Old 05-15-2017, 02:03 PM   #1
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When I first joined the site I had an AMA and it has long since been buried, but since there a whole bunch of new people here, and I have changed a lot as a person, I thought I would start a new one.

Of course I want to make this interesting .... so for every 20th post (20, 40, 60 etc.), the poster will get to choose from one of the following rewards:

1. Design a custom edge for me to complete. A report will be posted in a blog.
2. Assign me 100 spankings with the implement of their choosing.
3. They can give me 3 likes and I will design a task for them around that.
4. They can assign me a rule that I will follow for 1 week.


**All of the above are subject to the approval of Asslvr.
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**I am going to use the post # as the official counter for who gets the reward.

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I guess I need to clarify a little bit.

1. Custom Edge: A custom edge is ONE edge that you may dictate how I do it. You can tell me what toys to use, where to do it, etc. You can be as descriptive or vague as you want. I will write you a report of how the edge went.

2. Spankings: You can choose out of any of the implements that I own and I will have Asslvr give me 100 spankings with this.

3. Dare: If you give me three likes/dislikes off your list (yes, YOU need to choose!), I will do my best to write you a task that will incorporate all 3 of those. I will expect a report.

4. Rule: You can assign me ONE rule for a week. Please remember the difference between a rule and a task. I live a busy life and cannot have something that takes me an hour a day to do. Be creative! I like doing different things, but be mindful of my time and my limits.
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Old 05-15-2017, 02:18 PM   #2
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What is the difference between being married to Asslvr and just being his sub and fiance?
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Old 05-15-2017, 02:28 PM   #3
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What is the difference between being married to Asslvr and just being his sub and fiance?
Starting with something so hard, so fast!

I honestly don't feel like being married has changed our D/s at all. Given, it has only been a week, but I really don't think it will change anything. Being married is more about our relationship as a whole. We have committed to being together forever, through thick and thin, sickness and health, etc.

However, me being his sub, is a subset of us being together. Right now it isn't even a constant. It is sort of something we do in the bedroom, rather than a 24/7 thing like we used to.

To be honest, the only change I have noticed since getting married is that I get to change my last name, and I get to call him my husband.
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Old 05-15-2017, 04:59 PM   #4
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What is the longest that you’ve grown your hair?
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How long is your hair now?
Was there a time when someone else made the decision or forced you to cut your hair?
Describe a time that you were upset over a haircut?
Have you ever dyed your hair?
Have you ever had bangs?
Have you ever had your head shaved partially or fully?
Have you ever had your hair cut/shaved with clippers?
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Have you ever cut/shaved your own hair?
What is the worst haircut that you’ve ever gotten?
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What is the longest amount of hair that you’ve ever had cut at once?
Have you ever had your haircut by a non-professional?
Have you ever cut/shaved someone else's hair, guy or girl?
Have you ever witnessed someone having a drastic haircut or headshave, and how did that make you feel?
Is the excitement of potentially having your haircut a turn on?

What is the worst thing that you’ve done to your hair?
What is the worst thing that someone else has done to your hair?
What is the worst thing that you’ve done to someone else’s hair?
What is the worst thing that you’ve witnessed done to someone else’s hair?
What is the grossest thing that’s been put in your hair?
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Have you ever had or witnessed gum being put in hair?
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Old 05-15-2017, 06:05 PM   #5
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1.A song that makes you think of only good and lovely memories?

2.What is "love" for you and how you define it?

3.Favourite book you ever read ?

4.Favourite quote you will never forget?

5.What is a key element for you that holds two people together ?

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Hi sweetie ♡

Some questions for you...

1. How many spanking are you hoping to get from your ama?

2. How many drinks did you have at the wedding?

3. Who was drunkest at the wedding?

4. Which pasta cat is your favorite?

5. Why is fettuccine so hungry?

6. Why do you always want me to wear panties?

7. Can I have some back scratchies?

8. What food do you like more than nachos?

9. What do you want for our first anniversary presant?

10. Who's the best husband ever???
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Old 05-15-2017, 09:38 PM   #7
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Lets have a rule for he next week that sitting on your toilet is not allowed you must always squat
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Old 05-16-2017, 06:31 AM   #8
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Lets have a rule for he next week that sitting on your toilet is not allowed you must always squat
You are not one of the 20th posts and therefore you do not get any say as to what rules I need to follow.
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Old 05-16-2017, 08:14 AM   #9
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What is the longest that you’ve grown your hair?Just past my shoulders.

