LitDarkness
01-29-2017, 11:48 AM
20/male/slave seeks 21+/any sex/master in any location
Disclaimer: Even though this advert says male, I do have female parts so if you are not okay with that, you need to skip this advert.
Basics about me.
I am a 20 year old submissive. There's a bit you will need to know about me.
I live in a very weather unfriendly area. It's more likely to snow or rain than anything.
Sunshine does happen but happens rarely. It's guesswork for when that happens.
I am in the Eastern Standard Timezone. Make sure you are close or able to accommodate to this timezone.
I also prefer communication via Kik. So make sure you are willing to use that app if you are interested.
I like certain video games- mainly sims and wrestling.
I do like to write and would like to always have at least a little bit of time to write.
I also like to dance so I also want some time to dance.
And on nice weather, I do like to walk my dogs.
I do curse. If you are not okay with cursing, you are not for me.
I am a brat, I will fight you, find loopholes, call you names. I need you to be able to demand submission.
I want to feel like I'm being dominated. This won't work if I feel like your just in it to order me around.
I need a reason to submit to you. And know, because you are a Dom isn't a good reason. It isn't even a reason.
I promise Domming me is not easy.
I do not like being called a slave or calling you Master/Mistress.
I am a sub not a slave. I am looking for a Dom or Domme. I do not like the term slave. I don't really feel like I am a slave and I am not looking for a Master/Mistress.
I feel M/s is more of a stricter relationship than what I'm looking for and I feel like a slave eventually goes 24/7 with their Master which I am not willing to do. I feel like a slave gives up everything for their Master including their goals and dreams.
We will never get to this point. I do have goals and dreams which I promise I won't give up for you.
I also feel a slave also lets a Master define their limits which I am not okay with. Pushing limits when I get to know you is one thing but getting rid of them completely will never happen as some limits will be hard limits forever.
About you
Okay I have some double standards.
Males need to be 30 or older.
Females need to be 21 through 25.
Im going to go into further detail. I noticed with males I get along better with older males when it comes to D/s. I found 30 and up just works better for me.
I also found younger females also work for me better. Just easier to click with.
You must have Dommed at least once. I am not taking beginners.
And please be able to type in decent English.
Also, you cannot be a switch. I just feel like I am expected to Dom you if you are a Switch. It just won't work.
Notes
I do plan on dating in the future. So be prepared for that. If you are not okay with that, run away.
And yeah, they will know about you as you will them (not the first date-needs to actually be serious).
I also do plan on transitioning when in a safe space to do so, so if you're in it for the vagina, go away.
I also want to finish my current denial obligation to GD before you take over with that. Because this happened before I was even looking for a Dom.
So do not be surprised with any of these things.
Safewords
We will have safewords, this is not negotiable.
These will never be forbidden. If you deny the use of these any time, we are done.
Green-go on, continue, I am fine.
Yellow-Slow down, change something, close to a limit.
Red-Stop. Stop now.
I do like check ins. It's also helpful to avoid the red point.
Aftercare
Aftercare is needed. Without it, I can drop hard and fast.
And a drop isn't pretty and makes me miserable and feel awful. If I drop, I feel like a bad submissive and can have multiple failures in a row.
Availability
I live with family so noisy isn't possible in a lot of occasions. And I work from 5pm-10pm on most days. I get two days a week off usually.
My work schedule is however not set so I can get off or go in at a time in that timeframe but not exactly at 5pm or 10pm.
The two days I get off per a week are also not set.
So to be honest, I do not get a lot of time to play and it will have to be at night, probably after I get off work or early in the morning.
But please also take into account I need sleep.
You will not command me to stay up at any point or when to wake up, I have had too many issues with this and it makes me irrational too.
The two days off I get per a week may be the best time to play in all honestly.
Don't expect me to be able to play everyday, it is impossible.
And on a final note there are a few deal breakers-telling me to find another Dom; this one shouldn't even have to be mentioned.
Violating limits/ignoring safewords; this should've also been obvious.
Telling me who I can and cannot talk to.
This will end things, no questions asked.
Trail Run
There will be a trail run. It will last for a week. This is to see how well we work together.
My likes and limits are in my profile, I want you to be able to go and read them.
This is to make sure you aren't lazy.
Applying
If you read this, you know what I need to be in the application pm.
If a couple of any kind, make sure you apply separately but specify you are a couple and mention with who.
Also make sure your likes and limits have at least some similarities to mine.
