20/male/slave seeks 21+/any sex/master in any location

LitDarkness · 01-29-2017, 11:48 AM

20/male/slave seeks 21+/any sex/master in any location

Disclaimer: Even though this advert says male, I do have female parts so if you are not okay with that, you need to skip this advert.

Basics about me.

I am a 20 year old submissive. There's a bit you will need to know about me.

I live in a very weather unfriendly area. It's more likely to snow or rain than anything.

Sunshine does happen but happens rarely. It's guesswork for when that happens.

I am in the Eastern Standard Timezone. Make sure you are close or able to accommodate to this timezone.

I also prefer communication via Kik. So make sure you are willing to use that app if you are interested.

I like certain video games- mainly sims and wrestling.

I do like to write and would like to always have at least a little bit of time to write.

I also like to dance so I also want some time to dance.

And on nice weather, I do like to walk my dogs.

I do curse. If you are not okay with cursing, you are not for me.

I am a brat, I will fight you, find loopholes, call you names. I need you to be able to demand submission.

I want to feel like I'm being dominated. This won't work if I feel like your just in it to order me around.

I need a reason to submit to you. And know, because you are a Dom isn't a good reason. It isn't even a reason.

I promise Domming me is not easy.

I do not like being called a slave or calling you Master/Mistress.

I am a sub not a slave. I am looking for a Dom or Domme. I do not like the term slave. I don't really feel like I am a slave and I am not looking for a Master/Mistress.

I feel M/s is more of a stricter relationship than what I'm looking for and I feel like a slave eventually goes 24/7 with their Master which I am not willing to do. I feel like a slave gives up everything for their Master including their goals and dreams.

We will never get to this point. I do have goals and dreams which I promise I won't give up for you.

I also feel a slave also lets a Master define their limits which I am not okay with. Pushing limits when I get to know you is one thing but getting rid of them completely will never happen as some limits will be hard limits forever.
About you

Okay I have some double standards.

Males need to be 30 or older.

Females need to be 21 through 25.

Im going to go into further detail. I noticed with males I get along better with older males when it comes to D/s. I found 30 and up just works better for me.

I also found younger females also work for me better. Just easier to click with.

You must have Dommed at least once. I am not taking beginners.

And please be able to type in decent English.

Also, you cannot be a switch. I just feel like I am expected to Dom you if you are a Switch. It just won't work.

Notes

I do plan on dating in the future. So be prepared for that. If you are not okay with that, run away.

And yeah, they will know about you as you will them (not the first date-needs to actually be serious).

I also do plan on transitioning when in a safe space to do so, so if you're in it for the vagina, go away.

I also want to finish my current denial obligation to GD before you take over with that. Because this happened before I was even looking for a Dom.

So do not be surprised with any of these things.

Safewords
We will have safewords, this is not negotiable.

These will never be forbidden. If you deny the use of these any time, we are done.

Green-go on, continue, I am fine.

Yellow-Slow down, change something, close to a limit.

Red-Stop. Stop now.

I do like check ins. It's also helpful to avoid the red point.

Aftercare
Aftercare is needed. Without it, I can drop hard and fast.

And a drop isn't pretty and makes me miserable and feel awful. If I drop, I feel like a bad submissive and can have multiple failures in a row.

Availability
I live with family so noisy isn't possible in a lot of occasions. And I work from 5pm-10pm on most days. I get two days a week off usually.

My work schedule is however not set so I can get off or go in at a time in that timeframe but not exactly at 5pm or 10pm.

The two days I get off per a week are also not set.

So to be honest, I do not get a lot of time to play and it will have to be at night, probably after I get off work or early in the morning.

But please also take into account I need sleep.

You will not command me to stay up at any point or when to wake up, I have had too many issues with this and it makes me irrational too.

The two days off I get per a week may be the best time to play in all honestly.

Don't expect me to be able to play everyday, it is impossible.

And on a final note there are a few deal breakers-telling me to find another Dom; this one shouldn't even have to be mentioned.

Violating limits/ignoring safewords; this should've also been obvious.

Telling me who I can and cannot talk to.

This will end things, no questions asked.

Trail Run

There will be a trail run. It will last for a week. This is to see how well we work together.

My likes and limits are in my profile, I want you to be able to go and read them.

This is to make sure you aren't lazy.

Applying

If you read this, you know what I need to be in the application pm.

If a couple of any kind, make sure you apply separately but specify you are a couple and mention with who.

Also make sure your likes and limits have at least some similarities to mine.

If it's the complete opposite, I won't even read your application as that shows we are not compatible.

m55uk4younger · 01-29-2017, 01:58 PM

A great informative, very well thought out post. I hope you find what you are seeking.

Sir

Sasher · 01-29-2017, 02:10 PM

Kid is like a sibling for me and deserves the best!

Good luck! Your ad is amazing.

