Ferbite
07-06-2018, 05:58 AM
23/female/sub seeks 24-36/female/dom in any place
Hello :)
I am just gonna start with the line that "I hope you are having a good day/time". I am glad you stumbled upon my advert and I hope you will read this thoroughly before (if) contacting me.
As the title suggests, I am looking for a FEMALE Dom or in other words a Domme/Mistress/Miss/Ma'am etc. So, I apologize if you are a Male and clicked in hopes of finding a sub. I am a lesbian and even though some might say that BDSM can't be just about the person's gender, I agree on the grounds that maybe yeah but maybe no because I just don't feel comfortable. I have tried, it's just not for me.
Who am I?
Well I am 25ish Homo Sapien Sapien from the Eastern side of our Planet. (unable to change the age on post title) Before you get to know me completely I am awkward and shy as much as they come. But once you become my friend and I am comfortable with you, you will see that I am not that meek-shy person at all. I am extremely introverted and avoid all social situations If I can at all costs. Unless, I am with few selected people. I am a great listener and (if) I set my mind to something, I make it happen, though it's really hard to set my mind on something. I have become some sort of Professional Slacker now a days. I am a Student and same time work on projects which brings me Joy. I also enjoy Books, Tv Shows, Movies, Games, Crafts and Conspiracy Theories. [Don't let me start on computers because I will bore you to Death]
What do I look Like?
Well, if things move forward, I will definitely show you how I look :). But I am tomboyish, closer to earth person (not tall at all), maybe average. I like short hair but I change hairstyles faster than one can say Yugoslavia. I will not say I am skinny but I am not plus size either. I guess a middle body type.
Why BDSM and why a sub?
Well, long story short. Without parental control, one can easily stumbled upon wrong websites while they are in High School. Same was the case with me.. I was intrigued ever since. And after seeing/reading the control and dexterity of a BDSM relationship, I just can't find it in me to be content with Vanilla.
A sub because. Well no because. I am just wired this way, I love obeying, serving and generally making people happy. And to give and be taken by somebody and be devoted is something that fills me up with warm fuzzy feeling and happiness.
What am I looking for?
To be honest, I am looking for a Domme who can be strict and understanding. I am not just looking to take orders and perform, I would like to make a friend too. Possibly an extremely close friend because I don't think, one can be in a BDSM relationship and be a sub if there's no understanding or respect in between both parties. Trust comes with time and it's completely understandable. So, probably a Domme of my dream is someone who is fun to talk with, who understands my weird brain (because honestly, I spout extreme insane shit all the time) and be patient with me. And someone, who can just be a Domme when the situations calls. Obviously, then there's the serving part. If I serve, I serve by heart or I am just not completely there.
Likes and Kinks | Dislikes | Limits and General Experience
Likes and Kinks -
Well, this is a sketchy topic for me, I am not much of an Experienced sub who can say that they have over years of experience under their belt. I have had an extremely positive experience, which I believe have made me a better sub. Along side, there was a negative experience which I know have left me skittish. So, I haven't tried a lot of things. I also believe that my Likes shift as per the Dominant Party.
General things I found that I really like and want are -
Strictness : I am a slacker so...
Rules : Without rules I am generally lost.
Pain, Journal entries (I would really love if I can write my day), Serving, Control, Bondage etc.
Dislikes -
Punishments (I don't really think anyone likes punishments)
Humiliation (there's a fickle line here, which I will explain personally)
Clothing control - I kind of hate this one but there's a but.
Cam - Fickle lines again.
Limits -
Anal, pee, poop, scat, Semi Public, Public, Exposure, Social Suicide, Friends, Family. And *insert general limits here* probably all that goes with Limits.
Phew! Read all that?
Great if you reached this sentence. I know that was some rambling.
So, now that you have a general idea of me. If you feel like I am compatible with you and we can make it work, Please feel free to contact me :)
Other stuff we can discuss as we move along. We will probably have a lot to discuss before there's anything concrete.
Some other Random Stuff
Location is not a problem for me and I love color Blue. Also I am Ravenclaw.
To contact me-
Please leave a PRIVATE MESSAGE or Kik me at [kik removed by staff].
