NIKOLAS3220
10-05-2011, 08:54 AM
After some thought, I figured I should ask all you guys for some advice. I got this friend and lately I've been getting her a bit more involved into s/m and daring. She hasn't done much more other than some kissing and taking off one or two pieces of clothing.
Me and her were playing TorD with some other of our friends, and she wasn't really into doing much when she was around them. She only appears to be interested in doing anything when she's only with me. Now, through the events of the past few weeks, she really got interested in some more.... personal stuff involving the two of us, alone and some s/m activities.
We are planning to give it a shot during the following weekend at her place, as no one will be home and we won't be disturbed.
My problem is, that I have a feeling that as soon as one of us tries to get things going, it'll just get awkward for the both of us. I really think that there's something going between her and I, and if something goes wrong during the weekend, I could loose her.
So basically the advice I'm looking for is how to kick things off? I don't want her to think I'm pressuring her to do anything, yet I don't want her to feel like I should have asked her for something more 'challenging'. And what about the rest of the night? I certainly have no expectations to sleep with her, but if it happens, again I feel like things will only go downhill from there. What do you guys think I should do? We've talked things over, set some rules, but when it comes down to what happens when the two of us are alone, I just don't know how things should start rolling. Any help you guys have would be greatly appreciated.
Me and her were playing TorD with some other of our friends, and she wasn't really into doing much when she was around them. She only appears to be interested in doing anything when she's only with me. Now, through the events of the past few weeks, she really got interested in some more.... personal stuff involving the two of us, alone and some s/m activities.
We are planning to give it a shot during the following weekend at her place, as no one will be home and we won't be disturbed.
My problem is, that I have a feeling that as soon as one of us tries to get things going, it'll just get awkward for the both of us. I really think that there's something going between her and I, and if something goes wrong during the weekend, I could loose her.
So basically the advice I'm looking for is how to kick things off? I don't want her to think I'm pressuring her to do anything, yet I don't want her to feel like I should have asked her for something more 'challenging'. And what about the rest of the night? I certainly have no expectations to sleep with her, but if it happens, again I feel like things will only go downhill from there. What do you guys think I should do? We've talked things over, set some rules, but when it comes down to what happens when the two of us are alone, I just don't know how things should start rolling. Any help you guys have would be greatly appreciated.