LitDarkness · 01-29-2017, 08:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by m55uk4younger

A great informative, very well thought out post. I hope you find what you are seeking.

Sir

Thank you. But, please don't call me sir.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sasher

Kid is like a sibling for me and deserves the best!

Good luck! Your ad is amazing.

Aww so we both are protective of each other. And thank you.

MasterMichaelNY · 01-30-2017, 04:24 AM

Good luck boy

Ok, the kid is a good boy, and i give my word, he is worth the time and trouble.

But I will point out, if you don't have any experience with brats, talk and be up front with the kid.

Brats are a different type of sub all together, they are known to be very loyal to there Master, or Mistress, but on the other side of the hand, when they do act up, you better have a fresh bottle of aspirin to ready.

Again, good luck boy, I hope you find your perfect M.

LitDarkness · 01-30-2017, 05:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MasterMichaelNY

Good luck boy

Ok, the kid is a good boy, and i give my word, he is worth the time and trouble.

But I will point out, if you don't have any experience with brats, talk and be up front with the kid.

Brats are a different type of sub all together, they are known to be very loyal to there Master, or Mistress, but on the other side of the hand, when they do act up, you better have a fresh bottle of aspirin to ready.

Again, good luck boy, I hope you find your perfect M.

Thanks.

That's actually a good point. Absolutely be up front if you don't have experience with brats. Because he is right, it's a different type of sub and I will drive you crazy.

I'm very loyal to my Dom or Domme. (Not really into M/s so yeah Dom/me.)

That I may need to put in the ad somewhere.

And thanks.

sir sam · 01-30-2017, 05:36 AM

I know skills for about a year now.
She is my best friend next to my pet.

Although i knew, i am actually surprised about the openness and honesty that is in this add.
Every line that is written has a reason. None is just quickly put down.

Skills is amazing.
Increadably loyal.
Increadably obedient.
Increadably nice person.

It will be a handfull. Prepare to get bratted to the limit.
But skills is heaven to any serious dom/domme.

LitDarkness · 01-30-2017, 05:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sir sam

I know skills for about a year now.
She is my best friend next to my pet.

Although i knew, i am actually surprised about the openness and honesty that is in this add.
Every line that is written has a reason. None is just quickly put down.

Skills is amazing.
Increadably loyal.
Increadably obedient.
Increadably nice person.

It will be a handfull. Prepare to get bratted to the limit.
But skills is heaven to any serious dom/domme.

This ad is very open. That's true.

Ain't that how ads should be.

Thanks.

Maybe berated past the limit. (Like I said, I am not easy to Dom.)

I'm heaven to anyone.

Wolf007 · 01-31-2017, 03:45 AM

This add is soo good, i had to stop reading somewhere in the middle, just to balance things out for other less creative advertisements.

Thought a little bump wouldn't hurt...

Good luck skilled-one!!

LitDarkness · 01-31-2017, 06:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Wolf007

This add is soo good, i had to stop reading somewhere in the middle, just to balance things out for other less creative advertisements.

Thought a little bump wouldn't hurt...

Good luck skilled-one!!

Thank you.

Balancing things out can be good.

