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Rebecca
01-28-2008, 04:12 PM
When masturbating, how fast can you reach orgasm?

To start off and answer my own question my record is about 5 mins, but i was pretty turned on already.

Rebecca
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scienceistasty
01-28-2008, 04:14 PM
Haha, I've been done in less than a minute when I've been wanking it. But for a guy, it's a little more impressive to make it last.

Davros
01-28-2008, 04:17 PM
Quite fast, usually under a minute or two, max.

Merlin
01-28-2008, 04:36 PM
If i am really turned on in the first place ... around 1 minute

brownie
01-28-2008, 05:02 PM
i try to not to come. I try to go as long as i can to make it more injoyable

Davros
01-28-2008, 05:07 PM
to make it more injotable

Haha, whaaaaaaat?! :D

YoureAmazingMe
01-28-2008, 05:09 PM
Just about to say the exact same thing. You beat me to it.

SubMissChievous
01-28-2008, 05:11 PM
i try to not to come. I try to go as long as i can to make it more injoyableIncredibly enough, I got to agree with brownie... Why rush it? The longer, the better... :) ;)

Davros
01-28-2008, 05:13 PM
i try to not to come. I try to go as long as i can to make it more injoyable

Third time lucky... "enjoyable".

qwertypete
01-28-2008, 05:16 PM
yeah, it's usually about a minute.. sometimes more.

tissue13
01-28-2008, 05:26 PM
3 weeks-very hard for me to orgasm-VERY i orgasm once every maybe 3 weeks-lol-:)

Davros
01-28-2008, 05:27 PM
3 weeks-very hard for me to orgasm-VERY i orgasm once every maybe 3 weeks-lol-:)

F*cking hell, serious?! You have problems... :eek:

cupbunny
01-28-2008, 05:36 PM
Ah, first post since my hols. Good to be back on getdare <3

I guess if i really try hard it would be around 4-5mins although i generally spend a lot longer, otherwise its kind of a waste isnt it :P

MasterO
01-28-2008, 05:59 PM
It depends on the level I'm already at when I start but I have to go with Brownie and HotSparklyLips on this one and make it last and be more injotibal. lol

TrekBoy008
01-28-2008, 09:05 PM
My record is between 30 seconds and a minute, although admittedly I hadn't masturbated for about 2 weeks before that and I was incredibly horny. However, I do generally prefer to take my time, wanking a little, stopping, then starting again, then stopping again, etc. until I finally can't control myself and go all the way.

just_some_guy_dave
01-28-2008, 09:33 PM
I'll also agree with the comments that extending the process is better.

Guys who don't want to believe that haven't had the right kind of experience with others. Being able to hold out until your partner is just about sated is a very good thing, and it takes practice to get it right. :D

I think my record on both ends is about 90 seconds in "frantic monkey" mode, and going 3½ hours before tiring, getting too chafed, and fading on a dared wanking marathon.

F_SL
01-28-2008, 10:35 PM
Yeah, I also like to make it last. It really does make it much more injotable.

For the shortest amount of time, I would have to say the same as TrekBoy008.

alexrules01
01-29-2008, 12:07 AM
Come to think of it, I have never got a hard on and jacked off straight through, I always wank a little bit then stop, then do it again until I can't stop it.!! :)

suck1999
01-29-2008, 11:47 AM
usually I make it about 2-3 min's

Rebecca
01-29-2008, 03:36 PM
I have to agree that the longer the better, But if you ask guys how long they last they say things like "I can keep going for hours" they seem to like to brag that, but if I ever give a guy a hand job it seems to last for seconds! lol.

So I thought a good "Truth" would be how fast rather than how long.

Rebecca
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Merlin
01-29-2008, 03:42 PM
I have to agree that the longer the better, But if you ask guys how long they last they say things like "I can keep going for hours" they seem to like to brag that, but if I ever give a guy a hand job it seems to last for seconds! lol.

So I thought a good "Truth" would be how fast rather than how long.

