Is it safe?

[nellybell]

So you find yourself in the mood to be on the receiving end of some dares. You come to this lovely site and make a thread in the TORD Online section. Some of the answers you get are great, well thought out, detailed and exactly what you asked for. Most impartanly they take into account your personal safety. Kudos to the smart darer.

However you also receive some dares that aren't so good and you aren't so sure if they are as safe as the others. You're newer on the site, no one to really ask and afraid to say anything on the thread because the darer might be mad or insulted.

The TORD Online section isn't scrutinized as much as the dare section is, there are just so many dares being posted in different threads at once. There isn't a high chance that someone will step in and point out the safety issue. So what can you do?

This thread is for just this problem. Feel free to post here asking questions about dares you have received that might be a little less than safe or if you're unsure about something. If you don't feel comfortable posting out here in the open, you are more than welcome to shoot me a PM and I'll be sure to get back to you. If I don't know the answer I'll find someone who does. :3

*Please also remeber that you are always free to refuse a dare that you are not comfortable with or one that asks you for pictures or cam. Requesting pictures/cam is against the site rules and can be reported by clicking on the little red triangle below the avatar picture. Please don't ever be afraid to report something.*

[nellybell]

So, along with this being open for questions of safety I figured I would also add in little issues that I see pop up in dares. Here is the latest one.


So I came across this link while I was looking through some of the adds. I believe it was darkwater that posted it in response to a dare involving trying to keep soap in someone's vigina for some period of time. (thanks so much for the link :3) I saw a similar dare somewhere recently but I can't remeber quite where it is. If someone comes across it please link this on there too.

http://www.helpingteens.org/articles/general-health/washing-your-vulva-vagina-soap-isn-t-a-friend.html

This link gives good avice on general vaginal health and risks associated with using certain cleaning products. These are things that I don't think many women are aware of and could be benifical just in general not just for dares involving things.

[Darkwater]

Yeah, i posted twice about it in response to someone daring it (i think it was the same person in both threads actually). Can't even remember where i learned about it, but it's definitely a good thing to add to a list like this.

There is also this Dare PSA posted in the dare section a few days ago (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=71636), contains some good and relevant information too :)

[nellybell]

Yeah, i posted twice about it in response to someone daring it (i think it was the same person in both threads actually). Can't even remember where i learned about it, but it's definitely a good thing to add to a list like this.

There is also this Dare PSA posted in the dare section a few days ago (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=71636), contains some good and relevant information too :)

Oh thank goodness. I was kicking myself because I couldn't remeber where it was and I had had doubts about it but was a little too tired to go looking x.x

You beat me to posting that on here :p I was going to post that next just didn't quite hop on it tonight.

But yeah, the above link also has good practical information about somethings people just might forget about or over look when thinking of a dare.

[Relayer]

I would hope that people realise that this is, after all, just a website.

You're under no obligation to ever do any dares - even if you say you'll do anything. Nobody will come round your house and shoot your dog if you don't.

So, apply common sense. If you do something stupid because someone dared you to, and it kills you or otherwise causes you harm, then frankly you've nobody but yourself to blame. Common sense people. Don't be an idiot.

[nellybell]

Well, the point of this thread is sort of to advise on things that aren't quite common knowledge. Things that don't sound particularly dangerous but you still have some doubts about.

What it seems to sort of be turning to is also to give some common sense to people who are very new to this and don't know. A lot of the stuff on here isn't common knowledge outside of your little world so newer members could fall victim to stupid dares that they don't know could be dangerous. People can be blind to things sometimes.

[Darkwater]

Oh thank goodness. I was kicking myself because I couldn't remeber where it was and I had had doubts about it but was a little too tired to go looking x.x

Haha, no problem. I thought about posting it in the Dare PSA topic but i hadn't come around to it. So i was pleasantly surprised when i saw your post :)

Relayer makes a good point too. Above all make sure you feel good about a dare before doing it, there is absolutely no obligation to do something you don't feel good about (even if it falls within you likes!)

[Relayer]

Well, the point of this thread is sort of to advise on things that aren't quite common knowledge. Things that don't sound particularly dangerous but you still have some doubts about.

What it seems to sort of be turning to is also to give some common sense to people who are very new to this and don't know. A lot of the stuff on here isn't common knowledge outside of your little world so newer members could fall victim to stupid dares that they don't know could be dangerous. People can be blind to things sometimes.

I wasn't at all suggesting that this thread was pointless - to the contrary I feel it's a good idea to have a thread where people can go "Uhh, is this safe?" I just felt it necessary to point out that you're never obligated to do anything, and that you are responsible for your own safety. People can sometimes have the mentality of "Well, I was dared to, so I have to do it now."

[Okiidokii]

Is it safe to put toothpaste down there? (around,in, near, ect)

[nellybell]

Congrats on being my first offical question :3

There was a thread pretaining to this floating around in the advise section.
http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=67957

Pretty much the general consenses is that is it generally safe.

However, with the above warning about vaginal health I would warn against excessive use inside of your vagina. With all the chamicals and such in toothpaste it could probably set off the pH without much issue. That leaves you open to infection and just general unpleasentness, and not the good kind. Also some brands of toothpaste I've heard use sugar and other sweetening substances. Excessive sweets stuff in your vagina can lead to nasty yeast infection.

So a light coating over an object or a small dab on your finger and rubbed around should give you the desired effect without causing too many other complications.

I feel like a similar thing should be true for use in your ass. A small amount will be more than enough to give a good burning sensation. I think that if enough is inserted your intestines will do what they are designed to do which is to absorb any nurtients and water that it can. As you're not supposed to swallow toothpaste in almost any amount other than whats left on your teeth after you rinse and maybe the occational accidental swallow, having it absorbed through your intestines probably would be a bad thing.

So I would basically say, everything in moderation. You don't need a lot of it to reach a point of burning. Don't do any of those rediculas dares where they dare you to use an entire tube of toothpaste and shit. Just not a good idea. Lastly, make sure you clean up properly down there when you're all done and you should be good to go. :3

~Happy daring!

[YoungPantyBoy]

What are some safe lubes? Do you think lotion would be a safe anal lube?

[CardiffBoy]

What are some safe lubes? Do you think lotion would be a safe anal lube?

Lotion can cover a vast range of items, but I think the best course of action is to avoid using lotion anywhere inside the body.

A petroleum jelly could be used, but is difficult to wash away, and may still harbour infections if not properly cleaned away. As I dont know what you are planning to lube up with it, I must point out that stuff like vaseline damages latex, so would decrease the protection from STIs if used on a condom

The best sort of lube to be used anally would be water based. eg KY Jelly, easily obtainable in large supermarkets or chemists. There are also specific personal lubricants available, designed to be used for just that sort of use. You would probably find them in the same section as condoms in the shop.

Hope that helps a bit, and Im sorry for jumping in on your advice thread Nelly!

[nellybell]

So, I would have posted my answer last night buuuut I sort of hit the point where english turns into gibberish. With everything that can be included with this I was trying not to screw it up.

So, to start off with, the safest option will always be to just go to a store and buy some. Many stores carry it, you don't have to ask anyone for it, and with self checkouts you don't even have to have the cashier see it. It is also usually inexpensive. Water based is generally viewed as safest and favorite.

