
    @Tease - the idea of anyone on this site disapproving of something as relatively harmlessly kinky as caregiver/little would leave me a little taken aback. And as JLS said, it doesn't necessarily define who or what you are, it's simply an aspect or facet of an individual's personality makeup.

    The dd/lg dynamic came about between NLG and I as a developing thing, but it still doesn't define our relationship completely as there are plenty of adult interactions at the same time - but it certainly provides a fun undercurrent in almost everything we do, and softens some parts of d/s, which I think is a good thing.
    Posted 01-26-2015 at 08:15 PM by Wardell Wardell is offline
 

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