trainer89
02-16-2015, 05:03 PM
25/male/master seeks 18-24/male/slave in any location (serious replies only)
Hi , thanks for reading this ad. It will be little long but please take your time and read entire post, and try to read with understanding. Some informations can be not clear couse English is not my first language so forgive me if i make some mistakes (if something is not clear then don't be afraid and ask me :) i will explain anything you want to know). I'm also very particular with my expectations so please don't waste your and my time.
Oh and there is only free spot so better hurry up. I will tell you examples of tasks and rules i have for you during our conversation. Your training will be personalised for your individual needs.
About me:My name is Chris, i'm 25 yo bisexual guy. I live in central Europe with my gf. I'm pretty chilled and friendly type of person, and i'm nice to almost every one. When i'm not busy with work or studies i like to play football (soccer), spend time with friends, watch some tv series , movie or football game , listen to music , or play video games and of course i love to train slaves :).
About my kinky side: I discovered my kinky side few years ago. I have experience in both online and offline play, and i when i was younger i was switch but now i'm only Dom/Master. As an online Master i have trained many kinds of slaves and i have experience in severalareas of bdsm such as:
control ( rules , daily routines etc)
pain (in many forms, for example cbt, nipple torture, etc)
bondage
pet play
anal
humiliation
I have some experience in other kinds of kinky play , for example wedgies, puppy play, cat play to just mention few. I'm also very open minded and i want to learn more about stuff i mentioned above and new things for example about sissification, feminization, baby adults, etc. I'm caring master and i always listen what do you want want to tell . I'm also easy going and good for beginers. For me there is no need to hurry up and i like to do stuff slowly especially for slaves with no experience. Being nice doesn't mean that i don't know how to punish, i'm kind of cruel soemtimes but i'm strict and fair.
You need to also know that i'm very very serious about all this and i want both sides to have fun, and it will be one of my goals. I'm using only skype and getdare to train my slaves, and i dont use kik or any other application, so please dont ask about it. I don't use cam and i don't send you a pictures of myself (if you don't like it then please don't reply. I have never recorded, and never will record sessions and i never share pictures and other informations about my slaves. All limits will be respected
What am i looking for:
First i will explain one thing, i am looking for something specific that's why this ad is so long, but to avoid time wasters i want to explain it now for you to think about it before you will read more and before you start to think if you should reply. I said it also before but it seems like saying about it once or twice is not enough for some people. Please don't waste your or my time and read entire add, and please read it and make sure you understand it. Then think about it , if it's for you , and if you really want to be my slave. And finally if you decided that you want to apply please do it exacly as i said in my ad. if you will apply like this: " hi i want to be your slave ;)" then i will ignore this messege. Also i'm looking for 3 things: which are control, cam , offline task ( of course cam in right time ) so if you are looking just for cam , just control, etc then look somewhere else couse we are not a good match.
Your apperance: It's not really important for me. Your atitude and personality is much much more important. I have only 3 expectations connected with appearence. You have to be ( no expetions):
male
18-24 yo (i can't dominate older guys, i feel awkward and not dominant enough)
Slim, avarage build, (i'm not looking for people who are overweight, or too muscular, sorry)
Your sexual orientation: It's also not important , as long if you don't mind to be owned and dominated by a guy. Also i noticed that most of str8 slaves are treating me not seriously. I'm very serious about it and i'm looking for serious slave , submisive slave so if you are not serious then please don't reply.
Your location: Time zone, location , is not important as long as we can keep comunicate, and have fun regulary. Also i lost two good slaves that told me exacly: "i'm turning into gay or it's too gay for me" just becouse they got donimated by a guy... if you feel bad becouse of that then pleaese don't reply.
Master/slave roles:
First of all i'm not a selfish guy who will use you and abuse you only for my fun, no, i want both of us to have fun but if you are replying and you are telling me that you want to do this thing and then this thing and then first thing again then we are not a good match. I chose to be a master you chose to be a slave so as a master i think i should be in charge here. Second of all i'm not jerkoff master so if you came here to jsut jerk of then again thank you but please don't reply , seeing you jerking off for long time in my opinion is kind boring , and i can watch porn if i want to see someone masturbating.
