BrightSilhouettes
05-31-2010, 08:56 AM
21/female/slave seeks any age/male/master in (see post) (serious replies only)
Hey everyone.
I'm a 21 year old sub from a city in the U.S. As natural submissive, having a Dominant who takes part in my everyday life makes me feel secure in the structure it brings. I'd like to find someone who has experience and is confident in his training methods.
I've been looking for a Dominant for quite some time now, but I haven't found the right person yet. The relationships I've been in have been great, and I learned a lot, but often they were much more concentrated on sex than I'd like - for me, D/s or M/s is about controlling my everyday life in areas that aren't just purely sex-related. The other relationship that I was in could have been really great - he was very experienced and a very effective dominant but I didn't feel he was interested in me as anything other than property. To be the best sub I can be, I need to feel nurtured and cared for.
Quick facts about me:
My only real likes are pain, and one little kink that I'll reveal to you in a personal conversation, rather than posting it on a public forum. ;) Everything else, I'm open to.
My dislikes include exhibitionism, pet play and diapers. I'm not unwilling to participate in these items, but I'd prefer they not be part of an every day routine.
Hard limits include anything dangerous, obviously public, damaging to my image or social standing, and bestiality, incest, kids, blood or poop.
I have a webcam, but I'd prefer to wait to go that direction until I feel more comfortable in the relationship.
I am most definitely looking for a long term relationship.
In a potential Dominant, I'm looking for the following:
Someone who knows what they're doing and truly gets satisfaction out of controlling and helping a sub to grow. In other words, someone who is not just in it for the sexual kicks.
Someone I feel really close with. If we stripped the BDSM and D/s away from the relationship, there would still be something substantial.
Someone who will take control of my daily actions. I'd like to be micromanaged, at least to some extent. I'd like my master to choose when I eat, when I use the bathroom, how I dress, etc. In other words, I don't want my M/s relationships to be limited to online sessions every other night with no follow through. I want it to be part of my every day life.
Someone who's smart and emotionally perceptive. We must be compatible in this way for a relationship to work.
Someone who will push me to grow as a sub. I can be stubborn, and at times manipulative. I need someone who will push through this, who won't take any crap or excuses. I want someone very strict who won't let me talk my way out of things.
Someone who is not going to give me random tasks just for kicks. Basically, I am not looking for a dare master in disguise.
I'd prefer someone between 21 and 35, but will consider someone older.
I'd prefer someone who lives in the US in my time zone because I'd like the potential for an offline relationship some day, but it's not a hard and fast rule.
If you think you might interested in taking me as a sub, shoot me a PM with some details. Tell me about your experience as a Dom or Master, what you're looking for, what it means to you, or anything else you deem important.
Talk to you soon!
Hey everyone.
I'm a 21 year old sub from a city in the U.S. As natural submissive, having a Dominant who takes part in my everyday life makes me feel secure in the structure it brings. I'd like to find someone who has experience and is confident in his training methods.
I've been looking for a Dominant for quite some time now, but I haven't found the right person yet. The relationships I've been in have been great, and I learned a lot, but often they were much more concentrated on sex than I'd like - for me, D/s or M/s is about controlling my everyday life in areas that aren't just purely sex-related. The other relationship that I was in could have been really great - he was very experienced and a very effective dominant but I didn't feel he was interested in me as anything other than property. To be the best sub I can be, I need to feel nurtured and cared for.
Quick facts about me:
My only real likes are pain, and one little kink that I'll reveal to you in a personal conversation, rather than posting it on a public forum. ;) Everything else, I'm open to.
My dislikes include exhibitionism, pet play and diapers. I'm not unwilling to participate in these items, but I'd prefer they not be part of an every day routine.
Hard limits include anything dangerous, obviously public, damaging to my image or social standing, and bestiality, incest, kids, blood or poop.
I have a webcam, but I'd prefer to wait to go that direction until I feel more comfortable in the relationship.
I am most definitely looking for a long term relationship.
In a potential Dominant, I'm looking for the following:
Someone who knows what they're doing and truly gets satisfaction out of controlling and helping a sub to grow. In other words, someone who is not just in it for the sexual kicks.
Someone I feel really close with. If we stripped the BDSM and D/s away from the relationship, there would still be something substantial.
Someone who will take control of my daily actions. I'd like to be micromanaged, at least to some extent. I'd like my master to choose when I eat, when I use the bathroom, how I dress, etc. In other words, I don't want my M/s relationships to be limited to online sessions every other night with no follow through. I want it to be part of my every day life.
Someone who's smart and emotionally perceptive. We must be compatible in this way for a relationship to work.
Someone who will push me to grow as a sub. I can be stubborn, and at times manipulative. I need someone who will push through this, who won't take any crap or excuses. I want someone very strict who won't let me talk my way out of things.
Someone who is not going to give me random tasks just for kicks. Basically, I am not looking for a dare master in disguise.
I'd prefer someone between 21 and 35, but will consider someone older.
I'd prefer someone who lives in the US in my time zone because I'd like the potential for an offline relationship some day, but it's not a hard and fast rule.
If you think you might interested in taking me as a sub, shoot me a PM with some details. Tell me about your experience as a Dom or Master, what you're looking for, what it means to you, or anything else you deem important.
Talk to you soon!