If that is the road you're interested in taking, this site has a lot of good just basic information about what kind of lubes can be used with what. Also what ingredients in certain lubes can cause irritaion or yest infections in women.
http://www.babeland.com/shoppingadvice/lubeadvice

So I've been looking A LOT for correct information for what is or isn't safe to use as lube. I have to say that for almost everything there are two sides for each. Unless store bought everything has it's ups and downs, and even some of the store bought ones have little things you have to watch out for too. Those however can be found in the above link. So I can't garuntee everything is spot on.

So here goess the list of what I've found that can be used and the ups and downs of them:

Lotion:
So, I had an earlier discussion about this with Leopard and we pretty much figured out that some that are more ok to use than others. All lotions have chemicals in them that half of us couldn't even come close to pronouncing. After looking some of them up I've found that while some of them are relitively safe there are some that aren't as much.

I would suggest that you go with the simpliest you can find if you feel you must use it. No pretty smells, no extra additives that make it absorb better. Also don't go for really cheep stuff either, they could be full of filler chemicals that could be much more harmful. If the words "For external use only" appear on it doesn't use for anal lube.

So, not suggested, but if you have truely nothing else for anal lube than I suppose it is better than nothing.

For guys, it should be ok for regular masterbating to avoid chafing and such as long as you avoid getting it into your urethra. That wouldn't be too pleasent feeling. Girls, this could also screw with vaginal pH so I would avoid it for non-anal playing.

Cooking oils:
Something that I found while looking was that people were mentioning Things such as vegetable, olive, and coconut oil. These things can be found in most homes and have usually no chemicals, plus they are things that usually pass through your digestive system anyway. Things such as butter and crisco where also mentioned. Make sure that the oils are pure and with no extra stuff added in.

While these can provide good lubrication it was also pointed out that these are less likely to disssipate quickly and could hang around and allow bateria to grow. I think this may be on the lower chance side of happening, but it couldn't hurt to take a little extra time in the shower to make sure you're clean in that area after playing :3

A few warnings though. This shouldn't be used in or around the vaginal area. They can cause an imbalance in pH as well and give bacteria a nice place to grow too. See one of the above post for vaginal health for more information. The oils can also cause damage to latex so keep that in mind if you're thinking of using it in combination with condoms.

Vaseline/Petroleum Jelly:
I'm Not so sure about using this as lube, but I would say no for the sake of lack of knowledge and clean up. Vaseline has a melting point above the bodies normal temperature so it could easily build up in clumps and just be a mess. I would keep it for outside of the body only.

Baby oil:
I didn't find much on this either, but as it is meant for use on very sensitive baby's skin it should be more on the safe side? This is another substance where all I got was that they said it was ok to use. Nothing else. So it is a tenitive yes.

Spit:
While this is very commonly used, it may not really be as great as some people think. This can be found on the link earlier in the post. "While spit is cheap, and you may have seen non-stop spit-fests in porn movies, the reality is that spit dries out pretty quickly and can leave genitals feeling even drier afterwards. If someone has oral herpes, using spit as lube poses a threat of infection to your partner." Not suggested but will work in a pinch I suppose but becareful and relube often.

So, this is pretty much all I can think of, I'm very sorry it took so long and is such a long post but there was a lot of information. PM me for anything that might need to be changed or if anything should be added and I will edit it.

[Star Shadows]

"Is it safe to use nail polish on your clit as a punishment? I did this once when it was little and I can't recall the feeling so I want to try it and see how it feels now, but I'm worried it might be harmful. Would it be more or less harmful than toothpaste?"

This is another that came up in the anonymous SM advice section, I can do a short one there and refer them here If you want to take a crack at it. Delegation is key ! :p

[nellybell]

"Is it safe to use nail polish on your clit as a punishment? I did this once when it was little and I can't recall the feeling so I want to try it and see how it feels now, but I'm worried it might be harmful. Would it be more or less harmful than toothpaste?"



I actually have already written something on this before, it was just a matter of finding it again. Which I somehow managed to do, soooo here goes.

Alright, to start out, There was a separate thread started on this here : http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=51306

You're using paint on skin - paint in fact that's known for it having to be strong enough when applied to deal with the rigors of an office day without chipping (too much).

Like any product that wasn't developed to be applied for skin and particularly not developed for skin so delicate as the genital skin - it can, potentially, have some harmful effects.

For safety's sake i would urge you to switch to something along the lines of an eyeliner pencil, or - for something a little more permanent - a marker without additives to the ink.

Nail polish, so i have read, is very dangerous on skin. It has no effects on the skin around a nail because it is a little different than other areas. If nail polish is left on skin in med to large patches it can lead to skin cancer. Plus, nail polish removers are also semi harmful in sensitive areas. So, in short, dont do it!

I have to agree with what both of those posts. On a different thread this was also added In response to someone elses thoughts:

No worries on nailpolish. It hurts a little (due to the solvent) but no permanent issues. Have done it & is not a problem. Kinda cool in fact.

Anything that causes pain by simply putting it on your skin is a BAD idea. Not only that, but if you have some cuts on your skin and you apply it over it can enter your blood stream. Last time I checked benzene and formaldehyde weren't things you wanted to spread over yourself, especially not your genitals, last time I checked they were both rather toxic.

Just because something is widely accepted in use doesn't always make it safe, learn what you're putting yourself in connact with.

I went looking for articles on this, and now I don't even want to use nail polish on my finger nails... I sugest you check it out before you go puting it everywhere... I have a feeling you won't wish to anymore.

http://www.articlesbase.com/nails-articles/the-dangers-of-nail-polish-2796199.html

http://keralaclick.com/blog/2008/12/17/dangers-of-nail-polish-and-nail-polish-removers/#axzz0uxGsp8CP

After you've read those tell me they're safe. That there are no worries. Just because you didn't immedietly drop dead doesn't mean there isn't anything that happend...

The links in that quote should give you all the information you need to turn you away from the idea of using nail poilish for anything but your nails and may even stop you from that.

Now as for it being safer than toothpaste, I would have to say yes. Though tooth paste can have some icky stuff in it, the nail poilish has even worse. There is a post about tooth paste above if you're still courious, and you should be safe with it, just keep it for more or less external use and wash good after you're done.

[webcamplayer]

As time goes by on here the dares get more ludicrous and the sole purpose of many people's time on here is seemingly to outgross each other by saying they do things that they clearly do not. Sadly this means that the more gullible among us are likely to then the more ridiculous/gross/dangerous dares thinking they are ok. I just have this feeling that it's simply a matter of time before someone gets seriously hurt. I hope I'm wrong. The fact that there is no age restriction on the site really doesn't help.

[Id.]

What do you think about the safety of this dare (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=76817), using an electric dog collar? I know there are a lot of electric toys out there, both designed specifically for BDSM and improvised. But what do you think about the dog collar?

The collar must be designed in such a way that would not be harmful to a dog, so one would think that it would be a gentle enough shock to be relatively safe for a human who is generally larger. On the other hand, I wonder if one wrong electrical impulse might make its way to the heart or something and become dangerous. Thoughts? And what electric toys are generally accepted as being safe for dares/bdsm, if any? What are the general safety concerns/precautions?

[Peekaboo]

My basic understanding is that the dog collars are dangerous as for a dog it will need to go through their fur and they have thicker skin than humans.

Generally, unless the toy is designed for use on people you are safer not using it unless you really know what you are doing. Also, only use them below the waist unless you can guarantee they are safe for use near the heart and you know what you are doing!