Your personality:
As i said your personality and atitude is most important for me then how do you look like. It's always good if you are very kinky and you like to try new things. I'm also looking for someone who's really submissive and obedient ( i can train you to become , but it's better when you are already obedient and submissive) Also recently i lost two very good slaves , they gave me much more time then i wanted and expected. The reason they told me was , that they felt guilty and not normal. I totally understand them but if you will run away in such situations then please don't apply. It's totally ok for me to give you break (as long as you need to ) etc , i'm looking for long time Master/slave relationship and if you are not willing to try to fight with issues then we are not a good match. I understand if you want to quit and it's not a big deal for me but my point is i'm looking for someone for very long time ownership and someone who is not afraid of issues.
Comunication:
It's one of the biggest problem here. Lets start with expectations. I'm sure every one have some expectations even totally newbies. You read some bdsm fiction storys , you watched some movies, or you had account on get dare and you read posts , master/slave adverts etc , i can't believe that you created account here and first thing you did is applying to my ad. But if you really really have no expectations couse you are newbie then take your time and think about it before you will reply to my ad. Second thing which is also a problem is telling me about your feeling for me, my rules , methods , tasks etc. I'm not talking about love etc. People are making opinion about someone very quickly in about 5 minutes, so if i'm asking you like my tasks me as a master , rules etc then i expect that you will tell me , and it's also very important i expect the truth. If you will answer i don't know , etc then we are not good match but also i will punish you till you learn to be able to comunicate but please don't test me . Also if you don't like me as a master me as a person, my task , rules etc then please tell me that and we will be done , couse it makes no sense to do things that you don't like. And one more thing , i'm respectfull person, and i respect everyone, and there is no hard feeling for me if you want to quit, but i want you to tell me that you want to quit and i would like to know why(it can be any reason but honest one.) If you are not able to tell me such thing and you prefer to go easy way so just ignore me or block me on skype then i'm not master for you. It's not nice or polite. Also same thing if i ask you for example during cam session is this task ok and if you said yes and then you just disconnect etc with no real reason or without giving me a reason then i'm not right person for you. In my opinion both adults can discuss problems inplace of runinng away without really serious reason. Last thing i will mention here is that to make it work better i will ask you a lot of questions for eaxmple your experience , if you are ok with camming, expectations etc. if you will get bored while that then we are not a good match.
Totally honest:
As i said i'm very honest person and i'm looking for same. There is no point to lie to me, and i'm getting upset and annoyed when i find out that someone is lying ( i usually find out). If you are lying me becouse you want to blandish me then we are not good match, i prefer a truth even if i don't like it. I will not punish someone for being honest , i will punish you if you try to cheat.
Being serious and commited:
I'm 100% serious about evrything i do , and this in not exeption. I know it's difficult , you have your own life , so do i , but if you are not at least 95% serious then please don't waste my time. I will give you as much of my free time as possible and as both of us need and i expect same thing. If you are too busy studing or doing something else and you dont want to give me at least 10 hours a week then please go search somewhere else. Our time can be used for training but not only training, i also like if you can talk with me about soemthing else like your hobby your day etc, so we can get know each other and become friends.
Pain:
Pain is very important part of training for me , and it will be used often. So if you don't like it , or you don't want to learn how to take or like it then please don't reply it will not work. Also i want to tell you that i will not make you do anything dangerous , i play always safe and no one was hurt, and even it will painfull it will never be something that you can't take.
[B]Please dont reply if you are not / you don't:
- not totally honest
- not serious
- not commited to this kind of relationship
- younger then 18 and older then 24
- overweight
- not willing to accept that i will not show myself on cam or send you picutures of myself
- you are not willing to show face after enough time build a trust (i'm really patient)
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it
- you are not willing to send picture proofs
- not looking for long term relationship
- want to just jerk off
- don't like pain or you are not willing to learn how to take it.
- don't have enough privacy or/and free time
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it
- you are not able to tell me that you want to quit and give a reason
Training methods:
Rules/ownership: I will start it very slowly and easy , i will give you few rules and some rules that will help me to keep some control on you. It's starts usually with rules about jerking off/ watching porn etc. Plus some other rules . Every rule depends on you but if you don't want to be controlled and owned then please don't reply. With the passing of time i expect that you will give me little more controll , but again, i will make sure that it's harmless to your life and every rule will be discussed.I'm doing it couse even it's only online play i want you to feel somehow like a slave.
