dare problem

[kingj]

i'm a 23 year old male fat night time exhibitionist. I started going outside nude. then going to the dumpsters in boxers {which are six trailers down[ taking them off and streaking home then going in boxers to the mailbox 9 trailers down taking them off in the very front of the park and walking home. i even went outside with a spatula handle penetrating. i dont like dares so much as commands {I.E.: You will do this. but for some reason when i wank the cloud of exhibitionism leaves my brain and i calm down. I even deleted another thread because my mood left but ill keep this one up. i wait till 2 or 3 in the morning before i do stuff but im up for ideasmale

[dawgnz]

this is the first time, ever, that i have read something mentioning the same problem i face.
i lose all interest in dares, etc, once i have jacked off.
anyone else get this?

[Mythologist]

Meh. Something similar.

I find that if I want to stay focused on and enjoy dares afterwards, I just focus on how much fun teh dares have been so far, then let myself rest for a minute before getting back into it. You won't be as charged-up at first, but you can still keep going for a while.

[Billabongskater]

yes i have the same problem

[glue]

yeah me to, its like the ultimate end

i think to myself after i cum i will eat it or whatever, but never can

[war990]

I'm the same way! Like I'll say "Oh I'll do a dare, or sleep naked" but once I'm done I never do it. It's very strange! I thought I was the only one who had this.

[kingj]

Sometimes the cloud of exhibitionism gets so powerful i'd do things that might be bad for me. like i almost used jumper chord to restrain my hands behind my back while nude to my porch. but then i ended up masturbating and boom it was gone. i also find late at night when i take a warm shower with one of those hand held sprayers if i spray over my balls the arousal and cloud come back. also people can post dares in this thread if they like as well as tell how it happens to them

[BillM]

It's because you're getting a release...sexual tension builds up and there are all sorts of things to do while you're building up the tension and excitement.

Once you get off, the tension is gone and that's the end of that...

Taking it a bit further, males actually are more productive when they aren't getting booty because they're willing to do more and more to get that desired release.

They found that most major accomplishments and inventions were made before men are married. Einstein did most of his major work before he got married...after that it was just expanding on what he'd already done. He was getting the steady booty...

:)

[kingj]

sometimes i have to claw my arm from letting me do something stupid. it gets difficult to resist. i have to fap like 8 times a day. Anyone else ever fantasize your neighbor would catch you watching them and then would come out and make you do things and video it to blackmail you into obediance?
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me neither

[EnigmaNZ]

The problem seems pretty common with guys, don't know if women have this problem as well. I find the same, and I know other guys that do as well. Prior to release the tension is high, you think after you'll go on to other things, but then the release happens and you can't be bothered. Porn is exciting before release, and after you can't be bothered with it. Guess its your minds way of creating the conditions that will result in release of life, once thats done, its done.

[dared to perfection]

its somethings to do with hormones.. when turned on males have a large number of hormones making them aroused and such, once you have released your cum your body's reproductive 'job' is done and the hormones disappear rapidly. It's also the main excuse for rolling over and sleeping immediately after sex rather than cuddling.. it was the hormones keeping you awake but now they are gone its not really your fault.

[kingj]

Heres another thing to think on. like in the japanese hentai comics a girl starts of rubbing herself in the park through her panties. then stripping nude in park then in her school during day and so on till shes running nude through busy streets. In other words it gets more and more and more extensive