Consensual Blackmail

[shaggy61618]

Im hoping Im putting this in the right location
I dont think it belongs in the truths section

recently I have been talking with someone who is interested in being
Consensually Blackmailed Over Teamviewer
she has ruled out using nude pics
so im wondering what other info would be enough to get people to consider giving into blackmail?

[res]

I honestly do not get what people enjoy about blackmailing - as it can really go wrong.

As an example:

I am using online banking over my pc. I now set somebody to "blackmail" me using the informtion he found on my pc. He now get's into my computer. Sadly enough he was a cracker and I didn't realise up to the point where he already disabled me from seeing anything and set up a nice little backdoor to my pc, granting him the control over anything.
End of story.


But that is just my opinion and is slightly off-topic, sorry.

So, to get back to your problem:

Basically you need anything, that the other person might find embarassing when it goes to public. This could be the fact that the person is basically bankrupt while pretending to not be, some erotic stories or porn found on the persons hard drive (although it is not that embarrasing for todays society) or maybe diary entries about some quite personal things (like being in love with the person's chef or something).

Getting the information is maybe not that hard - the question is more like: Does this person have the on their hard drive? And why are you to find out? If the person is sitting right in front of your computer why do you need to get the information, when the person could simply send them to you if he/she really wants to be blackmailed so badly.

Sorry, that I may sound a bit offensive here, but as a student for scientific programming I also take a look into security of networks and such and surely know more than one example where stuff like this has gone very wrong ;)


Good luck to you two anyways: And remember: Do not do something like this with a person you don't know or don't trust.

Greatings
res

[Kitten]

I would think about the consequences for yourself as well. I'm not sure what the getDare policy is on consensual blackmail, but I've seen people banned for blackmailing. What if your blackmailee suddenly decides they don't wanna play anymore? They could just report you and you're left with the negative aftermath.

So basically the blackmailing could never be any sort of force. Everytime you'd try to blackmail them and they didn't like the task they could just report you for blackmailing. And without the ability to use the blackmail material, what's the point in the first place?

[MissMaria]

I'm going to agree here and add that if this is consensual as you say, blackmail is not needed as the other person obviously wants to do as told and would because they want to.

[shaggy61618]

res
its alright if you go off topic its all a valid point.
and I know how if I do decide to do it that it can go so very wrong in so many ways. iv never had an interest in blackmail and normally avoid the topic like the plague.
thanks for your input res

Kitten
I am thinking of all the consequences for both my self and her and what can potentially happen, I dont even know if she knows of getdare, If I do decide to try I will be putting get out clause sort of things so that both of us can walk away if thats possible but a way to end it safely at the least. there wouldnt be any force at all.
thanks Kitten

[shaggy61618]

MissMaria
she is of the opinion she will not submit with out blackmail as I had brought that point up with her,
and I find that in it self really weird because like you say she obviously wants to, to some degree at the least

[Alexis Rune]

I have been giving his thought lately as I'm starting a new dynamic with a person here on getDare serving as my Dare Sir. I was trying to articulate to him that i have a 'need' to be 'forced' to do things, but that i WANT to be 'forced' to do things. That is REALLY hard to describe.

Psychologically, I think 'truth or dare' is an awesomely contrived game that kids developed to explore things that they wanted to try, but that provides an 'excuse' to avoid the potential 'shame' of trying those things. I think that I desire light Blackmail because it can provide that same sort of thing. For some psychological reason, being 'forced' to do some things is so much better than just doing them. If this weren't true, then this site would be all about "do crazy stuff" rather than "dare people to do crazy stuff"!

The trick, I think, with blackmail, is to find methods by which the person can be completely embarrassed but most importantly, their family, job, safety, financial security, etc... is not threatened.