Rebecca
-x-There is a difference between masturbating and getting a hand job :p

dawnfire
01-29-2008, 04:41 PM
Y'know what, I could really hate you all. (Not really, but I could be EXTREMELY jealous.) It's never taken me less than ten minutes. And the time it took ten minutes was a freaking fluke. A great fluke though. There is something to be said for taking your time and making it last. But sometimes you really just need a quick wank. And then you don't have enough time and just end up extra-frustrated. :)

alexrules01
01-29-2008, 11:14 PM
Y'know what, I could really hate you all. (Not really, but I could be EXTREMELY jealous.) It's never taken me less than ten minutes. And the time it took ten minutes was a freaking fluke. A great fluke though. There is something to be said for taking your time and making it last. But sometimes you really just need a quick wank. And then you don't have enough time and just end up extra-frustrated. :)

Well girls do tend to last longer, I wish I could jack off for over 10 minutes. :)

urlilslave080
01-30-2008, 02:37 AM
Normally, like others i like to take it slow and enjoy the feeling, but the least amount of time was about 1 minute but i was turned on before that and i went pretty hard at it lol, but i usually go fo r a minimum of 5 minutes when doing it normally

i think cumming quick can be a good thing especially if your playing soggy biscuit:p:p

Pikachu
01-30-2008, 02:55 AM
F*cking hell, serious?! You have problems... :eek:

Its better than alot of people....alot of woman never even get to enjoy a orgasm saying she has issues is very harsh...its totally differnt for a woman to orgasm than for a man.....alot harder and everyone is different...so don't say she has problems its not fair.

As for me it generally takes me about 20 minutess to orgasm i take it slow all teh time even when trying to go fast it takes about ten.

But then i don't get to masterbate alot only when my MIstress permits.

Dareholic
09-27-2012, 04:56 PM
I can cum fast, but with the help of some meditation technics I know, I can last longer then I nomally could.

Olivia97
10-13-2012, 07:30 PM
Haha I actually timed myself once :p 43 seconds :p but I don't enjoy it much when it's fast...

CuteyAmy
10-13-2012, 08:10 PM
haha my quicket was probobly 3 minutes but that was crazy fast and i havent gotten close to that since then

--Amy ;)

Cruton
10-14-2012, 05:05 AM
Less than a minute is easy to do, when very horny and turned on. However, that has never been the goal. i also like to make it last, for the orgasm tends to be far more pleasurable.

but everything depends on the situation. i have had times, when i couldn't orgasm, no matter what i tried, yet i was still horny as all get out.

i also find that contact from a partner makes it way different.

Also the second time around, is almost always much longer, so if i am too turned on, i go fast on the first one, keep going with the foreplay and love making with my partner, and then after the refractory period (which with a partner for me is usually less than five minutes) we can proceed for a duration that is much more enjoyable for both parties.

as far as comparing to others, as has been stated above, everyone is different, so it is not good to start assessing what is "normal" in duration. However, in general men tend to orgasm much sooner and easier than women. But for me, that makes the journey to providing an orgasm to my partner all that much more fun.

bakersdozen69
10-14-2012, 06:32 AM
I like to take my time and enjoy it, but if I'm in a pinch and I have the right, uh.. motivation, I can get there in a couple minutes.

Mr Meccano
10-14-2012, 11:07 AM
Ridiculously fast, under 1 minute !

controlfreak
10-14-2012, 08:01 PM
if im really turned on it only takes about 5 minutes but id rather take my time and really enjoy it

isi10
04-05-2013, 05:31 AM
During our wedding night my wife gave me one last orgasm before putting permanent chastity and I was so excited that I enjoy in 10 seconds.

Siren
04-21-2013, 03:37 PM
It always takes me at least 10 minutes, even if I'm really turned on beforehand (which I'm usually not.) And it normally takes longer than that, about 20 minutes or so...

karinz
04-27-2013, 05:19 AM
Mines usually 5 to 10 minutes. Sometimes i take time especially when i'm really really turned on..
Just love the feeling and i also want to enjoy the pleasure.

TheCaptain
04-27-2013, 06:22 AM
Belongs on how long I didn't masturbate.
But need at least a minute if I go fast from the start.

honaar
04-27-2013, 06:28 AM
Can be as quick as a minute, but why rush it :D

Happy Me
04-27-2013, 12:24 PM
My fastest was about 3 seconds (for a gspot orgasm) under extreme conditions, I think I take between 2-5 minutes for a clit orgasm.

