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Leopard
11-29-2010, 07:14 AM
Something I've noticed from my time on the site is that I've met quite a few girls that can be driven absolutely wild solely by saying things via text, but that most guys seem to want/need visual and/or some sort of sound to get really turned on. I'm wondering just how accurate this idea is.

So own up - is someone talking dirty in text enough to really turn you on? (and by that I mean enough so that you're desperate to touch yourself.)

softeyes
11-29-2010, 07:18 AM
All depends on being in the mood I think. o.o

Sometimes nothing you can do. Sometimes very little does a lot.

If your imagination is working at the time I'd say text would be far best, for both sexes, but that's just me?

Also, how is this a poll?

keykitty
11-29-2010, 07:20 AM
I work well with both words and A/V but mainly words...though I can't say that the lovely 4 letter word for dirty vids doesn't get me hot either :P

Leopard
11-29-2010, 07:20 AM
All depends on being in the mood I think. o.o

Sometimes nothing you can do. Sometimes very little does a lot.

If your imagination is working at the time I'd say text would be far best, for both sexes, but that's just me?

Also, how is this a poll?

Commonly, in general; don't count every occasion and mood :P

Polls are fun and you get quick summaries from them :)

Sharp Nacelle
11-29-2010, 07:21 AM
I like to think I have a healthy imagination and reading words alone can indeed do it for me. Having said that though, I don't often turn down a bit of visual stimulation...

Leopard
11-29-2010, 07:25 AM
Huh? There is a poll o.O it probably wasn't there when you first posted cos I have to put it up AFTER posting the actual thread.

kenneth.s
11-29-2010, 07:25 AM
i'd get turned on from reading text - sms, email, fiction etc .. But I can make you really turned on by just text :D

softeyes
11-29-2010, 07:26 AM
it probably wasn't there when you first posted cos i have to put it up after posting the actual thread.
^ .. .. ... .. .... .. .. . ... . ..

Leopard
11-29-2010, 07:26 AM
i'd get turned on from reading text - sms, email, fiction etc .. But I can make you really turned on by just text :D

<3

Actually, only I think 2-3 girls at most have managed to make me really turned on on a regular basis from text alone ... the rest no matter how good they were wasn't enough :(

Aivey
11-29-2010, 07:31 AM
heh. Dirty texts are just. gah. +orgasms+
xD Maybe not to that extent, but I find that texts in general are more arousing than videos... I dont know why.

kenneth.s
11-29-2010, 07:36 AM
<3

Actually, only I think 2-3 girls at most have managed to make me really turned on on a regular basis from text alone ... the rest no matter how good they were wasn't enough :(

Fufufuu~ I'd compare and make notes to find out :rolleyes:

sweetsong
11-29-2010, 07:38 AM
I think you know how I voted. :D

Some boys really suck at coming up with good things to say though. ;)

Leopard
11-29-2010, 07:44 AM
Fufufuu~ I'd compare and make notes to find out :rolleyes:

Feel free to try make me horny but you won't succeed ;)

Stellz
11-30-2010, 08:09 AM
I do love getting dirty texts/ims. They make me all...squirmy and excited. It's a big turn on if someone can do imaginative and interesting text stuff.

That being said, I also really...really enjoy having sound. There's just something lovely about hearing someone calling you fun things, rather than just reading them. Voice is actually more important than video for me...Especially if there's an accent involved. Plus it's much, much easier than typing xD

Audio and visuals are nice to have just because there's a much better connection when doing that as opposed to just typing.

BettyBoop
11-30-2010, 02:10 PM
I find "talking dirty" in reality kind of awkward, texts are better, but I like particular stories.
Then again, I may have a different idea of what dirty talk is, I tend to do that.

SlutPuppy
11-30-2010, 11:10 PM
Talking dirty out loud is yummy, but if I get a dirty text at school or something... omg x_X I go crazy. So yeah, I can get seriously turned on by text, but visual stuff is very nice too :D

softeyes
12-01-2010, 12:20 AM
It really depends on who and how I think though..
I'm picky.

If I recieved a dirty text from a total stranger I'm pretty sure it wouldn't do anything for me. >.>

marc2468
12-01-2010, 12:12 PM
Of course it is, enough to wank

CatGotYourTongue
12-01-2010, 06:09 PM
Like others have said, really:

It's a bit awkward talking dirty in real life for me, but reading it (be it in texts, emails, IM's, stories, whatever) can drive me insane if I'm in *that kinda mood* (nudge nudge wink wink knowwhatimean? :p)

Dareholic
09-24-2012, 07:50 PM
I am a guy, all most anything will and can turn me on. :eek:

Siren
06-29-2013, 05:13 AM
That being said, I also really...really enjoy having sound. There's just something lovely about hearing someone calling you fun things, rather than just reading them.

Agreed. Particularly when said someone has a very sexy voice and/or accent.

Komodo Jones
06-29-2013, 09:45 AM
As a guy, I actually find text more exciting than visual stimuli. If I want to orgasm and don't use the thoughts in my own head, I am more often to read erotica than watch porn.

Happy Me
06-29-2013, 11:45 AM
As a guy, I actually find text more exciting than visual stimuli. If I want to orgasm and don't use the thoughts in my own head, I am more often to read erotica than watch porn.

Komodo, I am a girl, but feel exactly the same way as you! :)

justJane
06-29-2013, 12:48 PM
Text and audio dirty talk both turn me on greatly - from the right person. ;) Pictures also turn me on, especially if I have a picture to reference the person saying the dirty things to me - combining those is incredible. I have never seen a 'dirty' video from someone I was interested in, so I have no idea how I would feel about that, but I don't like porn in general. It is difficult for me to say dirty things myself, except in text. :o

Sacred
06-29-2013, 02:44 PM
Talking to someone, through text or chat does it for me. The exchange of thoughts and ideas. What other people can come up with.
While the original question was solely about text, which yes that is enough for me. Talking is to.
But I don't get anything from the photo, video side. As one other poster put it. You might as well just watch porn.
The excitement, for me, is in the mental interaction. And that is expressed via communication.

**Mandi**
06-29-2013, 03:17 PM
I love reading sexy things. It can get me very wet.

I can be texting a guy and it can turn into a "well if I were there..." situation with him saying all the things he would do to me, etc. I LOVE this, it gets me so hot to just read these things.

Also, I read a lot of erotic stories because they also really get me in the mood. I have actually never in my life watched a porn video (I have looked at a few pornographic pictures or seen sex scenes in movies). I don't really feel the need when I can just read it and then imagine it in my head instead.