01-29-2017, 11:48 AM	#1
LitDarkness Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: May 2014 Location: Earth Posts: 6,116 Blog Entries: 289	20/male/slave seeks 21+/any sex/master in any location 20/male/slave seeks 21+/any sex/master in any location Disclaimer: Even though this advert says male, I do have female parts so if you are not okay with that, you need to skip this advert. Basics about me. I am a 20 year old submissive. There's a bit you will need to know about me. I live in a very weather unfriendly area. It's more likely to snow or rain than anything. Sunshine does happen but happens rarely. It's guesswork for when that happens. I am in the Eastern Standard Timezone. Make sure you are close or able to accommodate to this timezone. I also prefer communication via Kik. So make sure you are willing to use that app if you are interested. I like certain video games- mainly sims and wrestling. I do like to write and would like to always have at least a little bit of time to write. I also like to dance so I also want some time to dance. And on nice weather, I do like to walk my dogs. I do curse. If you are not okay with cursing, you are not for me. I am a brat, I will fight you, find loopholes, call you names. I need you to be able to demand submission. I want to feel like I'm being dominated. This won't work if I feel like your just in it to order me around. I need a reason to submit to you. And know, because you are a Dom isn't a good reason. It isn't even a reason. I promise Domming me is not easy. I do not like being called a slave or calling you Master/Mistress. I am a sub not a slave. I am looking for a Dom or Domme. I do not like the term slave. I don't really feel like I am a slave and I am not looking for a Master/Mistress. I feel M/s is more of a stricter relationship than what I'm looking for and I feel like a slave eventually goes 24/7 with their Master which I am not willing to do. I feel like a slave gives up everything for their Master including their goals and dreams. We will never get to this point. I do have goals and dreams which I promise I won't give up for you. I also feel a slave also lets a Master define their limits which I am not okay with. Pushing limits when I get to know you is one thing but getting rid of them completely will never happen as some limits will be hard limits forever. About you Okay I have some double standards. Males need to be 30 or older. Females need to be 21 through 25. Im going to go into further detail. I noticed with males I get along better with older males when it comes to D/s. I found 30 and up just works better for me. I also found younger females also work for me better. Just easier to click with. You must have Dommed at least once. I am not taking beginners. And please be able to type in decent English. Also, you cannot be a switch. I just feel like I am expected to Dom you if you are a Switch. It just won't work. Notes I do plan on dating in the future. So be prepared for that. If you are not okay with that, run away. And yeah, they will know about you as you will them (not the first date-needs to actually be serious). I also do plan on transitioning when in a safe space to do so, so if you're in it for the vagina, go away. I also want to finish my current denial obligation to GD before you take over with that. Because this happened before I was even looking for a Dom. So do not be surprised with any of these things. Safewords We will have safewords, this is not negotiable. These will never be forbidden. If you deny the use of these any time, we are done. Green-go on, continue, I am fine. Yellow-Slow down, change something, close to a limit. Red-Stop. Stop now. I do like check ins. It's also helpful to avoid the red point. Aftercare Aftercare is needed. Without it, I can drop hard and fast. And a drop isn't pretty and makes me miserable and feel awful. If I drop, I feel like a bad submissive and can have multiple failures in a row. Availability I live with family so noisy isn't possible in a lot of occasions. And I work from 5pm-10pm on most days. I get two days a week off usually. My work schedule is however not set so I can get off or go in at a time in that timeframe but not exactly at 5pm or 10pm. The two days I get off per a week are also not set. So to be honest, I do not get a lot of time to play and it will have to be at night, probably after I get off work or early in the morning. But please also take into account I need sleep. You will not command me to stay up at any point or when to wake up, I have had too many issues with this and it makes me irrational too. The two days off I get per a week may be the best time to play in all honestly. Don't expect me to be able to play everyday, it is impossible. And on a final note there are a few deal breakers-telling me to find another Dom; this one shouldn't even have to be mentioned. Violating limits/ignoring safewords; this should've also been obvious. Telling me who I can and cannot talk to. This will end things, no questions asked. Trail Run There will be a trail run. It will last for a week. This is to see how well we work together. My likes and limits are in my profile, I want you to be able to go and read them. This is to make sure you aren't lazy. Applying If you read this, you know what I need to be in the application pm. If a couple of any kind, make sure you apply separately but specify you are a couple and mention with who. Also make sure your likes and limits have at least some similarities to mine. If it's the complete opposite, I won't even read your application as that shows we are not compatible. Last edited by LitDarkness; 01-30-2017 at 11:06 AM.

01-30-2017, 04:24 AM	#5
MasterMichaelNY Account Banned Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: Port St. Lucie, FL Posts: 3,327 Blog Entries: 20	Good luck boy Ok, the kid is a good boy, and i give my word, he is worth the time and trouble. But I will point out, if you don't have any experience with brats, talk and be up front with the kid. Brats are a different type of sub all together, they are known to be very loyal to there Master, or Mistress, but on the other side of the hand, when they do act up, you better have a fresh bottle of aspirin to ready. Again, good luck boy, I hope you find your perfect M. __________________ They say, there will be a special place in hell for me. That's right. I'll be constructing the new rides Kik, MasterMichaelNY Email, [email protected]

01-30-2017, 05:36 AM	#7
sir sam Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: Europe (gmt+1) Posts: 795 Blog Entries: 51	I know skills for about a year now. She is my best friend next to my pet. Although i knew, i am actually surprised about the openness and honesty that is in this add. Every line that is written has a reason. None is just quickly put down. Skills is amazing. Increadably loyal. Increadably obedient. Increadably nice person. It will be a handfull. Prepare to get bratted to the limit. But skills is heaven to any serious dom/domme. __________________ M, Europe, dominant Proud owner of sweet little pet Want to read? my pets 2016-awarded story

01-31-2017, 03:45 AM	#9
Wolf007 Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: Vognor-7 Posts: 415 Blog Entries: 3	This add is soo good, i had to stop reading somewhere in the middle, just to balance things out for other less creative advertisements. Thought a little bump wouldn't hurt... Good luck skilled-one!! __________________ ________________;-)__________________ Bye folks! And thanks for your cooperation! End of transmission - Wolf out

01-29-2017, 01:58 PM	#2
m55uk4younger Distinguished Member Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: UK Posts: 956	A great informative, very well thought out post. I hope you find what you are seeking. Sir

01-29-2017, 02:10 PM	#3
Sasher Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2012 Posts: 572 Blog Entries: 1	Kid is like a sibling for me and deserves the best! Good luck! Your ad is amazing.