Please help me fist my pussy for the first time

[EmilyJ]

So I set myself a little goal (because personal development is just so important, right?) to be able to fist my pussy.

I've only tried once so far. Four fingers and most of my thumb. Then trying to get it anywhere near over those knuckles made it a bit painful. My thumb joint was also aching like I'd been playing thumb war for hours.

So if anyone has any dares, tips or tricks to help me achieve my goal I would be most grateful. I don't have any toys.

If/When I get there I would consider giving those who helped pictures. If that's the sort of thing people are interested in.

[fcard123]

Try holding your 4 fingers in as far as you can for 5 mins at a time with a 3 min break and try this 4 times.

[Seditious Act]

Be careful or you could dislocate your thumb or hurt your wrist. If you have to hurt your hand to get it inside you then you're still too tight. I think inserting markers one at a time would be a good way to stretch yourself out. Eventually you should be able to get five or six inside you. Hold them for as long as possible, and masturbate while they're inside.

[EmilyJ]

Try holding your 4 fingers in as far as you can for 5 mins at a time with a 3 min break and try this 4 times.

Thanks fcard, I'll try this tonight and let you know how it goes :)

[EmilyJ]

Be careful or you could dislocate your thumb or hurt your wrist. If you have to hurt your hand to get it inside you then you're still too tight. I think inserting markers one at a time would be a good way to stretch yourself out. Eventually you should be able to get five or six inside you. Hold them for as long as possible, and masturbate while they're inside.

Thanks for the warning. I think I'd have a hard time trying to find an excuse for a dislocated thumb. Best get my thinking cap on.
The markers I have at the moment have sharp edges and so whilst a couple is fine a whole bunch would be ouchie. I'll invest in some sharpies tomorrow and give it a go.

[forfietfranky]

Hi Emily, I'd say take your time relax and use plenty of lube! A pussy can and will stretch (think child birth) it just needs a little persuasion. If it's hurting stop, you don't want to tear anything. so just lock the door, stick your favourite porn on, break out the lube and enjoy!!
Would love to see pics of your progress

[Shadowice]

First we should really get you in the mood. I want you to try my hell tease thats in my signature. at any point you my substitute your fist for your toy and hopefully being so wet and horny will help you slip right in.

[lots357]

So far I agree with everyone else.

You'll need a lot of lube for the fisting. But it sounds like you'll want to work your way up to it. You'll have to be very aroused for this to really work btw.

Start with the markers, then try some other larger objects.

You could try masturbating with your fingers inserted. Start with one, then work your way up. Don't force anything though.

[aff587]

1. Try differnet positions. On all fours or on your back are usually best suited, but it's different for every girl.

2. LUBE.

3. More Lube.

4. Go easy. This might take a few months. There are lots of fisting tips on the internet, just google.

[EmilyJ]

1. Try differnet positions. On all fours or on your back are usually best suited, but it's different for every girl.

2. LUBE.

3. More Lube.

4. Go easy. This might take a few months. There are lots of fisting tips on the internet, just google.

Hmm, I've never thought of trying this on all fours. I kinda thought it would be good to see it to know how I was getting along but maybe it might be good to judge more on feeling. Will give it a try :)

Months?! Please tell me you're joking. He's joking right, guys? Guys?
I have a whole wonderful list of things I want to figure out. Including, but not limited to, squirting and conquering my gag reflex. First the physical and then the psychological.
Maybe by the end I'll be the perfect little slut. All in the interest of science, of course.

[EmilyJ]

I feel if there was a motto for this thread it would be: Patience and lube.

I will try your tease tonight shadowice. However tempting it may be, I'll try not to peak. I like surprises.

Hmm, objects. I suppose it's less likely to hurt my thumb if I'm using an object. I always have difficulty getting the size right. Are there any household objects I can adjust the size of or something? I'll try markers tomorrow :) A gradual increase seems like the best bet.

[smite2001]

i guess markers are the way to go, you can easily clean them before you play with them (and afterwards of course ^^). you can also vary the size easily to go beyond the expand your current limit bit by bit.

this may vary depending on the brand, but make sure to insert them with the cap outside your pussy. otherwise you might find some increased motivation to get your hand inside to find them again.

[EmilyJ]

i guess markers are the way to go, you can easily clean them before you play with them (and afterwards of course ^^). you can also vary the size easily to go beyond the expand your current limit bit by bit.

this may vary depending on the brand, but make sure to insert them with the cap outside your pussy. otherwise you might find some increased motivation to get your hand inside to find them again.

Haha, don't tempt me. Deliberate self-sabotage...

[SerBlack]

Patience and lube are definitely the mottos for this thread. Carefully insert four fingers and massage your clit with your thumb. The more aroused you get the 'bigger' your pussy will get, well to a point.