[fred&ted]

Is it safe to lick a toilet with out cleaning it? Or should you clean it first.

I want to know because last time I did it, I cleaned it, I was fine but there wasn't much effect on me because it didn't taste bad so it felt like I was just licking something... So the question is, Is it safe to lick an unclean toilet?

[smokeyeager]

Is it safe to lick a toilet with out cleaning it? Or should you clean it first.

I want to know because last time I did it, I cleaned it, I was fine but there wasn't much effect on me because it didn't taste bad so it felt like I was just licking something... So the question is, Is it safe to lick an unclean toilet?

It really depends on where you lick it and what your idea of clean, semi-clean, and dirty are.. The toilet seat would be the safest spot to lick but still not very safe. Inside the bowl would be pretty nasty and outside the bowl would be the medium. Mythbusters covered the toilet seat in an episode you can read about here http://mythbustersresults.com/hidden-nasties.

[fred&ted]

I'm talking about the bowl, like on the top and on the outside parts of it.

[smokeyeager]

I'm talking about the bowl, like on the top and on the outside parts of it.

Might want to give it a cleaning and a good rinse with water. Would hate to ingest massive amounts of bacteria or residual cleaning agent, both could be bad.

[fred&ted]

Ok, So I should clean it all before I lick it or anything.... Could you think of things that could give it a fowl taste while I lick it?

[smokeyeager]

Ok, So I should clean it all before I lick it or anything.... Could you think of things that could give it a fowl taste while I lick it?

Yeah, I'd clean it. You probably have a whole kitchen full of condiments, spices, etc... you could wipe on it, suggestions for such should probably be in a dare post though.

[fred&ted]

Ok, I was thinking I could put my cum on it, would that be safe?

[nellybell]

So, before a bunch of others would like to continue giving advise on my advise thread, please allow me a bit of time to do so. Some of these take me HOURS to research and write properly so please don't go writing over me, terribly rude.

What do you think about the safety of this dare (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=76817), using an electric dog collar? I know there are a lot of electric toys out there, both designed specifically for BDSM and improvised. But what do you think about the dog collar?

The collar must be designed in such a way that would not be harmful to a dog, so one would think that it would be a gentle enough shock to be relatively safe for a human who is generally larger. On the other hand, I wonder if one wrong electrical impulse might make its way to the heart or something and become dangerous. Thoughts? And what electric toys are generally accepted as being safe for dares/bdsm, if any? What are the general safety concerns/precautions?

This is by far one of the hardest set of questions I've ever been asked. I keep finding things that contridict each other, so I believe I'm going to put the basics down and then link to more in depth opinions.

So to start off, I read the thread that was linked above and personally, the idea has no appeal to me and doesn't sound totally kosher. I personally wouldn't feel totally safe using something that wasn't designed for human use when it comes to something like electricity. I think that playing around with something you don't properly understand and something that can cause a lot of damage is just a bad idea in general.

As for dog collars being used, the way he is doing it seems slightly less dangerous then having it around your neck. I've come across a couple of a different opinions of having it around your neck. One saying that it is really ok and another basically saying it is a terrible idea.

I honestly have to say that I really wouldn't want to risk having something bad happen and would avoid having it anywhere above the waist unless you seriously know what you're doing and have the proper equipment. Any sort of stray electrical current passing around or near your heart has the chance of distrupting the rhythm, damaging the heart, or, in the worst possible case, stopping it. Not only that, but, like your heart, your nervous system is also run by electrical currents and could aslso stand the chance of also being messed around with.

Most of those are far more likely to happen if you have a pre-existing heart condition or a pacemaker implanted, but if you have a malfunctioning piece of equipment or something that was not made for use by humans you have no real way of knowing what could happen. I may sound a bit paranoid, but it is generally better to be safe than sorry.

What I found out about shock dog collars is that, while many of them don't give off more than a feeling of a static shock to the dog, you have to keep in mind that dogs have thicker skin and additional fur for it to pass through, while humans to not. Also, "One misconception about shock collars is that the shock a dog feels when they get a shock is equivalent to the shock a human feels when they put the same collar around their own necks, leg or arm. While the idea of pain or shock may be subjective, what is clear is that dogs do not feel stimuli in the same way as humans. Watching dogs gleefully leap into freezing water, bite and play roughly with each other and run "barefoot" over rough ground should be evidence of this." (http://www.dailypuppy.com/articles/what-are-the-dangers-of-a-dog-shock-collar/4340408f-c390-d833-f324-5152c9b28437)

The big warnings:
~Like any electronic equipment, shock collars can malfunction. Dogs have been left outside in the rain wearing an invisible fence collar, and very badly burned when the collar shorted out. This is more of a problem with older or cheap shock collars, as newer ones have built in technology to prevent this from happening.
~Make certain that your electrodes make good contact. Poor contact will often cause burns. Electrical burns tend to be deep and slow to heal. They also tend to have more damage beneath the surface than is immediately obvious.
~NEVER set up contacts such that a current path can be completed through the heart or brain! The safest way to be certain of this is to avoid any contact above the lowest set of ribs. It IS possible to work safely on the back, shoulders, neck and arms and I make some references to it later, but unless you are certain of your equipment, your knowledge and skill, and your subject's health, keep the contacts below the lowest set of ribs.
If playing with a partner:
~Don't tie your subject too tightly, allow some room for muscle contractions. It is possible to do some significant damage if you apply a strong shock to a tightly-tied limb. Also, make certain that your subject is bound or positioned such that a sudden movement won't cause a fall, impact against a solid or sharp object, or other unintended injury.
~I strongly suggest that when you try a new setup, you test it on yourself to the extent possible. This will give you some insight as to what the sensations are and what constitutes a tolerable level of current. This leads to a WARNING: NEVER EXPERIMENT WITH ELECTRICITY ON YOURSELF UNLESS YOU HAVE SOMEONE PRESENT WHO KNOWS HOW (AND WHEN) TO SHUT OFF THE CURRENT!
~ALWAYS HAVE A SAFE-WORD *AND* a signal which can be used if your sub can't speak. Make sure that you are always alert to it.

VERY IMPORTANT:
Always have someone around when playing with electricity. I know this isn't always the most favorable of ideas, but if something happens and your heart stops you only have about 4 minutes before you start having brain damage. At least have someone in your house in the hopes that maybe they find you before it is too late. If playing with a partner make sure the one giving the shocks knows CPR. It may make the difference betwen living and dying.

As for acceptable toys, I have heard of something called a violet wand. "This gadget uses a high-frequency circuit similar to a Tesla coil to build up a static charge in a gas-filled glass tube. If you hold the tube near your sub's body, Each time the charge builds up enough to jump the gap, a spark jumps from the tube to your sub's skin. Unlike shuffling across the rug, though, the Wand can spark many times a second. You can adjust the intensity and rate of sparks depending on your purpose. The nature of the body's response to this type of charge is such that you can use the wand anywhere on the body except for the eyes."

