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peaceful_soul
10-11-2011, 09:39 AM
21/male/master seeks any age/female/slave in (see post) (serious replies only)

Intro

Hello everyone, I would first off like to say thank you all for taking the time to read over my thread. If you’re an online slave or someone who is interested in being an online slave and wants to bypass all of the "games" or "reason to get-off" then keep reading as I might be what you’re looking for. I know this ad may be rather long, but if you’re serious about this lifestyle (I will get to that later on) then I highly suggest you read this post entirely and read it over again after you have read it once to make sure you understand everything clearly. I made it long and descriptive because I would like for all of you who are interested to know exactly what you are getting yourself into, and that you are sure that I am what looking for in a master. As your reading this ad, I welcome you to ask any questions that you might have and PM me them in my inbox and I will read them asap. Enjoy.

About Me

General info
My name is Gin Maskinharn and I am 20 years old. I currently live in California (United States) and I have lived in California for about 15 years of my life, the other 5 years I lived in Nevada. I am currently attending a Junior College and working on getting my Major in the field of computer science, but as of right now just getting my AA. I do spend a lot of my time on computers and have developed computer graphics as a hobby of mine alongside computer games, my offline hobbies usually are spent playing role-playing games such as D&D, but I don't mind occasionally sitting down, burning the mid-night oil, and playing Monopoly from time to time. I am not a very uptight person, and in general I can be very calm, laid-back, and welcoming.

My experience
Yes, I know, I am very young, but I can promise you that I have had my share of experiences of the lifestyle involving bdsm on and off line, and that’s why I feel confident enough in myself to find the right slave for me. I know how to treat a slave with love and compassion, but all at the same time with the strong sturdy hand of master.

My teachings
Usually in today’s world, I see people who think of a slave, as nothing more than someone to use for sexual pleasure, and as that is part of the job, that’s not all there is to being involved in a master/slave relationship, and that’s where a lot of people get that confused. Now, you may already know that, if so then that was merely a reminder. I will treat my slave with love and compassion, as stated above; being my slave you should always expect the unexpected. One thing you may be interested in knowing is this, about a good 45% of the things we do may not have anything to do with anything sexual or physical at all. Being my slave is all about obedience and discipline, and that’s what I strive for in a slave to teach and have them learn. As my slave, you should also know that I will constantly strive to obtain obedience and discipline usually by having my you do things such as writing long passages of text, learning how to speak properly upon giving respect, looking up information on the internet for knowledge, and all other sorts of thing things, The reason why I have my slave do such tasks is because it’s not always about pleasure when given the power of being a Master, and I understand that, I believe a slave is to do whatever her/his master sees fit even if it may be something that the slave does not want to do (respecting all limits of course), because it’s not about what the slave wants, it’s about the respect and obedience that the Master gets. Another big teaching that comes very important to me are limits. If you are a new slave and don't quite understand and know what your limits are then that is great, because I am more than willing to show and teach you how to grow up to be a loyal and wonderful slave and will teach you what your limits are and are not, so that you will be prepared to take on this wonderful lifestyle and wherever its path may take you. If you are well experienced slave and understand what your limits are then I will give you my word that I will respect your limits and will pressure you into something that you are unsure of or unwilling. I will never put my slave into a situation where law informant, serious health issues, or any other unethical practices will be involved. Privacy is also another thing that I respect with my slave. Privacy is probably one of the biggest things I practice safety with my slave. As a Webcam, Mic, or camera are very much welcome in this relationship but is it not required, but if you feel that you would like to explore that area, I can give you my word that pictures and message histories are and will never be saved. I will never ever ask you for your address, phone number, or any other personal information such as Credit card numbers, Social Security numbers and such. That is completely unethical and will not be tolerated and/or practiced under any circumstance. My main priority is to keep this a safe and fun relationship.

