RightOne
02-22-2019, 03:25 AM
38/male/master seeks 21+/female/slave in any place
Here below is the updated version of my search, the search for my submissive half. Could you be the one?
A gentleman is looking for his submissive princess. This is not a search for a sexting, rather I am looking forward to finding the one who craves to meet her missing dominant half. Keywords: Trust, care, discipline, lust, commitment.
So,
What I am looking for?
I believe we are in this world to experience as much as possible and taste the more we can get from life. Here I am to gain more experiences starting a new male-female interaction with someone who seems to dream the same.
I am looking for a relationship that will be built up between a dominant man and a submissive girl. One shot play or a kinky chat is not what I am interested. I want to start a “trust” based online relationship which will turn into something important for both sides.
The relationship shall add something to our daily life routines in a kinky way and I believe you are the one who needs the same.
Why “online relationship” and does it really work?
The reason I am interested in online relationship is that, first of all there aren’t any possible partners who share my interests around me lately. I am sure there are also people who feels the same as me, living in different parts of the world. Second, I believe a BDSM relationship has its own dynamics and those dynamics could be applied even in long distance commitments. Finally, as described above, I am here to experience more and want to share my experiences with someone new whom I don’t meet before.
Well, I believe it is right time to mention here that I have experienced this before. I have had such relationship online for long periods, one even turned into real life after some time. There is only one way to make such a relationship work: Honesty is the key and we must carry this key in our hearts. Finally, it is the heart who makes the real decisions, mind only obeys. And “obedience”, do you know any word sexier than that?
What I understand from BDSM?
BDSM is a journey. You do not only discover your sexual fantasies during that journey but also your inner self. It is a path of exploration that turns you into someone superior. When a slave and master comes together they become one body to share their secrets and through their interaction, being two different sides of the story, they discover different perspectives of life. Yes, this could be named the meaning of life.
It is the master’s obligation to lead the slave in that journey, protect her and help her development whereas the slave should give herself to master’s hands in all aspects.
My understanding from the word “master” is also matching the word “mentor” for the slave.
As a result, BDSM is not only sex. Sex is only a part.
Who I am looking for?
A girl who has some basic idea about her interests to BDSM. Not important if you are experienced or new to the subject. Main issue is that you should feel the need to walk that path. You need a man to get you, lead you and be your Owner. You need someone to teach you, train you, and fulfill you.
Age is not a main issue unless you are underage -preferred to be over 20-. How you look is important but to me, a girl who feels herself beautiful is brilliant and it is the master’s responsibility to help her shine in her existence more. You may have limits and expectations, more than “may”, you “shoud” have those. All will be respected, and an amicable way should be found after discussion.
Who am I?
A man in his late-thirties. Fit body, deep looking green eyes, thoughtful, clear-cut. Have a good job, and a socialized life. Into literature, psychology, philosophy... A house full of books is what I am trying to create and the more I read the more I understand human-beings. The submissive part, if you are the one, would me my most precious book that I want to read.
I have always been a dominant man and had real life and online experiences with slaves. Everyone I met until today, helped me to add something to my own creation.
For BDSM issues, as I said before, I am rather on the mentor side, not being a total sadist. However, games including moderate pain, restrictions and power-play are all interested by me. Don’t have any interest in illegal, extreme pain, scat games and anything that will give damage to your daily life. To highlight the fact, I am not here to destroy you. I want to develop you. I don’t deny that I have a dark side with kinky fantasies, but I highlight that the kink is not to break you, it is the tool to have connection of two similar hearts.
What will be the effects of such a relationship to your daily life?
This is something we will discuss in full details; however “we” will be the parts to decide the level of daily life intersection. Micromanagement can be decided but rather, I like the idea of being the light for slave’s goals in life. In other words I would like to help reaching targets by motivating or punishing/rewarding methods. (Punishments are the main arms of the master if he knows how to use those in a kinky way.)
At this point, I should also mention that an online relationship could work even if the slave is attached / has a partner in real life. Again, this is something to be discussed in details but I believe it is possible that the slave may have her commitments in her daily life and a true BDSM relationship that we could develop -through the mentoring- shall also help her to be happier in her daily life. So, it is a choice of the slave, if the slave is attached, married or willing to keep on dating in real life. The only concern in here is, again, honesty. Having choices and picking the right one is also one of our concerns in here. A true master should help her slave to take right decisions.