There are also things like Electro-Muscle Stimulation (EMS) exercisers that force muscle contractions. "These are less costly (and usually less powerful and elaborate) versions of the TENS units, and are intended to provide the effects of exercise by forcing muscle contractions electrically. I'll leave the question of whether they help build impressive biceps to others, but as electro-pleasure and electro-torture devices, they are excellent. They provide from 2 to a dozen separate circuits, each with adjustable current. Depending on the unit, you may also be able to vary frequency, waveform, and surge characteristics for each circuit. The units are powered by batteries, which eliminates any worry about a ground loop or component failure placing the full resources of your local power company in contact with a sensitive portion of your partner's anatomy. Also, the individual circuits are isolated from each other, so you don't have to worry about current flowing between electrodes of two different circuits and setting up a path that you hadn't planned on."

These are the safer things I've found, there are other things, like TENS units, that can beused but require proper training for safe use and are rather epensive.

Some of the earlier informantion can be found here as well as addition information: http://www.sexuality.org/l/bdsm/elecplay.html

Opinions on the safety of electrical use in BDSM can be found here but is an 18+ site so please no one under view it as I don't know what might be on the site too. The opening page will probably lead you to registration for the site but there is a button that will allow you to proceed as a guest and no registration needed. http://www.slaveregister.com/posts/162028/

[DarkAndEvil]

I've seen and talked to people about these before. The answer is that electricity is very dangerous, and you have to be careful with any electrical toy.

Canine electrical devices like this should certainly not be used around the neck, as they would then be far to close to things like your brain. What damage are they doing to your pet? Who knows!

That said, if you are experienced with electrical play (and I don't mean sticking your tongue on a 9V battery - which, by the way, is also potentially lethal - I'm talking about proper electroplay) you might consider using them elsewhere on the body

[dmoney]

A 9 volt battery only puts out relatively 500mAh (Source: http://www.batterysavers.com/Compare-Batteries.html). It would take 300-500mAH applied directly to the chest cavity to stop your heart (Source: http://hypertextbook.com/facts/2000/JackHsu.shtml). I've held over 2Ah in my hands with nough force to tickle, but it didn't kill me. Basically, if you have no heart conditions, I wouldn't concern myself too much because the dog collar isn't making direct contact with your heart or chest, and the collar itself tends to insulate you from getting the full effect of the shock. I stick 9 volt batteries to my tongue all the time and have no issues.

[nellybell]

Is it safe to lick a toilet with out cleaning it? Or should you clean it first.

I want to know because last time I did it, I cleaned it, I was fine but there wasn't much effect on me because it didn't taste bad so it felt like I was just licking something... So the question is, Is it safe to lick an unclean toilet?

I think that licking a toilet that isn't clean sounds pretty unsafe without even having to ask. Depending on how dirty your toilet is you could be ingesting millions if not billions of tiny germs and bacteria, not to mention pleanty of urine and fecal matter.

Common bacteria that can be found on toilets include, but is not limited to:
~Shigellosis- can cause severe diarrhea and dysentery as well as inflamation of the intestines.
~Staphylococcus- the antibiotic strain is responsible for MRSA
~Salmonella-can cause severe vomiting and diarrhea

There is a problem, though, with cleaning the toilet then licking it, depending on what you clean it with/how you clean it.

While disinfectants will get rid of a fair amount of the ickies but it also leaves behind some of the chemicals. Many of those chemicals are certainly not something you would want to ingest and can make you just as sick if not more so than the things you're trying to not get sick from. Poisoning is a bad thing.

So, my only suggestion is, that, if you must lick a toilet, clean how you would regularly do so and then wipe down additionaly very well with a wet paper towel or something. The whole goal being that you get rid of the left over chemical residue.



Ok, So I should clean it all before I lick it or anything.... Could you think of things that could give it a fowl taste while I lick it?

You can do a general google search for things that are bitter that you could easily pick up in a store. Things that do come to mind though are things like the peels off of citrus fruit. If you take the peel and run it kind of hard against the outside of the bowl you should get a slightly bitter taste off of it. Also, around this time of the year there is usually a fair amount of dandelions floating around. The insides of the steams usually are quite bitter and could be wiped on the bowl as well to get that nasty taste.

Then as for your cum being on the toilet, i suppose that could work? Still germs involved and if you have any STDs don't be putting your cum in your mouth because you can further spread it to the rest of your body. Otherwise you should be good.

[Id.]

Awesome thoughts and research Nellybell! Excelent information, thank you!

[nellybell]

Awesome thoughts and research Nellybell! Excelent information, thank you!

You're very welcome! :3 Thank you for the questions and sorry it took so long.

[Id.]

I saw this dare (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?p=470440#post470440) given in one of the person above threads, to drink three 2 liter bottles of soda over the course of three hours followed by an hour long walk without going to a bathroom.

I personally think the soda is way too much. Maybe 2 liters in three hours would be possible, but 6 liters seems dangerous like those cases where college hazing goes bad and people die from drinking too much water (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Water_intoxication#Notable_cases).

Anyway, this dare raised three questions for me.

1. What is the maximum safe amount to drink at a time (or within say 3 hours like that one) for a pee holding type dare or task?

2. Would something like Gatorade or even soda be safer than water to prevent low sodium, etc.?

3. What about the pee holding? I think I have heard it can be unsafe (maybe even on this site, but I don't remember)? Are there any health hazards associated with pee holding in general?

[tytylion]

What about keeping a bar of soap in your mouth for 7 minutes...

[CD57]

Give yourself an enema will water with.red dye in it.

is this safe

[NesseTheToker]

I saw this pic of a woman in self bondage who was soaking wet and had a fan blowing on her, so that she was cold and there was nothing she could do about it.

Is that safe? Because I'd love to incorporate that into my scenarios.

[sm_limb]

I saw this pic of a woman in self bondage who was soaking wet and had a fan blowing on her, so that she was cold and there was nothing she could do about it.

Is that safe? Because I'd love to incorporate that into my scenarios.
This prob not safe. As the wind helps evaporate the water and that will use heat from your body. Same thing as on hot day you get out of pool and a wind blows you get cold. But if you do that too long you may have a change of getting too cold and bodythemp drops too far

[jacobgreene]

Hey I thought I'd ask this. How safe is it to put ice cubes in your butt? I know a lot of them at the same time could reduce body temperature, but I'm guessing only a couple is okay?

Also, how safe is ass-to-mouth? I'm not talking about eating poop, more like sucking on a finger after it's been in there, and apart from getting an STD, 'cause I don't have any.

Thanks! :)

[nellybell]

For the ice cubes, as long as you aren't constantly replacing them for long periods of time, you should be fine. It really shouldn't be enough to reduce your core temperature to dangerous levels. If you start to shiver when you are usually warm then it may be close to stopping time.

One thing though, when putting in ice cubes be sure that there aren't any sharp corners on them and they aren't straight out of the freezer. Sharp edges and anal do not mix. Also fresh out of the freezer ice cubes tend to stick to warm/wet skin and ripping it off of the skin could cause damage especially around the anus where skin is fragile.

As for anal to mouth, just don't. All kinds of bacteria and other things of ick are found in it and could possibly make you ill. Scat is the bodies waste, it is leaving the body for a reason.

[jacobgreene]

Thanks for the answer, nelly. :)

[JaysonClaims]

I think this is perfectly safe and will probably sound dumb asking, but I have to do a dare that requires me to save up my cum for about a week then eat it.

Obviously it's safe to eat cum during a one time dare, or during sex, but is it like food going bad if you save it?

Thanks!

