being a camslave (?)

[koleidoscope_eyes]

Currently a guy lve been talking to who I think has become my master requires a a webcam. Usually I stay away from ppl who ask for that but only because I missed that small part of his ad I started talking to him and found out after. he does hypnosis which was what kept me interested.

Even though I was able to hold him off on it I feel like it will come up again and I'm strangely considering it. So before I jump into it and possibly regretting it, I want to hear some people's opinions and experiences as being a camslave.
Is it safe? weird? What did you usually do as one? And what would you suggest to someone who has never done it before?

Thanks so much to whoever replies!!!

[comicslave]

It is safe, varies what and who, but all else it is safe. Not to weird for me it is weird when I see other side since I tend to not care as much I just want to make sure they are real. As what I did, I did my best to do what I was told to do, some just want you naked while you talk to them. Well if you scared you can wear a mask... over all you will have to do it one day or else no one will think you are real or they will end up leaving. Just tell him you want to make sure he is real before you do it or you want to wear a mask till the trust is built. Over all it all ok but if he saw your face already mask is useless btw.

Over all people just want to make sure you are you =3

[peaceful_soul]

Visual aids are by far the best resource for this type of situation for both parties. So is it safe? That all depends on you and how well you trust your Master. If you feel that there might be some mental regret, then you should sort it out before it becomes something bigger than you thought, otherwise, you should be fine. Take it slow. I usually is more comforting if both people are on cam.

Also, make sure you understand that after the first time you show you're cam, you relationship will change with your done. This is showing your Master that you are capable to hold higher standards than to just texting. You must be able to preform the task of getting on cam when he requires you to get on cam, otherwise you might be showing a lack of subornation. It's a large step, and it requires trust, so make sure you understand the positive and negatives of this situation and check yourself to see if you're ready.

[jlstockton25]

My best piece of advice is to know what you're comfortable with if you do decide to go on cam, before you turn it on. Once hormones start racing you tend not to make the most rational of decisions. If before you turn your cam on, you're only comfortable showing if you're wearing a mask, but he asks you to take it off, do your best to remind yourself of why you made that a limit in the first place.

If identity verification is what he's after, go on cam without your mask on just to show your face, then once nudity is involved put the mask on if your body and face are in the same shot. Eventually you will probably feel comfortable enough to remove the mask, but slaves getting recorded is definitely an issue. Trust takes a long time to build in these situations.

Almost all of my tasks as a cam slave involve nudity, insertions, role play and humiliation to some extent. Most dominants prefer their slave completely nude when talking with him, so don't be surprised if he requests your clothes to come off rather quickly. Again, know what you're comfortable with before you begin the cam session and take it slow. If the person you're talking to is a good Dom, he will be happy to move at your pace while slowly getting you to explore your sexuality and fantasies and push your boundaries.

It's definitely weird at first, being nude on cam especially if you can see yourself on the computer screen but you get somewhat used to it. Communication is important, so if he gets mad at you for not feeling comfortable with nudity right away I suggest trying to find a better match. Plenty of Doms are willing to work with inexperienced subs.

As far as safety, I STRONGLY suggest you never ever give personal information out, under any circumstance. If you are doing something you don't want your family, friends and coworkers to find out about, don't hand over information that would facilitate that discovery.

[sweetsong]

Doesn't matter how nice the guy is, he'll probably take screen shots and them he'll have naked pictures of you.

If that bothers you, stick to slaving in real life. ;D Or with clothes on. :P

[iluvXTRMcbt]

My best piece of advice is to know what you're comfortable with if you do decide to go on cam, before you turn it on. Once hormones start racing you tend not to make the most rational of decisions. If before you turn your cam on, you're only comfortable showing if you're wearing a mask, but he asks you to take it off, do your best to remind yourself of why you made that a limit in the first place.

If identity verification is what he's after, go on cam without your mask on just to show your face, then once nudity is involved put the mask on if your body and face are in the same shot. Eventually you will probably feel comfortable enough to remove the mask, but slaves getting recorded is definitely an issue. Trust takes a long time to build in these situations.

Almost all of my tasks as a cam slave involve nudity, insertions, role play and humiliation to some extent. Most dominants prefer their slave completely nude when talking with him, so don't be surprised if he requests your clothes to come off rather quickly. Again, know what you're comfortable with before you begin the cam session and take it slow. If the person you're talking to is a good Dom, he will be happy to move at your pace while slowly getting you to explore your sexuality and fantasies and push your boundaries.

It's definitely weird at first, being nude on cam especially if you can see yourself on the computer screen but you get somewhat used to it. Communication is important, so if he gets mad at you for not feeling comfortable with nudity right away I suggest trying to find a better match. Plenty of Doms are willing to work with inexperienced subs.

As far as safety, I STRONGLY suggest you never ever give personal information out, under any circumstance. If you are doing something you don't want your family, friends and coworkers to find out about, don't hand over information that would facilitate that discovery.

I agree with this statement it also really makes a differents with the trust level. I have been Dominated on Cam and shown face allong with full nudity. also I had to use a vaccuum attachment on my cock and dress in womens clothing. mostly I just followed the directions give to me by the Dom.

[purekaos]

Being a webcam slave is thrilling for both the slave and the dominant. Certainly, it creates a sensation of exposure and vulnerability for the submissive. The dominant gets to observe their level of control, and of course get excited by the view.
A webcam does certainly add a level of intimacy that can't otherwise be replicated online.

That said --- It does require a great deal of trust. Yes, it is very easy for the viewer to take screenshots. And when you run for president some day, you may not want those screen shots surfacing.
So if you don't trust your partner 110%--- I'd suggest some options:
-- Only clean webcam chat, and webcam gets turned off when things get dirty. This allows for greater intimacy to be built in conversation, but still leaving the dirty stuff more secretive.
-- A mask when things get dirty, or all the time. Or cam below the neck. Allowing the physical sexual exposure, without any significant danger of privacy/identity exposure.
-- "clothed submission only" -- Basically, think about the worst pic you could accept being posted of yourself, and that's your on-cam limit.

If you can build up to complete trust, I do advocate full use of the webcam. With face and all. It does allow for the greatest intimacy as well as the greatest thrills.

I find when tasks are completely blindly -- Both sides tend to suffer. The Dominant can't actually know if the task is being completely correctly... The Dominant can't offer correction in mid-task, and the dominant will likely have lingering doubts of whether the slave is truly doing as instructed at all.
For the sub, even if they are obedient off-cam, they won't see the smile of satisfaction on their dominant's face. They won't get the pride of actually showing their dominant how well they performed. And they won't get the same strict level of ongoing real-time guidance. (Sure, their dominant might tell them "harder.. faster... deeper.. etc" -- but the dominant won't really be judging the situation).
And on webcam... knowing each other's identities... does bring sub and Master closer together.

So I wouldn't let fear make a sub avoid webcam altogether. I'd find ways to dip your feet in safely. And be open to becoming a full webcam slave, if full and total trust is established. (which may take hours, days or weeks, depending on the conversation and chemistry between the people).

[XkecoXchanX]

You say you "think" he has become your master? You might want to get that bit straightened out before even considering anything on cam. But even after that, unless you want naked pics of you all over the Internet, I wouldn't. Half the people don't care if "you're real," they want cheap porn. It's completely up to you though.

[peaceful_soul]

You say you "think" he has become your master? You might want to get that bit straightened out before even considering anything on cam. But even after that, unless you want naked pics of you all over the Internet, I wouldn't. Half the people don't care if "you're real," they want cheap porn. It's completely up to you though.

“The best way to find out if you can trust somebody is to trust them.”

-Ernest Hemingway