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trainer89
02-25-2017, 12:42 PM
27/male/master seeks 18-24/male/slave in any location (serious replies only)

Hi thank you for reading my advert. There is alot to read but it's because i wanted to explain everything to help you decide if you should apply or not. If you are interested please read the entire ad and reply as i asked. I'm very particular with my expectations so please don't waste your and my time.

I want to apologize in advance for language mistakes (english is not my first language).

About me:

Hello, my name is Chris. I'm 27 yo guy and i live in the central part of europe. I'm bisexual and i have a girlfriend (she doesn't know about me doing kinky things online and i want it to stay like this). Even though i'm bi, i'm not interested in female subs/slaves ( i want my gf to be the only lady in my sexaul life online and in real life). I work and i finally completed my master degree so i have more than enough time to train you (I will inform you ahead when i wont be online). I'm chilled and friendly ( if you get to know me a little bit better). In my free time i like to spend time with gf and friends, be an online master, play/watch soccer, watch movies/youtube/tv series, listen to music etc. like a lot of people.

About me as a Master:

I have been doing kinky thing since i was 17. I've played as a slave before so i understand how you can feel (i'm not submissive anymore though). As an online Master i have almost 6 years of experience but i still need to learn alot. I'm a creative person and i think you will not get bored with me altought not every task/session will be very exciting for you, that's you need to be patient. I'm very openminded person and i'm looking for someone brave and openminded as well. I want you to have fun as well so feel free to telll me about your kinky goals, fetishes or things you would like to do and try (as a master i don't have to agree to do that though, it depends on your performence ). i have expiernce in several areas of bdsm such as:

• Control ( rules and daily routines but everything depends on your personal preferences.)
• Pain (many different forms such as nipple torture, cbt and much more nothing extreme though)
• Bondage ( many different types and ways, i like to keep slaves tied for some time during the day , or to make them sleep tied up etc.)
• Pet play ( dog/puppy or cat play, not everyone favourite thing to do and it's ok if you don't like it and decide to put it into limits)
• Anal (again it's something that can be fun or something that you will hate. I can teach you many things in this area if you decide to do it).
• Humiliation ( everyone is different so it's difficult to humiliate someone for some people acting like a girl is humiliating for somepeople not so i will need to learn about you to humialate you, but i always try to don't go too far. It will be not used often on you couse it's very cofusing for me and for slave, I mean some people put it in likes but suddenly it becomes a limit etc).
• gaming tasks (video game task/ dice task/ quizes and alot more. for example you play counter strike and your results will be decide your fate etc).

Things mentioned above is only a small amount of things that i've done and i want to try. I also have experience with piss play, baby play/diapers, feet, sissification/feminization wedgies and more.

I have some kinky goals that i always try to complete with my slaves/subs but to make this ad not too long i will talk about two. (rest will be discussed in private converstation and i would love to hear about your kinky goals if you have any). First kinky goal is to have as much fun as possible and to give you as much fun as you can have as well, altough as a master i will have adventage and more fun than you but i will still try to make sure you enjoy being my slave/sub. On the other hand i'm not looking for someone who only wants to jerk off or is demanding. In my opinion master should be in charge and have a decisive role. Second goal is to have the most realistic master/dom-slave/sub relationship i can have online. It does not mean that i want to control your entire life (i can't and i don't want to do it). I also wont demand something what's not possible and act like a douche altough i will still "own" you.

You need to also know that my style of domination is not being a bully or jerk and calling you names all the time. Some people like it , but for other people it can be a turn off, that's why don't expect me to verbal abuse you all the time. To be honest i do it only from time to time and only if you have told me that it turns you on. As i said your fun is my goal too , so i will listen to you , your opinions , we will do your likes etc but i hate to be pushed and i know how to punish slave/sub so better behave I'm alittle bit sadistic but i'm fair.