[revealed]

Is giving yourself an enema with a shower head removed safe... Just wondering because of the force of the water that comes out, knowing when to stop etc

[silverdarknight]

Is giving yourself an enema with a shower head removed safe... Just wondering because of the force of the water that comes out, knowing when to stop etc

The short answer to this question is 'no'. There is a risk of damage due to the pressure, both in a direct 'point of contact' form and in a 'bursting your innards' form. (Mains water is often at a surprisingly high pressure and flow rate). It is unlikely tho, so as long as you don't go trying to stick a jet wash up there you should be alright. You can even get enema nozzles designed for such things. I would be happy to do it - as long as you are a little careful.

There is also a risk of cuts etc from the shower hose itself - they arn't exactly designed for internal use.

[Sindrato]

I think this is perfectly safe and will probably sound dumb asking, but I have to do a dare that requires me to save up my cum for about a week then eat it.

Obviously it's safe to eat cum during a one time dare, or during sex, but is it like food going bad if you save it?

Thanks!

Yes. Eating cum is perfectly safe. (As long as you do not have any STD's, of course.) Though, if you want to keep it, you might want to keep it in the freezer. It probably wouldn't start to rot, but just to be on the safe side...

[wedgieworkout]

We're gonna do some diaper play today. Wear as many pairs of underwear as you can get on. Then drink 1 gallon of water over 90 minutes. Once you have the urge, go right then and there. Every time you go to the bathroom, you must take off all the pairs of underwear and give yourself 100 smacks on each butt cheek for being a bad boy. Do this with a ruler. After every time you go, you must dring 32 oz. of water. Must be worn until next task is given. You must also wet your bed and poop in them at least once before you can take them off. You can remove the poop after you give yourself the 100 smacks on each butt cheek.

Is it safe to drink that much water? I'm a noob at science.

[Id.]

Not trying to hijack Nelly's thread, but I think the link I posted before is relevant to your question. I wouldn't drink that much water if I were you:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Water_intoxication#Notable_cases

I don't know how much would be a safe upper limit for the average person. Anybody have any thoughts on a max. amount?

In the absence of such a known upper limit I would err on the side of caution and significantly reduce the quantities you are using. For me even a 1/2 liter bottle is enough to make me go within an hour or so unless it's with food. Maybe start with that.

[istm]

2 questions, how often is it ok to engage in breast/nipple torture (very tight binding, clamping, stretching, having them pressed into tacks, caning and other impact play, etc) and should I worry if I am extremely sore the next day?

[Sharp Shooter]

2 questions, how often is it ok to engage in breast/nipple torture (very tight binding, clamping, stretching, having them pressed into tacks, caning and other impact play, etc) and should I worry if I am extremely sore the next day?

I will emphasize the importance of icing after any play that inflames or would likely bruise the soft tissue. Whether tits or ass, if you expect it to hurt the next day, ice!

The icing will reduce swelling and bruising. I would apply ice for a minimum of 30-40 minutes, with a preference of over an hour. Of course the icing can be considered further torment!

Tight binding and clamping should NEVER be left on for more than 20 minutes without relief to allow blood circulation. Less tight binding and clamping may allow longer times, but always under supervision by someone who has a clue about the danger signs. Some issues you could run into include blood clots, tissue death, etc. You REALLY don't want to go there.

[jakeisinterested]

Is it safe to place hand sanitizer on cock/balls as punishment? Or is it capable of long term damage?

[Alexis Rune]

Getting pass-out drunk is not particularly safe, but is there any legal way to make yourself unconscious with friends around that is MORE safe? (If this question is inappropriate or shouldn't be answered here, I understand, please simply delete it!)

[MasterDbaum]

Are humblers dangerous??

[stretlad]

I've come a cross a few dares that require superglue on skin. I think these are great dares, however I am concerned that Superglue may not be safe when attached to the skin particularly around the genitals.

Is there any kind of glue that is safe to use, that take a bit of scrubbing in the shower to remove?

[Gearbox]

Definitely not a good idea to use glue around genitals, and on other parts of the body it could be difficult if not near impossible to remove without a lot of pain, or a trip to the hospital/doctor.
Plus the fumes. I used superglue on my mouth one time, and I got a headache from the fumes coming from it. Decided not to do that again. Wouldn't recommend.

I'm curious about the safety of urine holding, as it's one of my favorite dares on here. How long is too long? etc. I don't want any medical issues.

Any input? thanks :)

[denizenalexr]

I'm curious about the safety of urine holding, as it's one of my favorite dares on here. How long is too long? etc. I don't want any medical issues.

Any input? thanks :)

If you have some medical issues already urine holding can be dangerous.

Urine retention causes increase in blood pressure ... so if you are person with already high blood pressure make sure you dont over do.

Second issue is constant holding and stretching may in theory cause overuse of the sphincter muscles (the muscles that keep urine in until some amount has got collected.) if these muscles get weaknened, you start having leaks ... incontinence it is called.

Other than these, no specific medical issues are possible. If you are have catheter and insertion plays into peehole then be careful as you may cause damage / laceration to the urethra (urine tube) or can cause infections.

If you are going to tie up the dick of something like that, it can potentially cause stretching of the urethra and some problems ... backpressure issues ... but urine holding is usually a quite safe dare ... as far as I know!

Regards,
D~

[Gearbox]

That all makes sense. Thanks for all the info.
Since I don't do it too often, and when I do I don't ever hold it until it's painful or anything, I should be fine.

One more thing I wanted to ask, which I meant to include in the last post, is regarding mouth soaping, and specifically are there any soaps out there at all that would be safe for that. I know most would be very hazardous, and would be a definite 'no', but I'm wondering if there are any exceptions, since the idea sort of intrigues me, and because I recently talked to someone who did it quite a bit, and it got me to thinking.
I know this one might just be a hazard across the board, but I wanted to make sure before I lay it to rest.

Thanks. :)

[spanking1235]

Hey guys, do you know any way to treat callous on your butt cheak due to spanking a lot?

[iKink]

A fairly rough luffa might work for that, I'm not sure. Never happened to me. Give it time though ;)

[Simi]

tbh just be nice to your bottom for a few, if you can get any aloe vera in moisturisers it may help sooth it
I never had that problem even with a Master who loves his cane

[iKink]

What Simi said :)

[Simi]

play shouldnt be to the point where it is damaging, nothing should remain after a few days.

[spanking1235]

Honestly I wasnt knowledgable enough. I kept spanking almost everyday for like few weeks or so. Thats why :(

[Addlib123]

Is putting ice in you safe? I have seen a lot of dares involving ice, but am always too hesitant to do them because I'm not sure if they are safe.

[Sindrato]

Is putting ice in you safe? I have seen a lot of dares involving ice, but am always too hesitant to do them because I'm not sure if they are safe.

Mostly, they are. Well, ok, the dares mostly aren't, but putting ice mostly is safe, if the time is limited. Basically, allowing a few ice cubes to melt on/in you is safe enough, if you are healthy. Blocks of ice, or a dozen ice cubes... well, it poses a higher risk. If at any point you suffer extreme pain or notice a discoloration of the skin, you should stop immediately. If it doesn't withdraw after some time, contact a doctor.

[silverdarknight]

Is putting ice in you safe? I have seen a lot of dares involving ice, but am always too hesitant to do them because I'm not sure if they are safe.

I shall elaborate on Sindrato's reply.
Short answer: Yes. It's possible to do yourself real damage, but rather unlikely.