Cam sessions: It's also very important. There is no need to start with cam right from beginning but i will not wait forever so if you wont to cam for me then please don't reply. Also i have to remind that i will not show myself on cam so if you don;t like it then we are not good match. You also don't need to show me your face from start but you need to sooner or later when i earn your trust but again i will not wait for ever . Also if you don't want to show your face at first i want you to wear some kind of mask couse seeing your eyes and expression is very important for me and it helps me with your training. Also as i said earlier i have never recorded session and i never will record you. After some time i will expect at least one session per week but there is no need to hurry.
daily tasks system: The best way to explain it is an example:
Your goal will be to get points and you can get them by doing tasks. For each task you can get 3 points/ Each week you will have to get 2 more points then half points that you could get for example this weekend i gave you 4 task so you could get 12points ( 4x3=12) so you need to get 2 points then half so you need 8 points. If you get 8 points or more then you get reward if you get less points then i will punish you. And now you will have to proof that you did your tasks by sending me report or/and picture proof (with pictures i can wait like with cam but i will not wait for ever). And here is how i will give you points
1 point for quality of proofs ( reports with alot of deatails and good picture or some report depends, you will have to proof that you did task execly as i said)
1 point for sending me proofs ( 1-5 details in report etc.)
1 point for sending proofs on time
If you will be late with proofs or you will not do task on time you will have to do it anyway in next 48 hours ( if not i will punish you) but you will get no points. But if you have good reason then i will give you points and everything should be fine.
[B]Likes limits:
I Prefer slaves with similar likes.
Likes: enslavement, honest people, spank, bondage, anal, nipple torture, cbt, messy, games, video games, orgasm control ,edging, and much more
Limits: Blood, scat, to painfull, dangerous, public, permanent, family, friends, animals, under 18 etc , i will respect all your limits
How to apply:
It's very simple. First you need to pm me , in subject put "own me". Then you need to answer all questions bellow. (btw if you don't put own me in the subject then i will not answer you)
name:
age:
location/time zone:
sexual orientation:
relationship status:
weigth/height:
how many doms/masters/owners have you had?
how much time can you / do you want to give me?
likes
dislikes
limits
tell me why do you want to be my slave/ you think we are good match?
tell me something about yourself
Have you read entire ad and you understood it?
* i'm asking about sexual orientation and status to help me to train you, and if you are in relationship think before you apply couse i don't want to ruin any part of your life.
ps. Sorry for my english and for long ad , also thanks for readding
Looking forward to hearings from you
Hi , thanks for reading this ad. It will be little long but please take your time and read entire post, and try to read with understanding. Some informations can be not clear couse English is not my first language so forgive me if i make some mistakes (if something is not clear then don't be afraid and ask me :) i will explain anything you want to know). I'm also very particular with my expectations so please don't waste your and my time.
Oh and there is only free spot so better hurry up. I will tell you examples of tasks and rules i have for you during our conversation. Your training will be personalised for your individual needs.
About me:My name is Chris, i'm 25 yo bisexual guy. I live in central Europe with my gf. I'm pretty chilled and friendly type of person, and i'm nice to almost every one. When i'm not busy with work or studies i like to play football (soccer), spend time with friends, watch some tv series , movie or football game , listen to music , or play video games and of course i love to train slaves :).
About my kinky side: I discovered my kinky side few years ago. I have experience in both online and offline play, and i when i was younger i was switch but now i'm only Dom/Master. As an online Master i have trained many kinds of slaves and i have experience in severalareas of bdsm such as:
control ( rules , daily routines etc)
pain (in many forms, for example cbt, nipple torture, etc)
bondage
pet play
anal
humiliation
I have some experience in other kinds of kinky play , for example wedgies, puppy play, cat play to just mention few. I'm also very open minded and i want to learn more about stuff i mentioned above and new things for example about sissification, feminization, baby adults, etc. I'm caring master and i always listen what do you want want to tell . I'm also easy going and good for beginers. For me there is no need to hurry up and i like to do stuff slowly especially for slaves with no experience. Being nice doesn't mean that i don't know how to punish, i'm kind of cruel soemtimes but i'm strict and fair.
