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Obedient_Calf
11-26-2010, 09:08 AM
26/male/slave seeks 18+/any sex/master in any location (have webcam)

Hello all & welcome to my advert, It may be a task in itself reading though but i feel any effort on my side shows my willingness & seriousness towards what Im looking for & my role.

Even if you enjoy reading it - may I still apologise in advanced for using so much of your time.


Introduction
A small handful of people on here (fellow submissive's & Masters/Mistress's) know me as Obedient_Calf (O_c), but my real name is Slave James. I'm currently twenty-six years old, but can be a very childish twenty-six year old at times, I personally would label myself as a 'humiliation' & 'sissy' slave as thats where I feel my role and outlook fits best.


History
I have been a slave on & off for over five years meeting some fantastic people along the way, currently to my sadness I'm unowned at the moment hence this advert. In the past I have served two Mistress's on long term basis, one of which required me to serve other people at her request at the time due to outside factors (her exams). Which has helped me in my role as a slave abiding to different faces and genders I feel, although I'm not a complete beginner to the area of s/M my qualities & growth have been moulded to other peoples requirements, also the fact I've been unattached for some time meaning some sort of training and settling in would still be required.
As far as getDare goes I've met and spoken to Masters/Mistress's on here but I've yet to commit to anyone, not so long ago I was took on by a user on here called Boom_boom_candy13 (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/member.php?u=7921) as she was questioning her role as a submissive and wanted to dip her toe into the pool of domineering, as much as we bounded she found this role wasn't for her (but we've remained very good friends), I'm sure if you ask her about me she'll give you a open honest review.


What I'm looking for
This is a very hard question to answer as right now I'm not entirely sure myself. In the past I've only placed adds looking for Mistress's this is because I feel being a straight male slave like myself I should predominantly only have eyes to serve the stronger sex (this is only my opinion & view, see below for my view on my role in the food chain). Although I have left this open for Masters to contact me, honestly in an ideal world I'd love my owner to be female, of any age from 18-∞, any colour, any race & from any location, as the bond between us is something thats very important to me as I need to feel the desire to serve you, I find this desire from myself hard to find in Masters as they are not in a way as comforting & as chatty & as some Mistress's (you can argue that by saying a Dom shouldn't have to be, but I feel this makes well for a long lasting s/M relationship). All I will ask from a Masters is that you must be older than me, I'm not entirely sure that I'd take to a Master being honest let alone a younger Master than me, ideally if I was to try/commit to a Master for some reason a older master around 40-60 appeals to me more for some reason.


[Males Salve] < [Female Slave] < [Master] < [Mistress]
(This is merely this slaves view on how he sees himself, no political comments to correct this please).


As far as a daily routine would go I'd like to think that as a slave I'm not that demanding, personally I'm not looking for a owner to control my life 24/7 & I'm not looking to take up your life 24/7, as I have a life to live outside my online slavery role, Ideally I'd love to have daily or frequent convocations and chats (like any friend would), but I'd fully understand that my owner could exercise their right over me at any given time, I'm not looking for tasks or punishments everyday maybe a task a week would suite me but this is flexible upon your terms while remaining realistic.

It would even be nice if I was to be owned by someone that I could even serve though this site aswel as on messengers.

Having made this section seem very very selective may I stress it's not, all this would just be my ideal owner in my ideal situation (like when does that ever happen?).


What you'd get
Simple question to ask, you'd get a slave who knows his place & knows his role in the relationship, I'm loyal & obedient when needed but can easily switch from that to a day-to-day attitude for you when not serving. I'm a slave with a digital camera, web camera, microphone, Skype, MSN, Yahoo & a blog on getDare if needed. As for what is available to me I do own a small selection of toys & have access to certain items of clothing & like any Slave whatever is to hand in the household.
**[hidden message] I have two vibrators & I'm semi broken in anally.[/hiddenmessage]**
http://i846.photobucket.com/albums/ab30/obedient_calf/sound-button-12.jpg (http://vocaroo.com/?media=vSzxb95Aqc7AzxAh8)

You'd aslo get someone who knows his limits & sticks to them, limits 'sometimes' are there to be pushed but limits are never there to be broken, But I personally know (I don't need telling) limits sometimes are bad things to possess, knowing this I do feel I'm open to new things & try harder within my limits to make up for this.

