Permanent rules for submissive men

lexi4 · 08-21-2017, 08:02 AM

I have made up some permanent rules for myself, if you want to do them for yourself here they are:
-All these rules are not appliable if I am with a girl.
-I can only fap after 15 days have passed from the last time I did.(time will extend to 30-45 days as I go on.)
-On those days I can only watch porn from a list of 10 pornstars made before hand.
•If I do not obey the interval and fap early then next time I was suposed to cum I instead have to edge 3x and half way through to the next fapping day I have to cum twice on the that same day.
-I can give myself ruined orgasms at any time if I do something that I consider worthy of receiving them.
•Those ruined orgasms need to happen when I have something in my ass (it can be my finger), I need to be naked and laying down so I can cum towards my belly, and I have to eat the cum resulting from it.
-I need to have my genitals shaved at every time.
•If I am not shaved at the start of a week I have to put toothpaste on the tip of my penis, on my asshole and get body gel on my balls before I shower everytime that week.
-If I look at a dressed girl's feet more than once (if it was by accident it doesnt count) I have to watch 5 min of something with feet for every girl I looked at.
-If I look at one of my family members' boobs, ass, vagina, legs or feet in a sex related way I have to lay down next time im in the shower and finger my ass while I have the shower head aimed at my balls/dick for 4-5 min for every family members' part I looked at.
You can follow this rules or edit them to your liking, just let me know in the comments.

lexi4 · 08-21-2017, 08:04 AM

Oh, and no edging, no touching and no looking at porn at all outside of the rules.

[email protected] · 08-21-2017, 08:42 PM

I think it is wonderful that you are undergoing such discipline. But you may have made it too complicated. Remaining chaste it difficult enough for a man of your age. The other frills may cloud the matter and get in the way of your chastity direction.

Why are the rules suspended when you are with a girl? It appears that you are going to keep yourself shaved. You will need to explain that. But the rest could be kept from her.

I would suggest that once you are serious with eachother that you end all masturbation. Perhaps some allowance would be made should you be forced apart for a lengthy time or if only done at her request in her presence. This would show a deep devotion.

You are currently at 15 days chaste. This is good. Try to get used to it. You might add a day with each climax that you do have(via masturbation). Do you will be just 15 climaxes away from your goal of thirty.

lexi4 · 08-22-2017, 03:49 AM

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Originally Posted by [email protected]

I think it is wonderful that you are undergoing such discipline. But you may have made it too complicated. Remaining chaste it difficult enough for a man of your age. The other frills may cloud the matter and get in the way of your chastity direction.

Why are the rules suspended when you are with a girl? It appears that you are going to keep yourself shaved. You will need to explain that. But the rest could be kept from her.

I would suggest that once you are serious with eachother that you end all masturbation. Perhaps some allowance would be made should you be forced apart for a lengthy time or if only done at her request in her presence. This would show a deep devotion.

You are currently at 15 days chaste. This is good. Try to get used to it. You might add a day with each climax that you do have(via masturbation). Do you will be just 15 climaxes away from your goal of thirty.

The punishments for the other things may difficult the chaste, ik, but thats there so I stop doing those things, because I dont think it is good to be always looking at feet or my family in a sexy way.

I might not have explained that too well, the rules are suspended when I am in the presence of a girl, so I can fap when I am with her if she wants, although I dont think it will happen. I may have a girlfriend, but if I am not with her on the same room the rules are all up and going.

And I will se how comfortable I am doing the 15 days and extend the time based on that.

[email protected] · 08-22-2017, 11:59 AM

The punishments for the illicit looking seem like rewards. Also they don't arrive swiftly. I think the punishment ought not be anything sexual.

I suggest that you obtain portrate photos of those who are off limits. If you do the deed then spend a reasonable amount of time making an apology to the individual. If the offence continues then extend the time to be unreasonable and or do the apology in handwriting. If it still continues deliver the hand written letter.

To address being swift wear a heavy rubber band around your wrist. As soon as you catch yourself in offense pull the band away from your wrist and let it snap back. You will have to prepare a reason for this behavior because it will almost surely be noticed. Or you can be honest and tell them the truth. "I found your ____ to attractive to ignore. I felt shame in staring. I apologise."
....
Another action that will help overall is to find an accounability partner. Find someone you trust that you can convey your troubles and rules. You can report the violations and they can see that you finish your punishments and guide you along. They ought to ask how you are doing in a regular basis so you don't drift too far away.

