Battle of the sexes: Truth!

[Jaro]

Battle of the sexes: Truth!

Thank this post to indicate that you are in and people may ask you any truth question and you will answer with absolute honesty.

Now, any guy may ask any girl or any girl may ask any guy that joined a Truth. Try to make your Truth specific for the sex that needs to answer it.

Anyone who joined must also ask questions at least every once in a while, instead of only answering them. Only people who added a Thanks to the OP are officially playing.

You may ask a Truth to all girls/guys in the tread and all must answer OR you may direct your question to a specific girl or guy and only he/she must answer it.

Girls must color the questions directed at guys in blue!
Guys must color the questions directed at girls in pink!

People who join in later are free to choose whether or not to answer any Truth that was asked earlier but they are obliged to answer all questions that get posted after they join.

I hope this proves popular. Let the truths begin!

[bthomas]

I'll join. Ask away.

[Jaro]

I'll join. Ask away.

You must specifically thank the post to indicate that you joined.

[SubRed92]

I'm in as well! I can't do much dares so truths shall take it's place

[Simi]

I am in as well :) First one in for the women :D

Boys, when was the last time you had a wet dream and can you remember what it was you dreamt about?

[SubRed92]

Boys, when was the last time you had a wet dream and can you remember what it was you dreamt about?

Hmm, strangely enough the one wet dream I remember was from maybe 8 or 9 years ago. Is it strange I can't recall any recent ones? Or do I even have them anymore? Even if I did they must not have been noteworthy.

Anyways, this one was pretty vanilla. In the dream, somehow a female classmate ended up in my bedroom. I don't know how, she just did. One thing to note is that I had a crush on this girl. I'm not sure if there was any slow build up of sexual tension in the dream, or if jumped straight to the fun part.

She was on her back on my bed, legs spread for me as I was fingering and licking her pussy. It all felt very very real. I remember she was very wet and I was really into it. I don't remember anything after that, other than the fact that I woke up when she rode me to an orgasm in the dream. I was left a horny mess after the dream.

You can imagine how tough it is being in the same class with the girl you fucked in your dreams the night before. I was replaying the scene in my head the entire day.


Girls, how would you feel if you woke up and your clit has turned into a dick? What kind of dick would you prefer it to be? (size, shape, etc)

[Calcifer]

Just joined!

Girls, when was the last time you received a dick pic from a guy? Was it requested or unsolicited? Can you describe what it looked like? Did you enjoy the picture, or did you not?

I want to try answering Simi's previous question, but I honestly can't remember when my last one was... Probably within the past year, because I still get them occasionally. But I almost never remember my dreams (not even normal ones). I don't think I've ever remembered a wet dream.

[BondageLisa]

Just joined!

Girls, when was the last time you received a dick pic from a guy? Was it requested or unsolicited? Can you describe what it looked like? Did you enjoy the picture, or did you not?

It's been a while since I've been on kik, so I wouldn't know exactly when. However I frequently recieve unsolicited dick pics. I wouldn't know what it looked like since I'm simply not interested in it.

Guys, how often do you see someone and have naughty thoughts involving them?

[Calcifer]

Guys, how often do you see someone and have naughty thoughts involving them?

I usually don't have naughty thoughts about somebody if I just see them in passing. Most of the time I might admire a person who looks attractive, without thinking any naughty thoughts (just "hey she's really pretty" or "hey he's really handsome"). If this person has specific traits that stick out to me, then I occasionally remember them later and fantasize a little (unusual things stick out the most to me, like strong accents, tattoos, extreme body types, or large asses). The exception is when I'm actually people-watching (maybe sitting alone at a café or at the beach). Then I'll often think naughty thoughts about people I see, because I'm not busy and I have more time to think (and when I have time to think, naughty thoughts are sure to come up sooner or later).

[Slavejenni]

Girls, how would you feel if you woke up and your clit has turned into a dick? What kind of dick would you prefer it to be? (size, shape, etc)

I’d not be happy at all, I wouldn’t want a dick instead of my clit. If it did happen it wouldn’t matter what type it was I’d be pretty upset

Girls, when was the last time you received a dick pic from a guy? Was it requested or unsolicited? Can you describe what it looked like? Did you enjoy the picture, or did you not?

The last time I reviewed a dick pic was yesterday on kik, I was chatting to someone I met in a chat room and they sent me it as the very first thing in the conversation. It looked like a cock lol, average size though of course he described it as huge. It was very unwelcome, unsolicited dick pics aren’t welcome.

[Slavejenni]

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

[atownesq]

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

I have when ordered to, in fact one rule from my Mistress that I have to follow is that I must always wear panties when possible...I feel somewhat humiliated and silly. To clarify, the source of humiliation is not some misogynistic notion that somehow equates feminism with inferiority, but rather knowing how ugly/stupid/silly I look in female clothes, and the social stigma/taboo of knowing I would be labeled a freak, pervert, etc for wearing female clothes if people knew.

[Sismaster]

I am in as well :) First one in for the women :D

Boys, when was the last time you had a wet dream and can you remember what it was you dreamt about?

few weeks ago, but I don't remember what it was about

[Sismaster]

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

I have crossdressed multiple times and I feel amazing in it. It turns me on a lot

[Sismaster]

Girls what was the last time you send a naked pic to someone

[Slavejenni]

Girls what was the last time you send a naked pic to someone

About a year ago when I was still married, I was missing my wife and she was feeling down I sent her a naughty pic to cheer her up and let her know I was thinking of my mistress.

[Walpole]

I am joining and will answer any Blue questions after this post.

Girls, how old were you when you had your first kiss? Do you remember it fondly or is it an embarrassing memory?

[Slavejenni]

Girls, how old were you when you had your first kiss? Do you remember it fondly or is it an embarrassing memory?


My first kiss ever was the standard kids games things, I was young maybe 6 or 7 but I remember the girl kissing me till this day and it was a magical moment in my life even though it was an innocent thing

[Bobcat]

Just joined! *************ask away

[Sismaster]

Girls, why did you join this and what is the question you absolutely don't want to awnser

[bthomas]

I haven't crossdressed, yet... Lot's of reasons why, from lack of access to lack of privacy, to lack of real interest.

My last wet dream occurred while dreaming of a hookup with someone I know going just right. ;)

[Simi]

Girls, how would you feel if you woke up and your clit has turned into a dick? What kind of dick would you prefer it to be? (size, shape, etc)

Shocked? If i had a dick though i'd like a large canine style one to better pound my puppy with and make him my little bitch....

Girls, when was the last time you received a dick pic from a guy? Was it requested or unsolicited? Can you describe what it looked like? Did you enjoy the picture, or did you not?

I tend to block the user and ignore them so no idea really, dick pics are not exciting or interesting, they are definitely not a sign of dominance either lol

Girls what was the last time you send a naked pic to someone

Early today, sent links to my exposed photos

Girls, how old were you when you had your first kiss? Do you remember it fondly or is it an embarrassing memory?

It was good, with a lovely younger girl :)

Girls, why did you join this and what is the question you absolutely don't want to answer

Cant think of any question i really dont want to answer. I like being humiliation and sometimes truth questions can hit the spot for that

[Calcifer]

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

Yes! I love the feeling of women's clothing. To put it simply, it makes me feel sexy. And often puts me in a more submissive mindset.

Girls, how would you feel if you woke up and your clit has turned into a dick? What kind of dick would you prefer it to be? (size, shape, etc)

Shocked? If i had a dick though i'd like a large canine style one to better pound my puppy with and make him my little bitch....

The mental image that this gives me is very amusing. :D

I tend to block the user and ignore them so no idea really, dick pics are not exciting or interesting, they are definitely not a sign of dominance either lol

This seems to be the unanimous opinion. I'm curious if there are any women who do actually enjoy receiving these unsolicited pictures. I read an article about a woman who tried sending men unsolicited vagina pictures, and apparently they weren't so pleased either.

[Walpole]

This seems to be the unanimous opinion. I'm curious if there are any women who do actually enjoy receiving these unsolicited pictures. I read an article about a woman who tried sending men unsolicited vagina pictures, and apparently they weren't so pleased either.

See, I'm not entierly sure why people like sending them either? If I were on the girls team that's definitely a question I would ask - something along the lines of "Boys, if you send unsolicited dick pics, why?" Sadly I'm not on that team so I'll never know the answer to this most vital of questions...

Unless I can be bothered to ask it elsewhere.

[Thatboy]

I’ll join any male questions asked from now

[Slavejenni]

Girls, why did you join this and what is the question you absolutely don't want to awnser

I enjoy answering truths, especially the more embarrassing ones.

I can’t think of any question I wouldn’t want to answer tbh

[SubRed92]

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

I have never cross dressed. I can imagine how I'd look in them and it's not going to be good. xD. Would I ever? I think only if a girl I'm with is into it and wants me to. Even so, the pleasure from that would be derived from obedience and not the act of crossdressing itself. Girl clothes are nice, just not on me.

Guys, how often do you see someone and have naughty thoughts involving them?

Ohhhh, this question is going to make me sound like a pervert. It largely depends on how aroused I am at the time. Recently, the answer will be a lot. I don't want to to go into details about my thoughts there. You know what it generally is. Sometimes simple cuddling comes into mind, it's not all hot and dirty.

Girls, when did you get your first sex toy? What was it and did it live up to your expectations?

[Jaro]

Yay! I'm glad this is picking on nicely and that there are a handful of girl in here too. It seems rather well balanced now.

@BondageLisa: please add your thanks (if you can) to the main post to indicate you are playing officially.

I myself will join too and ask all blue questions that have already been asked.

Edit: unfortunately it's not possible to thank my own post so I cannot add Thanks. I'm still playing though. :)

[Jaro]

Boys, when was the last time you had a wet dream and can you remember what it was you dreamt about?

I usually don't remember my dreams and when I do they're hardly ever sexy. But about a month ago I did dream something sexy that I do remember.

I dreamt that I was actually fucking a girl. She was naked and sitting with her legs spread wide as I penetrated her. I was fucking her good and the dream was so vivid I actually felt it, got worked up and came. Naturally it woke me up in shock as I am not allowed to cum without my misses explicit permission.

It wasn't a full on orgasm, I did manage to ruin it. And since I wasn't touching and it was all induced mentally while dreaming my misses didn't punish me for it.

Guys, how often do you see someone and have naughty thoughts involving them?

That doesn't happen too often. But when I see a lady I'm attracted to I do sometimes wonder what it would be like to fuck her or to tie up her boobs and spank her. Things like that. Depending on the type of person I sometimes wonder if she would like to dominate or prefer the man to dominate.

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

I have but female underwear and high heels only and only in private. I have several pairs of thongs and strings, a bra, fishnet stockings, babydoll and high heeled sandals which I have all worn. The bra and panties I have worn under my clothes in public too.

[Jaro]

How often you fake an orgasm and, if ever, what kind of sex were you having and with whom the last time when you faked it? Why did you fake it and did you get found out?

[Simi]

Girls, when did you get your first sex toy? What was it and did it live up to your expectations?

Hmmm i was 14/15, got it from an ann summers, small (6 inches) long vibe. It did although since then i've become a bit of a power queen when i vibe, i love strong vibrations(broken 5 different wand vibes at least :D)

How often you fake an orgasm and, if ever, what kind of sex were you having and with whom the last time when you faked it? Why did you fake it and did you get found out?

I havent faked once since i left my fairly vanilla partner so last time was november. You would of thought when all you need to do to make me cum is be a little dominant and order it he should be able to but no... he tried but it was just sad and didnt work, so i faked it to not hurt his feelings and because i know the feeling of my pussy milking his cock when i cum (or pretended to, good kegel muscles) was about the quickest way to get him off :D

[Simi]

Jaroface, why a worm? did you try other creatures and found that is where you seem to fit or did it come out of a degrading term that just stuck for you?

Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?

and another

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,000 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

[Thatboy]

Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?
Pet play - I don’t know it’s just fun in my opinion.

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,00 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

Divide it into two separate rooms with a little kitchen and bedroom in each and make a stair well from outside my house into it each and rent them out 400 a month

[Sismaster]

Jaroface, why a worm? did you try other creatures and found that is where you seem to fit or did it come out of a degrading term that just stuck for you?

Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?

Anything
and another

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,00 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

I would buy gaming and recording equipment to start a youtube channel. And a lot of high tech gadgets

[sadomasculine]

I've liked the OP, but I'm gonna go back and answer old questions.

Boys, when was the last time you had a wet dream and can you remember what it was you dreamt about?

I don't remember; I don't actually have wet dreams too often, and my dreams are very abstract. I most likely just dreamed that I was masturbating because that's common for me.

Guys, how often do you see someone and have naughty thoughts involving them?

It depends on the person. Other than my Master (who I can't see without "naughty" thoughts heh), I tend to only have thoughts about my most recent ex, who I usually see a few times a week.

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

I did in my teens, but a lot of it was related to other people forcing me to as bullying rather than anything sexual, so I hate it now and I can't do it; it's a limit.

Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?

Based on interactions I've had with people who are vanilla, or even a little kinky, probably pain. Spanking and clamps are things that other people feel very weird about in my experience. My ex seemed horrified at the idea of enjoying giving or receiving pain.
I really don't know how or why I got into it and what about it makes me feel so good, but it does. Sometimes I might be having a little trouble getting in the mood if I'm alone, but pain will always get me there, and being hurt by someone else (ie, my Master) is even more arousing. I like being at someone else's mercy in a controlled environment and being able to feel it for a few days afterwards.

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,00 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

I'd start paying off my medical bills and/or student debt ��


Girls; what is your opinion on porn and how it tends to represent women?

[Jaro]

Jaroface, why a worm? did you try other creatures and found that is where you seem to fit or did it come out of a degrading term that just stuck for you?

Thank you for your direct question. :)

It just came about. I used to just be Miss Butterfly's pet but I wanted something specific. Something that would be both humiliating but also, in some way, cute. I'm not sure if it was me or Miss Butterfly who came up with 'worm', but we both liked the sound of it and it stuck.

Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?

Uhm.... well.... I can only answer for the kinks I've tried. I have quite a few fantasies that are possibly even stranger but I can't really answer the last part of your question without having directly experienced them.

From what I've tried the strangest would be eating food with/off my feet. I actually would prefer to eat if off a women's feet but due to lack thereof I have used my own.

I have a major foot fetish and I like messy play and including food in kink so I have eaten with my feet (which is very difficult as I'm not quite flexible enough) as well as eaten food after standing in/on it for a while.

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,00 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

I have my own place but I don't have a basement. If I did have a basement I would probably just use it for storage as I don't know what else to do with it. Can't really have anything kinky in there. Even though I live alone people sometimes do visit.

Can you buy a spanking machine or a fucking machine for 100 dollars? I don't think so but that would be a good thing to put there if I could hide it somehow.

[Jaro]

Question for Simi:
Have you attempted my piss picture dare yet that I gave you some time ago in the other thread?

Question for all girls:
What size are your boobs and nipples? Are you happy with the size of them and, if not, what size would you prefer them to be?

[Matt:]

I am in as well :) First one in for the women :D

Boys, when was the last time you had a wet dream and can you remember what it was you dreamt about?

I don't think I've had one since I was very young. I have sleep issues and get very little deep sleep, so don't dream much at all.

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

I have, mainly just underwear, but occasionally more. I find it very embarrassing, because I know I look ridiculous in them lol I mean wearing female underwear can make me feel horny, but only because of giving up control aspect, because I'm ONLY doing it because I've been told too. Humiliation does come into it too, as if I was ever found out by others.....



Guys, how often do you see someone and have naughty thoughts involving them?

Not very often, occasionally if a women dresses or looks powerful/dominant then I may imagine them controlling me....


[COLOR="blue"]Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?

and another

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,00 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

1) hmm strangest, I guess for a vanilla person, maybe my humiliation kink or maybe CFNM (clothed female, naked male) I think either would be very strange for a vanilla person lol

2) I'm guessing that's 10,000? I think I'd set it up as some kinky play area so when Sam comes to stay we could have more kinky fun ;) Not exactly sure what kinky stuff I'd put in it, as have not really looked into it though.

[Walpole]

[COLOR="blue"]Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?

So my main job is as part of a Anglo-catholic church (so very traditional, incense and robes and all that stuff). Since starting work in the church I've had a real thing for romantic (and by extension sexual) encounters to use elements and imagery that is traditionally Catholic and Christian. There's nothing that gets me more hot and bothered than the idea of spending a medieval night of passion with a gay monk, or perhaps one of the local girls.

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,00 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

Firstly I'd put in carpets and then probably a piano and make it a sort of games room/relaxing area. Probably put in a television and a fridge. Some storage cupboards would also go somewhere and all of the room's furniture in a nice wood - maybe a sturdy pine.

Girls, what was your favourite song during your early teenage years? Do you still like it now?

Girls, have you ever felt conscious that you were a victim of the male cultural bias when applying for a job?

[batfinch]

So I need to say thanks for letting me join in.

[batfinch]

Girls do you still sit to pee in a public toilet that leaves a lot to be desired

[atownesq]

Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?

Probably chastity, I would think most people would view a fetish that involves NOT having orgasms counter-intuitive. The feeling of being controlled, a combination of sacrificing one of life's greatest pleasures and having my most intimate moments controlled by another is why I like it.

and another

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,00 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do? I already have quite a few toys, maybe I would invest in a sybian (not sure what they cost) or perhaps some sort of cage or bondage apparatus.

[Slavejenni]

Girls, when did you get your first sex toy? What was it and did it live up to your expectations?

I was given my first sex toy by my first gf at 13, it was a mini vibe and was pretty good. I used to use it on my clit.
I thought it was really good but nothing ever compared to the thrill of sexual discovery with her.

How often you fake an orgasm and, if ever, what kind of sex were you having and with whom the last time when you faked it? Why did you fake it and did you get found out?

Ive never faked an orgasm

What size are your boobs and nipples? Are you happy with the size of them and, if not, what size would you prefer them to be?

My boobs are 36E and I don’t like them at all. They are far to big, Id prefer to be a c cup.
My nipples are quite small though do grow quite a bit.

Girls, what was your favourite song during your early teenage years? Do you still like it now?

I discovered Eric Clapton at a very young age and the blues just spoke to me. My favourite song at that time was sunshine of your love and is still one of my favourites today

Girls, have you ever felt conscious that you were a victim of the male cultural bias when applying for a job?

Being one of the early girls in the trucking industry I faced massive sexist bias against me, most guys were adamant no girl could do the job at all and when I got a job working for a very big well know uk logistics company I was given the lowest level jobs for a very longtime until through bloody mindedness and determination I got into better loads.

When I left to start my own thing and build my own business I faced a massive up hill battle to get contracts and prove I can do the job. I had to be twice as good as a competitor to get same respect.

Now I’m very keen to promote girls in the industry and offer apprenticeships to girls who want to be drivers

Girls do you still sit to pee in a public toilet that leaves a lot to be desired

Some of the toilets in truck stops aren’t the best! So I always have anti bac wipes and have to clean the loo before I use it. If it’s too bad I’ll just walk out and hold it until the next stop

[Slavejenni]

Girls; what is your opinion on porn and how it tends to represent women?

Sorry I missed your question,

I think tha porn in recent times is becoming more and more degrading from what I’ve seen. I’m not a avid porn watcher by any means and am purely basing this opinion on ads for porn sites as I’m surfing for stories.

There seems to be a trend to treat women as objects and degrade them and with the amount of teens learning about sex from porn this worries me

[Walpole]

Being one of the early girls in the trucking industry I faced massive sexist bias against me, most guys were adamant no girl could do the job at all and when I got a job working for a very big well know uk logistics company I was given the lowest level jobs for a very longtime until through bloody mindedness and determination I got into better loads.

When I left to start my own thing and build my own business I faced a massive up hill battle to get contracts and prove I can do the job. I had to be twice as good as a competitor to get same respect.

Now I’m very keen to promote girls in the industry and offer apprenticeships to girls who want to be drivers

Wow! That's quite the story. Great job on helping to promote gender diversity in your field as well! I'd never really thought about trucking in that way before.

Slavejenni, what was it that attracted you to trucking business in the first place? And what was it that allowed you to keep going in the face of such adverse circumstances?

[Slavejenni]

Slavejenni, what was it that attracted you to trucking business in the first place? And what was it that allowed you to keep going in the face of such adverse circumstances?

Several things attracted me to trucking, I’ve always liked big machines, the freedom of the open road, the love of driving, former career in the army and the fact that it was a male dominated industry and I wanted to challenge that. I decided on oversize loads as my speciality because there were zero chance of a woman being accepted in that side and I thought you wanna bet?

I am the kind of person that once I set my mind to something I don’t quit and the more sexism I faced the more it made me mad and determined to keep going. I also had this feeling I wasn’t just doing it for me but for other girls interested in trucking but didn’t have the pig headed stubbornness I do lol

I decided to go on my own and build my own company because I found out how little of the contract value drivers actually got and because if I was the boss I could hire other women.

I do want to be clear to any girls interested the trucking industry has made big strides in recent years and is far more accepting of women now and 90% of drivers are very accepting of women now

[Slavejenni]

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

[sadomasculine]

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

Yeah, I agree; no idea why so many guys do this. I'd love to hear from guys who do this to know why. Even when I'm on grindr, I'm not there for pictures, y'know. If I wanted to look at pictures of dicks, it's a lot easier than talking to real people.

[SubRed92]

Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?


I'm really not kinky at all. Even anal for guys these days isn't considered much of a kink is it? I'm just too tame for this question xD. Perhaps I am the vanilla person!

Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,000 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

Now this I can answer better. The odds of me having a basement where I live is extremely low. If I did happen to have one I'm sure I'd have more than 100,000 spare. Anyway, I'd turn the basement into a cozy home theatre. It's gotta be really fancy with excellent surround sound and a crisp and sharp projector. With soundproofing I can get an acoustic drumkit as well. You can also be up to some kinky shenanigans and nobody will hear...

Slavejenni, it's really nice to read about your trucking story. Now that you have your own company, what do you think of the Tesla Semis? Have you thought of utilizing it in the future for your company?

[atownesq]

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

I'm not one to send dick pics, so I can only assume for the same reason some guys still honk their car horns or cat whistle at girls, they are idiots and/or simply out of ideas. I would be curious if in the history of man any of these actions has actually worked and the guy hooked up with the object of his affection.

That being said, there's a big difference in solicited vs unsolicited here. When a girl specifically asks for one, I will send. For example, sometimes my Mistress will want to see that I'm still wearing a chastity cage.

[SubRed92]

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

Almost missed this question. I've never sent any unsolicited, so I won't know exactly why. If I were to make a guess, the idea of a girl seeing their dick (virtual or otherwise) must turn them on somehow. Giving them attention surely gives them more pleasure though, so angry responses are a no-no.

[Jaro]

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

I have never sent a dick pic without it being asked for. My misses have asked me to send them a pic of my dick so naturally I obliged. But I know they didn't ask it because they wanted to see what my dick looks like.

Most, if not all, women do not like the sight of strange dick. I think most guys know this. Yet many still sent them unsolicited and the only reason I can think of is that simply knowing that a girl has seen it arouses them. It doesn't matter if the girl liked it or not. Simply having it been seen by them is enough to turn them on.

I agree it's incredibly rude and disrespectful but it happens and I'm afraid it will continue to happen.

[Matt:]

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

I have no idea why guy's do that, especially unsolicited. It's not like cocks are that nice to look at...

If I'm asked for one, I'll probably send it as I can't say no lol but never if not requested.

[Calcifer]

Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?

I'm a very kinky person, so I'm into lots of things that would shock a vanilla person. The strangest is probably my fart fetish (which is weird even among kinky people). The main reason it gets me worked up is the humiliation factor. Smelling/worshiping somebody's farts is very degrading, and that turns me on. Also, I've always been turned on by smells in general, from perfume to body odor. Coming from a medical background, I have a higher tolerance for bad smells than most people do (and a higher tolerance for gross things in general).


Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,000 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

I've actually thought about this sort of thing before! I would definitely turn the basement into a dungeon, first of all. I would populate it with bondage furniture (Saint Andrew's Cross, stocks, cages, etc) and I would have all sorts of implements for impact play (flogs, paddles, whips, etc) and other torture devices. Sound-proofing would be nice. Depending on how much space I have in my basement, I'd like to have other areas too... Maybe a room dedicated to medical/science role play. It would take some planning, for sure. Even if I don't use all this, just having a kink dungeon would be awesome. I also really like the idea of having my own place to use as a play-space for like-minded kinky people. Doing something like Kink.com's The Upper Floor would be really interesting. Like a mini hierarchical BDSM society. Of course most of this is just fantasy, and I probably wouldn't make it a reality. I really just want a dungeon for the sake of having one, lol.

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

I don't know why people send them unsolicited. Hopefully they don't think women actually want to see their dicks. Maybe they know women don't like it, and they just do it to get a reaction. It's also odd to see guys use them as profile pictures for some websites (like FetLife). "You wanna see what I look like? BAM! *posts picture of penis*" lol.

I think Jaro is onto something - it could be an exhibitionist tendency. Just like some people enjoy flashing others, or streaking, maybe they're just turned on by women seeing their dick, whether the women like it or not.

[feetandtickling]

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

I agree: why?

I have never done! :cool:

[Walpole]

If it wasn't clear already from the fact I wanted that question to be asked - I haven't done this either.
It seems that no one here has.
That said - I don't think someone who had would admit to it. At the very least I have never met anybody who has admitted to it.

[Calcifer]

That said - I don't think someone who had would admit to it. At the very least I have never met anybody who has admitted to it.

It's a judgmental question that's obviously meant to shame anybody who admits to it. Especially after every woman here just said it bothers them. I think we should stay away from such questions, because they're likely to ostracize one or more members of the group.

Girls, what sort of body type do you prefer in men? Thin/lean or large/muscular?

[Slavejenni]

Slavejenni, it's really nice to read about your trucking story. Now that you have your own company, what do you think of the Tesla Semis? Have you thought of utilizing it in the future for your company?

I think electric power is coming but there are a few reasons I just don’t see it as practical.

The range that these vehicles could deliver when hauling heavy loads
The lack of infrastructure for charging points
The down time of charging when the vehicle could be working
The cost of the vehicle in the first place

I think that the hydrogen fuel cell is a far more realistic alternative to diesel for large commercial vehicles (and domestic vehicles) as the infrastructure could be easily adapted to accommodate hydrogen pumps and is more convienient as filling up is what we’re used too.

There are environmental concerns to large amounts of lithium ion batteries as the mines that produce the ore needed for them are some of the most polluted places on Earth.

So unfortunately even as a keen environmentalist I wouldn’t consider an all electric fleet until these issues are resolved. However a lot of the big truck manufacturers are looking into hybrid Diesel engines and these have some promise in reducing emissions.

It's a judgmental question that's obviously meant to shame anybody who admits to it. Especially after every woman here just said it bothers them. I think we should stay away from such questions, because they're likely to ostracize one or more members of the group.

Thanks for telling me my intentions in my question I love it when men do that. My question was worded to show confusion not shame people and was clearly referring to unsolicited pics sent if you’d been on the receiving end you’d be baffled to or upset as some girls can be.

I asked the question on here because a male member wanted to know but as it was a question for guys couldn’t ask it.

If you thought my intention was to shame you should ask me what my intent was not throw around accusations.

Girls, what sort of body type do you prefer in men? Thin/lean or large/muscular?

Personally I prefer a fit and healthy body type, I prefer taller men to shorter but the most attractive quality in a man is good sense of humour, kindness and intelligence

[Calcifer]

Thanks for telling me my intentions in my question I love it when men do that. My question was worded to show confusion not shame people and was clearly referring to unsolicited pics sent if you’d been on the receiving end you’d be baffled to or upset as some girls can be.

