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dariodragon7
08-24-2017, 04:32 PM
32/male/master seeks 18+/female/slave in any location (serious replies only)

Okay, I'm not gonna write in some sketchy colour to appeal more peoples, I don't plan this ad to go for the best ads on getdare, I will only be myself and try to put up something interesting. So please take your time and read everything about me and prepare to enjoy an amazing journey with me.

I'll first introduce the vanilla me. My name is Dario I'm a 32 years old guy from Italy, 1,77m tall and weight 60kg. I study history and literature at the university with the dream of becoming a teacher or a tourist guide. As hobbies I watch japanese anime, I read mangas and I play videogames, so yeah I'm what you could call a nerd. I own 4 cats (yes I am a cat lover) and I love animals in general. I like eating but I'm not such a good cook so I prefer when are others to cook for me and I also enjoy to try every kind of dishes from different cultures. I'm really friendly and outgoing, I love talking and chatting so don't be scared and come talk to me, I always reply to everyone.

Now for the bdsm part. I'm a Dom and I've been into this lifestyle for six years, and I've also been in and out getdare for a couple of years. I'm still finding out more likes, limits and new kinks and I get every experience, long or short that is, as a chance to grow and become a better Dom. my main focus is towards the sexual side. Other main interests involve in particular pictures and videos, clothes control, daily routine control, behavior control and orgasm control/denial. I will make a pretty detailed list with my main kinks, but I'm willing to try new fetishes and kinks even based on your interests, I'm very open so feel free to suggest anything if you wish to try.

Now a few very important things you should read:

First: I'm not interested in body looks and races, so it doesen't matter if you are black or white, thin or plump, tall or small (even though I admit I prefer smaller girls because I have a particular fetish for being kissed while the girl stands on her toes). Character wise this is not really important, I enjoy knowing different peoples, but I like a person who is funny, open minded, really kinky, loving, caring and who likes to talk doesen't matter which topic. Your age is an important matter instead. I will not accept anyone who is younger than 18. Also I'm only looking for girls since I'm completely straight.

Second: You should be provided with a camera and/or possibly a webcam (the webcam is a plus not really necessary even though it's a good add). I love collecting pictures and videos, it's my main fetish and I'm aware that taking pictures and videos is a limit for many, but if you're interested in me it shouldn't be a limit for you. I'm not expecting you to send pictures/videos right away the first days if you don't feel ready or comfortable, but I want it to happen sooner or later. I have a camera and a webcam and am ready to show myself and I expect the same thing. Showing face is not necessary, you can avoid showing it in pictures and videos in the beginning or if it's a limit even at all. This point is not negotiable.

Third: I believe that trust between Dom and sub is crucial into these kind of relationships, so you should trust me and I will trust you. As I've said before i expect pictures, videos and possibly webcam to happen, which means that you will have to trust that I will never share online any pictures or videos of you and that they will be for me only to keep for my personal pleasure. I realize that trust can't be obtained over a day or two, so I'm fine with taking our time before engaging in any intimate activity and give some space into knowing each other better and see if trust can be achieved or if it's better to quit. This is a really crucial thing for me to obtain and it's not negotiable as well.

Fourth: You must to be open to try new things and kinks, as I'm really open to try new things as well. I'm not planning to push or force your limits unless you are fine with it, but I believe that trying and experimenting new things keeps things spicy and interesting and won't make the routine fall into boredom.

Fifth: I expect to have some kind of control. It doesen't have to be hard or total control, but there are a couple of things which I will want control over, in particular orgasms, clothes etc. We can discuss over this matter and agree to what degree of control and which things I will control, but I just want to be clear that I expect some kind of control over some of these aspects.

I'm not expecting you to commit right away. I usually let those who are interested to set a period of trial, where we will know each other better, have some light experimenting of the dynamics and see if we can make it work. This period of time will be decided by the sub but I will not allow a longer time than one month. We can avoid pictures, videos and webcam sessions for the trial period if this makes you feel more comfortable.

I will set some rules, but I don't have a set amount of rules and I prefer to adapt them to every single person. These rules will not interfere with important aspects of your life like work, family and friends or school, and we can discuss them and scrap those you think will be an obstacle. Breaking a rule a few times will result first in a scolding and if this keeps happening in a punishment (however punishments will never cross your limits list).

I'm pretty strict when it comes to tasks completion. I will give you some daily tasks and a deadline to complete them. Breaking the deadline or not completing the task well will always lead to a punishment. Of course I'll give you tasks and deadlines accordingly to your life duties.

I will not disclose any details about the way I use punishments and how I punish. I apply either physical, mental, humiliating and denial punishments. If some kind of punishment is on your limit list we can discuss it and I'll come up with something different. Being online I can't give the punishment myself so you'll have to do the punishment under my watch, but this doesen't mean you can say no or refuse to give yourself a punishment (unless there's a valid reason to it and you explain it to me). If I notice this behavior I might interrupt the relationship right away.