In return you may be able to hold them accountable for behaviors that trouble them. If students you may both keep eachother at your studies and striving for the top of the class.

08-21-2017, 08:02 AM	#1
lexi4 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2017 Posts: 15	Permanent rules for submissive men I have made up some permanent rules for myself, if you want to do them for yourself here they are: -All these rules are not appliable if I am with a girl. -I can only fap after 15 days have passed from the last time I did.(time will extend to 30-45 days as I go on.) -On those days I can only watch porn from a list of 10 pornstars made before hand. •If I do not obey the interval and fap early then next time I was suposed to cum I instead have to edge 3x and half way through to the next fapping day I have to cum twice on the that same day. -I can give myself ruined orgasms at any time if I do something that I consider worthy of receiving them. •Those ruined orgasms need to happen when I have something in my ass (it can be my finger), I need to be naked and laying down so I can cum towards my belly, and I have to eat the cum resulting from it. -I need to have my genitals shaved at every time. •If I am not shaved at the start of a week I have to put toothpaste on the tip of my penis, on my asshole and get body gel on my balls before I shower everytime that week. -If I look at a dressed girl's feet more than once (if it was by accident it doesnt count) I have to watch 5 min of something with feet for every girl I looked at. -If I look at one of my family members' boobs, ass, vagina, legs or feet in a sex related way I have to lay down next time im in the shower and finger my ass while I have the shower head aimed at my balls/dick for 4-5 min for every family members' part I looked at. You can follow this rules or edit them to your liking, just let me know in the comments. __________________ 18/m Likes:Orgasm Control, Foot Fetish, CFNM Can be used for punshiments: Light Anal. Chastity. Messy. BDSM (dont rly have any toys). Hentai. Shemale. Cum eating. Semi-Public. Limits: X-Dressing, Scat, Pissing, Gay, Pictures, Video, Permanent, Public, Pain.

08-21-2017, 08:04 AM	#2
lexi4 Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2017 Posts: 15	Oh, and no edging, no touching and no looking at porn at all outside of the rules. __________________ 18/m Likes:Orgasm Control, Foot Fetish, CFNM Can be used for punshiments: Light Anal. Chastity. Messy. BDSM (dont rly have any toys). Hentai. Shemale. Cum eating. Semi-Public. Limits: X-Dressing, Scat, Pissing, Gay, Pictures, Video, Permanent, Public, Pain.

08-21-2017, 08:42 PM	#3
[email protected] Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Indiana, USA Posts: 620	I think it is wonderful that you are undergoing such discipline. But you may have made it too complicated. Remaining chaste it difficult enough for a man of your age. The other frills may cloud the matter and get in the way of your chastity direction. Why are the rules suspended when you are with a girl? It appears that you are going to keep yourself shaved. You will need to explain that. But the rest could be kept from her. I would suggest that once you are serious with eachother that you end all masturbation. Perhaps some allowance would be made should you be forced apart for a lengthy time or if only done at her request in her presence. This would show a deep devotion. You are currently at 15 days chaste. This is good. Try to get used to it. You might add a day with each climax that you do have(via masturbation). Do you will be just 15 climaxes away from your goal of thirty.

08-22-2017, 11:59 AM	#5
[email protected] Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Indiana, USA Posts: 620	The punishments for the illicit looking seem like rewards. Also they don't arrive swiftly. I think the punishment ought not be anything sexual. I suggest that you obtain portrate photos of those who are off limits. If you do the deed then spend a reasonable amount of time making an apology to the individual. If the offence continues then extend the time to be unreasonable and or do the apology in handwriting. If it still continues deliver the hand written letter. To address being swift wear a heavy rubber band around your wrist. As soon as you catch yourself in offense pull the band away from your wrist and let it snap back. You will have to prepare a reason for this behavior because it will almost surely be noticed. Or you can be honest and tell them the truth. "I found your ____ to attractive to ignore. I felt shame in staring. I apologise." .... Another action that will help overall is to find an accounability partner. Find someone you trust that you can convey your troubles and rules. You can report the violations and they can see that you finish your punishments and guide you along. They ought to ask how you are doing in a regular basis so you don't drift too far away. In return you may be able to hold them accountable for behaviors that trouble them. If students you may both keep eachother at your studies and striving for the top of the class.