I asked the question on here because a male member wanted to know but as it was a question for guys couldn’t ask it.

If you thought my intention was to shame you should ask me what my intent was not throw around accusations.

I'm sorry about my choice of words. What I meant to say is that I think asking men whether they send dick pics is an effort to shame men who do, and we should avoid that sort of shaming in this conversation. Your question only asks why men do it. Most of us felt the need to say that we don't send them, but I don't think specifying whether we send them or not was necessary to answer your question.

[TrisPrior]

Girls, what sort of body type do you prefer in men? Thin/lean or large/muscular?

I'm joining with this question. I prefer lean/thin but fit, but not too muscley, like a 6 pack is nice, but if you have huge arms and legs like a weightlifter that's a bit of a turn off. More of a runner's body I guess?

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?

If I don't answer a truth you direct at me within a few days please PM me and remind me to check the thread. <3

[Calcifer]

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?

Small boobs! This might be an unpopular opinion, but I generally prefer small boobs. My ideal is probably B cups, but I'm honestly very happy with any size, whether smaller or larger. But I will say that large areolas look more natural on big tits than on small ones.

[Chephren]

I am in as well :) First one in for the women :D

Boys, when was the last time you had a wet dream and can you remember what it was you dreamt about?

It must have been somewhen in my teens and I don't remember to be honest...


Guys, how often do you see someone and have naughty thoughts involving them?

That very much depends on the situations and my state of denial. If I've been in denial for a while it's about daily. In a sexual active week I'd say perhaps once a week. (It gets less as I get older...)

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

Yes and it's mostly embarassing, albeit I've been told I can walk pretty well in heels. It's nothing I'd call a fetish of mine to be honest, it's rather the powerplay involved being made to wear something not made for my sex/age...



Boys, What would you say is your strangest kink in the eyes of a vanilla person and what about it gets you worked up?
I "like" piss play as in being forced to drink something vile. I don't think most vanilla people would understand that.
Or perhaps my like of denial. I don't know much peaople that would "choose" such a state or enforce it.


Boys, If you had your own place with an empty basement and a spare 100,000 (dollars or pounds, i dont mind) what would you do?

I'd buy lots of whisky casks and start a nice collection. (ok, two casks perhaps....:p) Probably rather a nice collection of bottles.

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

Can't answer only guess. Perhaps they think they can impress you? Somehow?
Or a powerplay by forcing you to watch something sexual of them...




Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?



Smaller tits, but that's more the case because I like smaller tits more than bigger ones.



Girls would you say sex without penetration can compare to sex with penetration?

[Slavejenni]

Girls would you say sex without penetration can compare to sex with penetration?

For me absolutely, personally I orgasm much much harder with oral sex than I ever do from being penetrated.

[Walpole]

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?


Like the last two people to have posted I am in general more of a small boob person, at least when it comes to girls I've been in a relationship with previously, and so I'd definitely go for the second option anyway. Its not that I think women with larger breasts are ugly or anything - its just my personal preference.

Girls who have lesbian experience, what sizes of breasts do you prefer?

[Matt:]

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?



I'd go for smaller tits. I jut like them in proportion to their body, they can be too big...

[Slavejenni]

Girls who have lesbian experience, what sizes of breasts do you prefer?

I don’t really have a preference on size, I just love boobs. Small, medium or large there all beautiful. As long as they look natural, I don’t go for the fake look

[Sismaster]

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

I don't know either. I don't want to see a other mans thing hanging

[Sismaster]

I'm joining with this question. I prefer lean/thin but fit, but not too muscley, like a 6 pack is nice, but if you have huge arms and legs like a weightlifter that's a bit of a turn off. More of a runner's body I guess?

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?

If I don't answer a truth you direct at me within a few days please PM me and remind me to check the thread. <3
I want a gilr wiht bigger boobs and areolas, but not bimbo sized. just a large cup.

Girls would you rather have giant boobs ar be a male for a day? (while you are a male no one knows it is you because everyone still thinks you exist as a girl.)

[Jaro]

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?

I'm definitely a big boob lover and I love larger darker colored areolas too! I like how you call them pepperoni nipples but yeah, pretty hot! :p

[batfinch]

Girls How often do you go out Pantiless?[COLOR="magenta"]

[Jaro]

What is the worst accident that happened to you when on your period?

Sorry, trying to challenge the 'will answer anything' claim. :p

[sadomasculine]

It's a judgmental question that's obviously meant to shame anybody who admits to it. Especially after every woman here just said it bothers them. I think we should stay away from such questions, because they're likely to ostracize one or more members of the group.

Or maybe the fact that every woman has said it bothers them means it's a bad thing to do, and people who do it should have to stop and reevaluate?

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?

Well, I'm gay, so..
I guess smaller boobs, but ehhh personality is more important.

[Thatboy]

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

I don’t get why some guys do the unsolicited ones, some girls ask for it though

[Thatboy]

I'm joining with this question. I prefer lean/thin but fit, but not too muscley, like a 6 pack is nice, but if you have huge arms and legs like a weightlifter that's a bit of a turn off. More of a runner's body I guess?

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?

If I don't answer a truth you direct at me within a few days please PM me and remind me to check the thread. <3

Big (realistic sized boobs no 46JJ boobs or shit) about a D cup is idea
Medium sized areolas

[Sismaster]

Girsl, do you rather have a guy with giant penis or with medium penis?

[sub_ely]

Girls would you say sex without penetration can compare to sex with penetration? [/QUOTE]

Sure thing! I cum faster without penetration but then... it's over to quickly and I get ticklish.


Girls would you rather have giant boobs ar be a male for a day? (while you are a male no one knows it is you because everyone still thinks you exist as a girl.)[/QUOTE]

I have huge biibs already. Let's try being a male for a day.

What is the worst accident that happened to you when on your period?

most are the Same, bleeding through pants. I did that at the in-laws once during a dinner table conversation and had to find a way to discretely clean up the blood that was beginning to look on the kitchen chair, while keeping my rear away from them through the process.


[QUOTE=Sismaster;3274207]Girsl, do you rather have a guy with giant penis or with medium penis?

medium. Giant might literally rip something.

[SubRed92]

Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?

My preferences on boob size fluctuates from time to time. If I have to pick one I'd say the big ones! They just seem so fun to play with xD. Big puffy nipples are awesome too. Ultimately, the body proportion must be appropriate.

All boobs are good boobs

[Slavejenni]

Girls would you rather have giant boobs ar be a male for a day? (while you are a male no one knows it is you because everyone still thinks you exist as a girl.)

I’d go for being Male for a day I already have large boobs and they cause me enough problems lol

What is the worst accident that happened to you when on your period?

Nothing horrendous, I once bled through my panties and onto a sofa when I was younger, at the time it was the most mortifying experience on earth especially as it was at a friends house. There mum was very sweet though and didn’t make a fuss and told me it wasn’t an issue. She even helped me with buying tampons for the first time.

Girsl, do you rather have a guy with giant penis or with medium penis?

Medium please, a giant penis would tear me to pieces!

[Jaro]

I'm glad this thread is picking up nicely.

But please make sure you answer all blue or pink questions that were posted after you joined. It is mandatory to answer them all and some have been skipped.

Also, if you had enough and want to leave. Please just post in the thread that you are leaving and remove your thanks.

Thank you.

[Slavejenni]

I'm glad this thread is picking up likely.

But please make sure you answer all blue or pink questions that were posted after you joined. It is mandatory to answer them all and some have been skipped.

Also, if you had enough and want to leave. Please just post in the thread that you are leaving and remove your thanks.

Thank you.

Pretty sure I’ve not missed any but if I do just let me know I missed your question or even if it’s not yours and I’ll answer it

[Chephren]

A little question by slutren...
Why do you shave (if you do) and what do you shave?
(Hygiene, social pressure, for the looks...)

[Matt:]

For the girls, have you ever, or would you ever use the male toilets in a public place, if there is a long queue for the female toilets?

[Slavejenni]

A little question by slutren...
Why do you shave (if you do) and what do you shave?
(Hygiene, social pressure, for the looks...)

I wax not shave, I wax my vagina. I got into the habit of doing it because I had a mistress who liked it but I noticed that the psoriasis I had there cleared up because I was able to moisturise properly without hair. Plus I prefer the way it looks

For the girls, have you ever, or would you ever use the male toilets in a public place, if there is a long queue for the female toilets?

I’d only ever go in male toilets if ordered from the ones I’ve seen they aren’t very nice ;)

Side note in some countries (Holland has them and some areas of Germany) they have unisex bathrooms at truck stops. There aren’t many female truckers on the roads so where they do exist there’s rarely a queue. Out in town or whatever I’d rather hold it.

[Jaro]

Pretty sure I’ve not missed any but if I do just let me know I missed your question or even if it’s not yours and I’ll answer it

You're good. Thank you for being so quick in answering all the questions.

[batfinch]

Girls have you ever worn male underwear?

[batfinch]

Originally Posted by TrisPrior View Post
Boys, would you rather be with a girl with big tits but large areolas 'pepperoni nipples' or smaller boobs but more medium or small areolas?

I am not really into nipples or bobbs more a bottom person
Originally Posted by BondageLisa View Post
Guys, how often do you see someone and have naughty thoughts involving them?

I was in the swimming pool and saw a goy smack a females bottom. It happened so fast and I could not believe my eyes

[friskycowboy]

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?

I'm actually wearing a pair of panties right now. It makes me feel sexy and naughty at the same time.

[friskycowboy]

credit to Walpole for making me think to ask this,

Guys, dick pics, especially unsolicited, seriously, WHY?

I can't say that I've ever sent an unsolicited one before. I don't understand the need of guys to do that.

[Slavejenni]

You're good. Thank you for being so quick in answering all the questions.

My pleasure, great idea for a thread. Ty for putting it up

Girls have you ever worn male underwear?

Ive worn women’s boxers but never any underwear designed for men, no

[lola.fox]

hi boys (:

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

[Walpole]

My pleasure, great idea for a thread. Ty for putting it up

Seconding this. Its a really fun idea Jaro. Thanks for putting it into action!

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

Hmmn, thinking about it I'm not sure I ever have done. I'm sure I have done to a couple of things in the stories section but that would have been a while ago, I can't remember which ones and I'm not sure if they were by girls.

[Jaro]

hi boys (:

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

Honestly (which I have to be in this thread) I don't recall actually jerking off to girls here. There are sure some girls who arouse and have aroused me, as well as reading their reports. AndreaSwallows for example, or Little pet, or my misses. :o
But actually jerking off to them specifically, no.
But I have been jerking off while perusing getDare in general as many threads and stories turn me on a lot.

The blog that I recall aroused me a lot was the second part of this one by Matt: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=84492. About his owner Samishere peeing into his mouth. The thought of something like that arouses me to no end. But this is just one example. I didn't jerk to in and thus it didn't put me over the edge.

[Jaro]

How often do you shave your legs and armpits? How smooth are they right now at this very moment? How do you feel in general about shaving those parts of your body? Do you feel you should do it?

[friskycowboy]

hi boys (:

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

I don't think I've jerked off looking at any girls from getDare yet...

[Calcifer]

hi boys (:

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

I don't think I ever have, at least not within the past few years. Some of the posts/blogs/stories/photos definitely arouse me, but I don't remember masturbating or cumming to any of them.

[Chephren]

To be honest I've not jerked of to an actual girl on here.
Some of the stories I've jerked to, although not for quite a while. The last one I recall was about some dominant sorority story.

[batfinch]

COLOR="Plum"]how often have you/photo set you over the edge most recently?you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story[/COLOR]

I have not

[Sismaster]

hi boys (:

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

I have never jerkef off to a girl on here. Only to the dares I received.


Girls do you rather have large boobs or large hips and ass? and why?

[lola.fox]

How often do you shave your legs and armpits? How smooth are they right now at this very moment? How do you feel in general about shaving those parts of your body? Do you feel you should do it?

i shave my legs at every shower and am lucky the hair doesn't grow back quickly there. i actually don't shave my underarms - i wax them because it's a much smoother look/feel and takes about a month to come back for me which is sooo nice! my legs are shaved currently but i'm due for my waxing this week so my underarms are a bit unkempt atm. i hate shaving and would prefer to laser/wax everything given the money/time. i do feel like i need to do it because i don't feel clean otherwise.



Girls do you rather have large boobs or large hips and ass? and why?

i'd prefer large hips + ass because it looks nicer with outfits while having large boobs really get in the way of wearing cute things. not to mention wearing button downs are THE most annoying things in the world when your chest is not proportionate to the rest of your torso D:.

[lola.fox]

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans? ;)

[kurious kat]

How often do you shave your legs and armpits? How smooth are they right now at this very moment? How do you feel in general about shaving those parts of your body? Do you feel you should do it?

I shave my armpits every other day, on average. They have a tiny bit of texture right now, but it's not especially noticeable or visible. I shave my legs much less often, as my hair is relatively fine and sparse compared to some other women, but it itches like crazy when it starts growing out again. Usually I only shave my legs if I'm going to be bare-legged -- so right now they feel pretty smooth and soft to me, but that's because they've grown out, not because they're shaved!

I do feel like I should shave under my arms, especially if I'm going to wear anything sleeveless, so I'm presentable. I probably "should" shave my legs more regularly too, but honestly, they're usually not visible to anyone else, so I'm not especially fussed with it. I like the smooth feeling, but I like not having to deal with stubble even more!

Girls do you rather have large boobs or large hips and ass? and why?

I think I'd prefer the big hips and ass, because they won't cause back pain!