My views about the lifestyle of BDSM
I believe that BDSM is not for everyone. It is a way of live, and not everyone is born with the qualities and desire to take the role of being a master or slave, but to the people who have the burning desire to serve as a slave or control as a dominate they should grow on their passion and not hide it from being ashamed as being different, because what different is, is something that make ever person unique in their own way. Bdsm is a wonderful way of live and should only be practiced if the person is absolutely sure it is for them and that is what they want, and not just think of it as a sex game, because there is so much more to it than that. Sexual actives are included in bdsm, but bdsm is not strictly the only thing practiced in being a Dom or a Sub. BDSM is an art, and no art just should judge through the closed minded people, as BDSM is frowned upon by so many people. If you feel the desire and passion to take on the role of a Dom or Slave, odds are you should experience the style at least once and try it out. I believe everyone is born with the role of being a Dom or a Sub, but does not strictly refer to bdsm, as it is being exercise though: work, school, and relationships.

What I personally believe the role of a submissive is.
The role of a submissive implying that this term is is referring to bdsm, is to learn. A submissive should follow up on her/his desire of filling the role of being a master's slave, but in order to do so, the submissive should take some time and find out what he/she is looking for in a master. There are a wide verity of people who have their own way of being a dom, and not just any submissive can be a slave to a master. It takes the process of trial and error. A submissive could go about learning how to be a slave and finding the right master in a few ways. The first way could be research, looking at porn. Yes, I said porn. Porn is a great way to see firsthand of what other people are doing in the role of being a master and slave and they could take some mental notes and find out what seems appealing and what does note, seeing how the master acts to the slave, and seeing how the slave acts to the master. This process of learning can teach a submissive what to expect in the lifestyle of a slave and while all at the same time have the pleasure of finding out what the submissive might be interested in trying out or being objective too, e.g. figuring out limits. Another way a submissive could learn is to just start off finding an online master and seeing how it works out, but with limited trust. This will allow a submissive to find out what it feels like to be under the control over a dom or a master, but all at the same time being in complete control. This process of finding the right online master may take years but through trial and error, it will allow the submissive to learn and grow. After the submissive has got an idea of what it means to be a slave, the submissive should then take the step in searching for the right master; again this process may take years with trial and error. When found, the submissive should then OBEY. Being a slave is all about submitting. Obeying should be the first that comes to his/her mind and do whatever it is that is instructed and giving 110% to make his/her master as happy as possible, so that the master at the end of the day could say that he is happy to have the slave under his ownership. Now of course a slave should not do anything that is above his/her limits, but he/she should be open minded to new things. Giving respect! This is very important as well. No one wants a snobby disrespectful slave. A submissive should understand that and do his/her job of being as respectful to anyone as much as possible rather they are his/her master or not by calling them sir or master. Listening is also very important part of being a submissive. When master gives his/her slave strict instruction, her/she should never give the master any excuse to why that task could not be done, assuming is follows the limits. If the submissive should have a reason, then she should inform the Master ahead of time before the task is due. While all of the above things are important aspects of being a submissive, a submissive should love and respect his/her master, as that is what really brings the sub and dom together.

What I personally believe the role of a Dom is.
The Dom should first off, have some idea of what he/her is doing before having a slave, and if this is in real life, I would highly suggest the dom experience the pain or pleasure before performing it on someone else. Being a Dom is not an easy task. It takes a lot of responsibilities. A Dom who is a master should not take the job lightly. Having a slave is having the life of another in your hands; a Dom should not treat the irresponsible by having her perform impossible task. A Dom should treat the slave with love and compassion so that the slave will feel safe and secure. A dom should be strict of course, but also be fair. Sometimes a slave will not be able to fulfill every task, especially if it is online, and a dom should understand and expect that. If the slave is out of alignment, then the dom should punish the slave accordnly, but should never ever pass the slaves limits at any point rather it is out of a punishment or not. Limits are to never be broken.


Likes and Dislikes:
Small talk
Text talking e.g. I wnt 2 b ur slve
Showing lack of interest
Responding at long periods of time
Being a smart ass
Being disrespectful
Being disobedient
Giving excuses

Showing obedience
Showing Intelligence
Being descriptive
Asking questions
Following Directions
Wanting to know all you can about the lifestyle
Being a masochist (big bonus)

"If you show too many quality's of my dislikes, you probably wont qualify
to my be slave...sorry"

Favorite kinks
Pain (I love it, as I am a sadist at heart, but I can control myself.)
Humiliation



-------------A little background story------------

How I got into the lifestyle may come familiar of relation to you. It all started when I got my first computer around 11 years old. I was told to never go on to those "naughty" sights. Well being the little rebellious child that I was, I did. When browsing porn I found that most porn was mainly all the same, and got board, until I stumbled upon a kinky website, and well pretty much I was so attracted to the art of style of bdsm that I made it into my passion.