How shall that relationship be built? What is the method?
E-mailing shall be the main communication method. As you see, I am not a man of a few words. I know that the details are important, and you will received detailed mails from me and I will be expecting the same. You will have questions. You will have rules. You will have punishments and rewards. 2 or 3 times a week you will be expected to response your master, fulfilling the homework that will be assigned. I guarantee you that the homework will be showing my creativity and the word “lust” will be mark of this homework which will be prepared according to both of ours need. In time there will be skype connection and scheduled discussions real time.
A good question to be answered here: What is my thinking about picture taking and video recording? Yes, that is an expectation of mine, as a master wants to see his slave as the way she should be, in lust, in commitment with full heart. However, I don’t take thigs so fast, and I know that the half I am looking for needs to feel comfortable. So, without building the bridge of trust I won’t expect you to go kinkier in that way. The time will come my dear, and when the time will come we will feel that you are ready to go further.
Oh, I feel I would like to be the one. How should I response?
As you realized, I have explained in details who I am and what I am looking for, so it is fair that you should do the same. Please tell me more about you not being limited to answering those main questions below:
1. Who are you? (Isn't it what we trying to understand... First you, then I will tell you who you are.)
2. General info: Your life, your job, location and etc.
3. What experiences you have? (Yes, princess, by this you will start walking the path.)
4. What are your expectations and limits? (And this is the first time you will be naked in front of me. Being naked is not always physical.)
5. It is an optional 5) Show me yourself with a picture as you are before my touch. With my touch I will make you shine brighter.
Just make your application through personal message and feel free to ask any questions you have in your head. Speak the words, but let your emotions and senses talk, to give a real decision. That is the way that you will understand if I am the one for you.
All applications shall be answered. I will only accept one candidate's application to start walking the path together.
Regards.
M.
NOTE: Thanks for all the people I met through my previous threads. Without your existence I couldn’t be the one I am now. I hope I had such effect on you as well.
Here below is the updated version of my search, the search for my submissive half. Could you be the one?
A gentleman is looking for his submissive princess. This is not a search for a sexting, rather I am looking forward to finding the one who craves to meet her missing dominant half. Keywords: Trust, care, discipline, lust, commitment.
So,
What I am looking for?
I believe we are in this world to experience as much as possible and taste the more we can get from life. Here I am to gain more experiences starting a new male-female interaction with someone who seems to dream the same.
I am looking for a relationship that will be built up between a dominant man and a submissive girl. One shot play or a kinky chat is not what I am interested. I want to start a “trust” based online relationship which will turn into something important for both sides.
The relationship shall add something to our daily life routines in a kinky way and I believe you are the one who needs the same.
Why “online relationship” and does it really work?
The reason I am interested in online relationship is that, first of all there aren’t any possible partners who share my interests around me lately. I am sure there are also people who feels the same as me, living in different parts of the world. Second, I believe a BDSM relationship has its own dynamics and those dynamics could be applied even in long distance commitments. Finally, as described above, I am here to experience more and want to share my experiences with someone new whom I don’t meet before.
Well, I believe it is right time to mention here that I have experienced this before. I have had such relationship online for long periods, one even turned into real life after some time. There is only one way to make such a relationship work: Honesty is the key and we must carry this key in our hearts. Finally, it is the heart who makes the real decisions, mind only obeys. And “obedience”, do you know any word sexier than that?
What I understand from BDSM?
BDSM is a journey. You do not only discover your sexual fantasies during that journey but also your inner self. It is a path of exploration that turns you into someone superior. When a slave and master comes together they become one body to share their secrets and through their interaction, being two different sides of the story, they discover different perspectives of life. Yes, this could be named the meaning of life.
It is the master’s obligation to lead the slave in that journey, protect her and help her development whereas the slave should give herself to master’s hands in all aspects.
My understanding from the word “master” is also matching the word “mentor” for the slave.
As a result, BDSM is not only sex. Sex is only a part.
Who I am looking for?