What is the shortest that you’ve cut your hair?
Just to below my ears.

How long is your hair now?
Shoulder length.

Was there a time when someone else made the decision or forced you to cut your hair?
No. As a child I always wanted short hair and my dad wouldn't let me cut it.

Describe a time that you were upset over a haircut?
I don't remember ever being upset about a hair cut.

Have you ever dyed your hair?
Yes. Many times.

Have you ever had bangs?
Yes, but not in a long time.

Have you ever had your head shaved partially or fully?
Never.

Have you ever had your hair cut/shaved with clippers?
No.

Have you ever had your hair cut/shaved with a shaving razor?
No.

Have you ever cut/shaved your own hair?
Yes, when I was little I cut a few chunks out of my own hair. As an adult, I have also trimmed my bangs a bit.

What is the worst haircut that you’ve ever gotten?
When I cut my own hair as a child.

Have you ever donated your hair?
No, it has never been long enough.

What is the longest amount of hair that you’ve ever had cut at once?
4 or 5 inches

Have you ever had your haircut by a non-professional?
My best friend once tried cutting my hair.

Have you ever cut/shaved someone else's hair, guy or girl?
I helped my brother use the trimmers on his hair.

Have you ever witnessed someone having a drastic haircut or headshave, and how did that make you feel?
My brother recently cut his shoulder length hair. Half was buzzed off and just left a long part on the top.

Is the excitement of potentially having your haircut a turn on?
Not really.

What is the worst thing that you’ve done to your hair?
Got gum stuck in it.

What is the worst thing that someone else has done to your hair?
My best friend cutting it.

What is the worst thing that you’ve done to someone else’s hair?
Nothing ...

What is the worst thing that you’ve witnessed done to someone else’s hair?


What is the grossest thing that’s been put in your hair?
Baby puke

What is the grossest thing that you’ve witnessed being put in someone else’s hair?
Maple syrup

Have you ever had or witnessed gum being put in hair?
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Old 05-16-2017, 08:31 AM   #10
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1.A song that makes you think of only good and lovely memories?
Bubbly by Colbie Collait. This is the song that Asslvr and I danced to at our wedding. I have always liked this song, and when him and I first started talking, I was actually playing around and recorded the song to send to my best friend (it is just something we do), but instead of clicking on her name, I clicked on his. I was mortified! He promised he wouldn't listen but he really wanted to. I felt bad and so I let him listen and he really liked it and said I have a sweet voice (which isn't true at all!). It kind of became our song. Then on our first valentines day, he recorded himself singing part of the song for me. It was the sweetest thing he could have done and meant so much to me, especially since it was terrible lol.

2.What is "love" for you and how you define it?
I think that love is undefinable. It is something that cannot be explained by reason or science. It is something that is felt differently for everybody.

One of my favorite definitions of love comes from the bible, and we actually used it as a reading at our wedding:
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails."

I also recently wrote this blog about what love is. I feel like love is not one thing, but a collection of little things.


3.Favourite book you ever read ?
This question might be even more difficult than the definition of love ... I am going to cheat and say that the Harry Potter series is my favorite book. It is something that I can read over and over again.
and I love that is so magical.


4.Favourite quote you will never forget?
"Be the change you wish to see in the world". This has always been my favorite quote and it is something that I try to live by.
I feel like we need to set an example for how we wish people to act and treat us.


5.What is a key element for you that holds two people together?
Communication. Without communication you cannot have trust or intimacy or any of the other elements that make a relationship thrive. Asslvr and I learned a lot about communication since we lived across the country from each other for a full year. If we didn't communicate,
we never would have survived.


6.Sunrises or Sunsets ?
I love them both, but I am not a morning person.
I also think that sunsets can be so much more intense. Both are very magical and romantic.
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Old 05-16-2017, 08:46 AM   #11
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What are your thoughts on girls that shave their heads?
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What is the grossest thing you’ve done for a dare?
What is the grossest thing you’ve done in general?
What’s the worst thing you’ve done to another girl on a dare?
What’s the worst thing you’ve done to another girl in general?
Have you ever peed yourself on a dare?
Have you ever dumped pee on yourself, if so, how?
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Hi sweetie ♡

Some questions for you...