Risks:

Burns
This is the main one. It's surprisingly easy to get cold burns from things - especially on sensitive areas. These are likely to be superficial, and should heal quickly in a day or two. As Sindrato says, look out for numbness and skin discoloration as warning signs.

Physical injury
Ice is hard, and can have sharp edges where it has recently broken. The sharp edges soon melt, so as long as you bear in mind it's a solid object,you should be good.

Hypothermia
Large quantites of ice/standing under cold shower may actually drop your core temperature low enough to be dangerous. You will need to get very cold for a prolonged period of time however. Assuming you live somewhere where dying of cold isn't an issue tho, this again you should soon recover from - but don't do things like go to sleep in a bath of ice, because that might end unfortunately.

[iKink]

I have a quick question that's been on my mind awhile: are there serious long-term damage risks for CBT(cock and ball torture)? I have it listed as a limit because I'm a bit concerned it might be unsafe, but I'm not really sure about this one.
The idea of it sounds just as fun as other painful stuff to me, I'm just a bit apprehensive on the safety thing.

Anyone have any thoughts on this?

Thanks :)

[inferiorwhiteboi]

Originally, I pm'd iKink some thoughts I had on his query. However, now that my pm to him has ended up this long, I thought it best to share it. So, for anybody curious on the subject, here's some thoughts on the issue...


I'm no doctor. I'm just a guy on the net, so please take my comments with a grain of salt. I'm in my late 30's and have primarily been a 'solo player' for nearly 20 years and enjoy self-inflicted cbt to an extent. I offer the following advice based on those years of experience. So here's a few thoughts for your consideration.

While in general, cbt is largely about 'pain' some people take the word "torture" a little too seriously. It is, after all, one of the words in the name cbt. Everybody can be guilty of this, even without realizing or intending it. Even if some people won't admit it, it is quite easy to get carried away with oneself when on the web on a site such as this - getting caught up in the heat of the moment, delighted about the torment that you're instructing somebody else to do.

Anything I do, I try think things through before engaging in the activity. As the genitals are basically irreplaceable, I practice what the bdsm community refers to "Safe, Sane & Consensual". The term is worth a websearch if you're not familiar with it (and worth refreshing oneself on periodically even if you're already familiar with it. Long story short, when playing with my cock or balls, I always have an "escape plan".

When something feels wrong, I stop immediately. I also stop immediately iIf the color gets to be too much of a dark red (trapped blood, it isn't circulating through the body). Things go from dark red to an ugly shade of purple quickly. When I any sort of cock/ball bondage, I always use shoelaces - they're a manageable length, cheap (couple bucks at walmart, for instance), they allow for all sorts of color options (which in my experience many ladies have thought made for pretty pictures). I try to always use simple knots - they're easier to untie. In an emergency, a pocket knife or scissors can free the genitals from the shoelaces very quickly (as long as you remain calm and careful and use appropriately sized knives or scissors, instead of something like 8" carpet shears).

This paragraph hadn't occured to me when typing that pm. Rubber bands are also an excellent 'toy' for this area, as they're easy to break or cut. Clothes pins, binder clips & such are also easy to remove. While "easy to remove" doesn't make anything foolproof, it does make it quicker to stop any bad situation and prevent it from becoming worse. When sizing something up as a toy for cbt, if it seems practical to use and passes an 'easy to remove' test, it very well might make for a good cbt toy.

When I experimented with chastity, I never, ever, not once, strayed more than 20 feet from the keys to the lock. The 'fantasy' of the keys being who knows where & unable to get out is great & all - but isn't remotely practical once an unexpected emergency rises.

I could go on and on regarding this subject. I've played with cock rings, chastity devices, parachutes & weights, the "gates of Hell", ball dividers, ball stretchers ... you get the idea.

[lootfish]

ive seen posts where girls stuff more than one pair of panties into their vagina. is this safe? how do they get them out when they're stuffed in there like that? is there a risk of TSS for long periods of time?

[masterssub]

Is ginger root safe? Also what's the sensation like? Burning? Thanks!

[R3d]

Is edging and not cumming for many days safe?

[SexDoll]

Would it be safe to use both toothpaste and ice in your ass at the same time?

[ariana]

Is it safe to put clothespin on tongue? How much is safe, if at all?

[Jah Brother]

The three people above me are safe.
Of course if it starts too hurt too bad stop it, but you should be ok.

[Happy Me]

ive seen posts where girls stuff more than one pair of panties into their vagina. is this safe? how do they get them out when they're stuffed in there like that? is there a risk of TSS for long periods of time?
I guess it depends on the size of the panties and what material they are, but I can barely (just barely, with lots of pushing and grunting) fit one pair in. I wear medium sized cotton high cut panties usually, so I guess if you are talking about a g-string made of thin not-as-absorbent fabric, it would be possible. The cotton panties just totally absorb all of the moisture and make it really hard to insert!
Taking anything out of a vagina just takes a little practice, vaginas are not endless, and with a proper squat and bearing down, pretty much anything will come out (at this point I have put in, and pulled out, quite a few things from my vagina.) Also, if you can get your body in the right position, you can reach your cervix (the end of your vagina) with your fingers. Being a lesbian for many years taught me that one. So, as long as someone has some practice with that, it really is possible to basically anything out.
I don't know about the TSS, I am not a doctor. I would assume that leaving anything absorbent in your vagina for long periods of time could cause problems of some sort. I use sea sponges instead of tampons, which have rarely reported cases of TSS, much less than tampons, but some cases nonetheless. Since that is basically the same thing as using some kind of cotton panty, I would think you would want to take the undies out and replace them with clean ones just as you would a tampon or other product used during a period.

[Leopard]

As far as TSS goes, you shouldn't leave anything in that completely blocks or absorbs for more than a few hours at most (I think 8 was where it was meant to start being a risk.) Obviously people leave tampons in overnight all the time and don't explode, but riskwise that should give a rough guide.

[silent harmony]

Very informative! Thank you for the making this thread @nellybell; I'll be sure to reference this in the future!

[watsonkayla2000]

Is shoving a toilet brush up your vagina and pulling it quickly half way out and back in dangerous? it causes extraordinary pain after a while. almost feels like I am being punched up there repetivly hard.

[Leopard]

Obviously continually attempting to injure yourself is potentially damaging. If you scratch your skin enough times you will eventually tear through it.

[Horsey]

Is it actually safe to use the bristle end of a hairbrush in your vagina?
Also just out of curiosity again is it safe to actually put toothpaste on the clit and inside the vagina?

[Leopard]

Is it actually safe to use the bristle end of a hairbrush in your vagina?
Also just out of curiosity again is it safe to actually put toothpaste on the clit and inside the vagina?

It really depends what you mean by safe. Is it completely foolproof? I doubt it. Do people do things similar and manage? Sure.

Depending on the bristles - the plastic ones with the rounded ends are probably fine as long as you aren't too vigorous and snap them (sharp things are much less fine.) The hard bristle sorts ... I know it's doable, but I would think you would have to be very careful and slow with it because the ends are going to scrape and that is going to damage the skin if you aren't careful.

Realistically you just need to test things slowly for yourself if you aren't sure on something. If you charge in doing whatever someone tells you then you're probably going to run into trouble sooner or later. I know people think it isn't exciting to test things slowly when not wildly aroused, but it really is a much better way to find out something isn't doable or will injure you.