If it's the complete opposite, I won't even read your application as that shows we are not compatible.
Disclaimer: Even though this advert says male, I do have female parts so if you are not okay with that, you need to skip this advert.
Basics about me.
I am a 20 year old submissive. There's a bit you will need to know about me.
I live in a very weather unfriendly area. It's more likely to snow or rain than anything.
Sunshine does happen but happens rarely. It's guesswork for when that happens.
I am in the Eastern Standard Timezone. Make sure you are close or able to accommodate to this timezone.
I also prefer communication via Kik. So make sure you are willing to use that app if you are interested.
I like certain video games- mainly sims and wrestling.
I do like to write and would like to always have at least a little bit of time to write.
I also like to dance so I also want some time to dance.
And on nice weather, I do like to walk my dogs.
I do curse. If you are not okay with cursing, you are not for me.
I am a brat, I will fight you, find loopholes, call you names. I need you to be able to demand submission.
I want to feel like I'm being dominated. This won't work if I feel like your just in it to order me around.
I need a reason to submit to you. And know, because you are a Dom isn't a good reason. It isn't even a reason.
I promise Domming me is not easy.
I do not like being called a slave or calling you Master/Mistress.
I am a sub not a slave. I am looking for a Dom or Domme. I do not like the term slave. I don't really feel like I am a slave and I am not looking for a Master/Mistress.
I feel M/s is more of a stricter relationship than what I'm looking for and I feel like a slave eventually goes 24/7 with their Master which I am not willing to do. I feel like a slave gives up everything for their Master including their goals and dreams.
We will never get to this point. I do have goals and dreams which I promise I won't give up for you.
I also feel a slave also lets a Master define their limits which I am not okay with. Pushing limits when I get to know you is one thing but getting rid of them completely will never happen as some limits will be hard limits forever.
About you
Okay I have some double standards.
Males need to be 30 or older.
Females need to be 21 through 25.
Im going to go into further detail. I noticed with males I get along better with older males when it comes to D/s. I found 30 and up just works better for me.
I also found younger females also work for me better. Just easier to click with.
You must have Dommed at least once. I am not taking beginners.
And please be able to type in decent English.
Also, you cannot be a switch. I just feel like I am expected to Dom you if you are a Switch. It just won't work.
Notes
I do plan on dating in the future. So be prepared for that. If you are not okay with that, run away.
And yeah, they will know about you as you will them (not the first date-needs to actually be serious).
I also do plan on transitioning when in a safe space to do so, so if you're in it for the vagina, go away.
I also want to finish my current denial obligation to GD before you take over with that. Because this happened before I was even looking for a Dom.
So do not be surprised with any of these things.
Safewords
We will have safewords, this is not negotiable.
These will never be forbidden. If you deny the use of these any time, we are done.
Green-go on, continue, I am fine.
Yellow-Slow down, change something, close to a limit.
Red-Stop. Stop now.
I do like check ins. It's also helpful to avoid the red point.
Aftercare
Aftercare is needed. Without it, I can drop hard and fast.
And a drop isn't pretty and makes me miserable and feel awful. If I drop, I feel like a bad submissive and can have multiple failures in a row.
Availability
I live with family so noisy isn't possible in a lot of occasions. And I work from 5pm-10pm on most days. I get two days a week off usually.
My work schedule is however not set so I can get off or go in at a time in that timeframe but not exactly at 5pm or 10pm.
The two days I get off per a week are also not set.
So to be honest, I do not get a lot of time to play and it will have to be at night, probably after I get off work or early in the morning.
But please also take into account I need sleep.
You will not command me to stay up at any point or when to wake up, I have had too many issues with this and it makes me irrational too.
The two days off I get per a week may be the best time to play in all honestly.
Don't expect me to be able to play everyday, it is impossible.
And on a final note there are a few deal breakers-telling me to find another Dom; this one shouldn't even have to be mentioned.
Violating limits/ignoring safewords; this should've also been obvious.
Telling me who I can and cannot talk to.
This will end things, no questions asked.
Trail Run
There will be a trail run. It will last for a week. This is to see how well we work together.
My likes and limits are in my profile, I want you to be able to go and read them.
This is to make sure you aren't lazy.
Applying
If you read this, you know what I need to be in the application pm.
If a couple of any kind, make sure you apply separately but specify you are a couple and mention with who.
Also make sure your likes and limits have at least some similarities to mine.
If it's the complete opposite, I won't even read your application as that shows we are not compatible.