Obedient_Calf
11-26-2010, 09:08 AM
26/male/slave seeks 18+/any sex/master in any location (have webcam)
Hello all & welcome to my advert, It may be a task in itself reading though but i feel any effort on my side shows my willingness & seriousness towards what Im looking for & my role.
Even if you enjoy reading it - may I still apologise in advanced for using so much of your time.
Introduction
A small handful of people on here (fellow submissive's & Masters/Mistress's) know me as Obedient_Calf (O_c), but my real name is Slave James. I'm currently twenty-six years old, but can be a very childish twenty-six year old at times, I personally would label myself as a 'humiliation' & 'sissy' slave as thats where I feel my role and outlook fits best.
History
I have been a slave on & off for over five years meeting some fantastic people along the way, currently to my sadness I'm unowned at the moment hence this advert. In the past I have served two Mistress's on long term basis, one of which required me to serve other people at her request at the time due to outside factors (her exams). Which has helped me in my role as a slave abiding to different faces and genders I feel, although I'm not a complete beginner to the area of s/M my qualities & growth have been moulded to other peoples requirements, also the fact I've been unattached for some time meaning some sort of training and settling in would still be required.
As far as getDare goes I've met and spoken to Masters/Mistress's on here but I've yet to commit to anyone, not so long ago I was took on by a user on here called Boom_boom_candy13 (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/member.php?u=7921) as she was questioning her role as a submissive and wanted to dip her toe into the pool of domineering, as much as we bounded she found this role wasn't for her (but we've remained very good friends), I'm sure if you ask her about me she'll give you a open honest review.
What I'm looking for
This is a very hard question to answer as right now I'm not entirely sure myself. In the past I've only placed adds looking for Mistress's this is because I feel being a straight male slave like myself I should predominantly only have eyes to serve the stronger sex (this is only my opinion & view, see below for my view on my role in the food chain). Although I have left this open for Masters to contact me, honestly in an ideal world I'd love my owner to be female, of any age from 18-∞, any colour, any race & from any location, as the bond between us is something thats very important to me as I need to feel the desire to serve you, I find this desire from myself hard to find in Masters as they are not in a way as comforting & as chatty & as some Mistress's (you can argue that by saying a Dom shouldn't have to be, but I feel this makes well for a long lasting s/M relationship). All I will ask from a Masters is that you must be older than me, I'm not entirely sure that I'd take to a Master being honest let alone a younger Master than me, ideally if I was to try/commit to a Master for some reason a older master around 40-60 appeals to me more for some reason.
[Males Salve] < [Female Slave] < [Master] < [Mistress]
(This is merely this slaves view on how he sees himself, no political comments to correct this please).
As far as a daily routine would go I'd like to think that as a slave I'm not that demanding, personally I'm not looking for a owner to control my life 24/7 & I'm not looking to take up your life 24/7, as I have a life to live outside my online slavery role, Ideally I'd love to have daily or frequent convocations and chats (like any friend would), but I'd fully understand that my owner could exercise their right over me at any given time, I'm not looking for tasks or punishments everyday maybe a task a week would suite me but this is flexible upon your terms while remaining realistic.
It would even be nice if I was to be owned by someone that I could even serve though this site aswel as on messengers.
Having made this section seem very very selective may I stress it's not, all this would just be my ideal owner in my ideal situation (like when does that ever happen?).
What you'd get
Simple question to ask, you'd get a slave who knows his place & knows his role in the relationship, I'm loyal & obedient when needed but can easily switch from that to a day-to-day attitude for you when not serving. I'm a slave with a digital camera, web camera, microphone, Skype, MSN, Yahoo & a blog on getDare if needed. As for what is available to me I do own a small selection of toys & have access to certain items of clothing & like any Slave whatever is to hand in the household.
**[hidden message] I have two vibrators & I'm semi broken in anally.[/hiddenmessage]**
http://i846.photobucket.com/albums/ab30/obedient_calf/sound-button-12.jpg (http://vocaroo.com/?media=vSzxb95Aqc7AzxAh8)
You'd aslo get someone who knows his limits & sticks to them, limits 'sometimes' are there to be pushed but limits are never there to be broken, But I personally know (I don't need telling) limits sometimes are bad things to possess, knowing this I do feel I'm open to new things & try harder within my limits to make up for this.