As for toothpaste, someone probably has some medical argument against it, but I know of many, many people who have done many things with toothpaste and none of them have ever complained of any sorts of injuries or complications.

[mikubeat]

Is ice safe to use? (insertion)

[Leopard]

Is ice safe to use? (insertion)

Wet it first (either with water or sucking on it for a moment) otherwise it can stick at first.

[virginsub19]

Is it safe to keep something, like a vibrator, in the vagina all night long? I have had many dares that do this but I'm worried about TSS as well as drying out over night and not being able to remove the item without pain. Thank you for any information that can be given on the subject.

[Leopard]

Is it safe to keep something, like a vibrator, in the vagina all night long? I have had many dares that do this but I'm worried about TSS as well as drying out over night and not being able to remove the item without pain. Thank you for any information that can be given on the subject.

First of all don't take anything I say as instructions to do things: use your own judgement. There may be risks involved, but I've also heard of people doing them just fine.

Something like a vibrator generally shouldn't be absorbent, so fluids should flow past it just fine. TSS, from what I understand, is from the vagina being "sealed" by absorbent things like tampons. Therefore it should be okay.

If you do want to try it, what I would recommend is doing it while awake so that you can see how you feel, how sore you get, etc.

[Beatrice.]

Is it safe to keep a buttplug covered in toothpaste in for 24 hours straight, while reapplying the toothpaste every couple of hours? If toothpaste is not good what else is safe and gives a similar feeling?

[Leopard]

Is it safe to keep a buttplug covered in toothpaste in for 24 hours straight, while reapplying the toothpaste every couple of hours? If toothpaste is not good what else is safe and gives a similar feeling?

I don't know if I can say whether it's definitively safe or not; there isn't much medical study that I know of in the field of long term toothpaste insertion. What I would say instead is that people have certainly done it and been fine. If you want to try something like that then I'd advise keeping track of how it feels and if anything changes to become worse than expected then stop and reevaluate on what's going on there.

The only substances I can think of like toothpaste are things like icy hot (which are more of a warm heat than the cold of toothpaste) which I think would be less safe, not more.

[Newgirl666]

how safe is it to insert a wine bottle up your ass, like what is the likelihood of it smashing inside you and if it dose smash dose it shatter into little harmless peice or dose it like stick in you

[Leopard]

how safe is it to insert a wine bottle up your ass, like what is the likelihood of it smashing inside you and if it dose smash dose it shatter into little harmless peice or dose it like stick in you

No, inserting glass bottles is not safe. If it shatters it means a trip to hospital and probably a lot of surgery. It's the most cringey thing I see in porn; so much can go wrong so easily, and has done. I saw a video of it happening once but I really don't want to go find it again in order to link it.

Purpose made toys such as glass plugs are fine, since they're solid.

[littleanalslave]

Is is safe to insert maggots up my bum?

Also viginiga and bicarb soda?

[Leopard]

Is is safe to insert maggots up my bum?

Also viginiga and bicarb soda?

I have no idea but t it sounds like a terrible idea to me.

[M_Medwine]

I am so glad you posted this.

I wanted to comment on one post I saw where someone was dared to soak a cloth in rubbing alcohol and insert in the vagina. The vagina is not like external skin. It absorbs some of it's contents into the bloodstream much like the small intestine. Some substances, like alcohol, it absorbs lightningly fast. Rubbing alcohol is poisonous, so this was a prescription for disaster.

For that matter, some people are now soaking tampons in drinking alcohol and inserting them. While it is not poisonous, and this will get you intoxicated very, very fast without having to drink the alcohol, because of the rapidity with which the alcohol is absorbed, alcohol overdose is a definite risk. You should not do this either.

The same is true for the rectum.

On the lighter side, some of the contents of sperm is absorbed through the vaginal walls, including testosterone. Testosterone in women (and men) tends to increase sexual desire. So, sex can be self-reinforcing in more ways than emotionally. Kind of awesome huh?

Again, thank you for starting this thread.

[M_Medwine]

I had a friend who had a problem. She got a golf ball stuck in her vagina. It was so slick, she was so tight, and she had so much suction behind it, neither of us could pull it out. Our attempts made her wetter. As she got more nervous she tensed up and got tighter.

I helped her get it out by doing the following. We bought a short length of pipe slightly larger than the diameter of the golf ball. We lubed it and inserted it. When it got to the golf ball, it slipped around the golf ball breaking the suction between the ball and her vagina, and the ball dropped out down the pipe. It came out easy.

[Tiwim54]

Is it safe snorting cum?

[The_Infernal_Dante]

I'm not a doctor, and none of this should be viewed as medical advice. But in my personal opinion, not really. You're exposed to STDs via the mucous membranes in your nasal passages not to mention whatever else you snort up with it. Unless you're snorting semen straight from the source it's bound to be cross-contaminated and even then you could catch something from their urinary tract. Plus inhaling any sort of liquid can result in it being inhaled/choked on.

[Hound]

I got this dare, is it safe? 1 - the other player must heat up a metal spoon, make sure it's really heated and then while your blind folded and tied up the other player may prod your dick and balls with the really heated spoon for 2 mins

[DJ-playmate]

People also need to remember that ice should be applied for no more than 15 minutes or risk tissue damage. I see dares that ask for ice to be applied for much longer than that.

[The_Infernal_Dante]

That would depend on what you consider "really heated." If it's hotter than something you'd be comfortable eating it's possible you'll cause damage to at least the skin.

[Beatrice.]

Male chastity cages. Has anyone ever had any permanent or long term damage caused by them? My main concern is the base ring which feels a bit too tight for me (I am not sure how tight or large it should be). I did get a cage which comes with the largest ring you can find, the 2 inch.

[Thebeast01]

I was recently told by someone to injaculation or medically known retrograde ejaculation, which is essentially holding the base of your dick or pressing on that little skin bit between your balls and you anus as you are cumming this is ment to stop the cum and keep you aroused and give you blue balls, supposedly the cum goes in to your bladder and is passed out next time you have a piss with your piss. Now I am not worried about the pain of blue balls, just is it safe to do it, any longterm repercussions problems with fertility ect... It would be great to hear from someone who has done this before and/or someone who knows there shit, like a mod or someone clever :) cheers

[Fantage]

Congrats on being my first offical question :3

There was a thread pretaining to this floating around in the advise section.
http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=67957

Pretty much the general consenses is that is it generally safe.

However, with the above warning about vaginal health I would warn against excessive use inside of your vagina. With all the chamicals and such in toothpaste it could probably set off the pH without much issue. That leaves you open to infection and just general unpleasentness, and not the good kind. Also some brands of toothpaste I've heard use sugar and other sweetening substances. Excessive sweets stuff in your vagina can lead to nasty yeast infection.

So a light coating over an object or a small dab on your finger and rubbed around should give you the desired effect without causing too many other complications.

I feel like a similar thing should be true for use in your ass. A small amount will be more than enough to give a good burning sensation. I think that if enough is inserted your intestines will do what they are designed to do which is to absorb any nurtients and water that it can. As you're not supposed to swallow toothpaste in almost any amount other than whats left on your teeth after you rinse and maybe the occational accidental swallow, having it absorbed through your intestines probably would be a bad thing.

So I would basically say, everything in moderation. You don't need a lot of it to reach a point of burning. Don't do any of those rediculas dares where they dare you to use an entire tube of toothpaste and shit. Just not a good idea. Lastly, make sure you clean up properly down there when you're all done and you should be good to go. :3

~Happy daring!