After awhile of looking though porn, I though to myself how wonderful it would be to become involved in bdsm rather than just watch it. So I started my searching online and found web-groups that shared my passion. I was surprised at first to see so many people were just like me. I got my first online slave when I was young about 15 years old. I had no idea what I was doing and just started from there slowly and slowly building up my experience and learning new things about this new life. I must say after the first slave I had, I loved every bit, even though I was so inexperienced at the time.

I have had many other slaves in the past, some better than others. A majority of them not taking it to a serious extent through the lack of dedication or immaturity. (I have a few good stories to share of past experiences, if you ever want me to share, let me know) On the other hand, I have had some very good slaves who obeyed very well and had no problems. Time does go on and things do change, so after so many years of being an online master, I now stand once again in search of another online slave.
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Like I said, I know what it’s like to be with someone who does not take the role of being a slave/master seriously, and if your reading this and you just want to treat this as just a "game" then please DO NOT waste your time and my time and disregard my posting from your consideration.

Requirements:
• Age Limit: None
• Sex: Female (only)
• Location: Anywhere.
• Race: Any
• Language: English (broken is okay)
• Webcam: Not required*
• Pics: Not required *
• Mics: Not Required*
• Cameras: Not required*
• Source of communication: Online messenger (not e-mail or mobile)
• Availability: Often
• Must not have another master or be in any relationship

*You must have at least one of the four resources available.

Important:
As I am searching for an online slave, I am NOT searching for any other type of boyfriend/girlfriend relationship rather than a friendship. If you are under the influence that a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship will emerge from this, I am sorry but I am not interested in that type of commitment right now.

About you

What kind of slave am I looking for?
Are you good at following rules? Taking order? Doing as you’re told? Having fun, while all at the same time developing a long lasting friendship? Then you are exactly what I am looking for.

What do I expect from a slave?
I am looking for a slave who is willing to show me that they are serious about being a slave, and can prove to me what it means to be a slave. I am not looking to play the game, where someone says they are a "slave" plays it off for the first time and then never comes back online again. If that is you, then stop reading this post and disregard me from your consideration.

What kind of rules/actives will be involved?
This is something that you and I should go over together, but I assure you that I will never allow my slave to be involved in any activity that she can't handle. I do respect the limits that you as the slave may have, and will never go beyond that boundary, but I do expect you to explore new things.

How much experience?
None. Rather you are a beginner or have had experience; I will go slow and provide you with my teachings, so that you will discover what it means to be a slave and help you discover where you stand on the journey of being a slave, so that in the future you will be prepared wherever this lifestyle may take you.
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Submitting your application
(Required)
Below is a small and detailed questioner. Please fill it out to the best of your ability without leaving anything unanswered and submit it to me via PM. If you have any questions or problems in regards that may prevent you from submitting this questioner please let me know via PM and we will see what we can do.
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Basic info
• Name:
• Age:
• Sex:
• State:
• Country:

Rate yourself
(1 being lowest 10 being highest)
• Level of Experience:
• Level of Discipline:
• Level of Obedience:
• Level of Respect:
• Level of Stubbornness:
• Level of Open-mindedness:
• Level of following directions:
• Level of Sincerity:
• Level of Knowledge:
• Level of Maturity:
• Level of pain tolerance:


Short answers
(20 words or less per answer)
• Are you shy:
• Are you easy to talk to:
• Are you a playful type:
• Are you a serious type:
• Are you in a relationship:
• Are you willing to serve multiple:
• Are you a virgin:
• Do you have another master:
• Do you like to role-play:
• Have you had another other masters?
• Willing to share pics:
• Willing to share webcam:
• Willing to share mic:
• What are your limits:
• What are your likes:
• What are you dislikes
• Would you rather respond short & simple or Long & descriptive:

Descriptive Answers
(20 words or more per answer)
• What do you look like:
• What made you apply to this ad:
• What most interest you about becoming a slave:
• What does it mean to be a slave:
• What does it mean to be a master:
• What do you look for in a master:
• Why should I choose you to be my slave:

Contact and availability
• How often are you online:
• How often would you be available:
• How soon would you like to start:
• How long do you want to be a slave for:
• What is your online messenger screen name:
(yahoo, msn, aim, live...ect)

• Additional information you would like to add:

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Thanks again for reading over this ad, if I am who you are looking for then please feel free to submit your application at any time, I will make sure I read them as soon as I can. When you submit your application, make the subject as "slave application" (required) If you do NOT put that as your subject of your application, It will show me that you did not read this ad completely, and I will not even open up your pm to read it, as it will instantly be thrown out...yes its that serious. If I am not what your looking for then I hope you do find your master soon in the future. Looking forward to talking to you soon.

But wait there’s more!?!:eek:

Here I have added a little questioner that you can submit alongside your application. This questioner is OPTIONAL and the questions asked are also optional, but the more you fill you the better. I have submitted this questioner because a lot of the questions are questions that you will be asked in the interview with me as a follow up after you submit your application (if selected). This questioner will allow me to get to know you a little bit better at a glance, and will also provide me with information that will allow the interview process to go at a quicker pace and ultimately allow me to make a quicker decision on who I want to be my slave. So I encourage all who are interested to take some time any fill out as many questions as you can. I would recommend that you submit this questioner on a separate PM, as the PM that you submit that includes the application may reach the limit on how much information you can submit per PM.

Please note, that all information submitted will NEVER be shared with anyone else and none of the information submitted on this questioner will be held against you on my decision on who I choose to be my slave, so its important that all the submitted information on here and on the application is as accurate as can be. Thank you

What you look like

* Eye color:
* Skin color:
* Hair color:
* Breast size:
* Weight:
* Height:
* What nationality:
* Do you shave/Trim:
* (If so) how often:
* Does Carpets match the drapes:
* (If not) what is your natural hair color:
* (if not) how often do you dye your hair:
* How long/short is your hair:
* Do you paint your nails:
* (if so) What color:
* Are your nails long or short:
* Do you have any birthmarks:
* (If so) Wear:
* Do you have any scars:
* (If so) Wear:
* Do you have any piercings:
* (If so) Wear:
* Do you have any tattoos:
* (If so) Wear:
* Do you plan on getting any tattoos or piercings:
* (if so) Wear:


General non-personal questions

* What is your favorite color:
* What is your favorite food:
* What is your favorite t.v. show:
* What is your favorite move:
* What type of moves do you like:
* What kind of music do you like:
* What is your ideal Job:
* What is your hobby:
* What is your idea of a perfect evening:
* Are you going to school:
* (if so) High school or College:
* (if so) what is your major:
* Are you currently employed:
* (If so) Why type of work:
* Do you enjoy chatting online:
* Do you consider yourself social or anti-social:
* Do you live with your parent(s) or alone:
* What kind of computer do you have laptop or desktop:
* Apple or PC:
* Do you consider yourself an an indoors person or an outdoors person:
* Are you afraid to speak your mind or are you shy:
* Do you consider yourself to be more of a girly girl or a tom-boy:
* Do you like to travel:
* (if so) where are some of the places you have visited:
* Do you have any pets:
* (if so) what kind:
* Do you enjoy playing online game or board games:
* Are you a hyper or calm type of person:
* Are you religious:
* How did you find getdare.com:
* How did you find my ad:
* What did you like most about my ad:
* Do you smoke:
* Do you drink:
* Do you party:


Personal questions

* Do you prefer to wear bras/panties:
* (if no) why:
* What type of bra's do you like to wear:
* What type of panties do you like to wear:
* Do you think about sex a lot:
* Do you watch porn:
* (if so) why kind:
* (if so) how often:
* (if a virgin) Do you want to have sex or are you waiting:
* (if not a virgin) how often do you have sex:
* Do you masturbate:
* (if so) when did you start:
* (if so) how often:
* (if so) do you squirt:
* (if any) what kind of experiences have you had in the past involving bdsm:
* Have you ever had another master before:
* (if so)How many and how long:
* (if so)What brought you two apart:
* Have you ever seen naked:
* (if so) what was the situation:
* Have you ever been caught masturbating:
* (if so) what was the situation:
* How many fingers can you stick inside yourself:
* Besides fingers what are some other things that you have put inside yourself:
* Do you enjoy being naked:
* Has anyone ever fingered you:
* Has anyone ever licked you:
* Do you have any sex toys:
* (if so) what kind:
* Whats the crazies thing you have done: (sexually)
* Have you ever played truth or dare:
* (if so) with whom:
* (if so) what were some of the dares you were told to do:
* What most interest you about BDSM:
* How did you fist get introduce to the lifestyle:
* What is your biggest erotic fantasy:
* Do you have big lips or small lips (pussy):
* How long is your period:
* Does your period stop you from doing sexual activities:
* Do you enjoy pain:
* (if so) where do you like it the most:
* Do you enjoy humiliation:
* (if so) what type of humiliation: (e.g. puppy play, baby play, writing on yourself...)
* Do you have big or small nipples:
* How many times can you cum before you are spent:
* Do you have a large clit or small clit:


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(Ad too long... continues below.):)

peaceful_soul
10-11-2011, 09:40 AM
(Continued...)

Read before asking.
"I know, I have gone insane with detail!":rolleyes:

So I have been getting a-lot of people who seem interested but I have yet to find anyone to be my slave, so I thought that I would do a quick FAQ just so that potential people such as yourself (if your interested) will have an opportunity to get some of your questions answered that you might have that people have often been sending me, as this might help you decide if this ad is really one that you are interested in responding too.

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FAQ

Q: Why are you only accepting Females?
A: This is my own personal preference, I have nothing against male slaves and I am sure there is a-lot of male slaves who are willing to put in the effort that it takes, but as of right now that position is unavailable.

Q: Why did you make your ad so long?
A: Well let me give you my point of view on this. If I was a serious sub willing to give myself as a person to someone completely random over the internet, someone who I have never seen before, talked to before, or heard of before; I would probably want to know all I can about this person before I make any decision or even considering to apply. You need to understand that being a slave can and if taken to the proper measures, IS indeed a life changing experience. This is not a simple game of take your clothes off and let me jack off. No it’s not like that at all, and that’s how so many people portray this to be. They are wrong. That is why there is such a lack of slaves and sub on this website. They see so many people with ads that scream out examples of what I had just said above, that they ether settle for less, or they just leave getdare and think of it as just a website for pervs to jack off. I made my ad specially long and descriptive as I could for subs to read so that they could know that there are people on this website who really do want to take the time and develop a real master/slave relationship, and that can they have been looking for. My ad is not a worthless cause; it’s something that I think everyone should take examples from and know and understand how serious this really is. Even if I don't find what I am looking for on this website, my journey will go on and hopefully I will be able to set a good example and invite other people who share the same passion of being a master/slave as I do, and understand that as long there is a will there is a way.

Q: Why can’t I use my mobile device?
A: Simply due to the fact that I am an attention whore. With the use of a mobile device it becomes a problem of: distraction, short reply's, and horrible respond rates. I am sorry, but my decision stands firm on this.

Q: What times are available to get into contact with you?
A: This is a very good question. Ideally during the morning Pacific Time (US & Canada), but I am also open during the afternoons and late evenings.

Q: How long should it take for you to get into contact with me?
A: Probably the latest within a few days. Please note: If you have submitted an application and have yet to get a response within 4 days of submitting it, take no offense, I simply was not looking to take you as my slave and wish the best of luck for you on your search.

Q: In your application you asked "are you willing to serve multiple" What does this mean?
A: This is not a trick question. What I met was, are you willing to serve other people if you are instructed to do so, such as doing dares. If you were under the influence that I was asking if you are willing to have more masters, then the answer to the question is no. I am looking for a slave to only serve one master.

Q: How available should I be online?
A: If you’re going to be online and willing to serve, you need to have at-least a few hours set aside within a three or more day bases. I am not looking to have a slave who is only going to be online 30 min every Tuesday and Thursday.

Q: I have a boyfriend/married; will this affect your decision?
A: If you are in a current relationship with your lover or any other type, then I will no longer be accepting your applications. I have discovered that drama due to this cause is virtually unavoidable, and I quite frankly don't have the time or will power to put up with it.


Q: Do you have any other slaves?
A: No, and I am only willing to put my time into one slave, and as required I am only looking for a slave who is willing to only put her time into one master. No exceptions!

