Help please! GF wants to become my mistress!

[subboy1993]

Hey everyone! well my gf wants to take the next step in our relationship! I have been the dom and I told her about my really kinky side (chastity, crossdressing, ect) and she really wants to be the dominant one and become my mistress, but she doesn't know how.... so here we are asking for help and maybe a mistress out there could PM us and give us some pointers too which would be fantastic!
well thank you for reading and hope you could help her/ us out!
Thank you
Subboy

[subboy1993]

anything helps :)

[Kisune Karnon]

Why not give her suggestions based on how you are as a dominant and coach her as she goes along until she feels she has a good grasp on what she wants to do.

[subboy1993]

I gave her some pointers to start with and wants some more help too

[subboy1993]

Can anybody else help?

[BlaBlaBlubb]

Start slow, step by step. at first you will have to ask for her permission to use the toilet. and you will stay on all 4s when you both are alone and you will serve her and ask for her wishes. You will do them all and thank her by kissing her feet.

[subboy1993]

That's really great anything else :)

[alias]

Every Dom and every sub are different. There is no set rule for how to be a good dominant, so it can't really be taught. set up your ground rules, what your limits are, what she expects of you as a submissive, what you expect of her as a dominant, and go from there. If she's happy and your happy, your doing it right If not, figure out why one/both of you is unhappy and fix it

[BlaBlaBlubb]

also keep us updated about what went good and what went bad. also maybe why it went bad then we can try to discover a way for you to go on. Because it's like alias said: Every dom and every sub is different and you just need to find your way of doing.

[subboy1993]

Thank you so much for your help, we will work on some stuff now and will keep you all updated

[cassioirl]

Ask her to give you 5 Rules and 2 daily duties. She can add to these as she wishes.
Ask her to make all decisions within your remit and encourage her to use you for non-sexual duties as well.
you might consider some symbolic things such as a slave name that she'd give you, collar, etc. to make you feel more owned by her.
Good luck!

[subboy1993]

So my mistress catches on fast lol. She didn't let me cum until she said I could and really likes cbt. She had me cum by her master baiting me then made me clean her fingers by making me suck her gingers. And right now she has me wearing her black lace panties

[NoMercy]

I would go and spend some hours on wiki pages about bdsm, random blogs and peek into several porn sites, so you will see an extensive list of possibilities. Write down your top 10 fantasies and any limit on a paper and hand it over to her. Then let her do all the browsing you did, but she won't tell you what she likes or not. You will simply experience it when you play, and she will be aware of your kinks.

Also tell her to register and message me that she would like to give me tasks:P

[subboy1993]

she just ordered a chastity device O.o

[subboy1993]

And now I'm in chastity

[Sharp Shooter]

Does she have a strap-on? If not, time to go shopping. She should have you ask the clerk for assistance. Maybe she'll find some nice nipple clamps for you to wear when she's banging at your back door. And a collar. And some restraints. And maybe a nice little bell, like a pet might wear, to hang off your chastity device. She should get one of those GPS tags (https://www.thetileapp.com) to lock onto your chastity device so she can track you 24/7.

For extra fun, she should have you take her to a really hot strip club. You know, with strippers. Naked strippers. Who do lap dances. Naked. On your lap. Where they can feel your caged cock. I'm sure you're going to be VERY popular at the club!