[Calcifer]

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans? ;)

I think people can be attractive at any age. :) My great-grandmother is in her 90s and she still looks good! But assuming that you mean sexual attraction, I think the oldest woman I was attracted to was in her late 30s or early 40s. We worked together. I never asked her age (that would be rude), but I did know her oldest child was only a few years younger than me (she was divorced). She was friendly, confident, hard-working, and beautiful. She was very fit (probably could beat my ass), had a few tasteful tattoos, and had beautiful, curly hair.

Working with other adults definitely changed the way I think of age. In college, it seemed like all older adults were my superiors (teachers, relatives, etc). And then suddenly I had co-workers in their 40s who became friends with me, and who wanted to chat, get dinner, go to bars, and invite me to their houses. It's pretty cool, actually.

[kurious kat]

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

[batfinch]

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

I find it quite digusting and walk away

[Calcifer]

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

It depends on what they say. If somebody says "he/she has a really nice ass" then I might say "yeah you're right, he/she does." If somebody says "I'd really love to sleep with him/her" then I might say "Hm... okay. He/she is very attractive, after all, so I understand." But if somebody says "I bet he/she is such a slut, with a body like that. I would do X and Y to him/her, and I bet he/she would like it" then I would ignore them or try to change the subject. I've never been good at handling those situations. I'm too socially awkward and non-confrontational.

I don't have any close friends who talk like that, so it's not really an issue.

[Matt:]

hi boys (:

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

Other than Sam and Lucy I don't think I have jerked off to a specific girl on GetDare, feels a bit wrong somehow. Haven't read many stories, but I may have jerked at some parts of Butterfly's and Jaro's story....

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans? ;)

I don't recall the specific age, but I have definitely been attracted to older women at times... Maybe up to early 50's...

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

I would feel very uncomfortable and try and change the subject if I could. Depending on what they were saying and how well I know them I might challenge them about it.

[Sismaster]

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans? ;)
I think on or two years younger than me to early 30
For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

It never happens, but when it does I think I would "listen" just to know who and what, but not the details. Just who she likes an sorta why


Girls same question for you: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

[SubRed92]

hi boys (:

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

I do that zero often. There hasn't been any posts or blogs that stood out for me so far. Perhaps I should explore a little bit more. I'm not a very excitable person in general, that might be why as well.

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans? ;)

I would say 35 to 40. I mostly only notice people that hover around my age. However, it could be that someone I've seen on the streets is older than I thought...

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

I won't change the subject for sure. Minimal participation. A couple head nods and smiles to respond and the "conversation" will die down eventually. Not that I mind these kind of topics.

For the girls, what are your greatest pet peeves?

[Walpole]

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?


I'd probably try and exit the conversation. I already have a reputation among my friends for being a passive prude so I try not to do anything that reinforces that and I often find that shutting down their sexual banter usually results in them teasing me about how prudish I am.

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans?


For women 41 is the oldest person I've consciously found very attractive.

Girls, What's the age range of the oldest men you've ever found attractive?

[lola.fox]

Girls same question for you: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

it depends - if it’s something like ‘so and so was a good kisser’ i’d say ‘yeah blabla is too’ or not chime in at all if it’s not a conversation i was apart of to start with. if someone was being obscene i’d either ignore/get away from them if they made me really uncomfortable and wanted to make sure i was safe from them - or if it was someone i knew i’d be blunt and say they’re rude/gross/false as i’ve done that before and have no shame offending someone like that [as long as i know it’s not a stranger who will rage-murder me :p]

[lola.fox]

For the girls, what are your greatest pet peeves?

people who don’t give me ample personal space, when someone repeatedly interrupts me, when people won’t cut to the chase and just say what they want, when people are rude to others who are just doing their job [retail/waitstaff/nurses/phone reps/etc], micromanagement, people who don’t user blinkers, pessimists, spam phonecalls, persistent throat clearing, the same commercial appearing over and over during the course of one show, eavesdropping coworkers, when your airfare increasing right before you purchase it, needing to stop for gasoline when your’re in a rush, people who take up two parking spots for one car, when you lose the remote in your bed, when you’re missing one ingredient for a meal you really want to make, when your’re supposed to have a snow day but then it doesn’t even flurry, loud chewing, people blowing smoke in my face, slow walkers, people who don’t cover their mouths when they cough or sneeze, people who don’t replace toilet paper when it’s at the end if it’s roll, people who don’t use headphones in public places, people who don’t say thank you when you hold the door open for them, pretending that you didn’t just create 5+ accounts and that someone must have hacked your email because thats the only explanation, when your package doesnt come on on time, people who use petnames on me without clearing it first, people who leave water everywhere in the bathroom, voicemails, private chats, when people don’t give you ketchup for a to go order of fries, when you smudge your nails right after you get them done, and when people find your kik on your profile but pretend not to see any of the other information.

i think that covers it for now ;).

[lola.fox]

Girls, What's the age range of the oldest men you've ever found attractive?

i’d say around 55-57 ish.

[lola.fox]

what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?

[SubRed92]

what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?

Five ice cubes in the rear.
A fried chicken wing in the mouth xD.

[Calcifer]

what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?

A small, metal butt plug.

[Sismaster]

what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?

some ice cubes




Girls what is your favorite dare that you have done

[Chephren]

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans? ;)

About 60, but it depends on the person. I've met very attractive old women and to be honest there is more about being sexy than just looking good. Charisma, experience...

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?
It depends. Normally I don't stand very sexualized statements, like"That's a fine bitch. I can just imagine to f* her up her a*. But to be honest I don't have much friends that talk like that. But if these are statements like she has fine boobs I normally join in.

what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?

My suction cup dildo, as I've to fuck myself for a substantial time...

[sadomasculine]

how often have you jerked off to the girls of getDare? what post/blog/story/photo set you over the edge most recently?

Never lmao. People's stories or descriptions of dares they've done or dare ideas can sometimes get me off, but they're generally written by or written for men. That's stuff that fits with my loves/likes.

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans? ;)

I don't find women attractive.

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

It depends..... I spend most of my time around queer people and conversation tends to be a lot more respectful.
Women talking about women sexually tends to just be them talking about their partners, and it's usually in the presence of their partners, so it's nice.
Men talking about men sexually isn't always about partners, but it's not in the misogynist way that straight men talk about women. Some of it can be along those lines, though, but being amongst gay men talking about how a guy's ass is cute or how they'd want to fuck a certain guy is more of a nice open expression of sexuality and, while I don't typically initiate that kind of conversation, it's nice to go along with.

what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?

Ass: my 10" vibrator
Mouth: some chips :p


hmm i sure wish these questions actually considered that not all of us guys actually like women, because I feel like that's what half my answers are.....

[Matt:]

what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?

Ass - nothing
Mouth - penis gag :o

[SubRed92]

Girls, if you are only allowed to read and post on one thread for two weeks, which would it be?

[Slavejenni]

How often do you shave your legs and armpits? How smooth are they right now at this very moment? How do you feel in general about shaving those parts of your body? Do you feel you should do it?

I am very lucky that I have extremely fine hair on my arms and legs and I don’t need to shave or wax them at all, same with my armpits. If I did have hair I’d shave it though just because I’d prefer to have no hair than hair.

Girls do you rather have large boobs or large hips and ass? and why?

Well I already have large boobs and I’d swap them in a heart beat for full hips as my boobs hurt my back!

Girls same question for you: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

This happens to me all the time. As I work in a very Male industry and that kind of talk is very common. Frankly I tell them off and ask them how they’d feel if I was talking out their sister or mother that way, that usually shuts them up quick lol.

Amongst girlfriends sure we discuss sex and others in a sexual way, like she’s hot or nice legs etc but amongst m group that’s as far as it goes.

IFor the girls, what are your greatest pet peeves?

I’ll narrow it down lol

Sexists, msoginists, men assuming they are my dom before even saying hi! Unsolicited dick picks (takes meds) I’ll stop now

IGirls, What's the age range of the oldest men you've ever found attractive?

ummmm I don’t know to be honest, the oldest guy I’ve found attractive was in his sixties but age range I don’t know age is irrelevant. Someone can be attractive at any age.

Girls what is your favorite dare that you have done

Ive had a few really good ones on here and love that dares are different to bdsm play.

I’ve had to run round truck stop naked
Had to drive with clamps on my nipples with no bottoms on
And
Had to spank myself ten times for every X colour car I saw

[Slavejenni]

Girls, if you are only allowed to read and post on one thread for two weeks, which would it be?

This is my new fave thread so easy one, this thread

[lola.fox]

Girls what is your favorite dare that you have done

i don't really do dares often and go so far and long between them that i hardly remember them, so i don't think i have a current one :p.

[lola.fox]

Girls, if you are only allowed to read and post on one thread for two weeks, which would it be?

probably my AMA because it's got a few layers to it so i could keep myself rather busy if it was more active!

[lola.fox]

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

[Calcifer]

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

I'm pretty sure the last porn I watched was cosplay D.Va and Mei (from Overwatch) making out. I was told to only watch cosplay porn for a week, from the "Person above gets a new fetish" thread.

[kurious kat]

Girls same question for you: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

This doesn't come up a lot. If it's strangers nearby and I think they meant for me to "overhear," I'll generally ignore it fiercely, so they don't get whatever reaction they're looking for.

If the speaker is someone I know, I might gently point out that the object of their lustful desire is a person too.

If it's a girlfriend talking about her boyfriend or date, I'll probably just laugh and encourage her in the relationship (like if she says what a great kisser he is, or that he's very fine without his shirt, etc).

For the girls, what are your greatest pet peeves?

Lyft drivers who park improperly on lunch breaks, or cut you off like maniacs when merging, despite the fact that driving is their job.

Saying "I'll text you when I'm free" instead of making an actual plan, so I can't do anything else without having to constantly check my phone.

Guys who hear, "no, I'm not comfortable with that," and think that it means "give it 5 minutes, then keep trying."

Girls, What's the age range of the oldest men you've ever found attractive?

In their sixties, for sure. Possibly in their seventies.

Girls what is your favorite dare that you have done

The one I think about the most is probably something I did for the first person I talked to here on getDare. It was a dice dare that I could only stop doing when I rolled the right combination, and it was more unpredictable than I expected, which also made it surprisingly, stressfully, fun.

If you are only allowed to read and post on one thread for two weeks, which would it be?

I'd choose Share the Burden (https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=279068), because there are always interesting tasks posted that I can do, and I really enjoy the reports made by other thread participants.

[Sismaster]

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

probably gay



Girls, what is the most important thing in a man to have sex.

[Slavejenni]

Girls, what is the most important thing in a man to have sex.

The most important thing a man can do in sex or the thing that arrract me to a man?

Can you clarify what you are asking please

[sadomasculine]

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

Probably some rough gay fucking.

[Sismaster]

The most important thing a man can do in sex or the thing that arrract me to a man?

Can you clarify what you are asking please

What must a man have to have sex with you/ when do you allow a man to have sex with you

[Jaro]

what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans? ;)

I think the women in question was in her 40s.

For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?

I do not respond really. I don't join in. I just pretend I have no opinion on the subject. I avoid talking about sex and kink in (live) company.

what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?

My medium sized Doc Johnson butt plug. I have to wear it 6 hours a day as a rule, but currently I am having a break.

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

It was a blonde woman giving a very sloppy blowjob. Her mouth and face ended up being covered with a lot of drool. I didn't watch it to the end though but I suspect it to get a lot messier so I added the video to my favorites. Definitely should watch all of it!

[Jaro]

What was the last thing that got inserted into your vagina? When was this?

[Bloxo]

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

It would have been a lost bets video, Two girls playing a strip battleship game with exposure for the loser

[Matt:]

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

I very rarely watch porn unless it's specifically for a dare or task I have to do. The last I watched was some cfnm porn

[Matt:]

Do you like it when a guy offers to open a door, give up their seat on a bus/train, offers to let you go first or anything like that, because you're a lady? Or is it not something you would want?

[kurious kat]

Do you like it when a guy offers to open a door, give up their seat on a bus/train, offers to let you go first or anything like that, because you're a lady? Or is it not something you would want?

Oh! I love when people hold a door for me! It's not essential or anything, and I often decline offers of a seat on the train if I do get one -- but it always feels very courteous. I assume they know I'd be fine on my own, so my personal interpretation is that they're going out of their way to be attentive, and kind.

What was the last thing that got inserted into your vagina? When was this?

Fingers, three evenings ago.

Girls, what is the most important thing in a man to have sex. (What must a man have to have sex with you/ when do you allow a man to have sex with you)

He must make me feel safe and comfortable in his company. After that, he may make it clear that he feels desire for me, and he will have a significant advantage if he is kinky in compatible ways.

But if I don't feel safe and respected as a person at the moment when the question comes up, it won't ever matter how cute he is, or how great his moves might be in bed!

[SubRed92]

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

I haven't watched any porn in months. The most recent was clips from the edging subreddit. They were mainly deliciously slow handjobs or blowjobs with a huge focus on the tip of the cock. I can't commit to long videos so short clips do the job perfectly.

Girls, do you watch porn? If you do, what types do you prefer? If not, any particular reason why?

[Sismaster]

Girls, 1. if you could change your body what would you change.
2. If you could only change one thing about your body, what would you change

[kurious kat]

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

[Slavejenni]

What must a man have to have sex with you/ when do you allow a man to have sex with you

Thank you for clarifying, for me to fancy a guy and possibly have sex with them I like my men to be physically fit, nice eyes are pretty essential. Be kind and attentive. An intellectual connection on some level is pretty important but not essential and a gentleman. Helps if he’s kinky too. I personally lean much more towards women and I’m quite picky with men

What was the last thing that got inserted into your vagina? When was this?

Last thing in my vagina was my rabbit and it was last night. Jessica never disappoints ;)

Do you like it when a guy offers to open a door, give up their seat on a bus/train, offers to let you go first or anything like that, because you're a lady? Or is it not something you would want?

I do love it when a guy or a girl for that matter is chivalrous. Obviously I’m capable and I assume they know that but chivalry is a highly desirable quality in my book.

