KnottyWolf
05-21-2018, 02:23 PM
33/male/master seeks any age/any sex/slave in any location
Call me Wolf, we can work out a title to use if we wind up getting along and this progresses to the next phase. I am writing this ad to meet people to chat with who are interested in a disciplinarian relationship. For this to work, first, we have to get along and be comfortable with each other. Second, you need to have some goals, preferably ones that you’ve given some thought to and are serious about achieving, but would have trouble accomplishing without motivation and somebody to hold you accountable. Finally, if we can establish trust to the point that you think I can motivate and hold you accountable, we can discuss progressing. These goals can include things like self-improvement, be work/school related, and/or be kink/BDSM related.
Full disclosure, there are a few things you should know about me:
I enjoy the mentorship aspect of these type of relationships, but I am also a sadist. When you break the rules that we agree to, and it will happen eventually, you will receive punishment that will hurt and/or humiliate and you will not enjoy it. It won’t cause lasting physical or emotional harm, but you will learn from it and it won’t be “FUNishment.” I will enjoy disciplining you, but I won’t do it on a whim, only when it is truly deserved.
I am also poly, you will not be the only person I play with, and I would encourage you to have healthy relationships outside this one as well. It is likely that this will be solely digital. I am also a switch and you may eventually see me posting an ad for a similar relationship with reversed roles. However, this should not blur the lines between D and s in our interaction, you will be the one to offer submission.
Kik is an easy medium for communication. We may also use email or gD PMs for convenience. We might also use a computer based chat program or room occasionally. Communication is important for this to work. I won’t be giving you tasks, rules, or punishments the first time we talk. This will come once we get to know each other a bit if we both decide we want to proceed.
It’s odd to me that Doms list limits in their ads, because ultimately they should be in control of the relationship. I will mention that if this takes on a DDlg/DDlb/or pet play dynamic, I am okay with that, if it doesn't I am okay with that too.
Things that will not happen in this relationship are: things that could get either of us in trouble socially, at work/school, or with the law or any type of blackmail. I understand that many on gD like exposure, but if we agree to use this as part of our play, you will be the one exposing yourself as opposed to me exposing you. If pictures/voice/vid is a hard limit for you, this is probably not going to work, but I encourage waiting until you feel safe to share. We can save lists of likes and dislikes for later, but please let me know your must haves and limits in your introduction.
Call me Wolf, we can work out a title to use if we wind up getting along and this progresses to the next phase. I am writing this ad to meet people to chat with who are interested in a disciplinarian relationship. For this to work, first, we have to get along and be comfortable with each other. Second, you need to have some goals, preferably ones that you’ve given some thought to and are serious about achieving, but would have trouble accomplishing without motivation and somebody to hold you accountable. Finally, if we can establish trust to the point that you think I can motivate and hold you accountable, we can discuss progressing. These goals can include things like self-improvement, be work/school related, and/or be kink/BDSM related.
Full disclosure, there are a few things you should know about me:
I enjoy the mentorship aspect of these type of relationships, but I am also a sadist. When you break the rules that we agree to, and it will happen eventually, you will receive punishment that will hurt and/or humiliate and you will not enjoy it. It won’t cause lasting physical or emotional harm, but you will learn from it and it won’t be “FUNishment.” I will enjoy disciplining you, but I won’t do it on a whim, only when it is truly deserved.
I am also poly, you will not be the only person I play with, and I would encourage you to have healthy relationships outside this one as well. It is likely that this will be solely digital. I am also a switch and you may eventually see me posting an ad for a similar relationship with reversed roles. However, this should not blur the lines between D and s in our interaction, you will be the one to offer submission.
Kik is an easy medium for communication. We may also use email or gD PMs for convenience. We might also use a computer based chat program or room occasionally. Communication is important for this to work. I won’t be giving you tasks, rules, or punishments the first time we talk. This will come once we get to know each other a bit if we both decide we want to proceed.
It’s odd to me that Doms list limits in their ads, because ultimately they should be in control of the relationship. I will mention that if this takes on a DDlg/DDlb/or pet play dynamic, I am okay with that, if it doesn't I am okay with that too.
Things that will not happen in this relationship are: things that could get either of us in trouble socially, at work/school, or with the law or any type of blackmail. I understand that many on gD like exposure, but if we agree to use this as part of our play, you will be the one exposing yourself as opposed to me exposing you. If pictures/voice/vid is a hard limit for you, this is probably not going to work, but I encourage waiting until you feel safe to share. We can save lists of likes and dislikes for later, but please let me know your must haves and limits in your introduction.