Q: Are you going to ask me for my phone number or meeting up in real life?
A: Absolutely not. This is completely online only, I have no intention to ever taking this offline or giving out phone numbers. Please keep your phone number to yourself.

READ BELOW

If you are sick, or have any type of illness That will cause you to not be online because of constant hospital visits, lack of strength to get out of bed throughout the day, major sleeping disorders, suicidal, or any other type of illness that may keep you from constantly performing basic instructions and/or tasks, then please do NOT apply. I am looking for a healthy slave who is willing to perform the duties of a slave when instructed without excuses.
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Alright there you have it. I hope I have cleared things up for you all who are interested, if you do have any other questions please feel free to ask pm me or ask them in your application.

Last by certainty not least
*Takes a Deep breath*;)

If I do like how your application looks, then you will be expecting a follow up with a second pm by me, regarding an interview. The interview covers things on your application and will also allow us to get to know each other a bit before I make any decisions. Please be warned, if I get a cluster of interviews, my decision will be delayed until all applicants have had an opportunity to be interviewed. After I interview you and if think that you show potential I send you on a two week trail. If you can show me that you have got what it takes to be the slave I am looking for I will accept you to be my slave. I do this is because the interview alone cannot show me what the subs motives really are. I am sure I speak for a lot of people when I say, it always goes good the first few days and then it just falls apart or they never come back online a week or so later. As this motive become common for most "slaves" and I know firsthand how frustrating it is for a Dom to experience this. A trail become ideal, as it can show me firsthand what a sub is actually capable of in regards to effort, obedience, discipline, and how well she matches up to her application, as an interview alone would have no way in showing these qualities. Again, if I do not choose you to be my slave, please don't give up on your search in finding the special dom you have been looking for.

Sincerely
~Gin

peaceful_soul
10-15-2011, 05:11 AM
This Dom is still in search

fromo
10-15-2011, 05:23 AM
Ok, thats a hell of alot of info, my advise here, is you may of done too much, sitting and reading through all of that, will take alot of time, I'd advise you to condense it some, you may have better look, that amount would actualy discourage some subs, whilse it could lead to finding adsactly what you're after, you may also miss that person, because they may not be intrested in reading everything there.
Just my 2 cents. :3

peaceful_soul
10-15-2011, 06:14 AM
Oh, I most certainly agree with you. It may take a good 10 minutes to read through all of this that I have put down. I simply put the information that I, myself, would be looking forward to knowing if I was looking for a Dom. Is that an inconsiderate approach? Possibly. Is is affective in searching for what I am looking for? Absolutely. I believe many will pass, but few will stay. Those few are in which I am looking forward to knowing.

Effort, my dear, is the key to unlocking potential and success.

fromo
10-15-2011, 06:21 AM
True, but some could likely be cut, and be asked when talking to someone, so that then you have somewhere to begin talking from, then get comfy in things. -nods-

But meh, you do you're adds however you want to ^_^
Much better then the majority I comment on, hope you find what you're searching for.

peaceful_soul
10-15-2011, 06:31 AM
I will take that into consideration. Thank you for your critique, it is of value to me.

The Natural
10-15-2011, 06:35 AM
Personally, I don't think you can have too much information. If you're too lazy to read something like this (which wouldn't take more than five to ten minutes anyway) then it says a lot about your character. No offense, but it's clear this man is looking for something serious, so if you are indeed serious about this, then reading this should be no problem.

Great ad, as always, peaceful. Good luck.

XxxMistress
10-15-2011, 06:46 AM
From my point of view:
Your ad is amazing, I can't even find one question to ask .. As you mentioned EVERYTHING.

.. Yes. It's tall .. & I think You'll have to go through some time-wasters to find the right one.

But .. Scaring them with this long ad .. Will even make some good subs run away.

P.s: it's my opinion, And I hope I didn't offend you.

peaceful_soul
10-15-2011, 12:11 PM
"xxxmistress" You don't have anything to apologize about. I find constructive criticism far more rewarding that a bias complement. Thank you for your input.

"The Natural" Thank you for your words of support. Its people like you who give me the confidence to keep searching. I am glad we can share the same conception upon this topic.