Girls, do you watch porn? If you do, what types do you prefer? If not, any particular reason why?

I very very rarely watch any porn, apart from clips ppl want to show me. I just don’t find porn a turn on. I do enjoy erotic stories a lot as they allow my imagination to get going.

Girls, 1. if you could change your body what would you change.
2. If you could only change one thing about your body, what would you change


The answer to both is the same, I’d change my breasts. There far too big and hurt my back. Plus I have that problem all of us get with big boobs ppl forget where are eyes are! Lol

[Bloxo]

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

That’s an easy one, experience multiple orgasma

[Jaro]

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

I would probably wear sandals and dresses/skirts.
I do not identify as a girl or a sissy in any way and private crossdressing is only a minor like. But if I were actually a woman I would like to wear sandals and dresses because they are way more comfortable to wear (when it's warm) and I could wear them anywhere. I always find closed shoes uncomfortable and my feet are never cold anyway.
I know I could wear sandals as a man, but not to work and I do think open shoes look very silly on a guy personally.
But as a woman there would be no bias and I could do simply do this.

[sadomasculine]

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

I'm not sure. We have it a lot easier and if I wanted to do anything that is stereotypically feminine, I'd just do it. I guess there are more straight men than gay men, so I might be excited that it would be easier to find a man. But, at the same time, the average gay man has a much better personality than a straight man, in my experience.
I'll go with multiple orgasms.

[Matt:]

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

hmm, as others have said multiple orgasms, but also better sex toys! (wand, vibes etc..girls have far better sex toys than guys! (from what I ave heard anyway)) Wear sexy clothing, especially lingerie (and actually look good in them :p ) I also think it is easier for girls to "pick" someone up if they want to (for sexual/kinky play)

[Sismaster]

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

I would love that I can just wear dressed while it is warm and that I can dance and "sing" to girly songs. and some random girgirl stuff extra



Girsl if you were a male out of nowhere what would you be excited to be able to do

[SubRed92]

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

Aside from the multiple orgasms pointed out by so many of us, I think masturbating is just much less messy. As guys we gotta deal with all the semen aftermath xD. Of course, that's if you don't squirt...

[kurious kat]

I love all you guys' answers. Thank you for such thoughtful responses!

Do you watch porn? If you do, what types do you prefer? If not, any particular reason why?

I enjoy reading erotica, and sometimes looking at photos, but I pretty much never watch videos voluntarily. I get too impatient with the dialogue and (lack of) plot, and tend to get bored if I have to wait for it to get better.

1. if you could change your body what would you change?
2. If you could only change one thing about your body, what would you change?

I'd fix my uterus so I had steady, strong hormone levels, but no bleeding. PMS and periods are incredibly annoying.

If you were a male out of nowhere what would you be excited to be able to do?

Walk around at night, while feeling safe on my own.

[batfinch]

I f you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

Difficult one but going out in a skirt with no knoickers on woul be high on the list. Feeling a draft up my skirt and having it blown up in the wind to expose my naked pussy

[Chephren]

what was the most recent porn you watched about?

I watched some chastity femdom porn with two girls teasing a guy.

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?

I think there are things I'd love to do as a woman, but none is more easy for a girl than for a man I think.
One thing that is "easier" (well only possible to females) I'd really like to experience (despite all the backdraws) would be a pregnancy.
There are lots of other things to experience, but as I know some gay parties I doubt it's easier for a female to get laid than for a male ;).

[kurious kat]

There are lots of other things to experience, but as I know some gay parties I doubt it's easier for a female to get laid than for a male ;).

That is so true! :p

Ok, here's another one for the men.

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?

[Sismaster]

That is so true! :p

Ok, here's another one for the men.

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?


It is more of a thing that I just like to dp and not with a specified reason

[Bloxo]

That is so true! :p

Ok, here's another one for the men.

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?

It can vary...often it does give that moment of clarity so you can clear your head and do something else...but I think it can be easier to be distracted and drawn in to more play afterwards, so depends on the circumstances.
Having a quick cum is never really satisfying, but sometimes it can be a way to clear to cobwebs so you are less distracted, a longer session though gets you into that mindset more though where you think about enjoying yourself further...

[SubRed92]

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?

For sure it does! Being horny is a huge distraction for me. It's especially true when the "productive" things are boring as hell. My last stint of chastity was about a month. It honestly got in the way of things, I would have been way more productive if I cum regularly. However, not cumming for a longer period of time does make everything more fun! I've noticed myself checking getDare less frequently after cumming. A glance at my subscribed threads and I'm gone xD.

I don't spend very long masturbating so the short pauses are not a big deal. Even if I spent an hour, I'm sure the longer periods of clarity far outweigh the time spent touching.

Answering this really makes me wonder if I should try going for long periods of denial again. Is it worth the negative impact on my productivity?

This is a great question! Thank you!

[Jaro]

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?

Cumming does clear my mind. But to pause to do it is not a problem for me. It's not that I am so productive in the first place. Lol

Another one for the girls:

Are you multi-orgasmic? What is the most amount of orgasms you have done and within which time frame have you done them? What is the max of orgasms you think you could do?

[kurious kat]

Are you multi-orgasmic? What is the most amount of orgasms you have done and within which time frame have you done them? What is the max of orgasms you think you could do?

I'm definitely multi-orgasmic, but because my focus starts to blur as they keep going, my counting goes like this: "1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. ...Many? ...Lots!!!" Counting is also complicated by the fact that the first couple tend to be fairly separate, but later waves will chain up together; it can be a little hard to tell if it is more of the same orgasm, or a brand new one, at that point. I can say for sure that I've had at least 15-20 orgasms in a single session, and with help, between 30 and 60 minutes of reasonably continuous orgasms before I had to insist on stopping for safety. The body is an amazing, precious miracle.

[Jaro]

Two more questions for the girls.

How 'girly' would you say you are? What are some typical (cliché if you will) 'girly' things that you do/like/wear?

What was the favorite question you have been asked in this thread so far?

[Matt:]

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?

I think it depends, could be either. Sometimes if I'm very horny then sure, a quick orgasm may help (not that I have that option very often lol) but other time's having an orgasm would be more of a distraction than the hornyness. Going back to something mundane after an orgasm can be hard.

[Chephren]

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?

That depends on my situation. If I was free to cum I have often cum before sleeping, as it got me sleepy. Normally I cum in my free time and I see it as part of that and so I don't think it keeps me frombeing productive. Rather being denied can get in the way of productivity as I start daydreaming...

[kurious kat]

How 'girly' would you say you are? What are some typical (cliché if you will) 'girly' things that you do/like/wear?

I look pretty feminine overall. I love wearing dresses (for everyday outings, to work, or fancy dresses for special occasions). And pearls! I also sometimes make a girls'-night-in out of doing my hair, which I used to get together with a friend and do. Several of my hobbies are actually more unisex or even "masculine," but I do love to bake. I also tend to overanalyze social situations in typical girl fashion.

What was the favorite question you have been asked in this thread so far?


That's a hard one, since I joined in a little later. I did enjoy "if you are only allowed to read and post on one thread for two weeks, which would it be?" since it gave me ideas about interesting threads that others liked!

[SubRed92]

Here's a silly question,

Girls, if you could change the taste of your pussy to that of any food or drink, what would it be and why?

[sadomasculine]

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?

I'd say a bit of both. It definitely clears my mind, but as soon as I start masturbating, I can get very sidetracked, and will often put off cumming for a while so I can build it up more, which makes it a big distraction.

[atownesq]

Sorry I've fallen way behind on this thread, I'll probably miss some but catching up:

"Originally Posted by lola.fox
what was the most recent porn you watched about?"

It was a wam/sploshing clip.

"Originally Posted by lola.fox
what's the age range of the oldest women you've ever found attractive? any helen mirren fans?"

Probably mid 60s

"For the guys: How do you respond if someone near you starts talking about someone else in a sexualized way? Do you join in? Change the subject?"

Depends on the situation really, but in general I just ignore it.

"Originally Posted by lola.fox
what was the last thing you had inserted into yourself?"

Butt plug

"If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?"

Hopefully I would have big enough tits to be able to lick my own nipples.


Ok, here's another one for the men.

"Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?"

A little bit of both. I tend to have long edging sessions so I would say it's more of a distraction than it is a path to productivity."

For the girls, I've seen some variation of this dozens of times on this site but don't think I've seen it here yet...What are your thoughts/preferences on body hair on guys? Should we trim or shave, and if so what parts?[/COLOR]

[Jaro]

Sorry I've fallen way behind on this thread, I'll probably miss some but catching up:

Thank you for catching up!

Call to all who haven't posted in a while: please DO catch up! Remember that if you didn't post to say you were leaving we still expect you to answer all the questions.
Thank you!

[kurious kat]

Girls, if you could change the taste of your pussy to that of any food or drink, what would it be and why?

I don't know! I'm already extra delicious!

But if I had to choose, I might go with creme brulee. It's smooth, sweet with a hint of depth from the vanilla and spices, and creamy like a pussy should be.

For the girls, I've seen some variation of this dozens of times on this site but don't think I've seen it here yet...What are your thoughts/preferences on body hair on guys? Should we trim or shave, and if so what parts?

In general, if I'm voluntarily choosing to take your pants off, I'm excited to explore your body, and I don't really seem to have preferences on what gets trimmed or shaved (if anything). Trimming has the advantage of avoiding stubble, which is nice from a texture point of view if you are inclined to manscape, but since I can't think of a time I looked at someone and thought, "Oh, no, that's gotta go" I think whatever people are doing to make themselves happy seems to work for me!

[lola.fox]

omgosh being busy the past week or so has lead to a HUGE pile up!!

What was the last thing that got inserted into your vagina? When was this?
a tampon a few weeks ago.

Do you like it when a guy offers to open a door, give up their seat on a bus/train, offers to let you go first or anything like that, because you're a lady? Or is it not something you would want?

i think it's nice when anyone does it - i often do the same for men + women so i think it's a plus to be a good human regardless of sex :p


Girls, do you watch porn? If you do, what types do you prefer? If not, any particular reason why?

very, very rarely - i much prefer my own thoughts. on the off occasion i'll watch something on the sadistic side.

Girls, 1. if you could change your body what would you change.
ugh, my stomach D:

2. If you could only change one thing about your body, what would you change
the same as the above? lol

Girsl if you were a male out of nowhere what would you be excited to be able to do

to be able to pee anywhere with ease.

Are you multi-orgasmic? What is the most amount of orgasms you have done and within which time frame have you done them? What is the max of orgasms you think you could do?

just clitorally - i'm not sure of the max, it's hard to think about numbers when you're in the midst of multiples! and the more the better.

How 'girly' would you say you are? What are some typical (cliché if you will) 'girly' things that you do/like/wear?

medium girly? i'm not a skirt person and don't -love- dresses, but i love lingerie and delicate dainty jewelry.

What was the favorite question you have been asked in this thread so far?
i don't have a favorite yet!

[lola.fox]

Here's a silly question,

Girls, if you could change the taste of your pussy to that of any food or drink, what would it be and why?

a cherry jollyrancher - because thats just a great flavor!

boys -

1. what was the last lie you told?

2. what does your last outgoing PM say?

3. have you ever stuck your penis into something inanimate?

4. how often do you wash your sheets?

5. where do you hide your naughty things?

[Jaro]

1. what was the last lie you told?
I told someone yesterday evening that I didn't have time to help with their computer problem, while in fact I just didn't want to. I helped them today though.

2. what does your last outgoing PM say?
I can't answer that, it was private.

3. have you ever stuck your penis into something inanimate?
Yes. From what I recall, I've stuck it into a vacuum cleaner hose, a watermelon, an empty toilet roll lined with tacks, various drinks and a sandwich. Then there's toys.

4. how often do you wash your sheets?
Not as often as I should. Maybe once every 3 weeks on average.

5. where do you hide your naughty things?
It used to be in a box that I could lock with a padlock. Now I moved it all over into a larger suitcase that I can also lock. But this is still too small. It's going to get more and more complicated to hide it all but I'm VERY serious about it remaining hidden.

[Chephren]

boys -

1. what was the last lie you told?
I told a woman that asked my opinion yesterday evening, that her cooking was great, albeit it was at the best mediocre.

2. what does your last outgoing PM say?
It was the answer to the dungeon guessing game, which I won't repeat here as not to influence the guesses.

3. have you ever stuck your penis into something inanimate?
Yes. Chastity belt, some toys, condoms, a torture toilet role...

4. how often do you wash your sheets?
About once a month. Depends on the time of the year and the number of "guests"

5. where do you hide your naughty things?
In my lockable bureau at home.
[/QUOTE]

[SubRed92]

1. what was the last lie you told?

2. what does your last outgoing PM say?

3. have you ever stuck your penis into something inanimate?

4. how often do you wash your sheets?

5. where do you hide your naughty things?


1.
I love this question! It's good to think about how often I have to lie. Fortunately, it has been a while since I've lied (maybe I forgot smaller ones). The last lie I can remember was saying I was going out to meet friends at midnight when really I was heading to the park to complete public dares.

2.
Hello!

Thank you for joining in to my little game. You forgot to mention how many edges are tied to your question though. Please do edit your post soon!

Some cool words,
Zack

3.
Yes, I believe all guys have at some point. I tried a toilet roll once just to see if it would fit. Also, a banana peel, it split easily so the fun was short-lived.

4.
Oh no, I'm nasty. To be honest the last long streak I had was 3 months. I was busy okay? Sometimes I try for two weeks, it varies widely based on how lazy I am.

5.
I'm not sure if mine are well hidden at all. They're just in a top cupboard where nobody looks. It's sort of a shared cupboard, in a shared room. Super risky. I need to move them.

[atownesq]

1. what was the last lie you told? I told my friend I was too busy with work to go out for drinks, when in reality I was playing on cam with my Mistress.

2. what does your last outgoing PM say? Hi, up for a game of battleship?