This advert may seem very very off putting to many users on here, may I just say (without saying the word desperate) I've been unattached for some time now, I cannot choose to be too picky. I'd like to think even with the seriousness of this advert I'd be an ideal candidate for a newbie Mistress, as I'm laid-back & not so demanding approach would suite someone wanting to take things at a nice steady pace.

"I'd be an ideal candidate for a newbie Mistress, as I'm laid-back & not so demanding"


What I do/don't expect
I'd like a owner who sees me firstly as a Slave but very closely followed by seeing me as a loyal friend, sadly I'm not like some slaves/subs who are merely just cam slaves. I'd ask that my owner is realistic in what they ask of me & I'd like to think they would try to protect me from serious harm. The horrid tasks or the word punishment I feel should be used in the right way & at the right time (to me a punishment is given for a reason) were I can learn form it & improve myself submissively.

As siad I'm not looking for someone 24/7, but on the opposite side of the scale I don't want someone who is online once a month either as I have submissive needs that need fulfilling, respect is always given on my behalf & I'd like to think if I'm good enough in my role for you a little respect would be shown back.

From a personality point of view with being submissive having a dominative presents about you is very appealing to me (you could say its a big kink for me), This is even more so when you can balance this with being friendly aswel. One big thing that really puts me off a person is that they are harsh, aggressive & blatantly just ot to take advantage 100% of the time, to me thats is not a Dominant that is a Dumbinant (as Anjelen (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/member.php?u=9989) would say).


Limit
- Extreme physical pain (after all I'am sissy)
- No Blood*
- No Fam & Friends*
- Nothing illegal*
- Nothing permanent* (towards myself or my belongings)
- No public*
(ones marked with a * are hard limits).

Likes
- Open honest chats
- The feeling of humiliation
- Masturbation
- Watching soft porn
- Domineering females
- Feminization
(I wont list all my likes, leaving this open is a nice convocation starer).

Must
- Respect my limits
- Respect my request for discretion
- Understand that i have offline commitments
- Understand I’m a not just a dare slave (I need to feel owned)
- 'most of all' be realistic in what you ask of me

As i do have limits this makes me imperfect in my eyes, I understand that because of this i must be open minded & willing to try anything else asked or suggested of me to make up for the limits i have this should be a basic rule for all slaves.

Others
To some people this may be a good thing to others this might not be, I'm currently from the UK (GMT), I tend to spend most of my time online around 12noon-6pm & all day Sunday, I've found this sometimes appeals to some people in Australia & America aswel as Europe so doesn't sound as bad as it looks, my last owner was from the east coast of America & it fitted quite well within her pattern (with the occasional offline task set).


Where from here?
Firstly I'm basically open to offers of ownership by anyone, the better I feel you fit the mould to my ideal/dream owner the better the chance you'd stand in getting my services. There is not much of a application process as I'm open to offers but when approaching me remember first impressions go along way, If I'm lucky enough to interest you don't feel you have to be as deep as this advert when getting in touch with me (I'm using this advert as a task to keep my currently unused submissive side occupied), please just be yourself & speak your mind.

Well i will not jump into any long term Dom/sub relationship right away but lets take the next step to see if were best suited, feel free to PM me on here & ill personally respond to each PM with open honesty & respect superiority (where deserved).

http://i846.photobucket.com/albums/ab30/obedient_calf/43534-2-1.png............http://cdn1.ioffer.com/img/item/425/954/21/g_LB_SpikeCollarBlackM.jpg
**[hidden message] the first 3 people who call me 'PIG' in there PM title gets a pic of me doing a realistic task of there choice.[/hidden message]**
[Contact me] -> [Chat some what] -> [Trial] -> [Owned] -> [Serve happy ever after]

Thank you for showing me a little time, if I’m not what you are looking for, i am sorry that i have taken up so much of your time. As stated above id love to hear from anyone I’m open about my past services & would love to chat to new people. If you have ANY question at all about me or about what i could do for you, don’t shy away from asking.

Any related comments or feedback feel free to post below :) Any interested parties please use PM on here.

Love & kind regards, Slave James.

p.s. (It'd be a nice little insight to who you are, if or when you PM me - the title of the PM would be what my new possible given slave name would be from you to me, also shows that people have read the whole advert).

p.p.s. (please don't spam my advert with objections & disagreements to my views please, I'd gladly chat with you in the chartrooms about them).