Addition info:

• My time zone is CET +1
• I use only skype and getdare (sometimes email) so please don't ask about kik, snapchat etc.
• You need to have enough privacy, i mean your own room, where you can be alone and do tasks etc. Bathroom is not enough so please don't reply if you don't have your own room.
•I wont cam with you, send you my pictures etc. so please don't ask. (Yeah i know it's not fair neither is life and many other things. You have free choise so if you don't accept the fact that i wont cam then please don't reply)

What am i looking for:

I'm not desperate and i will be patient to find "perfect" slave (i will be patient with you as well). I always try to be around people that i like and of course people who like me. If we wont click then i will tell you and also expect you to tell me if you when you feel that we are not a good match. It will work much better if we will become friends, not only master-slave, i mean sure i want to play kinky but i also want talk about normall stuff, like music , video games etc. But if you prefer it to be strict Master slave relation then ok, just tell me about it.

Your appearance:

Appearance is not really important. I care much more about your personality. You just should be:
• male
• 18-26 yo (i can't dominate older guys, i feel awkward and not dominant enough. Of course you can try if you are older but i can tell you already that i will say no.
• skinny, slim, avarage build , athletic ( sorry but please don't reply if you are overweight or too muscular.)

more about you:

Your sexual orientation: It's not important if you are gay, bisexual, or straight as long as you are submissive and obedient. If you are straight and you can't stand being dominated by another guy than please don't reply, same thing if you think you are "turning gay" etc.

Your location: It's also not really important as long as we can talk and play often. I expect daily comunication or at least 5/6 times a week. If you are from Australia or Asia then it will be really difficult cause of time difference, but we can make it will a good plan.

Your personality: In my opinion slave/sub should be submissive and obedient. I can teach you to be be submissive and obedient but that's not what i'm looking for and you should have alittle bit of these atributes already. You should be also kinky. The kinkier the better, as i said i'm openminded and i'm looking for someone who's not afraid to "suffer" for my pleasure and try new things. I'm also not a jerk off for me kind of master. If i wanted to watch masturbating you masturbating i would watch porn. Now something what i'm not looking for, which is demanding slaves. I'm not a fairy and i think that in master/dom-sub/slave relationship master should be in charge. If you think i'm wrong than you should become master yourself. If you are demanding slave than please don't reply.


More things that you should know before you decide to apply:

Master-slave roles: This part pretty much covers what i said about your personality. I'm a master and i'm looking for a slave and as a master i have a decisive role. Of course one of my goal is to give you as much fun as i can and i want you to be open with me about your expectations things you want to try/do etc but i'm still decisive.

Being totally honest: First of all you don't like when someone is lieing to you, neither do i, so please don't lie to me. I'm a honest person and i expect you to be honest as well. There is no point to lie to me even if you think the truth will hurth me. No i will be ok, it will be more difficult to accept a lie than a truth. Let me explain, if you don't like task or session i want you to tell me that. If you lie to me i will probably give you something similar to do in future and you will be disapointed again and probably disapear after few times. I don't want you to blandish me about anything. I will not punish you for telling me a truth (even i don't like it), but i will punish you if you lie to me. Last thing i will say in this part is don't expect me to give you better task or improve anything when i don't know what do you want

Comunication: Comunication is a huge problem and without good comunication there will be no good master slave relationship. I'm looking for somone who's able to tell me what do you think about me as a Master (i'm not talking about love etc but things if i'm not dominant enough , boring etc) , about tasks/ cam sessions, rules , expectations etc. If you are not able to talk about such things than it will not work. If you are a newbie and you think you don't know what do you expect that you are not totally honest. I'm pretty sure you've read other adverts on this side, watched specific porn, read bdsm stories etc. and after that i'm sure you have some preferences, things that you think you will enjoy, expectations etc. Of course if you are a first timer your expectations, likes/limits and preferences are limited but you have some for sure. If you really don't know what do you expect than take your time and think for a while about it before you decide to reply.
I also want you to be able to comunicate about your feelings about tasks/sessions rules , me as a master etc. as i mentioned i "being totally honest " part. If not it is not going to last too long. To keep comunication on a right level i will ask you alot of questions about things we do etc. so be prepered to answer them honestly.