This advert may seem very very off putting to many users on here, may I just say (without saying the word desperate) I've been unattached for some time now, I cannot choose to be too picky. I'd like to think even with the seriousness of this advert I'd be an ideal candidate for a newbie Mistress, as I'm laid-back & not so demanding approach would suite someone wanting to take things at a nice steady pace.
"I'd be an ideal candidate for a newbie Mistress, as I'm laid-back & not so demanding"
What I do/don't expect
I'd like a owner who sees me firstly as a Slave but very closely followed by seeing me as a loyal friend, sadly I'm not like some slaves/subs who are merely just cam slaves. I'd ask that my owner is realistic in what they ask of me & I'd like to think they would try to protect me from serious harm. The horrid tasks or the word punishment I feel should be used in the right way & at the right time (to me a punishment is given for a reason) were I can learn form it & improve myself submissively.
As siad I'm not looking for someone 24/7, but on the opposite side of the scale I don't want someone who is online once a month either as I have submissive needs that need fulfilling, respect is always given on my behalf & I'd like to think if I'm good enough in my role for you a little respect would be shown back.
From a personality point of view with being submissive having a dominative presents about you is very appealing to me (you could say its a big kink for me), This is even more so when you can balance this with being friendly aswel. One big thing that really puts me off a person is that they are harsh, aggressive & blatantly just ot to take advantage 100% of the time, to me thats is not a Dominant that is a Dumbinant (as Anjelen (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/member.php?u=9989) would say).
Limit
- Extreme physical pain (after all I'am sissy)
- No Blood*
- No Fam & Friends*
- Nothing illegal*
- Nothing permanent* (towards myself or my belongings)
- No public*
(ones marked with a * are hard limits).
Likes
- Open honest chats
- The feeling of humiliation
- Masturbation
- Watching soft porn
- Domineering females
- Feminization
(I wont list all my likes, leaving this open is a nice convocation starer).
Must
- Respect my limits
- Respect my request for discretion
- Understand that i have offline commitments
- Understand I’m a not just a dare slave (I need to feel owned)
- 'most of all' be realistic in what you ask of me
As i do have limits this makes me imperfect in my eyes, I understand that because of this i must be open minded & willing to try anything else asked or suggested of me to make up for the limits i have this should be a basic rule for all slaves.
Others
To some people this may be a good thing to others this might not be, I'm currently from the UK (GMT), I tend to spend most of my time online around 12noon-6pm & all day Sunday, I've found this sometimes appeals to some people in Australia & America aswel as Europe so doesn't sound as bad as it looks, my last owner was from the east coast of America & it fitted quite well within her pattern (with the occasional offline task set).
Where from here?
Firstly I'm basically open to offers of ownership by anyone, the better I feel you fit the mould to my ideal/dream owner the better the chance you'd stand in getting my services. There is not much of a application process as I'm open to offers but when approaching me remember first impressions go along way, If I'm lucky enough to interest you don't feel you have to be as deep as this advert when getting in touch with me (I'm using this advert as a task to keep my currently unused submissive side occupied), please just be yourself & speak your mind.
Well i will not jump into any long term Dom/sub relationship right away but lets take the next step to see if were best suited, feel free to PM me on here & ill personally respond to each PM with open honesty & respect superiority (where deserved).
http://i846.photobucket.com/albums/ab30/obedient_calf/43534-2-1.png............http://cdn1.ioffer.com/img/item/425/954/21/g_LB_SpikeCollarBlackM.jpg
**[hidden message] the first 3 people who call me 'PIG' in there PM title gets a pic of me doing a realistic task of there choice.[/hidden message]**
[Contact me] -> [Chat some what] -> [Trial] -> [Owned] -> [Serve happy ever after]
Thank you for showing me a little time, if I’m not what you are looking for, i am sorry that i have taken up so much of your time. As stated above id love to hear from anyone I’m open about my past services & would love to chat to new people. If you have ANY question at all about me or about what i could do for you, don’t shy away from asking.
Any related comments or feedback feel free to post below :) Any interested parties please use PM on here.
Love & kind regards, Slave James.
p.s. (It'd be a nice little insight to who you are, if or when you PM me - the title of the PM would be what my new possible given slave name would be from you to me, also shows that people have read the whole advert).
p.p.s. (please don't spam my advert with objections & disagreements to my views please, I'd gladly chat with you in the chartrooms about them).
