Anjelen
04-17-2009, 03:07 AM
I'm a humilliator. And as such i thrive on the use of mind games - as well as thriving in a sort of reverse-empathic way (their humilliation after all is my pleasure) on the humilliation of my subs.
Not to pat myself on the back, here - but i must make this point before i continue; i try to read people. Particularly submissives who, in their servitude make themselves vulnerable, i find easy to read,; every look in their eyes, every smile or frown, every twitch of their body tells me a little bit about their current feelings and the sensations going through them - as SexyGingerSlave can attest.
This isn't only a useful guide for knowing how far one can go, but also a useful tool to use 'against' the submissives: one of my favorite games, so to speak, is using superawareness; asking them to state every so often how they feel will confront the submissives with their emotions, their sensations, and very much with the humilliation of whatever i put them through - and sometimes, as i've noticed, lets them find out about themselves they're very, very much turned on by those things that they considered to be chores at best, at first, such as for instance a golden shower taken 'for the master's pleasure'.
Wich, of course, only heightens their humilliation and sheer embarassment - wich in turn very much adds to my own pleasure...
What i'm curious about is - what are your favorite mindgames? Do you indulge in them at all - and if not, what -do- you thrive on? ;)
Edit - of course for those of you on the receiving end, the same questions go... How do you feel about beeing toyed with in this way?
Not to pat myself on the back, here - but i must make this point before i continue; i try to read people. Particularly submissives who, in their servitude make themselves vulnerable, i find easy to read,; every look in their eyes, every smile or frown, every twitch of their body tells me a little bit about their current feelings and the sensations going through them - as SexyGingerSlave can attest.
This isn't only a useful guide for knowing how far one can go, but also a useful tool to use 'against' the submissives: one of my favorite games, so to speak, is using superawareness; asking them to state every so often how they feel will confront the submissives with their emotions, their sensations, and very much with the humilliation of whatever i put them through - and sometimes, as i've noticed, lets them find out about themselves they're very, very much turned on by those things that they considered to be chores at best, at first, such as for instance a golden shower taken 'for the master's pleasure'.
Wich, of course, only heightens their humilliation and sheer embarassment - wich in turn very much adds to my own pleasure...
What i'm curious about is - what are your favorite mindgames? Do you indulge in them at all - and if not, what -do- you thrive on? ;)
Edit - of course for those of you on the receiving end, the same questions go... How do you feel about beeing toyed with in this way?