there is lots more about a master/slave relationship

[MasterPain]

Then strip on your webcam!

there is trust, respect for each other.

I mean you slaves are putting yourself as risk if you just jump on camera just because someone over the internet wanted you to.

if you are going on camera anyway then be safe about it. for the first time don't show your face or any identifying marks on the areas shown.

be safe because everything you do online could hurt your life in the long run

[Seedsy]

couldn't put it better myself. NJ

[Swooper]

I agree. These people that don't allow trust to develop over time are putting them selves at risk of being hurt. You really should get to know each other as well as just being a M/s relationship, because a slave still has the right to say no. But without that trust how can a slave say no? I hope some people pay attention to this thread as it is an important one.

[damned_virus]

i could not agree more, kudos to masterpain!!!!

[MasterPain]

And masters respect the slaves enough that you should know that since they are wanting to be your slave that they are willing to preform your tasks without webcam "proof" that the task has been done.

if you constantly doubt that the slave is doing his/her tasks then there is completely no trust there at all.

this is not to discourage the use of a webcam as a additional form of stimulation between the master and slave but just to be truly safe about it.

to be safe on a webcam wile showing your body:

A)do NOT show your face on cam
facial shots should not be given on a slave/master webcam, just in case some one is cruel enough to take your pictures and put them on some website or for blackmail this would be avoided by NOT showing people you don't know your face.

B)Be weary of your background
There are many awards, pictures and reflections that can identify you. also mail or any document that holds your name or address could be viewed by the webcamra.

C) tattoos can identify you
any marks on your body could identify you to people who know they are there. so just be careful about any body marks.

[sk0073r]

Thanks for the advice... thats my slave career out the window considering i have scars all over my big belly!
LOL


Sk0073r.

[prometheus]

I totally agree. besides the only My slave will be seen by anyone is if I tell her to. And He/She has to be present so I can screen them. Remember it is in the contract that your slave is in your hands..

[James499]

These relationships are complex enough without having to worry about wether you can trust a person so before becoming a slave you should chat and find out more about the person you are willing to give control of yourself to.I keep pics of past slaves because they are not mine and I like to remember them. But I would never show them to any one they were given to me in cofidence and breaking that trust would kill my conscience.

I am very careful about who I give pictures and if I don't trust a person I will stop seeing them. So far I have met 2 people on this site that I've found trustworthy.

It is kinda sad you can't even trust other people when there are so few of us on the web. Even though this site is quite large we are a minority that must be careful about our activities, because the people in our lives might not accept what we do.

I'm glad sites like this operate so wecan meet eachother.

[Traveler]

(2007-12-08 19:50:27) Windweaver Reed: hi im not a slave im a mistress but you seem to know what your doing and i wanted to her stuff from a more exprincaed owner
(2007-12-08 19:50:52) Traveler: At 17 I wonder
(2007-12-08 19:51:18) Traveler: So ask and we will see where we will do from there. Were did you get my data
(2007-12-08 19:51:30) Windweaver Reed: getdare
(2007-12-08 19:52:27) Traveler: Ok then. watch you spelling you have her instead of hear when it should be read for we are typing.
(2007-12-08 19:52:49) Traveler: see my mistake?
(2007-12-08 19:53:04) Traveler: So what questions do you have little one?
(2007-12-08 19:53:22) Traveler: And this indicates busy
(2007-12-08 19:53:32) Windweaver Reed: what?
(2007-12-08 19:54:00) Traveler: What to which there are several things typed to reference here
(2007-12-08 19:54:20) Windweaver Reed: oh what indicates busy?
(2007-12-08 19:54:46) Traveler: Your name on this messenger
(2007-12-08 19:54:47) Windweaver Reed: oh my away message I'm also watching a movie.
(2007-12-08 19:54:55) Traveler: what movie
(2007-12-08 19:55:05) Windweaver Reed: tv dexter
(2007-12-08 19:55:13) Windweaver Reed: the show about the serial killer
(2007-12-08 19:55:32) Traveler: I know it. So what questions
(2007-12-08 19:56:45) Traveler: And you do realise this is not a game for me but Real Life Style of living 24/7, not something to play at, correct
(2007-12-08 19:56:53) Windweaver Reed: yeah
(2007-12-08 19:56:59) Windweaver Reed: im still learning
(2007-12-08 19:57:05) Windweaver Reed: but yes i do
(2007-12-08 19:57:45) Traveler: learning what to start with this way I know how far or what is already knowledge common
(2007-12-08 19:58:19) Windweaver Reed: How to read slaves ect. also i am wondering as a way to start is online crap?
(2007-12-08 19:59:21) Traveler: read slaves how? and on-line crap? that is a interesting way of putting something you are looking into
(2007-12-08 19:59:48) Windweaver Reed: yeah
(2007-12-08 20:00:03) Traveler: And what is etc? that is a category not specific enough to know the answer
(2007-12-08 20:00:04) Windweaver Reed: i dont know anything better way to put it
(2007-12-08 20:00:16) Windweaver Reed: yeah
(2007-12-08 20:00:18) Windweaver Reed: sorry
(2007-12-08 20:00:48) Traveler: Find one because the way you type will be the way one responds and reacts to you
(2007-12-08 20:01:42) Windweaver Reed: I had some basic questions then wanted to go more indepth
(2007-12-08 20:02:48) Traveler: Example the slang yeah instead of yes, of one or two word answers where a sentence does better and leaves nothing to ask or wonder about. Using specific ideas and descriptions instead of general because this way you lead and the conversation goes where you want it to be
(2007-12-08 20:03:20) Windweaver Reed: Sorry
(2007-12-08 20:04:40) Windweaver Reed: Ok first what do you think of online slavery As a starter if you find some one worth it does it have its advantages or should i just not bother and wait till i can figure out some one in real life.
(2007-12-08 20:04:59) Traveler: Sorry for what? Being your self or not understanding that this is a very specific idea that needs to have a certain what to apply before starting. Doing this will give you insight into how, what and why
(2007-12-08 20:06:31) Traveler: First on line is a strange idea
(2007-12-08 20:07:43) Traveler: Second there is not a lot of ways to enforce discipline upon someone you type to or have on camera, this is a mind set not some game, it is either there or is not on line
(2007-12-08 20:08:42) Windweaver Reed: sorry my computers getting really slow im going to restart it
(2007-12-08 20:09:07) Windweaver Reed has signed off.

And never returned. Waiting for this conversation to continue. Does any one have any more to help this little one with a master/slave relationship on line.

[lucky]

Personally I don't think of an working online relationship: imagine even getting better there is always a risk of revenge from one side and later all the trust goes to the internet. Or a mistake having your pics/recordings mixed in a P2P software. But depends on everyone's life, if I am very familiarized with internet and have friends the same I have to avoid so they can't track me.

I've discovered something recently but haven't tested it more and not very sure: a read receipt from an email can send back the user's IP. Probably depends on the mail service. I need some time and free mind to check on how can I use this.

Also I've heard netstat command can track your IP in a Yahoo messenger conversation. You should search your personal IP on a whois website to see how hard is to be identified (a whois offers the ISP and probably the hometown. Usually your ISP doesn't give your data to a third party.)

Just ideas of online protection