Being serious and commited: I'm 100% serious about almost evrything i do (of course i joke from time to time when it's a time for jokes), and bdsm in not exeption. I know it's difficult , you have your own life , so do i but if you are not serious then please don't waste my time. I will give you as much of my free time as possible and as both of us need and i expect same thing. If you are too busy studing or doing something else and you dont want to give me at least 10 hours a week then please go search somewhere else. Our time can be used for training but not only training, i also like if you can talk with me about soemthing else like your hobby your day etc, so we can get know each other and become friends.

Pain: As i said before i'm sadistic a little and if you will become my slave then pain and tortures will be used often on you. Of course i don't want to make any damage to your body etc. Noone was hurt so far and it will stay like this and it will never be pain that you can't take but if it's too strong then it's enough to tell me and we will stop someting and do something else etc.


Please dont reply if you are not / you don't:

- not totally honest
- not serious
- not commited to this kind of relationship
- younger then 18 and older then 26
- overweight
- not willing to accept that i will not show myself on cam or send you picutures of myself
- you are not willing to show face after enough time build a trust (i'm really patient)
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it
- you are not willing to send picture proofs
- not looking for long term relationship
- want to just jerk off
- don't like pain or you are not willing to learn how to take it.
- don't have enough privacy or/and free time
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it
- you are not able to tell me that you want to quit and give a reason

Training methods:

Rules and ownership: As i mentioned before, i want it to be realistic so don't expect 1000 rules and don't expect me to control your every single move or action cause it's not possible. We will discuss everything in private chat but i will explain few things here. First thing you should know is that i wont ingerate into something that you don't want me to ingerate. I'm not here to ruin your life or to make it more difficult for no reason. Every rule that you will have will be discussed and accepted by you.I Seconds of all, like to do everything on my own pace and no matter how experienced you are, i will start slowly to see if we are a good match. First i will give you some basic rules to keep control over you. Those rules will be about jerking habbits/ watching porn etc. WIth time passing i can and i will take more control and i will ad more rules altough we will still discuss details to make it work. I want to prove yourself first before i take more control though, cause in my opinion it makes no sense to give you 20 rules if you can't even follow 5.

Cam sessions: It's also very important. There is no need to start with cam right from the beginning but i will not wait forever, so if you don't want to cam then please don't reply. Also i have to remind that i will not show myself on cam so if you don't like it than we are not good match and please do not complain about that. You also don't need to show me your face from start but you need to do it sooner or later when i earn your trust, but again i will not wait for ever . Also if you don't want to show your face at first i want you to wear some kind of mask cause seeing your eyes and expression is very important and it will help me with your training. I've never recorded cam session and i will never do such thing.

Daily task system: The best way to explain it is an example:
Your goal will be to get points and you can get them by doing tasks. For each task you can get 3 points/ Each week you will have to get 2 more points then half amount of points that you could get for example during next i will give you 4 task so you can get 12points ( 4x3=12) so you need to get 2 points then half it means you need 8 points. If you get 8 points or more then you get reward if you get less points you will be punshed. And now you will have to proof that you did your tasks by sending me report or/and picture prove (with pictures i can wait like with cam but i will not wait for ever). And here is how i will give you points:

•1 point for quality of proofs ( reports with more then deatails and/or good picture or some report depends, you will have to proof that you did task execly as i said)
•1 point for sending me proofs ( 1-5 details in report etc.)
•1 point for sending proofs on time
If you will be late with proofs or you will not do task on time you will have to do it anyway in next 48 hours ( if not i will punish you) but you will get no points. But if you have good reason then i will give you points and everything should be fine.

Punishment with rewards: We will talk about details during private chat , but one thing that annoys me is slave/sub that is trying to test me, i mean some people are breaking rules intentionaly to see how patient i'm am or how hard can i punish them. Punishment is not to entertain you, it's apunishment not a reward. I can punish you in several ways , boring, painfull, annoying etc so don't test me.


Likes and limits:

Now our likes should be same or similar in at least 80%. If 3 of my likes are in your limits/dislikes than we are not a good match.