A girl who has some basic idea about her interests to BDSM. Not important if you are experienced or new to the subject. Main issue is that you should feel the need to walk that path. You need a man to get you, lead you and be your Owner. You need someone to teach you, train you, and fulfill you.
Age is not a main issue unless you are underage -preferred to be over 20-. How you look is important but to me, a girl who feels herself beautiful is brilliant and it is the master’s responsibility to help her shine in her existence more. You may have limits and expectations, more than “may”, you “shoud” have those. All will be respected, and an amicable way should be found after discussion.
Who am I?
A man in his late-thirties. Fit body, deep looking green eyes, thoughtful, clear-cut. Have a good job, and a socialized life. Into literature, psychology, philosophy... A house full of books is what I am trying to create and the more I read the more I understand human-beings. The submissive part, if you are the one, would me my most precious book that I want to read.
I have always been a dominant man and had real life and online experiences with slaves. Everyone I met until today, helped me to add something to my own creation.
For BDSM issues, as I said before, I am rather on the mentor side, not being a total sadist. However, games including moderate pain, restrictions and power-play are all interested by me. Don’t have any interest in illegal, extreme pain, scat games and anything that will give damage to your daily life. To highlight the fact, I am not here to destroy you. I want to develop you. I don’t deny that I have a dark side with kinky fantasies, but I highlight that the kink is not to break you, it is the tool to have connection of two similar hearts.
What will be the effects of such a relationship to your daily life?
This is something we will discuss in full details; however “we” will be the parts to decide the level of daily life intersection. Micromanagement can be decided but rather, I like the idea of being the light for slave’s goals in life. In other words I would like to help reaching targets by motivating or punishing/rewarding methods. (Punishments are the main arms of the master if he knows how to use those in a kinky way.)
At this point, I should also mention that an online relationship could work even if the slave is attached / has a partner in real life. Again, this is something to be discussed in details but I believe it is possible that the slave may have her commitments in her daily life and a true BDSM relationship that we could develop -through the mentoring- shall also help her to be happier in her daily life. So, it is a choice of the slave, if the slave is attached, married or willing to keep on dating in real life. The only concern in here is, again, honesty. Having choices and picking the right one is also one of our concerns in here. A true master should help her slave to take right decisions.
How shall that relationship be built? What is the method?
E-mailing shall be the main communication method. As you see, I am not a man of a few words. I know that the details are important, and you will received detailed mails from me and I will be expecting the same. You will have questions. You will have rules. You will have punishments and rewards. 2 or 3 times a week you will be expected to response your master, fulfilling the homework that will be assigned. I guarantee you that the homework will be showing my creativity and the word “lust” will be mark of this homework which will be prepared according to both of ours need. In time there will be skype connection and scheduled discussions real time.
A good question to be answered here: What is my thinking about picture taking and video recording? Yes, that is an expectation of mine, as a master wants to see his slave as the way she should be, in lust, in commitment with full heart. However, I don’t take thigs so fast, and I know that the half I am looking for needs to feel comfortable. So, without building the bridge of trust I won’t expect you to go kinkier in that way. The time will come my dear, and when the time will come we will feel that you are ready to go further.
Oh, I feel I would like to be the one. How should I response?
As you realized, I have explained in details who I am and what I am looking for, so it is fair that you should do the same. Please tell me more about you not being limited to answering those main questions below:
1. Who are you? (Isn't it what we trying to understand... First you, then I will tell you who you are.)
2. General info: Your life, your job, location and etc.
3. What experiences you have? (Yes, princess, by this you will start walking the path.)
4. What are your expectations and limits? (And this is the first time you will be naked in front of me. Being naked is not always physical.)
5. It is an optional 5) Show me yourself with a picture as you are before my touch. With my touch I will make you shine brighter.
Just make your application through personal message and feel free to ask any questions you have in your head. Speak the words, but let your emotions and senses talk, to give a real decision. That is the way that you will understand if I am the one for you.
All applications shall be answered. I will only accept one candidate's application to start walking the path together.
Regards.
M.
NOTE: Thanks for all the people I met through my previous threads. Without your existence I couldn’t be the one I am now. I hope I had such effect on you as well.