Master's Limits

[Merlin]

I was writing about another thing but i couldn't find the right words there so i deleted it, but i want to take an idea of me from there.

Slaves are always talking about there limits. But i sometimes miss the limits of "Masters". So my question to all Masters (!) is "What are your limits?" (Things you would never order someone to do even if the person wants to do it)

To answer my own question:

- Things that will lead to wounds (Example: cutting, putting needles through skin, "extreme" spanking...)
- Things that involve shit
- Things the other one "really" doesn't want to do (For me it is important that the one i dominate is doing things she "likes" even if she wouldn't do them without me doing her to do. Sometimes even the Sub will cross limits and regret it after that. If something like that would happen i would see it as my fault...)

[roxie314]

i definitly wouldn't want to do that either, no de ninguna manera, but seeing as i like to be the sub...this isn't really relvant to me

BUT GOOD POST ALL THE SAME!~

[Looking4somename]

That's an interesting question.
Let's see:

1. Nothing that might be dangerous and might cause any severe or permanant damage.

2. Nothing that crosses too bluntly the sub's limits. Pushing the limits a little further is nice and well (as long as the sub's ok with it) - but dismissing them is not.

3. Usually I don't tell anyone to do anything that envolves poop. Urine is a possibility if the sub's into it. poop's the limit.

4. Telling the sub to do something that will interfere with important aspects of his life (might make her fail a test, get thorwn out of school and such) or something that will override a dare she needs to do (that is, as long as she has the premission to recieve said dare, and as long as said dare won't interfere with my orders.)

5. Nothing that can get the sub into problems with the police or anything, and nothing that might put her in a position she endangers herself or others.

6. Nothing that might seriously disturb another (running naked near chidren, pissing on random ppl and stuff like this.)

[SubMissChievous]

This is a very interesting question & I hope to read what Masters will say on this. I have noticed recently and increasing amount of Master seek Slave ads that says "Must have no limits" & always thought: Everyone has limits, not just slaves. Very relevant question here!

[MasterPain]

first and foremost I am straight, 100%, so a limit I have is that I only accept female slaves. I am not homophobic but I just don't feel right talking to guys sexually.

I'm not into illegal taboos such as incest, child porn, snuff, amputations and stuff like that. Age of consent where I live is 14 so I do have a greater window in age range, but generally I keep activities to the 18+ crowd.

i tend to not like Role Play during sexual activities, no you are not a anime-schoolgirl, sister, maid, nun, etc. i may have you dress like one but i will not be your teacher, brother(dad), priest, arresting officer. I will be Master, you will be slave. Clothing and props is only a whim of your Master.

I personally am not into anything larger the a lubricated finger going near my ass, and will not appreciate anything going there unannounced.

Cutting or Bloodletting, this one is a softer limit, i will do it and i know how, i am OK around blood from certain areas and even like the taste of blood, period blood is different and nasty, and i will not cut someones neck or wrist to do it, but her tits, ass or any meaty part of her body and shallow cuts using a pin or a good scalpel would be acceptable.

I do have a higher pain tolerance so I do like scratching, and biting of certain areas of my body but there are areas of my body I don't really like touched at all, nothing around my neck especially.

I will not do scat at all! EW! diaper play, male to female scat, shit eating, female to male scat. ew, ew, ew!

no one will ever pee on me or in my mouth! but I have double standard here because I will preform watersports on a submissive! inside her pussy or ass, on her or in her mouth.

I will not taste my own cum, if it is in her mouth spit or swallow it, I will not go down on a girl I came inside immediately after.

Public hair, get rid of it! i don't like the look of it growing out of control and generally wont play with anyone that doesn't take care of herself in that manor.

i think that is it for now. i will come back and post more if i find out more

[Merlin]

Thanks looking4someone and masterpain for the answers (although masterpain misses a little bit the subject, i was aiming for, with some of his answers :) but i can live with. It was interesting anyways)
But where are the others? don't you have any limits (if thats the case you can tell it too...) or do you think that telling about your limits will make you look "weaker"?

[MasterPain]

well i was talking my own personal limits.. i hit and missed on alot of things.. because EVERYone has limits. it shouldent show how weak a master is but add a connection to the slave that the master has similar limits.