You need to also know that i'm very very serious about all this and i want both sides to have fun, and it will be one of my goals. I'm using only skype and getdare to train my slaves, and i dont use kik or any other application, so please dont ask about it. I don't use cam and i don't send you a pictures of myself (if you don't like it then please don't reply. I have never recorded, and never will record sessions and i never share pictures and other informations about my slaves. All limits will be respected
What am i looking for:
First i will explain one thing, i am looking for something specific that's why this ad is so long, but to avoid time wasters i want to explain it now for you to think about it before you will read more and before you start to think if you should reply. I said it also before but it seems like saying about it once or twice is not enough for some people. Please don't waste your or my time and read entire add, and please read it and make sure you understand it. Then think about it , if it's for you , and if you really want to be my slave. And finally if you decided that you want to apply please do it exacly as i said in my ad. if you will apply like this: " hi i want to be your slave ;)" then i will ignore this messege. Also i'm looking for 3 things: which are control, cam , offline task ( of course cam in right time ) so if you are looking just for cam , just control, etc then look somewhere else couse we are not a good match.
Your apperance: It's not really important for me. Your atitude and personality is much much more important. I have only 3 expectations connected with appearence. You have to be ( no expetions):
male
18-24 yo (i can't dominate older guys, i feel awkward and not dominant enough)
Slim, avarage build, (i'm not looking for people who are overweight, or too muscular, sorry)
Your sexual orientation: It's also not important , as long if you don't mind to be owned and dominated by a guy. Also i noticed that most of str8 slaves are treating me not seriously. I'm very serious about it and i'm looking for serious slave , submisive slave so if you are not serious then please don't reply.
Your location: Time zone, location , is not important as long as we can keep comunicate, and have fun regulary. Also i lost two good slaves that told me exacly: "i'm turning into gay or it's too gay for me" just becouse they got donimated by a guy... if you feel bad becouse of that then pleaese don't reply.
Master/slave roles:
First of all i'm not a selfish guy who will use you and abuse you only for my fun, no, i want both of us to have fun but if you are replying and you are telling me that you want to do this thing and then this thing and then first thing again then we are not a good match. I chose to be a master you chose to be a slave so as a master i think i should be in charge here. Second of all i'm not jerkoff master so if you came here to jsut jerk of then again thank you but please don't reply , seeing you jerking off for long time in my opinion is kind boring , and i can watch porn if i want to see someone masturbating.
Your personality:
As i said your personality and atitude is most important for me then how do you look like. It's always good if you are very kinky and you like to try new things. I'm also looking for someone who's really submissive and obedient ( i can train you to become , but it's better when you are already obedient and submissive) Also recently i lost two very good slaves , they gave me much more time then i wanted and expected. The reason they told me was , that they felt guilty and not normal. I totally understand them but if you will run away in such situations then please don't apply. It's totally ok for me to give you break (as long as you need to ) etc , i'm looking for long time Master/slave relationship and if you are not willing to try to fight with issues then we are not a good match. I understand if you want to quit and it's not a big deal for me but my point is i'm looking for someone for very long time ownership and someone who is not afraid of issues.
Comunication:
It's one of the biggest problem here. Lets start with expectations. I'm sure every one have some expectations even totally newbies. You read some bdsm fiction storys , you watched some movies, or you had account on get dare and you read posts , master/slave adverts etc , i can't believe that you created account here and first thing you did is applying to my ad. But if you really really have no expectations couse you are newbie then take your time and think about it before you will reply to my ad. Second thing which is also a problem is telling me about your feeling for me, my rules , methods , tasks etc. I'm not talking about love etc. People are making opinion about someone very quickly in about 5 minutes, so if i'm asking you like my tasks me as a master , rules etc then i expect that you will tell me , and it's also very important i expect the truth. If you will answer i don't know , etc then we are not good match but also i will punish you till you learn to be able to comunicate but please don't test me . Also if you don't like me as a master me as a person, my task , rules etc then please tell me that and we will be done , couse it makes no sense to do things that you don't like. And one more thing , i'm respectfull person, and i respect everyone, and there is no hard feeling for me if you want to quit, but i want you to tell me that you want to quit and i would like to know why(it can be any reason but honest one.) If you are not able to tell me such thing and you prefer to go easy way so just ignore me or block me on skype then i'm not master for you. It's not nice or polite. Also same thing if i ask you for example during cam session is this task ok and if you said yes and then you just disconnect etc with no real reason or without giving me a reason then i'm not right person for you. In my opinion both adults can discuss problems inplace of runinng away without really serious reason. Last thing i will mention here is that to make it work better i will ask you a lot of questions for eaxmple your experience , if you are ok with camming, expectations etc. if you will get bored while that then we are not a good match.
Totally honest:
As i said i'm very honest person and i'm looking for same. There is no point to lie to me, and i'm getting upset and annoyed when i find out that someone is lying ( i usually find out). If you are lying me becouse you want to blandish me then we are not good match, i prefer a truth even if i don't like it. I will not punish someone for being honest , i will punish you if you try to cheat.
