Denial Training

Covelot · 02-19-2018, 10:17 PM

I've been wanting to try denial for the longest time. The idea of being ridiculously horny all the time is so hot to me, but I'm abysmally bad at it. It takes a lot of willpower not to cum while edging. I don't know if that's normal, but I just have a lot of trouble keeping myself horny. I really want to try it though.

I usually cum three times a day, but I want to turn those times into edge only times, and no touching for the rest of the day. I need more ideas and encouragement though. Can you all help me? I'll report on my progress here everyday.

Thanks for reading, and hopefully for helping...

Covelot · 02-19-2018, 10:18 PM

To start it off, I just finished three edges after watching porn for a few hours. I did cum a few times this morning though, but I didn't touch again until my edges. My balls were aching mildly for a few minutes during, and after my edges. I'm still really sensitive, even though I finished edging about 20 minutes ago, and I was oozing a little bit of precum earlier.

abc13211 · 02-23-2018, 11:50 AM

3 cums per day? you have cum too much

Added denial for 2 days, you should lock yourself into chastity to reduce the cums.

Angelica_Kee_Zarcon · 02-23-2018, 09:39 PM

Well if you do start to cum ruin your orgasm or administer a punishment like 100 spanks to your balls with a ruler or a wooden spoon.

Covelot · 02-23-2018, 10:55 PM

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3 cums per day? you have cum too much

Added denial for 2 days, you should lock yourself into chastity to reduce the cums.

I don't have a chastity device, but I'll deny myself for 2 days.

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Well if you do start to cum ruin your orgasm or administer a punishment like 100 spanks to your balls with a ruler or a wooden spoon.

I have a wooden ruler I can use to spank my balls if I cum.

So as of right now, I'm denied for 2 days, and if I cum I must ruin it and spank my balls 100 times with a wooden ruler.
Thank you both for the rule and denial.

SolWeintraub · 02-23-2018, 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Covelot

It takes a lot of willpower not to cum while edging.

The best reason to buy a chastity device. Buy one - try one for a day. And see how horny you can get.

Pet Ra · 02-24-2018, 12:41 AM

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Originally Posted by SolWeintraub

The best reason to buy a chastity device. Buy one - try one for a day. And see how horny you can get.

I agree, lockig my genitals away had set my mind free

Covelot · 02-24-2018, 04:43 PM

I'll check what stores are around me, but the only one I know of is near a college that a lot of my friends go to. How much are devices usually? Could I get one for under 20 dollars?

SolWeintraub · 02-24-2018, 08:37 PM

Amazon has a great variety of chastity devices. For the start (and short sessions) a cheap one should do. I prefer metal devices since cheap plastic models tend tend to break at the risk on a serious injury. PM me if you have any more questions.

Covelot · 02-25-2018, 12:02 PM

I'll consider getting a chastity device, it seems like fun.

As for yesterday's report, I lost count of the times I edged yesterday because it felt so good that I did more than the three I originally planned on. At one point after edging, a bit of precum oozed out into my underwear. My cock is also slightly more sensitive than normal too from the edging. At one point, I got a boner, and tried to hide it by pushing it between my legs. The friction of my legs rubbing on it, combined with it's slightly heightened sensitivity, gave me a wave of pleasure that caught me off guard. My balls also feel a bit full and swollen, but just a little bit.

DareFiend · 02-25-2018, 12:18 PM

TBH I'm not sure a chastity device is a good idea if what you want is to feel horny all the time. Typically when I am denied and I get horny, my dick stays 'interested' all the time and so I feel it all the time and that keeps my mind on nothing but being horny. So I want relief I can put on a chastity device - that keeps the dick from swelling up, and from feeling any external stimulation. So it makes denial much more bearable.

At least that's my experience. Others' mileage may vary.

Covelot · 02-25-2018, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by DareFiend

TBH I'm not sure a chastity device is a good idea if what you want is to feel horny all the time. Typically when I am denied and I get horny, my dick stays 'interested' all the time and so I feel it all the time and that keeps my mind on nothing but being horny. So I want relief I can put on a chastity device - that keeps the dick from swelling up, and from feeling any external stimulation. So it makes denial much more bearable.

At least that's my experience. Others' mileage may vary.

Hmmm... I'll keep that in mind when I make a purchasing decision. I still will probably end up getting one in the future, just because I want to try it and it sounds like fun.

As for today's denial, I was hornier for a longer portion of the day, and a little more precum came out from edging than yesterday. I also edged more, and tried to get closer to the edge than yesterday. I don't think I can get any closer to the edge than I did today. It was a weird experience because even when I took my hands off my cock it took all of my concentration not to slip over the edge and cum. I feel like if I had gotten distracted at all, I would have came.

As I was only assigned 2 days of denial and the denial ends after tonight, if no one has any objections I'll cum tomorrow morning when I wake up. I'll check here to see if I have any more assigned denial first though.

Pet Ra · 02-26-2018, 10:17 AM

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Originally Posted by DareFiend

TBH I'm not sure a chastity device is a good idea if what you want is to feel horny all the time. Typically when I am denied and I get horny, my dick stays 'interested' all the time and so I feel it all the time and that keeps my mind on nothing but being horny. So I want relief I can put on a chastity device - that keeps the dick from swelling up, and from feeling any external stimulation. So it makes denial much more bearable.

At least that's my experience. Others' mileage may vary.

I don't know if it's different for girls but I'm way more horny since I'm in chastity.

