itzlinc25
08-13-2015, 09:07 AM
Hey all.
Just gonna post some pain & humiliation ideas I've performed on cam mostly for my mistress. I'm beginning to understand the dom/sub lifestyle. As a sub, you should be doing things that make your dom happy, not the other way around. As a dom you should be mindful of your sub's limits. That's where trust comes into play. Trust, communication, understanding and unpredictability makes for an awesome relationship. Also these ideas are really kinky so if that's not your thing, then you may want to back out. My general rules are that it needs to be safe, legal, and realistic. As much as I love would to go streaking down the street or shoving things into my urethra, I would hate to take the chance of getting locked or sent to the hospital so keep it safe and smart.
Requirements (most of which are everyday things you can find around the house for a low profile and to save cash):
String / Shoelaces
Candles
Cucumbers / Carrots / Pens
Icy Hot / Hot Sauce (be careful, start with mild and work your way up)
Ice Cubes
Duct Tape
Nutella / Peanut Butter
Water bottles
Clothes Hanger
Custom shower head
Coffee / Alcohol
Ideas (these work best with webcam and voice):
1. This one often gets overlooked and is the most basic one. Start off by praising how amazing your mistress (or master) is. Tell them how lucky you are to have them and you would do anything for them. Next start criticizing your body - every imperfection that you may have - fat, short, out of shape, small cock, etc. Start calling yourself names "im a slut" "im a slave" "im worthless" etc. Really put yourself out there. It's all about their pleasure, not yours. You could also go to public chatrooms (chaturbate, cam4, chatroulette, ratemycock, etc) and confess your devotion to them to random people while insulting yourself. Keep in mind, some of these like chatroulette are 1 on 1 while others are public so your dom can come and watch.
2. The classic string tied around your balls to the water bottle. Make sure to do plenty of squats and jumping jacks. If your clothes hanger has clamps, you can use them on your nipples and tie them either to your balls, cock, or even toes. Yep. I've done toes before. Standing on one foot is hard with a water bottle hanging off your balls.
3. I've never cared for anal but most doms seem to enjoy it because it makes you vulnerable. At any rate, as long as it makes them happy, I'll try it. Cucumbers are big for the average sub so start off slow with carrots, bananas, and pens. Bananas are almost perfect. Use lube and a condom if needed. DO NOT TRY ROUND THINGS THAT MAY GET STUCK DUE TO SUCTION. Also this is where the hot sauce / hot icy comes in. Start off with mild. Shouldn't be too bad. Have ice cubes standing by. Also whenever I try something messy, I usually do it in the shower so it helps if you have a laptop with a webcam so your dom can watch.
4. Bondage is difficult to do solo but can be done. Start off small. Tie an arm behind your back. If you are flexible, sit down on your knees and duct tape around your upper thighs to your ankles. Now you can only move on your arms. Another method is a handsfree orgasm. Make sure you have a removable and adjustable shower head. The one with different modes (power shower, smooth, sprinkler, etc). You can tie your feet up with duct tape and (it's possible but hard) tie your hands up. Then hop into the shower, be careful not to slip, turn it on, lay down, set to a more powerful mode, and enjoy a handsfree orgasm. This is only for rewards and rarely happens.
5. Ice Cubes and Wax go great together. Massage your body with ice cubes and then pour wax. I normally go after nipples and cock. Oh and also, be shaved for this. You'll be glad you are.
6. My dom loves pee and cum play. She also loves to deny me. She'll tease and deny me for an hour or two while I drink water. I've drank 4 water bottles before. By then you'll have to go really bad. The pain has just begun. Drink some coffee and a bit of alcohol (which are natural diuretics). By then you'll want to go even more. Keep jacking off. After a while, if your dom is satisfied, they will let you go to the bathtub where you should lay down, position your legs on the wall, and release. You can pee on your chest, face, or mouth. If you are brave, you can just pee into a cup and drink it all. It depends on what you are comfortable with. Then jack off and cum. Again it depends on what you are comfortable with and how happy you want to make your dom. If they want you to cum on your chest then swirl it around do it. If they want you to swallow, do that too. Remember it's not about you, but about them. It's also really hot if they cheer you on and say good boy. Doms, make sure you work gradually up to it. Most guys hate the taste of their cum so gradually work them into it. First just a taste of precum, then a scoop of precum, then a taste of cum, then the rest.
7. Marker + writing things on your body. Make sure it's erasable though. Then go into a public webcam room.
8. Nutella + Peanut Butter (general food play). Good things to rub onto your body and lick off especially if you are trying to get them to eat their cum. Again I like to keep it clean and safe so don't rub anything on your anus and lick it off. You'll get sick.
9. Chastity. Again trust is big. If you can't handle it, then don't go looking for a dom. I love not knowing when I will be able to cum. I've gone for a week in chastity and then exploded buckets. Now obviously if I could, I'd jack off everyday but I feel like productivity declines greatly after I cum so it's not only a dom/sub power exchange but also improves your life. Cheesy but whatever. Also, it's extremely humiliating when your dom tells you they've just cum but forbid you from cumming. Then you should get them to fill you in on how great it felt. Also doms, be careful, unless it's real time and the sub has a chastity cage, it's hard making anyone go 2 weeks without cumming on the honor system.
10. Forced porn watching. This one gets passed up a lot. Force your sub to watch a specific fetish on the days you allow them to cum. Link them to 3 different fetishes you know they don't like approx 10-15 mins long and let them pick which one they want to jack off to. Once they pick, make fun of them for picking that specific fetish while they are jacking off. If they can cum in that time, they can cum. If they can't, back to chastity. Also have them comment on how great this fetish is and how much they want more.