Likes: enslavement, honest people, spank, bondage, anal, nipple torture, cbt, messy, games, video games, orgasm control, edging, wedgies, piss play, rules, corner time, dice tasks, and much more

Limits: Blood, scat, to painfull, dangerous, public, permanent, family, friends, animals, under 18 etc

All limits will be respected

How to apply:
Now here is important part. All i need to do is to answer questions. Please don't tell me that question about age or limits etc are difficult or confusing. I know my english can be an issue but i'm pretty sure that you can understand these questions. Also please don't post here, i will only accept application via private messege. Another thing you need to remember is i don't want you to describe me every part of your life, we will have enough time to talk about such things later but first i need to see that you can follow simple orders and answer questions... how do you want to be a slave if you can't follow the most simple instructions that you will recive?

Way of application: It's very simple. First you need to pm me , in subject put "own me" . Then you need to answer all questions bellow. If you don't put own me in the subject of the your application i will not accept it..

1.name:
2.age:
3.location/time zone:
4.sexual orientation:
5.relationship status:
6.weigth/height:
7.how many doms/masters/owners have you had?
8.how much time can you / do you want to give me?
9.likes?
10.dislikes?
11.limits?
12. expectations?
13.tell me why do you want to be my slave/ you think we are good match? ( being sub/slave or being young enough is not a good reason )
14.tell me something about yourself
15.Have you read entire ad and you understood it?
16.Is there anything that was mentioned in my advert that you disliked?
17.Do you have your own room?
18.Do you have any question?


BTW if you add me on skype please tell me your getdare name in invitation or send me messege here with skype name.

* i'm asking about sexual orientation and status to help me to train you, and if you are in relationship think before you apply cause i don't want to ruin any part of your life.

ps. Sorry for my english and for long ad , also thanks for reading

Looking forward to hearings from you

MaxF
02-25-2017, 01:23 PM
Good luck with your search, I was keen but don't think I ever want to show my face. It is a great selection and I sure you will find theverything one you want

elderservant
02-25-2017, 06:21 PM
Sir;

I am both far too old and far too overweight to meet your criteria but I cannot simply let your advertisement for a slave go by without comment.

Your terms and conditions are remarkable in both clarity and completeness. They are also very realistic. Any fit young sub / slave would be lucky to be accepted by you and I hope you find someone to your liking soon.

Respectfully,
elderservant

henry.ina13
03-01-2017, 08:04 AM
I'm henry Town
I'm 21 years old
From france but parents from us. gtm +1 i think
I'm bi
I'm single
I'm 1.90tall and my weight is 77
i've had only one time master never long term unfortunally
I can give you a lot of mine freetime, but i can chat with you often
I'm a real SLAVE i've discovered it 2 years ago and now i'm so submissive
I don't like unrespectfull people and too painful or too dirty playing
I prefer to don't play with blood or scart
I expect to find my first real and serious Master who controls me
By reading your post i'v saw that you are serious, professional and not just a timewaster or a quick master, and i agree with almost all of your points.
I'm a student, i'm studing law, i used to play football so i'm not fat or chubby, very normal, i'm into domination for long term master who controls me in lot of parts of my life.
yes i did.
Not at all, i dont like to send pic or video, it give me a sense of dislike but if it's required i'm too submissive to disagree.
i've my own room, i cant sometime make noise or talk (at least i can whisp), but sometimes yes, when i'm alone cause i've my room but i'm not alone in house.
I didn't see your skype ID, so i leave mine there hoping you to add me, i,ll wait for you. thanks. skype id: henry.ina13

trainer89
03-10-2017, 01:55 PM
hi everyone, thanks for reading and for kind words. I really appreciate it. I want you to know that i still have one free spot so if you are interested than please read entire post and reply as i asked in my ad.

Because there are some issue with time i want you to know that i work monday-friday 8:00 am - 4 pm ,. During weekends i work from home since 1am till 10:50pm. ( i will be able to talk during that time or answer your questions quite fast but sometimes you will have to wait little bit longer) I may also work 8:45 - 11:00 pm or little bit longer during some tuesday , wednesday. My time zone is CET. So please consider your schedule and if you are free only when i work than we are not a good match.

Please remember that if i try to contact you and i get no answer ,even short messege or i can't see any effort from you than we are not a good match and it will never work.

looking forward to hearing from you, and have a nice day.