Have a nice day/time ahead!
~Ferbite
Hello :)
I am just gonna start with the line that "I hope you are having a good day/time". I am glad you stumbled upon my advert and I hope you will read this thoroughly before (if) contacting me.
As the title suggests, I am looking for a FEMALE Dom or in other words a Domme/Mistress/Miss/Ma'am etc. So, I apologize if you are a Male and clicked in hopes of finding a sub. I am a lesbian and even though some might say that BDSM can't be just about the person's gender, I agree on the grounds that maybe yeah but maybe no because I just don't feel comfortable. I have tried, it's just not for me.
Who am I?
Well I am 25ish Homo Sapien Sapien from the Eastern side of our Planet. (unable to change the age on post title) Before you get to know me completely I am awkward and shy as much as they come. But once you become my friend and I am comfortable with you, you will see that I am not that meek-shy person at all. I am extremely introverted and avoid all social situations If I can at all costs. Unless, I am with few selected people. I am a great listener and (if) I set my mind to something, I make it happen, though it's really hard to set my mind on something. I have become some sort of Professional Slacker now a days. I am a Student and same time work on projects which brings me Joy. I also enjoy Books, Tv Shows, Movies, Games, Crafts and Conspiracy Theories. [Don't let me start on computers because I will bore you to Death]
What do I look Like?
Well, if things move forward, I will definitely show you how I look :). But I am tomboyish, closer to earth person (not tall at all), maybe average. I like short hair but I change hairstyles faster than one can say Yugoslavia. I will not say I am skinny but I am not plus size either. I guess a middle body type.
Why BDSM and why a sub?
Well, long story short. Without parental control, one can easily stumbled upon wrong websites while they are in High School. Same was the case with me.. I was intrigued ever since. And after seeing/reading the control and dexterity of a BDSM relationship, I just can't find it in me to be content with Vanilla.
A sub because. Well no because. I am just wired this way, I love obeying, serving and generally making people happy. And to give and be taken by somebody and be devoted is something that fills me up with warm fuzzy feeling and happiness.
What am I looking for?
To be honest, I am looking for a Domme who can be strict and understanding. I am not just looking to take orders and perform, I would like to make a friend too. Possibly an extremely close friend because I don't think, one can be in a BDSM relationship and be a sub if there's no understanding or respect in between both parties. Trust comes with time and it's completely understandable. So, probably a Domme of my dream is someone who is fun to talk with, who understands my weird brain (because honestly, I spout extreme insane shit all the time) and be patient with me. And someone, who can just be a Domme when the situations calls. Obviously, then there's the serving part. If I serve, I serve by heart or I am just not completely there.
Likes and Kinks | Dislikes | Limits and General Experience
Likes and Kinks -
Well, this is a sketchy topic for me, I am not much of an Experienced sub who can say that they have over years of experience under their belt. I have had an extremely positive experience, which I believe have made me a better sub. Along side, there was a negative experience which I know have left me skittish. So, I haven't tried a lot of things. I also believe that my Likes shift as per the Dominant Party.
General things I found that I really like and want are -
Strictness : I am a slacker so...
Rules : Without rules I am generally lost.
Pain, Journal entries (I would really love if I can write my day), Serving, Control, Bondage etc.
Dislikes -
Punishments (I don't really think anyone likes punishments)
Humiliation (there's a fickle line here, which I will explain personally)
Clothing control - I kind of hate this one but there's a but.
Cam - Fickle lines again.
Limits -
Anal, pee, poop, scat, Semi Public, Public, Exposure, Social Suicide, Friends, Family. And *insert general limits here* probably all that goes with Limits.
Phew! Read all that?
Great if you reached this sentence. I know that was some rambling.
So, now that you have a general idea of me. If you feel like I am compatible with you and we can make it work, Please feel free to contact me :)
Other stuff we can discuss as we move along. We will probably have a lot to discuss before there's anything concrete.
Some other Random Stuff
Location is not a problem for me and I love color Blue. Also I am Ravenclaw.
To contact me-
Please leave a PRIVATE MESSAGE or Kik me at [kik removed by staff].
Have a nice day/time ahead!
~Ferbite