It's like having a mosquito bite, scratching it feels good and after that you feel it more clearly, but then it fades quickly. If you don't scratch it you will always feel it till it slowly drives you crazy, a good way of crazy

Covelot · 02-26-2018, 08:16 PM

It might just be different for everyone. I'll just try it for myself and see how it is for me. I'm just concerned that it'll be noticeable through my clothes. Maybe there are "stealth" ones.

Stealth chastity kind of sounds like a kinky superhero. That actually wouldn't make a bad superhero. Maybe he's been in denial long enough to where he's gained superpowers or something and he can't cum or else he looses them, but being horny distracts him, and he can't save the word unless he completely focuses. Sorry I got way off topic there haha.

Anyways, how long should I be in denial for this time?

Pet Ra · 02-27-2018, 02:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Covelot

... I'm just concerned that it'll be noticeable through my clothes. Maybe there are "stealth" ones. ...

Anyways, how long should I be in denial for this time?

There a different types.
Master choosed one with a hip belt instead a waist belt for me, so it fits under the jeans. If your shirt slips out of your pants a waist belt could be seen

Stay as long as you / your key holder likes

02-19-2018, 10:17 PM	#1
Covelot Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2017 Posts: 99 Blog Entries: 3	Denial Training I've been wanting to try denial for the longest time. The idea of being ridiculously horny all the time is so hot to me, but I'm abysmally bad at it. It takes a lot of willpower not to cum while edging. I don't know if that's normal, but I just have a lot of trouble keeping myself horny. I really want to try it though. I usually cum three times a day, but I want to turn those times into edge only times, and no touching for the rest of the day. I need more ideas and encouragement though. Can you all help me? I'll report on my progress here everyday. Thanks for reading, and hopefully for helping... __________________ 24/Male/Pan/US Likes & Limits Toys: Small plug Medium plug with insertable bullet vibe Large plug Small stroker with bullet vibe Pocket Pussy 6 inch dildo PM Dares

02-19-2018, 10:18 PM	#2
Covelot Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2017 Posts: 99 Blog Entries: 3	To start it off, I just finished three edges after watching porn for a few hours. I did cum a few times this morning though, but I didn't touch again until my edges. My balls were aching mildly for a few minutes during, and after my edges. I'm still really sensitive, even though I finished edging about 20 minutes ago, and I was oozing a little bit of precum earlier. __________________ 24/Male/Pan/US Likes & Limits Toys: Small plug Medium plug with insertable bullet vibe Large plug Small stroker with bullet vibe Pocket Pussy 6 inch dildo PM Dares

02-23-2018, 11:50 AM	#3
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02-23-2018, 09:39 PM	#4
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02-24-2018, 04:43 PM	#8
Covelot Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2017 Posts: 99 Blog Entries: 3	I'll check what stores are around me, but the only one I know of is near a college that a lot of my friends go to. How much are devices usually? Could I get one for under 20 dollars? __________________ 24/Male/Pan/US Likes & Limits Toys: Small plug Medium plug with insertable bullet vibe Large plug Small stroker with bullet vibe Pocket Pussy 6 inch dildo PM Dares

02-24-2018, 08:37 PM	#9
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02-25-2018, 12:02 PM	#10
Covelot Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2017 Posts: 99 Blog Entries: 3	I'll consider getting a chastity device, it seems like fun. As for yesterday's report, I lost count of the times I edged yesterday because it felt so good that I did more than the three I originally planned on. At one point after edging, a bit of precum oozed out into my underwear. My cock is also slightly more sensitive than normal too from the edging. At one point, I got a boner, and tried to hide it by pushing it between my legs. The friction of my legs rubbing on it, combined with it's slightly heightened sensitivity, gave me a wave of pleasure that caught me off guard. My balls also feel a bit full and swollen, but just a little bit. __________________ 24/Male/Pan/US Likes & Limits Toys: Small plug Medium plug with insertable bullet vibe Large plug Small stroker with bullet vibe Pocket Pussy 6 inch dildo PM Dares

02-25-2018, 12:18 PM	#11
DareFiend getDare Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: North Central US Posts: 2,114 Blog Entries: 3	TBH I'm not sure a chastity device is a good idea if what you want is to feel horny all the time. Typically when I am denied and I get horny, my dick stays 'interested' all the time and so I feel it all the time and that keeps my mind on nothing but being horny. So I want relief I can put on a chastity device - that keeps the dick from swelling up, and from feeling any external stimulation. So it makes denial much more bearable. At least that's my experience. Others' mileage may vary. __________________ <--- Me, at Burning Man Join in on my post on the Add Thread Free For All See my nude outdoor lockout dare - it includes a full completion report at the end. Check out the punishments I 'won' on the Wheel of Tortures, and the completion report at the end. https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=424779 LIMITS: family-friends, hard to clean up, disease, permanent. Very limited anal.

02-26-2018, 08:16 PM	#14
Covelot Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2017 Posts: 99 Blog Entries: 3	It might just be different for everyone. I'll just try it for myself and see how it is for me. I'm just concerned that it'll be noticeable through my clothes. Maybe there are "stealth" ones. Stealth chastity kind of sounds like a kinky superhero. That actually wouldn't make a bad superhero. Maybe he's been in denial long enough to where he's gained superpowers or something and he can't cum or else he looses them, but being horny distracts him, and he can't save the word unless he completely focuses. Sorry I got way off topic there haha. Anyways, how long should I be in denial for this time? __________________ 24/Male/Pan/US Likes & Limits Toys: Small plug Medium plug with insertable bullet vibe Large plug Small stroker with bullet vibe Pocket Pussy 6 inch dildo PM Dares