That's it for now. More to come. Comments / contributions welcomed!
Just gonna post some pain & humiliation ideas I've performed on cam mostly for my mistress. I'm beginning to understand the dom/sub lifestyle. As a sub, you should be doing things that make your dom happy, not the other way around. As a dom you should be mindful of your sub's limits. That's where trust comes into play. Trust, communication, understanding and unpredictability makes for an awesome relationship. Also these ideas are really kinky so if that's not your thing, then you may want to back out. My general rules are that it needs to be safe, legal, and realistic. As much as I love would to go streaking down the street or shoving things into my urethra, I would hate to take the chance of getting locked or sent to the hospital so keep it safe and smart.
Requirements (most of which are everyday things you can find around the house for a low profile and to save cash):
String / Shoelaces
Candles
Cucumbers / Carrots / Pens
Icy Hot / Hot Sauce (be careful, start with mild and work your way up)
Ice Cubes
Duct Tape
Nutella / Peanut Butter
Water bottles
Clothes Hanger
Custom shower head
Coffee / Alcohol
Ideas (these work best with webcam and voice):
1. This one often gets overlooked and is the most basic one. Start off by praising how amazing your mistress (or master) is. Tell them how lucky you are to have them and you would do anything for them. Next start criticizing your body - every imperfection that you may have - fat, short, out of shape, small cock, etc. Start calling yourself names "im a slut" "im a slave" "im worthless" etc. Really put yourself out there. It's all about their pleasure, not yours. You could also go to public chatrooms (chaturbate, cam4, chatroulette, ratemycock, etc) and confess your devotion to them to random people while insulting yourself. Keep in mind, some of these like chatroulette are 1 on 1 while others are public so your dom can come and watch.
2. The classic string tied around your balls to the water bottle. Make sure to do plenty of squats and jumping jacks. If your clothes hanger has clamps, you can use them on your nipples and tie them either to your balls, cock, or even toes. Yep. I've done toes before. Standing on one foot is hard with a water bottle hanging off your balls.
3. I've never cared for anal but most doms seem to enjoy it because it makes you vulnerable. At any rate, as long as it makes them happy, I'll try it. Cucumbers are big for the average sub so start off slow with carrots, bananas, and pens. Bananas are almost perfect. Use lube and a condom if needed. DO NOT TRY ROUND THINGS THAT MAY GET STUCK DUE TO SUCTION. Also this is where the hot sauce / hot icy comes in. Start off with mild. Shouldn't be too bad. Have ice cubes standing by. Also whenever I try something messy, I usually do it in the shower so it helps if you have a laptop with a webcam so your dom can watch.
4. Bondage is difficult to do solo but can be done. Start off small. Tie an arm behind your back. If you are flexible, sit down on your knees and duct tape around your upper thighs to your ankles. Now you can only move on your arms. Another method is a handsfree orgasm. Make sure you have a removable and adjustable shower head. The one with different modes (power shower, smooth, sprinkler, etc). You can tie your feet up with duct tape and (it's possible but hard) tie your hands up. Then hop into the shower, be careful not to slip, turn it on, lay down, set to a more powerful mode, and enjoy a handsfree orgasm. This is only for rewards and rarely happens.
5. Ice Cubes and Wax go great together. Massage your body with ice cubes and then pour wax. I normally go after nipples and cock. Oh and also, be shaved for this. You'll be glad you are.
6. My dom loves pee and cum play. She also loves to deny me. She'll tease and deny me for an hour or two while I drink water. I've drank 4 water bottles before. By then you'll have to go really bad. The pain has just begun. Drink some coffee and a bit of alcohol (which are natural diuretics). By then you'll want to go even more. Keep jacking off. After a while, if your dom is satisfied, they will let you go to the bathtub where you should lay down, position your legs on the wall, and release. You can pee on your chest, face, or mouth. If you are brave, you can just pee into a cup and drink it all. It depends on what you are comfortable with. Then jack off and cum. Again it depends on what you are comfortable with and how happy you want to make your dom. If they want you to cum on your chest then swirl it around do it. If they want you to swallow, do that too. Remember it's not about you, but about them. It's also really hot if they cheer you on and say good boy. Doms, make sure you work gradually up to it. Most guys hate the taste of their cum so gradually work them into it. First just a taste of precum, then a scoop of precum, then a taste of cum, then the rest.
7. Marker + writing things on your body. Make sure it's erasable though. Then go into a public webcam room.
8. Nutella + Peanut Butter (general food play). Good things to rub onto your body and lick off especially if you are trying to get them to eat their cum. Again I like to keep it clean and safe so don't rub anything on your anus and lick it off. You'll get sick.
9. Chastity. Again trust is big. If you can't handle it, then don't go looking for a dom. I love not knowing when I will be able to cum. I've gone for a week in chastity and then exploded buckets. Now obviously if I could, I'd jack off everyday but I feel like productivity declines greatly after I cum so it's not only a dom/sub power exchange but also improves your life. Cheesy but whatever. Also, it's extremely humiliating when your dom tells you they've just cum but forbid you from cumming. Then you should get them to fill you in on how great it felt. Also doms, be careful, unless it's real time and the sub has a chastity cage, it's hard making anyone go 2 weeks without cumming on the honor system.
10. Forced porn watching. This one gets passed up a lot. Force your sub to watch a specific fetish on the days you allow them to cum. Link them to 3 different fetishes you know they don't like approx 10-15 mins long and let them pick which one they want to jack off to. Once they pick, make fun of them for picking that specific fetish while they are jacking off. If they can cum in that time, they can cum. If they can't, back to chastity. Also have them comment on how great this fetish is and how much they want more.
That's it for now. More to come. Comments / contributions welcomed!