DareProphet
08-02-2015, 01:20 PM
Heyas!
So, a lot of us, Getdarers, engage in BDSM relationships. A slave and a master, an owner and a pet, a baby and a parent. All nice. But sometimes these go wrong. Sometimes not everyone enjoys it. There are many reasons for this, but sometimes it's because one side demands too much or expects too much from the other.
In my opinion, having a good perspective of the other position will improve everyone's BDSM experience. So, I am creating this thread.
What will happen here is that you'll post your common position (dom or sub) and wait until I send you a PM. The PM will contain who you will be paired with. You will be paired together for a week, but your positions will be the reverse of the usual. During the week, done will be slaves/pets/babies and subs will be masters/owners/parents.
No preferences will be accepted. Limits, yes. But no "I'd like a female" or "I want someone that's into pain" or "someone with a webcam". No. You will be matched and matched in a mostly random manner.
And please, please, please, don't cheat! The entire point of this is to learn the other side's viewpoint and that's ruined if you cheat.
So, a lot of us, Getdarers, engage in BDSM relationships. A slave and a master, an owner and a pet, a baby and a parent. All nice. But sometimes these go wrong. Sometimes not everyone enjoys it. There are many reasons for this, but sometimes it's because one side demands too much or expects too much from the other.
In my opinion, having a good perspective of the other position will improve everyone's BDSM experience. So, I am creating this thread.
What will happen here is that you'll post your common position (dom or sub) and wait until I send you a PM. The PM will contain who you will be paired with. You will be paired together for a week, but your positions will be the reverse of the usual. During the week, done will be slaves/pets/babies and subs will be masters/owners/parents.
No preferences will be accepted. Limits, yes. But no "I'd like a female" or "I want someone that's into pain" or "someone with a webcam". No. You will be matched and matched in a mostly random manner.
And please, please, please, don't cheat! The entire point of this is to learn the other side's viewpoint and that's ruined if you cheat.