Hello all & welcome to my advert, It may be a task in itself reading though but i feel any effort on my side shows my willingness & seriousness towards what Im looking for & my role.
Even if you enjoy reading it - may I still apologise in advanced for using so much of your time.
Introduction
A small handful of people on here (fellow submissive's & Masters/Mistress's) know me as Obedient_Calf (O_c), but my real name is Slave James. I'm currently twenty-six years old, but can be a very childish twenty-six year old at times, I personally would label myself as a 'humiliation' & 'sissy' slave as thats where I feel my role and outlook fits best.
History
I have been a slave on & off for over five years meeting some fantastic people along the way, currently to my sadness I'm unowned at the moment hence this advert. In the past I have served two Mistress's on long term basis, one of which required me to serve other people at her request at the time due to outside factors (her exams). Which has helped me in my role as a slave abiding to different faces and genders I feel, although I'm not a complete beginner to the area of s/M my qualities & growth have been moulded to other peoples requirements, also the fact I've been unattached for some time meaning some sort of training and settling in would still be required.
As far as getDare goes I've met and spoken to Masters/Mistress's on here but I've yet to commit to anyone, not so long ago I was took on by a user on here called Boom_boom_candy13 (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/member.php?u=7921) as she was questioning her role as a submissive and wanted to dip her toe into the pool of domineering, as much as we bounded she found this role wasn't for her (but we've remained very good friends), I'm sure if you ask her about me she'll give you a open honest review.
What I'm looking for
This is a very hard question to answer as right now I'm not entirely sure myself. In the past I've only placed adds looking for Mistress's this is because I feel being a straight male slave like myself I should predominantly only have eyes to serve the stronger sex (this is only my opinion & view, see below for my view on my role in the food chain). Although I have left this open for Masters to contact me, honestly in an ideal world I'd love my owner to be female, of any age from 18-∞, any colour, any race & from any location, as the bond between us is something thats very important to me as I need to feel the desire to serve you, I find this desire from myself hard to find in Masters as they are not in a way as comforting & as chatty & as some Mistress's (you can argue that by saying a Dom shouldn't have to be, but I feel this makes well for a long lasting s/M relationship). All I will ask from a Masters is that you must be older than me, I'm not entirely sure that I'd take to a Master being honest let alone a younger Master than me, ideally if I was to try/commit to a Master for some reason a older master around 40-60 appeals to me more for some reason.
[Males Salve] < [Female Slave] < [Master] < [Mistress]
(This is merely this slaves view on how he sees himself, no political comments to correct this please).
As far as a daily routine would go I'd like to think that as a slave I'm not that demanding, personally I'm not looking for a owner to control my life 24/7 & I'm not looking to take up your life 24/7, as I have a life to live outside my online slavery role, Ideally I'd love to have daily or frequent convocations and chats (like any friend would), but I'd fully understand that my owner could exercise their right over me at any given time, I'm not looking for tasks or punishments everyday maybe a task a week would suite me but this is flexible upon your terms while remaining realistic.
It would even be nice if I was to be owned by someone that I could even serve though this site aswel as on messengers.
Having made this section seem very very selective may I stress it's not, all this would just be my ideal owner in my ideal situation (like when does that ever happen?).
What you'd get
Simple question to ask, you'd get a slave who knows his place & knows his role in the relationship, I'm loyal & obedient when needed but can easily switch from that to a day-to-day attitude for you when not serving. I'm a slave with a digital camera, web camera, microphone, Skype, MSN, Yahoo & a blog on getDare if needed. As for what is available to me I do own a small selection of toys & have access to certain items of clothing & like any Slave whatever is to hand in the household.
**[hidden message] I have two vibrators & I'm semi broken in anally.[/hiddenmessage]**
http://i846.photobucket.com/albums/ab30/obedient_calf/sound-button-12.jpg (http://vocaroo.com/?media=vSzxb95Aqc7AzxAh8)
You'd aslo get someone who knows his limits & sticks to them, limits 'sometimes' are there to be pushed but limits are never there to be broken, But I personally know (I don't need telling) limits sometimes are bad things to possess, knowing this I do feel I'm open to new things & try harder within my limits to make up for this.
