Res Grata
10-18-2010, 07:11 AM
Here's a rather simple set of rules for all those of you who are not (or not yet) interested in "long term" orgasm denial/control, but still enjoy the feeling of being controlled and the possibility of being denied for a day or two. If you like the thought of not having full control over your day-to-day masturbation activities without having to do without an orgasm for longer than a day or two, try this :)
Especially suitable for beginners and those who just want to give orgasm control a try without knowing if it's something they might enjoy. There's no risk of facing a term of denial you can't or don't want to handle - less frustration, less disappointing yourself, more fun! And it can easily be combined with other dares or rules. So here we go:
Around the clock!
The rules are simple: Every day you have a certain "window of opportunity" to take care of your personal needs. The first window could range from 10 pm to 10 am on the next day - during this time you can masturbate and cum as much as you want to. Plenty of time, right? Right. But there's a catch: Every day your window moves "around the clock" (hence the name). So on the second day, your window would range from 11 pm to 11 am. On the third day from midnight to noon, on the fourth day from 1 am in the morning to 1 pm in the afternoon and so on.
During those windows you can enjoy yourself to the fullest - but outside of them, you have to stay chaste, no matter what. That means: no orgasms (of course), no edging, actually no playing with yourself or any masturbation at all plus not watching any visual pornography - no pictures, no videos and if you want to make it extra hard (no pun intended): no visual treats at all - hot guy/gal on the streets? Too bad, don't look! Advertisements with half-naked people? Look away! Tame sex scenes on tv that don't show much anyway? Don't you dare! Change the channel!
The goal is to stick to those rules until you've completed a full circle. If you started with "11 pm to 11 am" and you window moves one hour a day, you have to go 24 days until your back at "11 pm to 11 am" again.
Of course, you can always vary the rules to fit your likes, but you have to decide on a set of rules before you start and have to stick to them - no more changes after you've started!
To reduce the total amount of days you have to go through to finish this dare, you can make your window move faster: if it moves 2 hours a day, you'll only need 12 days to go all the way "around the clock". If it moves 3 hours, 8 days and if it moves 4 hours, you can be done in just 6 days.
If you think 12 hours a day is too generous for yourself and you'd rather feel a bit more denial, more control and more sexual desperation, you can make your windows smaller. How does 6 hours a day sound? Gets tricky if your window happens to fall into your work/school time (which it will, eventually). Or how about just 3 hours? Will you be horny enough to stay up half of the night to rub one out during your 2 am to 5 am window? And now imagine if you only had one hour a day to enjoy yourself... Will you try to sneak away from your day-to-day-activities to satisfy your desires before your time runs out again? Well, you get the idea. But trust me, clocks will turn into really pesky little devils if you choose a small window for yourself.
For starters, I'd recommend a 6-hours-window, moving 3 hours each day - that should make for interesting 8 days with lots of pleasure and lots of "damn, I wish I could!". And maybe it'll also help you to find out if orgasm control is something you enjoy and want more of :)
It's suitable for males and females, but after reading the rules you should already know that... anyway, don't forget to let us know when you give this a try - and also let us know how you're doing, how you like it and if you failed ;) There are no punishments (other than having to admit that you have little to no self control), but it would still be interesting to see how you guys (and gals) are doing.
Especially suitable for beginners and those who just want to give orgasm control a try without knowing if it's something they might enjoy. There's no risk of facing a term of denial you can't or don't want to handle - less frustration, less disappointing yourself, more fun! And it can easily be combined with other dares or rules. So here we go:
Around the clock!
The rules are simple: Every day you have a certain "window of opportunity" to take care of your personal needs. The first window could range from 10 pm to 10 am on the next day - during this time you can masturbate and cum as much as you want to. Plenty of time, right? Right. But there's a catch: Every day your window moves "around the clock" (hence the name). So on the second day, your window would range from 11 pm to 11 am. On the third day from midnight to noon, on the fourth day from 1 am in the morning to 1 pm in the afternoon and so on.
During those windows you can enjoy yourself to the fullest - but outside of them, you have to stay chaste, no matter what. That means: no orgasms (of course), no edging, actually no playing with yourself or any masturbation at all plus not watching any visual pornography - no pictures, no videos and if you want to make it extra hard (no pun intended): no visual treats at all - hot guy/gal on the streets? Too bad, don't look! Advertisements with half-naked people? Look away! Tame sex scenes on tv that don't show much anyway? Don't you dare! Change the channel!
The goal is to stick to those rules until you've completed a full circle. If you started with "11 pm to 11 am" and you window moves one hour a day, you have to go 24 days until your back at "11 pm to 11 am" again.
Of course, you can always vary the rules to fit your likes, but you have to decide on a set of rules before you start and have to stick to them - no more changes after you've started!
To reduce the total amount of days you have to go through to finish this dare, you can make your window move faster: if it moves 2 hours a day, you'll only need 12 days to go all the way "around the clock". If it moves 3 hours, 8 days and if it moves 4 hours, you can be done in just 6 days.
If you think 12 hours a day is too generous for yourself and you'd rather feel a bit more denial, more control and more sexual desperation, you can make your windows smaller. How does 6 hours a day sound? Gets tricky if your window happens to fall into your work/school time (which it will, eventually). Or how about just 3 hours? Will you be horny enough to stay up half of the night to rub one out during your 2 am to 5 am window? And now imagine if you only had one hour a day to enjoy yourself... Will you try to sneak away from your day-to-day-activities to satisfy your desires before your time runs out again? Well, you get the idea. But trust me, clocks will turn into really pesky little devils if you choose a small window for yourself.
For starters, I'd recommend a 6-hours-window, moving 3 hours each day - that should make for interesting 8 days with lots of pleasure and lots of "damn, I wish I could!". And maybe it'll also help you to find out if orgasm control is something you enjoy and want more of :)
It's suitable for males and females, but after reading the rules you should already know that... anyway, don't forget to let us know when you give this a try - and also let us know how you're doing, how you like it and if you failed ;) There are no punishments (other than having to admit that you have little to no self control), but it would still be interesting to see how you guys (and gals) are doing.