Real life, Not internet.

[Kilika]

Hi I wanted to know if there was any website I could go to maybe find a real life master/mistress? Online Just does not cut it for me. Even though I really only did It once, I know I want to try the real thing....any help would be great. Thanks!

[LilAngel]

If you want to find a real life dom, I would suggest you to perhaps... find a master/ mistress near your area, for online first. No matter what they say... I still think that online is safer, in the beginning when you're getting to know the person you're trusting yourself with. Once you know that you're comfortable, you should then talk about meeting up... etc. I would also suggest that your first meeting should NOT be D/s related, and should be in public. Don't worry about talking to him/ her about this; they should understand. If they don't, find another guy. (or girl or whatever. xD)

And secondly... since you wanted sites: (I can't believe I'm saying this but...)

- CollarMe.com
- ALT.com
- Bondage.com
- BDSMPersonals.com

(Yep... 980/1000 there are crappy and some might even probably just be wanting an escort or something... but you might be lucky first time round. You might have to dig deep for one though.)

[Kilika]

Thanks LilAngel I appreciate The tips and websites.