3. have you ever stuck your penis into something inanimate? Too many things to count. Off the top of my head, chastity devices, fleshlights, a banana peel, and I once fucked a jar of nutella.

4. how often do you wash your sheets? Every 2-3 weeks.

5. where do you hide your naughty things? I have a small closet/storage space off from my living room. All my stuff is divided up into bags and locked in a trunk in that storage space.

[Matt:]

boys -

1. what was the last lie you told?

2. what does your last outgoing PM say?

3. have you ever stuck your penis into something inanimate?

4. how often do you wash your sheets?

5. where do you hide your naughty things?


1) I think my boss at work, they have gone health and safety mad, we are not meant to have any knives (for cutting box's cardboard etc..) other than these stupid safety knifes which don't cut anything. She asked if I'd thrown away all the other knives, I said yes, when actually I kept 2 old ones.

2) Would have been sending some pm dares, can't remember exactly which, as I've sent a lot!

3) A few things... toilet roll, an "ice ring" (ring made of ice) chastity cage...., some food items

4) maybe every 3 weeks, possible I've gone longer....

5) In a bag in a draw underneath my bed (with draw facing wall, so have to move bed to open it)

[Matt:]

For the girls

Have you ever had a crush on a celebratory? If so who?

What's the most revealing clothes you have ever worn in public? (excluding the beach or sun bathing or swimming)

When did you first see a cock a) a picture b) in person?

[lola.fox]

For the girls

Have you ever had a crush on a celebratory? If so who?
oooh love matt bomer, jesse williams + jensen ackles!

What's the most revealing clothes you have ever worn in public? (excluding the beach or sun bathing or swimming)

probably just a short sundress unless you include strip games at parties :p.

When did you first see a cock a) a picture b) in person?

i'd probably seen a picture when i was in middle school (11-13 but i don't have any distinct memory of it. in person would be my freshmen year of highschool (13/14).




boys -

1. have many nude photos do you have on your phone/computer of exes?

2. have you ever sent an unsolicited dick pic to someone? what was their reaction?

3. how many relationships have you had where you've been unfaithful?

[Chephren]

1. have many nude photos do you have on your phone/computer of exes?
0/0

2. have you ever sent an unsolicited dick pic to someone? what was their reaction?
Why would I? No...

3. how many relationships have you had where you've been unfaithful?
Zero... Once I came close which led me to ending the relationship as I realized that there was not much keeping me with her.

[Matt:]

boys -

1. have many nude photos do you have on your phone/computer of exes?

2. have you ever sent an unsolicited dick pic to someone? what was their reaction?

3. how many relationships have you had where you've been unfaithful?



1) I don't have any exes .... so zero..

2) No, I never send any pictures unless asked.

3) Never, but then Sam is my 1st relationship of any kind.

[Sismaster]

a cherry jollyrancher - because thats just a great flavor!

boys -

1. what was the last lie you told?
That I studied for my exams
2. what does your last outgoing PM say?
I am still waiting for the pm dare
3. have you ever stuck your penis into something inanimate?
no
4. how often do you wash your sheets?
once a week
5. where do you hide your naughty things?

secret closet
boys -

1. have many nude photos do you have on your phone/computer of exes?
none, don't have an ex
2. have you ever sent an unsolicited dick pic to someone? what was their reaction?
no
3. how many relationships have you had where you've been unfaithful?
none


Girls, How many times has someone asked for naked pics?
How many times did you accept?
Why did you accept?
why did you not accept?

[atownesq]

1. have many nude photos do you have on your phone/computer of exes? None

2. have you ever sent an unsolicited dick pic to someone? what was their reaction? I have not.

3. how many relationships have you had where you've been unfaithful? It depends on how one defines "unfaithful," but I can only think of one instance where one could make the argument that I cheated (we were fighting anyway, I thought we were on a break)...

[SubRed92]

1. have many nude photos do you have on your phone/computer of exes?

I have zero nudes due to having zero exes (dies inside)

2. have you ever sent an unsolicited dick pic to someone? what was their reaction?

Nope. Not interested to know what their reaction would be.

3. how many relationships have you had where you've been unfaithful?

Oof! Zero because of zero relationships. These questions hurt xD



Girls, what is one sexual thing you are interested in but have yet to try?

[Jaro]

boys -

1. have many nude photos do you have on your phone/computer of exes?
None

2. have you ever sent an unsolicited dick pic to someone? what was their reaction?
No, I have never even thought of doing that

3. how many relationships have you had where you've been unfaithful?
None



Boring answers maybe, but they are the truth. ;)

[Calcifer]

Wow, I've been away for a while so I have a lot of catching up to do!

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?
Wearing pretty clothes and make-up! Having less body hair means shaving and waxing would be much easier (my man hair is too thick, very difficult to shave/wax, and grows back too fast, so I only trim it). Being able to act feminine with less/zero consequences (at the expense of more difficulty acting masculine). Finding relationships or hook-ups would also be easier, so I could explore fun sexual kinks more easily (and also some kinks that are very difficult/impossible to explore as a man).


Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?
It definitely clears my mind! I mean, pausing to make myself cum is a distraction--but that's because I'm already distracted by being horny. And I'll keep fantasizing/touching until I actually cum. Cumming more or less makes the arousal go away, at least for a little while, and I can re-focus.

boys -

1. what was the last lie you told?

2. what does your last outgoing PM say?

3. have you ever stuck your penis into something inanimate?

4. how often do you wash your sheets?

5. where do you hide your naughty things?

1. I tend to lie when my family asks what I'm doing with my free time, and about my romantic relationships. Or rather, I don't tell them the whole truth, because I don't want to talk about getDare or my kinky sex life. That's probably the last lie I've told. Otherwise, I really try to avoid telling lies.
2. Hey _____,

Thank you for the PM dares! Lucky me. :D Sorry I'm so late to respond. I haven't been online in a while. Since I am 5 days late reading your response, I'll do my exercises 5 extra times... The crunches and leg raises aren't so bad for me. I used to run a lot, and even though I'm out of shape right now, I can do 25 crunches and 20/20 leg raises without much trouble, just a little sore when I'm done! I just did one set now. The stretching was a nice finish. I started with my fingertips touching the ground, but I had my biggest knuckles touching by the end.

It might take me a couple days to finish all my extra sets of the exercises. :) I'm moving to a new house, so things are a bit busy right now. But I plan on doing all the PM dares tomorrow, so look forward to my report!

Talk to you soon!

Calcifer
3. Yes. I've used a fleshlight, and that's inanimate (unfortunately).
4. Usually every couple weeks. Especially if I use black sheets, because it's easier to notice that they're dirty.
5. I have some drawstring bags, cloth shopping bags, and cardboard boxes. That's where I keep my toys right now. I also have a big footlocker, but that's impractical to transport. I also have some old backpacks from school, and I use those sometimes.

boys -

1. have many nude photos do you have on your phone/computer of exes?

2. have you ever sent an unsolicited dick pic to someone? what was their reaction?

3. how many relationships have you had where you've been unfaithful?


1. None. I usually delete nude pictures relatively soon after a break-up. Although I sometimes keep non-nude pictures, for memories' sake. My computer is also relatively new, so that's a factor. I have an external hard drive with some pictures of one of my exes, but no nudes.
2. This is actually a repeat question! And no I haven't.
3. One. With one of my Dommes, I met with an old friend/ex without telling her. The plan was just to get dinner and catch-up, but she invited me back to her apartment and I went with her. We cuddled and kissed a bit. I have a very guilty conscience, and it didn't feel right so I didn't stay long. But it's my fault for being tempted and giving in. We never met again until after my Domme and I broke up (for unrelated reasons). To be honest, I think it hurt my relationship with my friend more than it hurt my relationship with my Domme. I felt guilty with my Domme, but loved her no less (if anything, I loved her more). But I never really felt comfortable with that friend again.

[robbybob]

Ill join this thread, I'll think of some questions later, I'll try not to repeat any

[Jaro]

Easy one for the girls:

How often do you masturbate and when did you last?

[dreadinterest]

just joined :)

Easy one for the girls:

How often do you masturbate and when did you last?

depends on my mood. lately it's been daily. last time was last night.

boys have you ever taken a naughty picture of someone without their consent/knowledge?

[Calcifer]

boys have you ever taken a naughty picture of someone without their consent/knowledge?

I'm not sure if this counts as a naughty picture, but when I was still dating my ex-girlfriend, I took a picture of her face when she was sleeping because she was adorable. Other than that, I don't think I have, but I've definitely considered it (like when somebody is naked, bound, and blindfolded).

[SubRed92]

boys have you ever taken a naughty picture of someone without their consent/knowledge?

Nope, I never had such an opportunity. However, I wouldn't even if I had the chance because it seems like such a wrong thing to do.

[kurious kat]

Have you ever had a crush on a celebratory? If so who?

I'm not much for celebrities, really, although I developed a brief crush on Dar Williams for a few weeks after seeing her concert live.

What's the most revealing clothes you have ever worn in public? (excluding the beach or sun bathing or swimming)

At a kinky club, I've worn lingerie to do a scene.
Out on the street, it's probably either my little lace-up leather crop top and skirt, or the time I wore a sheer shirt while talking a quick walk at night.

When did you first see a cock a) a picture b) in person?

I was probably about 10 when I saw drawings of them for Health class, but 20 or 22 when I saw pictures in an adult context. I saw one in person that I had the option to touch at age 17, but I was aware of them as an anatomical feature much younger (ie: seeing someone changing clothes in passing, or changing a baby's diaper).

Girls, How many times has someone asked for naked pics?
How many times did you accept?
Why did you accept?
why did you not accept?

Oh, I don't know! I've been asked a few dozen times here, at least, usually by people who are curious but with whom I am not close. I usually turn them down altogether, but when I was seeking a D/s partnership, I did try sharing a few carefully selected shots that were at least partially nude. I gave it a try because I understand the fear of people not being who they say they are, and I wanted to build trust and goodwill, or offer a substantial thank you in appreciation/demonstration of the results.

That said, those were not usually positive experiences for me. Most of the time when someone asked for a naked picture, if I built up my courage, decided to be trusting, and created one for them, within 2 days they'd ask for more, which made me feel used and unappreciated (my favorite for this was when I actually got a minor injury from a task one of these people asked for, and their response to my informing them was not to fuss over me, but, "Eww, well don't send me a picture of that, LOL!"). I tend not to accept these requests any more because my experience is that people respect "pictures are a limit" better than they respect, "I shared one as a gesture of trust, but I don't want to send more."

How often do you masturbate and when did you last?
All other things being equal (health, stress, deadlines, etc.), about every two days on average. The last time was last night when I couldn't seem to get to sleep.

[Jaro]

just joined :)

Yay! Welcome! :)

boys have you ever taken a naughty picture of someone without their consent/knowledge?

Ow... this is a hard one to answer.
Yes, I have and I'm still ashamed about it.

I don't think it was too bad or too naughty, but I have secretly taken pictures of women's feet. I have done it only once for two or three pairs of feet. I was sitting on a park bench and took them as they walked by, pretending to play on my phone.

They were just feet of course, but I still consider it to be a kind of creepy thing to do. I have since deleted those pictures.

[kurious kat]

Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?

[SubRed92]

Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?

I haven't had a actual career building kind of job as I'm still in University. However I imagine I'd prioritize job satisfaction over pay grade. As long as I'm not suffering every Monday morning then it's a good sign! On the other hand, if I feel like I am being restricted (abilities are not being fully utilized or appreciated) then perhaps it is time to leave for places with more potential for growth. Things are not this simple in real life isn't it? These two points will most likely be my guidelines above everything else!

side note, kurious kat, did you miss out my question at post #179?

[Jaro]

Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?

I don't care that much actually. My job is okay enough, it earns me enough and it's not too stressful. That's most important. I'm not a career type kind of guy. A job is just a job.

[Calcifer]

Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?

Something that I'm passionate about, and that doesn't overwhelm me with stress.

[atownesq]

boys have you ever taken a naughty picture of someone without their consent/knowledge?[/color]

No. I did take a pic of someone in public without their consent as part of a task, but it wasn't a "naughty" pic at all.

Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?

I've been in the same job for 12 years now. As long as I'm fairly compensated for the amount of work required, I see no reason to move. I would start looking for a new job if I wasn't being paid well or required to work ridiculous hours or just didn't like where I was or hated what I was doing.

Girls, this is mainly for those of you who have posted naked pics online: How do you feel about guys you don't know masturbating to your pics? Does it turn you on or creep you out? Does your answer change if it was posted or shared with others without your consent (for example ex-bf posts something online and you later find out about it?

[Matt:]

just joined :)

boys have you ever taken a naughty picture of someone without their consent/knowledge?

No, I've never done that.

Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?

I've been in the same job for over 13 years now. It's not an overly wonderful job, but I am good at it (be worried if I wasn't by now lol) it pays the bills and is not very stressful. (and keeps me fit, as quite a physical job)

I think I'd have to be made redundant or physically be unable to do the job to get me to change though. As I am terrible at applying for jobs and useless at interviews! I also get very stressed about change, so would find it very difficult.

My job is very specialised and there are not many other companies around that do the same thing, so not really an option to do same job elsewhere.

I also have no idea what job I would look for if I was going to change!

Well that was a long reply that didn't really answer the question lol

[dreadinterest]

Girls, this is mainly for those of you who have posted naked pics online: How do you feel about guys you don't know masturbating to your pics? Does it turn you on or creep you out? Does your answer change if it was posted or shared with others without your consent (for example ex-bf posts something online and you later find out about it?

it's absolutely humiliating. which is totally hot, for me.

however, if someone posted pics online without my consent, i'd be pissed and feel violated (not in a good way). there's a difference between feeling empowered and making your own decisions about your body, and being taken advantage of.

[kurious kat]

side note, kurious kat, did you miss out my question at post #179?
Girls, what is one sexual thing you are interested in but have yet to try?

Meep! I accidentally scanned past it while pulling out past questions. Thank you for catching that.