And to contribute to the discussion about "longer is better", it really is much better in some cases, but only if you have a very strong and lengthy refractory period! :D

rhode64
04-28-2013, 08:25 AM
My fastest is about 3 minutes .I edge alot so I now take a while to cum .

clittydicky
04-28-2013, 08:45 AM
It always takes me at least 10 minutes, even if I'm really turned on beforehand (which I'm usually not.) And it normally takes longer than that, about 20 minutes or so...

man it takes me such a short time (no pun intended):o

sexysusie1992
04-28-2013, 09:59 AM
My fastest is about 3 minutes .I edge alot so I now take a while to cum .

Ohhhhhhhhhhh, you might be fun!!

FunkyBean
04-28-2013, 04:04 PM
About seven minutes if I'm extremely aroused, from the minute I get my panties off to when I cum.

Otherwise, if I have to work myself up to it, it can take closer to 15 minutes.

In both cases though, I think I try to prolong the sensations to an extent.

Secretfun
09-06-2014, 10:50 AM
Fastest would be about 30 seconds in the shower with a finger my arse.
But usually edge and make it last over an hour.

DoubleRainbow
09-06-2014, 11:48 AM
Ahh, I usually reach orgasm pretty quick, but it depends if I was highly aroused before starting to masturbate (if I was it takes me about 5 mins XD), but when I'm not is a lot longer :P

mrpropel
01-17-2015, 07:51 PM
If i'm already hard, it only takes about 1 to 2 minutes but who would want to waste a precious orgasm?

tyragon123
01-18-2015, 05:28 AM
I can go really quickly. If I don't have much time, I can be done in about five minutes. Most of the time, I like to stretch it out by edging. I can stretch it out for hours, but normally 30- 45 minutes.

Benevolence
01-18-2015, 07:17 AM
Depends on the situation entirely!

I'd say with a lot of edging/teasing - 1-2 minutes

Without any sort of prior stimulation - 5 - 7 minutes

LitDarkness
01-18-2015, 07:31 AM
Used to be like half an hour; then I was trained to reach it faster by a getdare member which now makes it less than a minute at the fastest, averages to 2 minutes.

M.G
01-18-2015, 07:42 AM
It takes me around 6 minutes to reach an orgasm (no edges), without prior play the day before.

smallonem
01-18-2015, 11:09 AM
the least was about 1 min. the longest about 20 I think

asdf431
01-18-2015, 12:00 PM
I can get it in about 2 minutes.

LilMissMaddie
01-18-2015, 12:04 PM
It probably takes around 5 minutes at the very least.

sieramelody
01-18-2015, 02:01 PM
Depends on the situation. Usually around 5 mins though when i'm trying to cum quickly.

klompje32
01-18-2015, 02:21 PM
If i concentrate on cumming fast, I can shoot my cum within 1 minute.

sakurafan1217
01-19-2015, 07:50 AM
2min fast, 5 medium, 10 slow.

SandMguy
01-19-2015, 08:21 AM
I seem to remember the fastest I've ever done it was just under 30 seconds. Ive seen a video where a guy cums in 2 strokes. I'd love to be able to do that.

scrapper
01-19-2015, 08:28 AM
im not havin any problems in going under 5minutes..

the problem is that this doesent actually make fun.

SandMguy
01-19-2015, 08:30 AM
im not havin any problems in going under 5minutes..

the problem is that this doesent actually make fun.

I agree, it's no fun if you cum so soon but if you stop then its very fun to be able to edge that quickly.

Sarahgurl
01-19-2015, 12:42 PM
less than a minute if i try

IVIisty
01-21-2015, 12:53 PM
If using a vibe like a rabbit and just going for it. Can be as little as three mins. But that is more if I just want to get there in the morning, in a rush.
Is possible, but I'd rather take longer.

LPV
02-05-2015, 08:00 AM
I can cum quickly if I want, but why spoil the fun?

Dutchbuster
02-05-2015, 09:54 AM
I am into denial a lot, so usually I don't cum.
But if I am really turned on and I try hard I think I could make it in under a minute. I don't think it's fun to cum that fast though, so i prefer to make it last longer :)

darkblue
04-30-2019, 01:40 AM
Currently in a longer denial phase, 35 days now, and just allowed to edge sometimes. Edging time is now about 5 seconds, before I have to interrupt. The mixture of pleasure and pain is overwhelming.

MastersVoice
04-30-2019, 01:49 AM
It depends whether someone has me all worked up or not. Typically I take about 10 minutes to climax if I haven't been excited in some way previously but the quickest I've ever is probably about 5 minutes.