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anna_sub_97
10-28-2012, 02:37 PM
Hi there,

So I'm just starting out and one day I hope to be a sub, so I thought I should start learning. I was talking to someone and they said subs should be shaved (which I never have). I've been asking around and there's a variety of thoughts, so I thought a good first step would be to have a poll to see what I should do. It's a submissive act that isn't too intense for me to get started with :-)

So the options are:

Hairy: as I've always been
Trimmed: speaks for itself
Shaved: seems to be the popular preference
Waxed: nice and smooth but needs to grow back before I can wax again.

Please help me decide :-)

Thanks!!

Anna

kinamar
10-28-2012, 02:39 PM
I like waxed, but I also like the pain it causes when its being done hehe.

JohnDoe2b
10-28-2012, 02:45 PM
I like the trimmed look, and if you've never shaved before, I think that's a good first starting point for you.

Once you're comfortable with trimmed, I do think you should try the other options, just so you get a better sense of what you like.

krone6
10-28-2012, 02:48 PM
;)That hair's got to come off :)

kaliara
10-28-2012, 03:03 PM
Stay hairy until you find someone who cares enough to choose for you. That way it's their preference on how you shave.

Dravot
10-28-2012, 03:32 PM
Given my druthers I prefer a sub shaved if convenience is an issue if not I like a nice well kept shortly trimmed landing strip. I prefer this as it takes longer to do and takes more care to maintain. Provided the sub has the time to keep it up.

anna_sub_97
10-28-2012, 03:43 PM
Hi all :-)

Thank you so much for your input so far!! Shaving is winning by a lot at thee moment!!

Please keep them coming :-)

Anna :-)

mordeth
10-28-2012, 04:11 PM
I would also say a nicely trimmed landingstrip since it requires a bit more attention and work then just shaving it all off or having it waxed.

anna_sub_97
10-28-2012, 05:05 PM
Wow it's almost even between shaving and waxing!!!!

Thanks for all the votes so far!!!!

krone6
10-28-2012, 05:26 PM
Wow it's almost even between shaving and waxing!!!!

Thanks for all the votes so far!!!!

Hopefully more will vote for either of them. ;)

kinamar
10-28-2012, 05:48 PM
im sure there will be plenty more votes still :) go waxing! :)

engman
10-28-2012, 06:42 PM
I like waxed, but I also like the pain it causes when its being done hehe.

This, I love watching/doing it :p

anna_sub_97
10-29-2012, 01:37 AM
So waxed is winning by a mile! looks like that's what I'll be doing (ouch!). I'll run this poll for another 12 hours or so and then close it :-)

Keep the votes coming!

Thanx

Anna

krone6
10-29-2012, 01:41 AM
So waxed is winning by a mile! looks like that's what I'll be doing (ouch!). I'll run this poll for another 12 hours or so and then close it :-)

Keep the votes coming!

Thanx

Anna

Are you still going to follow through with my challenge I pm'ed you? :D

justaguyforfun
10-29-2012, 03:37 AM
I want you to wax it! :)

anna_sub_97
10-29-2012, 03:47 AM
Haha well based on the votes at the moment I would say that's going to be what I'll be doing :-)

garder80
10-29-2012, 04:15 AM
is it you on the profile pic ?

Cruton
10-29-2012, 04:46 AM
i know it is a loser, but i voted hairy. i think it is hot when i woman is hairy and then wears things like swimming suits, where her hair sticks out the side. Very embarassing potential.

anna_sub_97
10-29-2012, 02:25 PM
Haha :-)

So waxing is leading by a huge amount so that's officially what I'll do! Ouch!!!

I'll make a booking this afternoon :-) and report back afterwards :-) thank you so much to all of you for your help in deciding for me :-)

Haha yea I'm kind of nervous and kind of excited. It's a weird feeling having everyone else decide this for me - I kind of like it. I think I might decide some other things this way too!!

I've always been hairy so I think being smooth will be a constant reminder of my journey towards being a sub :-)

Thank you all!!

Anna

kinamar
10-29-2012, 02:27 PM
good luck. and hope you have a good time as well hehe.

hcfist
10-29-2012, 02:33 PM
We can always help You to make some decisions.
MOD EDIT: Do not ask for pictures (or offer)

deadmaninc99
10-29-2012, 02:36 PM
I agree with hcfist. You should let us control what you wear for a week and whether you can cum or not. Will all help in the learning curve of becoming a sub/slave

hcfist
10-29-2012, 02:51 PM
And You can always give to us control Your day or how You should play with Yourself.

masterwolf
10-29-2012, 05:34 PM
if you have not already make a kinktalk account so that you can show us your waxed pussy

engman
11-07-2012, 01:33 AM
Did you ever get waxed? How was it?

NakedJohn
11-09-2012, 07:25 AM
The best is a lading stip.

Greatcornbow
11-09-2012, 09:46 AM
Haha :-)

So waxing is leading by a huge amount so that's officially what I'll do! Ouch!!!

I'll make a booking this afternoon :-) and report back afterwards :-) thank you so much to all of you for your help in deciding for me :-)

Haha yea I'm kind of nervous and kind of excited. It's a weird feeling having everyone else decide this for me - I kind of like it. I think I might decide some other things this way too!!

I've always been hairy so I think being smooth will be a constant reminder of my journey towards being a sub :-)

Thank you all!!

Anna

Had it done yet? Or where is the report?

Maybe you can also get whoever waxed you (male for preference but not essential) to write his/her initials and date down there with a sharpie.

NadCat
11-09-2012, 10:46 AM
waxing is a good decision, honey. If you don't know what to do after that, drop me some lines