The post was from a long time ago but I'm guessing that mods still go on here. I'm guessing that's the same for icy hot and other chemicals? That would be a embarrassing trip to the er. I have tried to look this up, however nothing useful comes up so people on here are mostly to have experience with this.

[littleanalslave]

Someone wants to try making yoget in my back door, so we would get full cream no preservatives milk heat it up add Greek yoget, then cool it till it's safe to put in me, then tape my bum shut it maybe tape a rag over the hole so as just the water can come out as its separated. Leave it in me for about 24 hours, probably not eating it. I'd give it a really intense clean before and after.

[Jaro]

Is it actually safe to put ice cubes up your ass? A lot of people here apparently do it. I tried, but merely holding it against my butt hole felt torturous. And when it gets inside I would expect it to seriously numb my hole. So I'm not doing it because of the pain but it doesn't seem very healthy to me either. Especially not when putting multiple in there.

Same question for balls in ice water for several minutes. I tried but it seemed a very unwise thing to do.

[bleonav06]

Is it actually safe to put ice cubes up your ass? A lot of people here apparently do it. I tried, but merely holding it against my butt hole felt torturous. And when it gets inside I would expect it to seriously numb my hole. So I'm not doing it because of the pain but it doesn't seem very healthy to me either. Especially not when putting multiple in there.

Same question for balls in ice water for several minutes. I tried but it seemed a very unwise thing to do.
Not sure about the anal part but your balls are safe for a little while, I wouldnt keep them in there for more than 10-15 minutes because that can cause tissue damage and that is certainly not an area you want to have damage in lol

[Jaro]

And aside from the ice in ass, I also wonder if it's safe to put toothpaste in your ass? Or anything else that doesn't belong there actually. I'm thinking anything you put in there would enter the blood stream and for a lot of products, that just doesn't seem like a good idea I think.

I know there probably aren't any medical professionals here, but at least I can ask: what is your experience on putting this kind of stuff up your ass? Any ill effects?

[Canuck33]

Deleting this post for now

[bleonav06]

Is it safe to lick or eat your own poo

yes it is safe for you to do, all the bacteria in it is yours so your body has no problem with it.

[andrei]

Is it safe to lick or eat your own poo

to lick is kind of safe. To swallow... maybe drink water and throw up afterwards just to be sure and you are ok.
Anyway the risk I know is not the bacteria but some intestinal worms that lay eggs around the anus and get under nails from scratching. Not related to scat issues anyway but a common sickness:).

[andrei]

And aside from the ice in ass, I also wonder if it's safe to put toothpaste in your ass? Or anything else that doesn't belong there actually. I'm thinking anything you put in there would enter the blood stream and for a lot of products, that just doesn't seem like a good idea I think.

I know there probably aren't any medical professionals here, but at least I can ask: what is your experience on putting this kind of stuff up your ass? Any ill effects?

Yes, I was afraid reading that a beer bottle can get you into alcohol comatose state, so I haven't tried thinking a bit of alcohol can get into the blood stream. I am not very sure of it, maybe only if I would wait for an hour or so.

But I tried for short time (minutes to feel the pain) toothpaste and soap (just like a lube quantity) and nothing happened. I don't think there is anydanger.

[Shylitle-pervpuppet]

I bought dildo and some dares have anal and oral. I bought with it something for clean. I know how to clean it after anal, but still do not know if it is safe use it for oral. Somebody talking here about licking poo so I think that after clean it should be ok, maybe with cleaning mouth after that.

[Sleep1234]

putting a clothes hanger (the one with clamps for pants) on my inner pussy lips (clasping them together) and leaving in there over night

[Wedgiebondagebabe]

I think along with safety, we need to also express common sense. I sometimes wonder when I people saying things. Are you saying them because you truly have no idea, think something is a good idea, or are you saying them to be funny and/or extreme. I have seen somethings in the last few days that are just off putting.

Such as...
Placing cum soaked underwear in your mouth after the underwear has been pilled with 3 months worth of cum.
Leaving an anal plug in your ass when it is your first experience with one.
Leaving clothespins on longer than 15-20 minutes without massaging the areas in-between to maintain blood flow.

and a lot of other things that make me question some fellow members.

My advice, do your research. I know its not fun, but it leads to you knowing how to take care of yourself. It also might leave you with some cool little tricks you can surprise someone with every once and awhile.

Please just remember to think and consider things before doing.

[sir sam]

putting a clothes hanger (the one with clamps for pants) on my inner pussy lips (clasping them together) and leaving in there over night

I would consider totally UNsafe.
You will get bloodcirculation problems
And when you actually manage to be sleeping will not even notice thinsg go wrong.

In general:
- be very reluctant with overnight sleeping-dares
- sure they can be done, but with much more precaution than otherwise

[littleanalslave]

omeone wants to try making yoget in my back door, so we would get full cream no preservatives milk heat it up add Greek yoget, then cool it till it's safe to put in me, then tape my bum shut it maybe tape a rag over the hole so as just the water can come out as its separated. Leave it in me for about 24 hours, probably not eating it. I'd give it a really intense clean before and after.

[Yoursub2control]

Not specifically a getdare dare but I often see jois that use hot sauce and tiger balm on the penis. I've seen some stuff aboutthe latter being dangerous so I'm wondering what people here know about using these.

[outofmymind]

This thread has been around so long this topic may very well have been covered.

Drinking too much water can be dangerous. For one thing the kidneys can only handle about 16 oz every half hour (double check this info - it might be even less). Also, too much water intake can lower important minerals in your body. I'm talking coma and death, so do some research before any extreme drinking dares.

[enema slave]

Does anyone know anything about putting things up your male pee hole? Did it before but it hurt a bit during and for a while after. Wondering if it was safe

[little pet]

Does anyone know anything about putting things up your male pee hole? Did it before but it hurt a bit during and for a while after. Wondering if it was safe

Generally, it’s not safe to stick anything up your urethra. You run the risk of infections by introducing bacteria into your urethra and possibly your bladder and kidneys.
Whenever something is introduced into the urethra, say a catheter, it has to be done under sterile conditions (free of bacteria). But even then, there is a risk of urinary infections.

[enema slave]

Thanks, I’ll remember that

[theswitchyside]

This thread has been around so long this topic may very well have been covered.

Drinking too much water can be dangerous. For one thing the kidneys can only handle about 16 oz every half hour (double check this info - it might be even less). Also, too much water intake can lower important minerals in your body. I'm talking coma and death, so do some research before any extreme drinking dares.
Too much water too fast can indeed lead to death (or so I have read). Although they say here (https://www.webmd.com/fitness-exercise/features/water-intoxication#1) that such a case is rare, I'm wondering why anyone would want to risk it...

[Jaro]

Any chance this thread could be moved into the new education section?

[sir sam]

Any chance this thread could be moved into the new education section?

I second this.
Its in my WatchList and I always reply if a question comes up because I think this thread is a real nice “look after each other” safety thing.

[zombii]

I know this thread has been dead for a minute, but I'm gonna ask anyway.

One of my friends is mad at me and has assigned me a dare to put hotsauce in a condom and wear it while performing tasks... I know it would suck, but something about it feels inherently unsafe about it. Is there any more risk to this then other food items?

I know this was asked prior, but I don't think anyone had any answers to it