I don't like peoples suddenly disappearing. I understand that we're all busy and we have a full schedule, so it's ok if you have to be gone for hours or days, just be considerate enough to let me aware of it in advance, after all a warning text to someone takes only a minute and it's a good manner. We surely don't live with the phone in hands for the entire day but the other person might be waiting for a reply from you or might get worried, so it's nice to warn if you're going to be really busy and unable to talk or serve. Same thing goes if either you or me are not interested in the relationship anymore. I prefer to be honest and at least be informed if this is the case so that we can both move on and start looking again. So take this as a warning: if you disappear without telling me and then come back after days or week, consider the relationship to be most likely over, unless there is a really good reason (like lost or broken phone and such). I'm honest and I expect the same in return.

I'm looking for a slave/submissive girl. I don't like bratty sides, so please keep it in control if you have it in you. If you do have a dominant side, push it aside while spending your time with me (not pushing it away forever, you can be dominant in your daily life as much as you want). Any dominant/bratty behavior during sessions will be punished. We can talk, communicate, even be friends if you wish while we're not on a session, but I'm the Dom you are the sub, and while I am not interested in labels, I want respect for the roles. I will respect you as a person and I will respect your limits, but you will respect my role and my position and i will get the last word.

An important issue for everyone outside Europe is that my time zone is GMT +1 so you should be aware that we might have some time difference. It's not a problem for me and I've already dealt with it for years with several subs so I will try to adapt to your time zone as much as I can, so I expect you to put some efforts on it as well.

Some of my main fetishes and kinks are:

- Costume play and clothes play
- Sexy poses and poses training
- Teasing
- Pictures and videos collection
- Webcam live sessions
- Sexual play
- Skirts/Dresses
- Upskirts/Skirt lifting
- Orgasm control/denial
- Clothes and underwear control
- Tits and nipples torture
- Daily routine control
- Feet torture/play
- Legs play/torture
- Breasts/Nipples play/torture
- Clit torture
- Ass and Pussy spanking
- Footjobs
- Clothespins
- Porn control
- Edge play
- Ice cubes
- Forced masturbation
- Forced nudity
- Mouth gag
- Blindfold
- Scarf bondage
- Body writings
- Writings
- Floor licking
- Kneeling
- Aftercare

For the rest of them ask in private

My limits are:

- Blood
- Scat
- Vomit
- Family & friends
- Illegal
- Breath play
- Diapers
- Period play
- Watersport
- Messy
- Knife play
- Brats

I'm totally serious on this so I expect only serious replies. This is not a game for me, sure it has to be fun for both of us, but I take bdsm as an important thing of my life. I'm not here to get off and have some nudes, I'm here to live the lifestyle as much as possible. I want only really interested peoples contacting me and I won't tolerate things as <I'm fine with you but I won't take pics> or useless criticisms about what I wrote or how I do things or how mine is non-conventional bdsm and how I do things wrong, etc. All these messages will be ignored, deleted and offences reported to mods. I am self-made and self-taught about bdsm. No mentorship or guidance, just some readings and then I built myself after all my six years experiences online and offline. So of course I am different, but I am real and honest and I really mean what i wrote here.

To communicate in the beginning we can use the private messages here but soon enough I will want to move to a more private way to chat, since I don't spend much time on getdare to be quick enough for replies. I mostly use Kik, Whatsapp and Skype, but feel free to suggest some other way and I'll see if it's ok to use. I'll give you my contacts only in private. Also if you write me messages here, if I don't reply I am not ignoring but probably it's night here when you are writing me if you are outside Europe. I always reply to EVERYONE, be that I'm interested or not.

Well that's all I can write about me. Please in your message write me something about you. Nothing specific like a list of age, sex, occupation etc. just write me something about you, why you are interested in me etc.

Hope this doesen't go unnoticed. I spent a lot of time writing this all, hope it was worth the time and efforts. Thanks for anyone interested and to all the lurkers and visitors. Best luck to everyone!

Grand.Master691
08-25-2017, 10:31 AM
Very nice and detailed ad, Dario, I really hope you'll find a good and worthy sub you so rightfully deserve. Good luck and girls don't hesitate, go and get him:):)!

Grand.Master691
08-25-2017, 12:53 PM
Don't post your malicious links over here!

dariodragon7
08-25-2017, 01:16 PM
Very nice and detailed ad, Dario, I really hope you'll find a good and worthy sub you so rightfully deserve. Good luck and girls don't hesitate, go and get him:):)!

Thank you very much! I really appreciate what you wrote about me. I haven't much hope though xD

dariodragon7
08-25-2017, 01:42 PM
Adding that married or engaged womens contacting me while their husband/boyfriends is unaware of what's happening between us will be rejected. Also i ask for detailed proofs so fakes should avoid texting me at all thanks