[SubMissChievous]

I don't think Merlin's question was directed to you, MasterPain, but to the other Masters who didn't posted in this thread.

I find it odd & interesting at the same time that recently, especially with Little Strawberry's excellent thread "Intrigue Me", it seems that slaves are more willing to share what they look for & expect in a M/s relationship than Masters...

[daring]

i wouldnt break someones limits.
the only time i would do that is when its a punishment. but i would always go for the one limit that intrigues me the most.

my limit as a master: no lasting pain

the limits of a slave that intrigue me the most: incest, beastiality, photos of punishment, spanking

[TheLittleStrawberry]

i wouldnt break someones limits.
the only time i would do that is when its a punishment. but i would always go for the one limit that intrigues me the most.

my limit as a master: no lasting pain

the limits of a slave that intrigue me the most: incest, beastiality, photos of punishment, spanking

NO NO NO!!! You CANT use someone's limits as a punishment... A limit is a LIMIT! A line that can NOT be crossed, unless the slave has stated that it could... maybe.

But NO!! Any master who crosses someone's limits, for ANY reason at all, is a bad Master, not even a master at all really, and a bad person in general.

If a Slave is straight, you CAN NOT tell him/her to have sex with someone of their own gender. For some slaves this can be very mentally damaging. Same goes for any other limit...

GOD i hope no slave will fall in your hands, until you learn that master/slave isn't just play. As a master it's you responsibility the slave is well, and that the slave doesn't get permanent damages. Crossing a limit can traumatize a slave.

Please please please get this into your head, before you go out to mess with some poor slave.

I'm sorry for sounding so dramatic, but this is.... just... mind baffling.
... using a limit as punishment. Jeez.

I've seen masters do this before... And generally they would do it, because it's a fukin lame excuse to get off on something the slave refused to do in the first place.

[Merlin]

i totally have to agree here... a limit i s a limit and you shouldn't cross it, period. :( As i said in the 1st post here, for me a Master is always responsible not to push the slave to hard. No matter what happens! A God Master should not only respect the limits a slave is telling him, but also the ones the slave is not telling him! And if you are not sure about something, don't do it...

Edit: don't want to make a new post because this...
"soft limit" is like "half pregnant"... a limit is a limit
but if you say soft limits are just thinks the other one really doesn't like to do then crossing them would be "ok" (not for me but i don't have a problem with others doing it)
i was talking about "real" limits

[MasterPain]

But there are things, called soft limits.

soft limits are limits that can be broken only once in a while that could be used as limits.

Hard limits should be upheald compleatly and totaly.

not many people know the diffrence between hard and soft limits.

i do aggree that slaves and submissives should have their hard limits respect. useing them as punshment is just selfish!

0. (Zero) means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
1. Indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it (sometimes called a "Soft Limit").
2. Means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
3. Means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
4. Means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.
5. Means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
6. Means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible

[TheLittleStrawberry]

But there are things, called soft limits.

soft limits are limits that can be broken only once in a while that could be used as limits.

Hard limits should be upheald compleatly and totaly.

not many people know the diffrence between hard and soft limits.

i do aggree that slaves and submissives should have their hard limits respect. useing them as punshment is just selfish!

Dude.... I know what a soft limit is...

Quoting myself : "A line that can NOT be crossed, unless the slave has stated that it could... maybe."

Read that line carefully... I was talking about soft limits here.

Soft limits are limits that could be broken... some day. But ONLY when alot of trust has been built.

[MasterPain]

i read it :-)
im just informing other people

[Traveler]

age is a issue 21 and over because of what I work around and most 18-20 are still high school game mentality

Annal is a not for me simple no just no

Any maiming or burning will not do to another, don't care what they want, done things in the military don't ask. Won't do again.

Male sex is out for me personally. Don't care if someones does just not my thing to do.

Rage or rape play no to easy for others to miss understand and then ........

Hide what I do. Publicly in social sight most of the year, that means either don't or do and educate as I go. Some hide or balance it away. I won't to many people think stereotype things. So is there they know, for what they don't understand they try to destroy. I will not let that be done to me.

I hope I did what and why correctly. The other thing is limits should be set between M & s before anting happens. And even then some limits may change according to person or situation. For limits are individual as the persons interacting with each other.