This is a hard question for me, because there are a lot of things that amazing, generous, kinky partners have already helped me try as I developed an interest. But one thing that I'd like to do someday is have another run at medium-term denial (7-21 days); this time while sharing living space with a kinky partner. Normally I find longer denial WAY too emotionally turbulent to be worthwhile, but I can't help but wonder if it'd be easier if someone I cared about were directly benefitting from (and providing comfort for) my deprivation at home on a daily basis.

Girls, this is mainly for those of you who have posted naked pics online: How do you feel about guys you don't know masturbating to your pics? Does it turn you on or creep you out? Does your answer change if it was posted or shared with others without your consent (for example ex-bf posts something online and you later find out about it?

I don't object to someone I've shared a nude photo with finding it arousing, but I tend to get angry when someone assumes that seeing an image of me without clothes, or in a minimal state of dress, means they have any right to more of me than has been directly offered (photographically, time-wise, or in terms of attention and affection). If someone shared it with others without my knowledge/consent, that would be extremely creepy, and that person would have a LOT of work to ever have hope of regaining any trust.

[Jaro]

Next Sunday I will be hosting a live chat event for this game.

Please check it out ----> here (https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=342002)

Hoping to see at least some of you there.

[Chephren]

boys have you ever taken a naughty picture of someone without their consent/knowledge?
Nope, njet, no... I'm very big on the consent concept and this is something that doesn't appeal to me. Not that one couldn't get one trillion of such pictures on the net if someone is interested...

Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?

a) A job should be fun and fullfilling (at least more time than not). For me this means doing more than earning money, but doing something lasting (and hopefully good).
b) It should earn enough money to get by properly.

I would search for another job if I asked myself why I'm doing this each morning and day... I understand doing a job one doesn't like to earn a living but as soon as possible I'd search a fullfilling one.

[Sismaster]

just joined :)



depends on my mood. lately it's been daily. last time was last night.

boys have you ever taken a naughty picture of someone without their consent/knowledge?

I think I have taken naughty pictures of girls ones, but I can't remember.
Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?
I am 18 years old so I work in a grocery shop I don't have a lot of expereince with picking jobs. I just took the job my friends are

[Sismaster]

pushign the thread

[Jaro]

Yes, I don't want this thread to die out.

But the best way to bump it is to ask a question of course.

Girls, what do your nails look like right now? Please answer for both your finger and toenails.

I'm saving other questions for the live chat event on Sunday (https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=342002)!

[lola.fox]

Girls, How many times has someone asked for naked pics?

too too often, i don't think i could count them all.

How many times did you accept?
idk how many times, but i only sent them to people i actually liked and wanted to play with.

Why did you accept?

oops i answered above (:

why did you not accept?

because i find it rude for people i don't know intimately to ask me for them.

Girls, what is one sexual thing you are interested in but have yet to try?

ooooh electrical play!

Easy one for the girls:

How often do you masturbate and when did you last?

lately, not that often ):. i think it was thursday night?

Girls, this is mainly for those of you who have posted naked pics online: How do you feel about guys you don't know masturbating to your pics? Does it turn you on or creep you out? Does your answer change if it was posted or shared with others without your consent (for example ex-bf posts something online and you later find out about it?

all around creeps me out and would enrage me in the latter circumstance.

Girls, what do your nails look like right now? Please answer for both your finger and toenails.
]

my fingernails are short, square and bare.
my toenails are short, square and a pale cornflower blue.

[lola.fox]

1. what's the first thing you wash in the shower?

2. how many sexual partners have you had?

3. what does your oldest PM (inbox) say?

4. have you ever used a food object to pleasure yourself with?

5. what toys are on your wishlist?

[Matt:]

1. what's the first thing you wash in the shower?

my right leg

2. how many sexual partners have you had?

Just the one, no prizes for guessing who..

3. what does your oldest PM (inbox) say?
"THE WITCH HAS GOT INTO ME
SHE CONTROLS MY BRAIN - I CAN FEEL THE WORMS INSIDE

She is making me send you maximum loads of PM dares.
UNDERWEAR THONGs
SUCK

SPANK 24

Report completion to the thread so she thinks she is still winning and doesn't know we are on to her evil plans.

Please help me get the witch's worms out of my head before I am lost forever!
Send me back PM dares and I can chase them out and burn them!"

4. have you ever used a food object to pleasure yourself with?

I've humped a melon (after cutting hole in it) was not very successful in giving pleasure though.....

5. what toys are on your wishlist?

The Master Series Multi Speed Vibrating Penis Head Teaser that Jaro blogged about sounds fun. I have just ordered a suction cup dildo, but that wasn't really on my wish list.....:o

[atownesq]

1. what's the first thing you wash in the shower?

2. how many sexual partners have you had?

3. what does your oldest PM (inbox) say?

4. have you ever used a food object to pleasure yourself with?

5. what toys are on your wishlist?

1. My hair

2. 8

3. This is really more of a way to make sure I go through it, I am worried about chickening out but love love love the bet, just want it to be equal. How about Chadman, or perhaps generalzod, or maybe bdsm_betting

4. Yes, too many to count :)

5. Lovense Max/Nora

[lola.fox]

Yes, I don't want this thread to die out.

But the best way to bump it is to ask a question of course.

Girls, what do your nails look like right now? Please answer for both your finger and toenails.

I'm saving other questions for the live chat event on Sunday (https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=342002)!

i think the best way to prevent it from dying is to make sure when people answer questions they post some at the same time to prevent it from stagnating.

[Jaro]

1. what's the first thing you wash in the shower?
Usually my hair. Working top down seems the most logical for me.

2. how many sexual partners have you had?
None, sadly.

3. what does your oldest PM (inbox) say?
PORN and not touching....

4. have you ever used a food object to pleasure yourself with?
If by pleasure you mean masturbate then yes.. I once fucked a grapefruit. I also believe my Misses once made me stroke with a sandwich.

5. what toys are on your wishlist?
I copied the following from the actual wishlist I have but I left only the toys (there's other stuff on there like panties, a ping pong paddle, etc.

Handcuffs - real ones without safety latch
Anal beads
Weird shaped plug
Anal vibrator
Anal hook
Anal speculum
Thicker/longer dildo !!!
Squirting dildo
Ball stretcher (heavy metal)
Ball crusher
Nose hook
Penis plug
Tongue and lips gag - but where to get?
Cheek retractor
Ring gag to keep butterfly gag in place (DIY?)
Enema kit
Fleshlight
Studded paddle

[Jaro]

I've humped a melon (after cutting hole in it) was not very successful in giving pleasure though.....



Well, I hope the melon enjoyed it at least.

[Sismaster]

1. what's the first thing you wash in the shower?
hair
2. how many sexual partners have you had?
none
3. what does your oldest PM (inbox) say?
nothing. I removed them all because it was full
4. have you ever used a food object to pleasure yourself with?
no
5. what toys are on your wishlist?
handcuffs with pink fur

[Chephren]

1. what's the first thing you wash in the shower?
Face and breast.

2. how many sexual partners have you had?
If you mean penetrative sex 13 if I didn't miscount.


3. what does your oldest PM (inbox) say?

No definitely not.

I did

4. have you ever used a food object to pleasure yourself with?
Yes. E.g I once fucked a melon (and was made to eat it...)


5. what toys are on your wishlist?
Some E-Stim, but at the moment I'm making some researches which to buy...


Questions for the girls from slutren:

a) Shaving, waxing, trimming... What's your way to "shave" your bikini zone?

b) Do you have had anal sex and if yes did you like it and if no why not?

[kurious kat]

Girls, what do your nails look like right now? Please answer for both your finger and toenails.

I trimmed my fingernails all the way down last weekend, so they're still about half their usual length (for me) and well-rounded except my left middle finger, which has a slight dip at the tip where it chipped.

My toenails are healthy and bare (with just a hint of pale pink polish left on my big toes from when I last painted them).

a) Shaving, waxing, trimming... What's your way to "shave" your bikini zone?

I shave using a standard double-sided safety razor, preferably after using a homemade sugar scrub that doubles as my shaving oil/gel/cream.

b) Do you have had anal sex and if yes did you like it and if no why not?

I have, and really enjoy it.

[kurious kat]

Have you ever been on an "accidental date" (where you thought you were doing something as friends, but after you arrived, it became obvious they invited you as a romantic opportunity)?

What do you wear when you want to look sexy?

Someone recently commented in chat that when guys are talking at a party, it's usually about cooking. Do you cook? What's your most typical thing to make?

[Matt:]

Have you ever been on an "accidental date" (where you thought you were doing something as friends, but after you arrived, it became obvious they invited you as a romantic opportunity)?

No, this has never happened to me.

What do you wear when you want to look sexy?

I don't really think about trying to look "sexy" I guess what I think I look best in is a smart/casual shirt and trousers. Nothing special.

Someone recently commented in chat that when guys are talking at a party, it's usually about cooking. Do you cook? What's your most typical thing to make?

I cook very little, only basic meals that have simple instructions lol I can make some nice cakes though, like chocolate brownies or rocky road. Nothing overly complicated.

[Matt:]

Hard to remember what has already been asked, so I hope these haven't

For the girls -:

Have you ever been fucked in more than one place at the same time?

Have you ever faked an orgasm? (if so how often?)

What’s the worst and best thing about being female?

Is there anything you think women are better at than men and vise-versa?

have you ever, or would you ever use the male toilets in a public place, if there is a long queue for the female toilets?

Have you ever had any embarrassing wardrobe malfunctions?

[Chephren]

Have you ever been on an "accidental date" (where you thought you were doing something as friends, but after you arrived, it became obvious they invited you as a romantic opportunity)?

Sometimes this has happened to me, but most of the times something developed throughout the evening. It didn't happen toot often though as I normally realize if someone is onto something.


What do you wear when you want to look sexy?
Either a suit or at least some chino, a jacket and a shirt. Leather shoes on top.


Someone recently commented in chat that when guys are talking at a party, it's usually about cooking. Do you cook? What's your most typical thing to make?

Yes I do. Typical for what? A normal meal is a salad, some noodles with a sauce and vegetables. Nothing spectacular.
If I want something special I like to make some roastbeef, self-made sauce, brussels sprouts and some croquettes. Some lamb's lettuce a a starter and of you go. Did Slutren state that he likes to cook.
For me it's most important that everything is local, seasonal and eco.

[Jaro]

Have you ever been on an "accidental date" (where you thought you were doing something as friends, but after you arrived, it became obvious they invited you as a romantic opportunity)?

I don't know if this counts but once I met a girl in a foreign country. I liked her very much but was not at all attracted to her. I was traveling alone and I figured she would be a nice person to have dinner with.
So I asked her just that, without a second thought and without even thinking about whether it could be interpreted as a date.
But by the eagerness by which she said 'yes' and her attitude towards me that evening I figured she must have interpreted it as a date.
Nothing ultimately happened and I never saw her again but we did have a nice chat.

What do you wear when you want to look sexy?

I have no idea. In my mind, looking physically sexy doesn't really apply to guys, at least not by wearing something. So no, nothing springs to mind.
I know a lot of girls think a man in a suit looks sexy but when I wear a suit, that is not the reason I wear it.

Someone recently commented in chat that when guys are talking at a party, it's usually about cooking. Do you cook? What's your most typical thing to make?

Talk about cooking? Why? I never talk about cooking (if I even talk much at all) at a party. I rarely cook also, I hate it!

But the comment you got does make sense I guess. I think cooking is more of a guy thing then a girl thing. Most top chefs are men.

[Jaro]

Girls, would you rather be penetrated by a 7 inch cock that is very thin, or by a 5 inch cock that is very thick? Does your answer differ for your pussy, ass and mouth?

[atownesq]

Have you ever been on an "accidental date" (where you thought you were doing something as friends, but after you arrived, it became obvious they invited you as a romantic opportunity)? Not a date per se, but ran into a friend and was hanging out just as friends and she suddenly kissed me, rather passionately...it wasn't bad, just unexpected. We became friends with benefits for a while

What do you wear when you want to look sexy? It various depending on who I'm trying to impress. Can be anything from a nice suit to gym short and a t-shirt.

Someone recently commented in chat that when guys are talking at a party, it's usually about cooking. Do you cook? What's your most typical thing to make? I don't really cook, but I do grill, which is sort of the same. Steak, chicken, or burgers and dogs are most common, but sometimes I do shrimp or other seafood

[Walpole]

I'd been neglecting this so I had a lot of catching up to do here...

Have you ever been on an "accidental date" (where you thought you were doing something as friends, but after you arrived, it became obvious they invited you as a romantic opportunity)?


Yes, this has happened to me more than once. I'm notoriously bad at detecting when someone is making Romantic moves towards me. At one point I thought this girl was my best friend (we did lots of things together, we were constantly talking and going out for dinners/lunches/teas and going on walks in the countryside) but it turned out that for the previous 2 months she had considered me her boyfriend. That was the most extreme example but its happened to me in a number of different way at other times too.
In a way it really does feel good to know you're desired by someone. I only wish I was also better at detecting when that was the case.

What do you wear when you want to look sexy?


I don't know if I ever consciously try to look sexy. I always try to look smart even for some of the least formal things and I'm very conscious of how I dress and look but I'm not sure its ever with the goal of looking sexy.

Someone recently commented in chat that when guys are talking at a party, it's usually about cooking. Do you cook? What's your most typical thing to make?


I cook a lot. I especially love baking - breads are my favourite thing to make. I also do cakes quite often and whenever I'm with my family I make them pizzas. Cooking really is one of my favourite things in the entire world.

What's the first thing you wash in the shower?


I'm not sure I have a strict plan when I go into the shower. I'm quite easy going and like to let things flow naturally. I've never really thought about this and I'm not sure I have any meaningful response either.

how many sexual partners have you had?

Two sexual partners, though I've had a bunch of long term romantic partners - I'm generally slow to get around to the sex part of a relationship.

what does your oldest PM (inbox) say?