As others have said this can take months. To speed up the process however, whenever you get the chance work at stretching yourself. For the time being also ignore the thumb. Try to get past the knuckles of the four fingers, up to the thumb joint. When you can do that easily with little effort slowly introduce the thumb.

Practice, patience, and lube. You will get there.

[EmilyJ]

So I tried Shadowice's tease (which I will post the report on his original thread in a bit) which got me nice and wet. During the tease I fucked myself with three and four fingers. It's definitely getting easier to do that whereas two fingers used to be my maximum if I wanted to be comfortable. Afterwards I was knackered. Dice never roll in my favour. Maybe I should have stopped before the end and then attempted fisting.

Afterwards, I thought I'd try a different way. Instead of starting four fingers and adding the thumb I started with the thumb. I'm not sure if this helped or not. I think it was more comfortable but not very successful.

Since I was already wet I did fcard's idea then and held four fingers for five minutes. I gave myself a shorter break because I'm impatient haha. Each time I re-inserted my fingers I tried to push a little further in. It's not that hard to get my four fingers to the knuckle. I fucked myself a bit with them because you'know, why wouldn't you? :D

After all of that I then tried again. I think I'm a tiny bit further. But more importantly in some senses, it did feel more comfortable.

I feel I need some way of keeping track. It's hard to tell if they're getting further in if the difference is slight. Maybe draw little lines on my fingers where I get. Although explanations for that would be interesting.

[EmilyJ]

Patience and lube are definitely the mottos for this thread. Carefully insert four fingers and massage your clit with your thumb. The more aroused you get the 'bigger' your pussy will get, well to a point.

As others have said this can take months. To speed up the process however, whenever you get the chance work at stretching yourself. For the time being also ignore the thumb. Try to get past the knuckles of the four fingers, up to the thumb joint. When you can do that easily with little effort slowly introduce the thumb.

Practice, patience, and lube. You will get there.

OK, I'll try to ignore that pesky thumb next time and see how that goes. My knuckles are my mortal enemy right now. I'll let you know how it works out :)

I need to get "Practice, patience, and lube" on a t-shirt. I'm the sort of person who never has to try at anything. If I have to try, I give up.

[Oystein]

Use a medium sized plastic bottle with a tapered head, fill it with warm water, not hot enough to burn yourself, lube it up and sit on it. The tapered shape should stretch you out pretty good. Lift up and sit down on it until you can't get it any deeper, then use a marker (you should have a handful of those by now :D ) and set a mark how deep you got it. Measure the diameter at that point on the bottle and report back. Repeat as often as you like, and of course try to increase the diameter.

Good luck, I'd appreciate photos when/if you succeed if you're willing to send ;)

[EmilyJ]

Use a medium sized plastic bottle with a tapered head, fill it with warm water, not hot enough to burn yourself, lube it up and sit on it. The tapered shape should stretch you out pretty good. Lift up and sit down on it until you can't get it any deeper, then use a marker (you should have a handful of those by now :D ) and set a mark how deep you got it. Measure the diameter at that point on the bottle and report back. Repeat as often as you like, and of course try to increase the diameter.

Good luck, I'd appreciate photos when/if you succeed if you're willing to send ;)

Oooh that sounds fun. A worthy incentive to drink, I dare say. I'll let you know how I get on. Thanks!

[Seditious Act]

Months?! Please tell me you're joking. He's joking right, guys? Guys?

It's a muscle, it takes a long time to build up muscles and develop elasticity.

[Oystein]

Oooh that sounds fun. A worthy incentive to drink, I dare say. I'll let you know how I get on. Thanks!

Hey, how did this work out? Now do it again with ice cold water

[Kemeny]

Try to relax so your pussy is not too thight. Then start with one finger and add every 2 minutes a finger. If you have all five fingers in your pussy then stay like that for 5 minutes. After that try to go deeper inside. Then go inside, outside, inside, ...

You could also take many pens and insert most of them

[MasterR82]

Put two fingers from both hands in. Than you have to pull constantly for a minute, so that you open your pussy a bit. After go out with the fingers a give your pussy a little break. Than again. Start not to strong. Repeat this 5 to 10 time. From time to time you could be stronger, do it longer or add more fingers. And shortly you can fist yourself. Not in a day or two, but shortly.

MasterR

[wannabtrained]

now you have all the tips for reaching your goal.The bottle and the markers are the best, believe me. I can now easily handle a man's fist only because I practiced on markers and different sized bottles. :)

[Mike2220]

try putting in 3 fingers + thumb then pushing them outward to stretch your pussy a bit more, if you have something like a pen you could use that with your other hand to stretch it a bit more also. if you have a dildo or something you could fuck yourself with it to loosen up a bit? I really don't know this just seems like it could work