telling a partner the news

[humpy1507]

I'm sure it's not only me that is worried about if to tell a girlfriend about your interests beyond the bedroom so to speak, that you have a fear they will think what the f**k and ditch you. So im wondering if any of you out there have had to tell a girlfriend/boyfriend about you being a sub/dom and how to say it as it is? would be good advice...thanks

[Eon_Blade]

It comes down to whether you really love them and have their trust. I told my two year girlfriend I liked crossdressing and she was fine with it. I'd only advise doing it if you have complete trust in your partner, or you could introduce it slowly and drop hints, measure their reaction and then decide whether you want to come out with it.

Good luck.

[Holly92]

hi humpy, I dropped hints and "joked around", eventually he was fine with it and takes the role of my Dom :P

[humpy1507]

thanks guys, shall see how things develop, i know your story holly lol :P

[Holly92]

Hehe thought I'd tell ya again