1. How many spanking are you hoping to get from your ama?I am actually hoping to get less spankings and more of the creative tasks/rules. I put this option more as an easy option for people to choose who didn't want to be creative.


2. How many drinks did you have at the wedding?
Umm .... I had a drink before we went into the reception,
and then I had a glass of alcoholic punch with dinner, and a little glass of that fruity wine, and then 8 butterfly kisses! So ... a lot! Ooops


3. Who was drunkest at the wedding?
Out of you and me? or all the people? I think the answer better when I include all the people so I will say my brother was definitely more drunk.

4. Which pasta cat is your favorite?
Spaghetti because she is the cutest and she is so sweet and cuddly and she chases after her mouse. But she also sticks her butt in my face ..... so actually I am going to choose Fettucine because she likes to be held like a baby and she shares snacks with me and has the cutest little squak and has big feet. But she also tries to steal my pizza and scratches the couch .... I think we need a new better kitty. I am going to name her Rotini!

5. Why is fettuccine so hungry?
Because you took away the food with the flavor nuggets.

6. Why do you always want me to wear panties?
Because it makes your minion get hard and also because they are sexy on your cute little bum.

7. Can I have some back scratchies?
No! It is my turn. Always.

8. What food do you like more than nachos?
Chocolate. I think it is pretty much eat ... maybe pizza,
but it has to be good pizza. Like Ontario pizza.


9. What do you want for our first anniversary present?
Well a one year anniversary is supposed to be something that is paper. So I think you can get me the adoption papers of a brand new PUPPY!!!!!!!!!



10. Who's the best husband ever???
Hmm ... this one is extra hard. I don't know if you are the best yet since it has only been one week. I think I will need to keep testing you before I can decide.
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Old 05-16-2017, 08:55 AM   #13
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What are your thoughts on girls that shave their heads?
To each their own!

What are your thoughts on shaving your head?
Never going to happen.

Is the excitement of potentially having your haircut a turn on?
You already asked this question!

Have you shaved your eyebrows off before?
No

Have you witnessed someone shave off their eyebrows before?
No

What is the messiest that you’ve gotten?
I once did a project where we had to build a castle and my friend and I did ours out of natural clay (from the ground). We had to go out and get the clay to do the castle and it was raining and dirty and yuck!

Have you gotten messy with food before?
Not really. I hate being messy.

Have you gotten messy with mud before?
Just the above.

Have you gotten messy with another girl before?
Just the above.

What’s the messiest that you’ve gotten for a dare?
N/A

Is getting messy a turn on?
No

What is the grossest thing you’ve done for a dare?
I don't do gross things.

What is the grossest thing you’ve done in general?
I don't know.

What’s the worst thing you’ve done to another girl on a dare?
N/A

What’s the worst thing you’ve done to another girl in general?
Kicked her.

Have you ever peed yourself on a dare?
No.

Have you ever dumped pee on yourself, if so, how?
No

Have you ever drank pee?
No.

Have you ever done dares involving scat/scat consuming?
No.

Have you done enemas before?
Yes.

Is doing dares with bodily fluids a turn on?
No. Bodily fluids disgust me.
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Old 05-19-2017, 07:33 AM   #14
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More questions for my Butterfly

1. Should we try to break your record for most orgasms in a day?

2. Should I put an ice cube in your bum next time we play with ice?

3. Should we try some tickle torture?

4. Should I try to use every single one of our toys in one session?

5. Should we do all of the above on Monday?
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Old 05-19-2017, 09:19 AM   #15
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More questions for my Butterfly

1. Should we try to break your record for most orgasms in a day?I am old now. This might kill me.

2. Should I put an ice cube in your bum next time we play with ice?Eeeeps! This is super scary.

3. Should we try some tickle torture?
I would have to be tied down because I might accidently kill you.

4. Should I try to use every single one of our toys in one session?Yes please!!!!!

5. Should we do all of the above on Monday?
I don't know about all of the above, but I definitely need to have play time on Monday. It has been WAY too long.
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