I imagine quite a few people have this one
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you ever used a food object to pleasure yourself with?


Sure, I've used items of food in play before. It can be interesting

what toys are on your wishlist?


I'm not sure I really need any toys at the moment, I don't really have any either. There isn't currently anything motivating me to get any of them.

Gentlemen, what makes you decide that a job is a good choice for you (or what means it's time to move on from your current one)?


I have a strong tendency to move away from anything that I don't feel is right for me. I try to keep my work habits as authentic to myself as possible and I like to try to ensure that my work feels meaningful from both a personal and communal perspective.

Does cumming clear your mind so you can get back to other things? Or is pausing to make yourself cum more of a distraction from productive things you should be doing in the first place?


I don't think its very mind clearing, or at least I've never used it in that capacity. If I needed to clear my mind I think there are much better ways of doing it (make a cup of tea, go for a quick walk ect.).

If you were to suddenly become a woman, what would you be excited to finally be able to do more easily than you can now as a man?


As a singer I would love this. The opportunity to sing some of the Spo/Alto lines in some of my favourite pieces would be great. I hope that in this scenario woman me would have the vocal capacity to sing the treble line in the Quartet sections of Allegri's Miserere.

Girls, have you ever found yourself in a situation where you have felt exceptionally lucky to be female? If so why would that situation been more difficult for a male to deal with?

[kurious kat]

Have you ever been fucked in more than one place at the same time?

Yes

Have you ever faked an orgasm? (if so how often?)

I don't think so.

What’s the worst and best thing about being female?

The worst thing might be the hormones: sudden bleeding out of nowhere, mood swings you can't anticipate, abrupt half-days of debilitating cramps, etc.

The best thing is the sisterhood. Women tend to understand what we all go through sometimes (in society, etc.), so the inherent connection and bonding, even in casual ways, can be really powerful as a form of care for one another.

Is there anything you think women are better at than men and vise-versa?

Talking about our feelings -- because we are socialized that way, whereas for many men, admitting to having feelings or moods at all is treated as taboo.

have you ever, or would you ever use the male toilets in a public place, if there is a long queue for the female toilets?

I did that once at a public park! There was a concert in the park, and about 15 women waiting outside the bathroom. A guy walked out of the men's room and commented to us that theirs was empty, so I was the brave leader who looked at the line, and then led two or three other brave women to the other side of the building to use the gents.

But... secret confession... I never would have done it if it weren't for getDare, because I was once given an assignment to go into a men's room at a hotel lobby... and I failed. Every time I waited for like 3 minutes, someone else would go in, or come out, and I just couldn't make myself do it out of fear of getting caught.

But after failing that dare, I talked to some guys in my life about women using the men's toilet, and all of them told me that it wasn't uncommon, or a big deal. That knowledge gave me the courage to do it when the guy walking out gave us his approval, and saved several of us a really annoying wait, even though I still felt a bit uncomfortable just walking in!

Have you ever had any embarrassing wardrobe malfunctions?

I did once get the hem of my skirt caught in my panties, so the outer layer of fabric hiked up (it was a long skirt, so it wasn't revealing, but definitely unintentionally unfashionable). Fortunately, a kind woman noticed it almost immediately and let me know.

Girls, would you rather be penetrated by a 7 inch cock that is very thin, or by a 5 inch cock that is very thick? Does your answer differ for your pussy, ass and mouth?

Probably the thin 7" cock, because it could go more shallowly if needed, whereas if something is wider than you can take, you don't have any options. On the other hand, while my dentist tells me I have a small jaw, so I could see too much thickness there being trouble, it's not something that's come up so far. My ultimate preference might depend on just how "thin" or "very thick" we're talking about, since on average I think girth tends to be felt more than length.

Girls, have you ever found yourself in a situation where you have felt exceptionally lucky to be female? If so why would that situation been more difficult for a male to deal with?

This is a tough one! I do find being female to be an advantage when approached by panhandlers; I've noticed people tend to solicit money from male friends if I'm walking with someone, rather than approaching me directly. I'm not sure I'd call it "exceptionally lucky" to be female for this, but for someone who tends to be conflict-avoidant, it really can be a perk.

[Jaro]

A new live chat game is scheduled for next Sunday at noon MT.

Please check it out! https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=342002

Hope to see some of you there!

[kurious kat]

Ahh, I will be on the road during this one and unable to join! I learned a ton last time. It was fun, and I hope lots of people do it again.

In the meantime, I'll try to make up for it here in the thread.

As adult men, you've presumably been peeing standing up for quite some time, and have significant skill and practice with it by this point.

1) On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate the daily difficulty of keeping the stream contained within the bowl (ie: no splashing onto the floor)?

2) Do certain things make it harder to aim? What are they?

3) Have you ever done something really fun as a result of being able to aim/pee standing up?

[Jaro]

Ahh, I will be on the road during this one and unable to join! I learned a ton last time. It was fun, and I hope lots of people do it again.

In the meantime, I'll try to make up for it here in the thread.

That's a shame because I would have loved to see you there again. But maybe next time!

As adult men, you've presumably been peeing standing up for quite some time, and have significant skill and practice with it by this point.

1) On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate the daily difficulty of keeping the stream contained within the bowl (ie: no splashing onto the floor)?
1. This is not difficult at all honestly. I can even do it without touching.

2) Do certain things make it harder to aim? What are they?
Maybe it's a little harder (no pun intended) with morning wood but then I just push it down and, no problem either.

3) Have you ever done something really fun as a result of being able to aim/pee standing up?
I have given myself a golden shower and peed directly into my mouth which I guess is a little easier to do if you're a guy. But I'm not sure if you would classify this as 'fun'.


Girls, if you had to orgasm 5000 times in as short a time period as possible, how long do you think this would take you and how would you feel about this challenge?

[Matt:]

As adult men, you've presumably been peeing standing up for quite some time, and have significant skill and practice with it by this point.

1) On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate the daily difficulty of keeping the stream contained within the bowl (ie: no splashing onto the floor)?

1, very easy

2) Do certain things make it harder to aim? What are they?

Well, if a little "excited" that makes it a bit harder... Also wearing chastity cage :o Basically I have to sit, as it kind of just sprays lol

3) Have you ever done something really fun as a result of being able to aim/pee standing up?

Other than a golden shower, I can't think of anything in particular. Oh I once did try and "draw" in the sand with my pee.....wasn't the most successful lol (on a deserted beach)

[SubRed92]

1. what's the first thing you wash in the shower?

2. how many sexual partners have you had?

3. what does your oldest PM (inbox) say?

4. have you ever used a food object to pleasure yourself with?

5. what toys are on your wishlist?

1. I actually wash my spectacles first, followed by my hair. I go by a top down approach, hair, face, body. It is the only logical choice.

2. Stop with these questions! Zero ):

3. Oh hey what is this?
Chepi wants to give it a try

Likes: body writing, shaving, pet play, anal, plug tails, furry, submission, chastity, hid-able feminization

Dislikes:
nails, hard pain, body fluids, time wasting

Limits:
blood, family, face, cam, scat, social suicide, permanent

Toys:
Chastity devices
- bon14m small
- birdlocked neo (never worked for me)
- Cage XS Steel V2

Butt plugs
- metal 2/3/4.5 cm diameter each with a with crystal
- green glass 3 cm and 2.5 cm long
- clear class 4 cm and a large one with 2 4.5 cm bulks
- silicone 2/3/4 cm
- vibrating prostate massager


Tail plugs
- black cat 1m long / 2 cm plug diameter
- fox bushy 45 cm long / 4.5 cm plug diameter
- dog (pure silicone) 20 cm long / 3 cm plug diameter

Cuffs and Restraints
- angle steel
- arm steel
- collar steel, leather
- plush angle and hand cuffs + bed restraint system
- bone gag head harness

Tools
- Lots of bondage rope
- Time locking kitchen safe (can't be opened for a predetermined time of up to 7 days)

Clothes
- a few female or sissy panties in various colors
- Heels (new )

Additional information:


Woof Woof

4. Yes, a banana peel. It's slippery so you know... gotta try it

5. L'Amourose Rosa, E-stim toys. Both are too pricey for me right now

[Jaro]

Tomorrow 12 PM MT the next live game will start! Hoping to see many of you there!

[atownesq]

As adult men, you've presumably been peeing standing up for quite some time, and have significant skill and practice with it by this point.

1) On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate the daily difficulty of keeping the stream contained within the bowl (ie: no splashing onto the floor)? Under normal circumstances, maybe a 2 at most. I don't understand why so many seem to have a problem with this

2) Do certain things make it harder to aim? What are they? Several things. Wearing a chastity cage, if the holes aren't lined up perfectly, it will just spray everywhere. Having an erection also makes it difficult. If you have a hair or dried sperm in the hole, there may be two streams, making it impossible to aim

3) Have you ever done something really fun as a result of being able to aim/pee standing up? I view the world as my personal urinal, I can pretty much pee anywhere. I did once pee out of my kitchen window on a dare, I guess that was kind of fun.

[Jaro]

The new live game will start in 15 minutes!!

Hope to see you all here --> https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=342002

[bareslut4u]

Boys, when was the last time you had a wet dream and can you remember what it was you dreamt about?[/QUOTE]
My last wet dream involved being stroked at work by a couple of dudes.

[bareslut4u]

Boys, have you ever cross dressed and if so how do you feel in women’s clothing?
Yes, i have. A mini skirt and thigh high stocking makes me soo horny.

[darkblue]

Girls, what is the strangest object you masturbated with? How was the result?

[darkblue]

As adult men, you've presumably been peeing standing up for quite some time, and have significant skill and practice with it by this point.

1) On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate the daily difficulty of keeping the stream contained within the bowl (ie: no splashing onto the floor)?

2) Do certain things make it harder to aim? What are they?

3) Have you ever done something really fun as a result of being able to aim/pee standing up?

1) Since I had my first own flat, I pee while sitting on the toilet, it is much cleaner this way. But on occasions I still pee standing, in the woods, in a pub, although it is still not easy for me to pee, when someone is watching. To answer the question: It is easy for me to aim, but drops will splash on the floor in any case, if the pressure is too strong.

2) Being drunk makes it harder, of course :D I am circumsized, so no skin can mislead the stream.

3) In winter I peed holes into the snow, trying to form letters and other things.

[Calcifer]

I've been away so I missed a lot of questions, but I'll try to get to them soon!

Jaro, were you promoted to worm royalty? lol :D

[xsamss]

As adult men, you've presumably been peeing standing up for quite some time, and have significant skill and practice with it by this point.

1) On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate the daily difficulty of keeping the stream contained within the bowl (ie: no splashing onto the floor)?

2) Do certain things make it harder to aim? What are they?

3) Have you ever done something really fun as a result of being able to aim/pee standing up?

1 normally its not that bad would rate it 3

2 being drunk, erect or going to pee soon after cuming make it hard to control

3 most fun might be killing spiders while peeing

[Chephren]

As adult men, you've presumably been peeing standing up for quite some time, and have significant skill and practice with it by this point.

Not so much as you might think...


1) On a scale of 1-10, how do you rate the daily difficulty of keeping the stream contained within the bowl (ie: no splashing onto the floor)?
Absolutely no splashing? about 8-9
Only a minimum: 4



2) Do certain things make it harder to aim? What are they?
Being hard, being drunk, watching something on the mobile...:p


3) Have you ever done something really fun as a result of being able to aim/pee standing up?

Apart from some teen tests like who can pee farther, higher up, longer, the better line/triangle/ name.... No.



Do you use male toilets in need and how do you feel about it?

How would you feel if a male did the same as lots of girls and walk into the female toilet on a festival. (to pee)

[kurious kat]

Girls, what is the strangest object you masturbated with? How was the result?

I never know how to answer this. Let's go with a support pole for a hammock stand. My partner encourages variety (though he respects and encourages safe & sanitary choices), so there are a number of things that could be considered unusual.

The result is almost always a lot of blushing.

Do you use male toilets in need and how do you feel about it?

I think I just answered this! Anyway, again, my answer is "almost never," but I did once when the Men's room was empty and there were a couple dozen of us in line for the Ladies'. If I did have to use the men's toilet, I'd check to be sure I wasn't interrupting anyone first.

How would you feel if a male did the same as lots of girls and walk into the female toilet on a festival. (to pee)

If the female restroom were empty and he was walking out just as I went in, I don't think I'd think much of it. I'd probably assume he went in the wrong door, really. It happens. Or that there was something wrong in the men's room, and he used ours because it was empty. But if a guy walked in with a bunch of women already inside, didn't apologize or ask, and went straight to a vacant stall, that'd definitely be a little weird.

[Jaro]

What do you think guys? It seems that all but one women have left the thread and not too many guys are answering or posting anymore either.

Shall we start over with a new thread?
If so, any ideas to make a new one more active would me much appreciated.

I added a poll. Thank you for voting!

[Jaro]

The next live game is scheduled next Sunday, July 1st!

---> https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?goto=newpost&t=342002

[SubRed92]

Have you ever been on an "accidental date" (where you thought you were doing something as friends, but after you arrived, it became obvious they invited you as a romantic opportunity)?

What do you wear when you want to look sexy?

Someone recently commented in chat that when guys are talking at a party, it's usually about cooking. Do you cook? What's your most typical thing to make?

1. I WISH

2. I don't have to wear much to look sexy xD. Although, the few times I wore formal shirt and pants to events I felt extra confident. I don't own a suit but I imagine that will be as sexy as it gets.

3. Whether I cook or not depends on what standards you are looking for. I can make eggs.. instant noodles.. fried rice maybe? The first two are the most typical.

I still have some catching up to do but I'll answer all the questions!


Girls, what is one sexual and one non-sexual thing that you will never ever try again, if any?

[Jaro]

The next live event will be about 1 hour from now in the Truth or Dare chatroom!

---> https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=342002