Anjelen
11-26-2010, 12:04 PM
_Very_ well written. Though i may not agree with all of it, O_C puts his points of view as points of view, and i appreciated that. He takes the time to explain his experiences and vieuwpoints, and speaks as a *person*, not as a *role* - wich puts him a little bit above the local cut, in my personal opinion.

Had i not had my hands *more* than full i might have considered contacting O_C myself, if only for the conversation ( Wich, by the way, i still might :P )- now, rests me nothing more than to give this ad a 9/10 and to say;

Well done!

Obedient_Calf
11-27-2010, 02:22 PM
Thank you for your kind words Anjelen :)

CollaredBlondie
11-29-2010, 12:32 PM
_Very_ well written. Though i may not agree with all of it, O_C puts his points of view as points of view, and i appreciated that. He takes the time to explain his experiences and vieuwpoints, and speaks as a *person*, not as a *role* - wich puts him a little bit above the local cut, in my personal opinion. Well done!

This.

EXCELLENT ad my dear, good luck, you deserve a decent Owner! <3

Obedient_Calf
12-02-2010, 10:39 AM
EXCELLENT ad my dear, good luck, you deserve a decent Owner! <3

Thank you ever so much Collared, theres such competition from other fellow respected and not so respected male salves I feel finding a owner on its own is impossible - never mind a decent one..

But hey *OPTIMISTIC UNOWNED SLAVE* here people.

[disclaimer, optimism may not last]

Obedient_Calf
12-05-2010, 05:57 AM
*ADD*
**[hidden message] No one has yet found my other hidden messages [/hidden message]
I've received contact from some people, all male Maters. Some I've yet to chat to fully but from the contact I have had on Yahoo in the past couple of days regarding male Masters, they don't seem to have taken the contents of my advert on board. It is also In a way pushing me away from the idea of a male Master as they don't seem to be seeing my needs though there pushy attitudes.

I dont require a owner for 24/7 constant control.

Please don't start you convocations with "so what you looking for?"
(Id like to think my advert explains that already)

Also, my advert is their in black and white (with some shades of grey), use it to your advantage by trying to appeal to my needs. If you feel you tick a few of my boxes then please do tell. As the last reply I had shows how not to grab my attention by saying "Im strict, harsh and will abuse you", I don't wish to suffer any of these, unless I truly deserve it for something I have done/not done.

Having not got the ideal responses as yet, may I just remind people who might no see themselves as completely submissive minded or switch, that I will conceder serving someone (i.e a female slave) who is above me IMO, even if they are subject to someone else's ownership.
Also someone mentioned they'd love to take me on if they didn't already have a slave, I don't mind being one of many slaves providing my owner feels they can juggles numbers.

Lastly thank you for your kind words via PM Miss Mickii, your spot on with your comment although I'm trying to avoid the word 'desperation' at the moment lol.

Obedient_Calf
12-12-2010, 06:27 AM
*ADD*

May I add aswel as being flexible over Yahoo & MSN with a webcam I now also have Skype.

Im alittle shy on Skype at the moment. :o

Yahoo: Littlest_Calf
MSN: Little_Calf @hotmail .co .uk
Skype Littlest_Calf

Obedient_Calf
12-19-2010, 04:00 AM
*ADD*

Only came across one and a half interested parties who were keen to take me on, but the huge difference in time zones is scuppering anything ever happening.

Seriously, I cannot sell myself any better than I have above. I'm not demanding and I'm loyal, the lack of interest is making me question my stay in this submissive role, as any submissive needs I have are not getting fulfilled by pursuing this.
**[hidden message] Im really sad that I cannot serve Da_Beauty due to stupid time zones, I was soooo struck completely submissive every time I seen I had a PM from her [/hidden message]**
:(

Obedient_Calf
12-19-2010, 08:58 AM
*ADD*

Is this the best getDare has? Surly not.