This advert may seem very very off putting to many users on here, may I just say (without saying the word desperate) I've been unattached for some time now, I cannot choose to be too picky. I'd like to think even with the seriousness of this advert I'd be an ideal candidate for a newbie Mistress, as I'm laid-back & not so demanding approach would suite someone wanting to take things at a nice steady pace.
"I'd be an ideal candidate for a newbie Mistress, as I'm laid-back & not so demanding"
What I do/don't expect
I'd like a owner who sees me firstly as a Slave but very closely followed by seeing me as a loyal friend, sadly I'm not like some slaves/subs who are merely just cam slaves. I'd ask that my owner is realistic in what they ask of me & I'd like to think they would try to protect me from serious harm. The horrid tasks or the word punishment I feel should be used in the right way & at the right time (to me a punishment is given for a reason) were I can learn form it & improve myself submissively.
As siad I'm not looking for someone 24/7, but on the opposite side of the scale I don't want someone who is online once a month either as I have submissive needs that need fulfilling, respect is always given on my behalf & I'd like to think if I'm good enough in my role for you a little respect would be shown back.
From a personality point of view with being submissive having a dominative presents about you is very appealing to me (you could say its a big kink for me), This is even more so when you can balance this with being friendly aswel. One big thing that really puts me off a person is that they are harsh, aggressive & blatantly just ot to take advantage 100% of the time, to me thats is not a Dominant that is a Dumbinant (as Anjelen (http://www.getdare.com/bbs/member.php?u=9989) would say).
Limit
- Extreme physical pain (after all I'am sissy)
- No Blood*
- No Fam & Friends*
- Nothing illegal*
- Nothing permanent* (towards myself or my belongings)
- No public*
(ones marked with a * are hard limits).
Likes
- Open honest chats
- The feeling of humiliation
- Masturbation
- Watching soft porn
- Domineering females
- Feminization
(I wont list all my likes, leaving this open is a nice convocation starer).
Must
- Respect my limits
- Respect my request for discretion
- Understand that i have offline commitments
- Understand I’m a not just a dare slave (I need to feel owned)
- 'most of all' be realistic in what you ask of me
As i do have limits this makes me imperfect in my eyes, I understand that because of this i must be open minded & willing to try anything else asked or suggested of me to make up for the limits i have this should be a basic rule for all slaves.
Others
To some people this may be a good thing to others this might not be, I'm currently from the UK (GMT), I tend to spend most of my time online around 12noon-6pm & all day Sunday, I've found this sometimes appeals to some people in Australia & America aswel as Europe so doesn't sound as bad as it looks, my last owner was from the east coast of America & it fitted quite well within her pattern (with the occasional offline task set).
Where from here?
Firstly I'm basically open to offers of ownership by anyone, the better I feel you fit the mould to my ideal/dream owner the better the chance you'd stand in getting my services. There is not much of a application process as I'm open to offers but when approaching me remember first impressions go along way, If I'm lucky enough to interest you don't feel you have to be as deep as this advert when getting in touch with me (I'm using this advert as a task to keep my currently unused submissive side occupied), please just be yourself & speak your mind.
Well i will not jump into any long term Dom/sub relationship right away but lets take the next step to see if were best suited, feel free to PM me on here & ill personally respond to each PM with open honesty & respect superiority (where deserved).
http://i846.photobucket.com/albums/ab30/obedient_calf/43534-2-1.png............http://cdn1.ioffer.com/img/item/425/954/21/g_LB_SpikeCollarBlackM.jpg
**[hidden message] the first 3 people who call me 'PIG' in there PM title gets a pic of me doing a realistic task of there choice.[/hidden message]**
[Contact me] -> [Chat some what] -> [Trial] -> [Owned] -> [Serve happy ever after]
Thank you for showing me a little time, if I’m not what you are looking for, i am sorry that i have taken up so much of your time. As stated above id love to hear from anyone I’m open about my past services & would love to chat to new people. If you have ANY question at all about me or about what i could do for you, don’t shy away from asking.
Any related comments or feedback feel free to post below :) Any interested parties please use PM on here.
Love & kind regards, Slave James.
p.s. (It'd be a nice little insight to who you are, if or when you PM me - the title of the PM would be what my new possible given slave name would be from you to me, also shows that people have read the whole advert).
p.p.s. (please don't spam my advert with objections & disagreements to my views please, I'd gladly chat with you in the chartrooms about them).