Being serious and commited:
I'm 100% serious about evrything i do , and this in not exeption. I know it's difficult , you have your own life , so do i , but if you are not at least 95% serious then please don't waste my time. I will give you as much of my free time as possible and as both of us need and i expect same thing. If you are too busy studing or doing something else and you dont want to give me at least 10 hours a week then please go search somewhere else. Our time can be used for training but not only training, i also like if you can talk with me about soemthing else like your hobby your day etc, so we can get know each other and become friends.
Pain:
Pain is very important part of training for me , and it will be used often. So if you don't like it , or you don't want to learn how to take or like it then please don't reply it will not work. Also i want to tell you that i will not make you do anything dangerous , i play always safe and no one was hurt, and even it will painfull it will never be something that you can't take.
[B]Please dont reply if you are not / you don't:
- not totally honest
- not serious
- not commited to this kind of relationship
- younger then 18 and older then 24
- overweight
- not willing to accept that i will not show myself on cam or send you picutures of myself
- you are not willing to show face after enough time build a trust (i'm really patient)
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it
- you are not willing to send picture proofs
- not looking for long term relationship
- want to just jerk off
- don't like pain or you are not willing to learn how to take it.
- don't have enough privacy or/and free time
- you don't have standart webcam, or you are not willing to use it
- you are not able to tell me that you want to quit and give a reason
Training methods:
Rules/ownership: I will start it very slowly and easy , i will give you few rules and some rules that will help me to keep some control on you. It's starts usually with rules about jerking off/ watching porn etc. Plus some other rules . Every rule depends on you but if you don't want to be controlled and owned then please don't reply. With the passing of time i expect that you will give me little more controll , but again, i will make sure that it's harmless to your life and every rule will be discussed.I'm doing it couse even it's only online play i want you to feel somehow like a slave.
Cam sessions: It's also very important. There is no need to start with cam right from beginning but i will not wait forever so if you wont to cam for me then please don't reply. Also i have to remind that i will not show myself on cam so if you don;t like it then we are not good match. You also don't need to show me your face from start but you need to sooner or later when i earn your trust but again i will not wait for ever . Also if you don't want to show your face at first i want you to wear some kind of mask couse seeing your eyes and expression is very important for me and it helps me with your training. Also as i said earlier i have never recorded session and i never will record you. After some time i will expect at least one session per week but there is no need to hurry.
daily tasks system: The best way to explain it is an example:
Your goal will be to get points and you can get them by doing tasks. For each task you can get 3 points/ Each week you will have to get 2 more points then half points that you could get for example this weekend i gave you 4 task so you could get 12points ( 4x3=12) so you need to get 2 points then half so you need 8 points. If you get 8 points or more then you get reward if you get less points then i will punish you. And now you will have to proof that you did your tasks by sending me report or/and picture proof (with pictures i can wait like with cam but i will not wait for ever). And here is how i will give you points
1 point for quality of proofs ( reports with alot of deatails and good picture or some report depends, you will have to proof that you did task execly as i said)
1 point for sending me proofs ( 1-5 details in report etc.)
1 point for sending proofs on time
If you will be late with proofs or you will not do task on time you will have to do it anyway in next 48 hours ( if not i will punish you) but you will get no points. But if you have good reason then i will give you points and everything should be fine.
[B]Likes limits:
I Prefer slaves with similar likes.
Likes: enslavement, honest people, spank, bondage, anal, nipple torture, cbt, messy, games, video games, orgasm control ,edging, and much more
Limits: Blood, scat, to painfull, dangerous, public, permanent, family, friends, animals, under 18 etc , i will respect all your limits
How to apply:
It's very simple. First you need to pm me , in subject put "own me". Then you need to answer all questions bellow. (btw if you don't put own me in the subject then i will not answer you)
name:
age:
location/time zone:
sexual orientation:
relationship status:
weigth/height:
how many doms/masters/owners have you had?
how much time can you / do you want to give me?
likes
dislikes
limits
tell me why do you want to be my slave/ you think we are good match?
tell me something about yourself
Have you read entire ad and you understood it?
* i'm asking about sexual orientation and status to help me to train you, and if you are in relationship think before you apply couse i don't want to ruin any part of your life.
ps. Sorry for my english and for long ad , also thanks for readding
Looking forward to hearings from you