_________________________________________

Robert says: are you obiedent calf? on getdare?
James says: Yes.
Robert says: ah then i added u today
James says: I know.
Robert says: are you the one with that huge page of info?
James says: Your second impression ins't coming of any better than your first Sir.
Robert says: no i kknow who u are now got the page
Robert says: so u wana master
James says: Mistress yes.. Master im unsure off.
Robert says: ook
Robert says: ah just read it again
Robert says: your looking for someone between 40-60 yes
Robert says: ?
James says: Did you read the word 'ideally'?
Robert says: well that could mean that , that id what your would prefer not what you would want
James says: Thats hard to interpret that when the advert title mentions 'any sex', but obviously one sex has to wow me more.
Robert says: i don't think this is going to work then
James says: Clearly not as you don't posses the domineering presence*
Robert says: delete me please
James says: Ill think about it.
Robert says: why?
James says: I like visual reminders.
Robert says: of what?
James says: Of potential better times.
Robert says: well if you don't want to speak to me then delete me and ill just block you and show myself as offline
James says: Fingers crossed that you do that Sir.. But you keep replying.
Robert is now offline.
James says: Basic rule of any s/M relationship NEVER let the slave have the last word.
_________________________________________

**[hidden message] Id gladly serve any female slave as they are still better than me. [/hidden message]**

Obedient_Calf
12-31-2010, 12:03 PM
Heres hoping that my search in 2011 is more successful.

http://www.dealspwn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/HappyNewYear.jpg

..to any potential future owners out there.


I've been thinking, there was/is an advert from a Mistress on here called JaneLos where her advert was a series of tasks an applicant had to pass.

I'm possibly thinking of doing the opposite to keep my submissive side active while I'm un-onwed, so I'm playing with the idea of completing tasks via/though my advert where people interested in myself can try me out with there favourite tasks, ideas or punishments.

Or even requests for pictures (site safe of course, don't want to be in trouble), showing you me in my role as the slave I am.

Any feedback or interest is much welcomed. Happy new year everyone.

Star Shadows
12-31-2010, 12:59 PM
OH MY F**KING GOD!
This is THE best add I have EVER seen on gD. I wish you the very best of luck in your searching in the new year. Hopefully it brings a new tide of hopefuls

unforsaken_deviant
12-31-2010, 03:08 PM
Very impressive ad. I don't just say that to anyone. Keep up the good work my friend! I haven't seen such a well written ad in a long time, you deserve to find a Dom that is worthy to serve. They are out there, don't give up.

Obedient_Calf
01-12-2011, 10:12 AM
I wish you the very best of luck in your searching in the new year. Hopefully it brings a new tide of hopefuls

Thanks Star Shadow I'm staring to realise now to get the right Mistress - I will have to depend on luck, to even find a Master that can hold my interest conversation wise would require even more luck.

You deserve to find a Dom that is worthy to serve. They are out there, don't give up.

Thanking you Unforsaken words like this don't go a-miss, several times lately I have though about giving up my role, as sadly now its come down to fulfilling my own needs myself lately. Which isn't as satisfying but stops the urges temporally.
**[hidden message] One of these hidden messages has already been found, but it was by a guy pretending to be a girl.. [/hidden message]**
Still seeking.. ATM.

Loman
01-12-2011, 10:36 AM
Hey O_C Very well written ad. I'm impressed. I hope you find what you are looking for.

Good luck :)

Ian

ps - small suggestion on a technical note - Consider changing your signature email addresses to Little_Calf [at] hotmail [dot] co [dot] uk that will keep them hidden from the spiders crawling the web and keep your addy free from the search engines == less spam ;)

Obedient_Calf
01-24-2011, 10:09 AM
Hey O_C Very well written ad. I'm impressed. I hope you find what you are looking for.

Good luck :)

Ian

ps - small suggestion on a technical note - Consider changing your signature email addresses to Little_Calf [at] hotmail [dot] co [dot] uk that will keep them hidden from the spiders crawling the web and keep your addy free from the search engines == less spam ;)

Thanks Loman :D

Done[space]what[space]you[space]said[full-stop]

But the spam bot's have been keeping me company while I'm unattached..

Obedient_Calf
02-27-2011, 04:56 AM
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http://i846.photobucket.com/albums/ab30/obedient_calf/sound-button-12.jpg
(http://vocaroo.com/?media=vIqzJLfGW0RYD2bmK)
[hidden message] OMG I'm so submissive right now, the lack of use is pushing me to lengths of where I'm nearly considering serving strangers as 'one session stands' to just pass the urge, You might stand a chance if you are reading this. ooops why am I even telling people this? [/hidden message]

LadyCeleste
02-28-2011, 02:47 AM
I must say O_c, this is very well written and well done. I hope you find exactly what it is that you are looking for. This is a very well written, very well thought out ad, with lots of different information.

You seem like a very well rounded individual with several qualities that are admirable. I wish you the best of luck in your search and if you ever need a chat, you can always message me on MSN.

Obedient_Calf
04-03-2011, 03:46 AM
Your comment has been received whole heartedly Lady Celeste, thank you for your kind words.
[hidden message] While on a trial recently I was made to self-facial. [/hidden message]
Advert still active.

yours_slave
05-17-2011, 05:58 AM
My ad is also under the top ads section and currently It's on the very top under top advertisments section. But I think you deserve it, so I 'bounce' this thread so it will come to the top! I agree with StarShadows. This is fucking awesome and this is one of the best ads I have ever seen so far. You deserve a very good mistress and you desrve the top. Not my ad. So I BOUNCE THIS! If there are any mistresses looking for a slave boy, please do contact this one, he is simply awesome! I know your ad will come to the top and my ad will go to the 2nd. But I really cannot control myself to NOT to write a reply to this ad dude. Your ad has such excellency. Wish you all the very best!

Obedient_Calf
06-21-2011, 04:03 AM
My ad is also under the top ads section and currently It's on the very top under top advertisments section. But I think you deserve it, so I 'bounce' this thread so it will come to the top! I agree with StarShadows. This is fucking awesome and this is one of the best ads I have ever seen so far. You deserve a very good mistress and you desrve the top. Not my ad. So I BOUNCE THIS! If there are any mistresses looking for a slave boy, please do contact this one, he is simply awesome! I know your ad will come to the top and my ad will go to the 2nd. But I really cannot control myself to NOT to write a reply to this ad dude. Your ad has such excellency. Wish you all the very best!

Well done for also making the top section my friend, but I feel although it gives the author of the advert some credit & recognition - on the other hand I think it may put some people off, as they may feel adverts in here may seem to serious/hardcore or even over exposed making them read it, but never follow it up.

In an ideal world YS everyone should find their perfect partner as my idea of a 'top owner' will certainly differ from everyone else's.

I think the thing we sometimes need to push home on here, is that Female Dom's are a rare thing to behold, given this they should be allowed to harbour more that one submissive, if a Female Dom was to expand their stable to more servants - submissive's as a whole would be better off.

+ I'd have the chance to make fellow submissive friends at the same time while having a shared thing in common.

Good luck to you also YS, keep the faith.

Obedient_Calf
06-21-2011, 04:16 PM
This advert is no longer live as Calf has agreed to serve the mighty & kooky
Miss Sarah Michelle (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/member.php?u=31383) she is what he has been looking for & wanted, Calf is going to try his damnedest to make it work.

Thank you for your interest & kind words people

yours_slave
06-22-2011, 01:16 AM
La la la la la! Excellent! Congratulations calf!

MountainMan1
06-23-2011, 10:34 PM
Months of searching has finnaly paid off! Best of luck with your new mistress!

MrVexV
06-29-2011, 05:07 AM
Oh man.... one of the best things that I have seen on this site!
Great ad, and I hope that you have got the reward for it.
P.S. I'm going to steal your format for mine ;)

*ADD*

Is this the best getDare has? Surly not.

_________________________________________

Robert says: are you obiedent calf? on getdare?
James says: Yes.
Robert says: ah then i added u today
James says: I know.
Robert says: are you the one with that huge page of info?
James says: Your second impression ins't coming of any better than your first Sir.
Robert says: no i kknow who u are now got the page
Robert says: so u wana master
James says: Mistress yes.. Master im unsure off.
Robert says: ook
Robert says: ah just read it again
Robert says: your looking for someone between 40-60 yes
Robert says: ?
James says: Did you read the word 'ideally'?
Robert says: well that could mean that , that id what your would prefer not what you would want
James says: Thats hard to interpret that when the advert title mentions 'any sex', but obviously one sex has to wow me more.
Robert says: i don't think this is going to work then
James says: Clearly not as you don't posses the domineering presence*
Robert says: delete me please
James says: Ill think about it.
Robert says: why?
James says: I like visual reminders.
Robert says: of what?
James says: Of potential better times.
Robert says: well if you don't want to speak to me then delete me and ill just block you and show myself as offline
James says: Fingers crossed that you do that Sir.. But you keep replying.
Robert is now offline.
James says: Basic rule of any s/M relationship NEVER let the slave have the last word.
_________________________________________

**[hidden message] Id gladly serve any female slave as they are still better than me. [/hidden message]**