Kink/Fetish Survey (More personal than pornographic.)

[cariadferch]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?

2) Why do you find it so arousing?

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?

(Thank you, I appreciate any and all answers. )

[cariadferch]

I guess I should take my own survey.

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
Besides the BDSM thing in general, plus a huge gambling fetish, I find the idea of being punished (especially for some misdeed) very erotic.

2) Why do you find it so arousing?
I'm not really sure, but am curious of the psychological reasons for it.

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
Echos of it started in early high school when I saw a whipping scene in a cheesy movie, but it has become much more prominent since my divorce last year.

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
I do find it a bit troubling at times.

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
I have kept it private.

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
No, it wouldn't be a requirement.

[Truckernaut42]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
public nudity/exhibitionism

2) Why do you find it so arousing?
It's weird and hard to explain but part of it is how we're basically grown up being told that our genitals are private parts, as in, they are meant to be hidden and it's some kind of sin to show them to others most of the time and we all grow up with this mentality letting it sink in while we're kids and I noticed that as kids we're definitely more self concious about being seen naked especially by the opposite sex. As a male I feel it's even moreso because we live in a culture of masculinity where if you have a smaller penis, it's considered embarassing so being seen by people when you're smaller adds this humiliation factor to it and you wonder if they're thinking about that and making fun of you in their head. I love being seen nude by others, especially clothed people, because I know they're judging me when they see me. They're examining this private area between my legs and in general the fact that I'm not supposed to be unclothed where I am. It leaves me feeling vulnerable and embarrassed to be seen like that but it gives me an unexplainable rush knowing my private areas are on public display. I feel if I grew up in a setting that encouraged nudity, I would not feel this way because I'd have grown up with the idea that nudity is just whatever, but instead Ive grown up being told that it's embarrassing to be seen naked by others. It's the best to be seen by the clothed, they have this superiority over you in that they are still covered up, and their private areas are hidden yet they are seeing you for everything you are. I hope this makes sense it's hard for me to explain why I love it so much.

It shouldn't even be that weird or exciting. My penis is simply a piece of skin that flaps around between my legs when I walk, yet having it completely exposed for everyone to see is exhilarating.

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
When I was a kid I accidentally stumbled upon naked in public porn and i found that crazy. I never thought it existed or knew about it so to see women just get naked in public places was really out there for me, and I thought to myself "how are they not embarrassed? I know I would be!" but at the same time I was just captured by wonder and I wanted to know what it felt like to be nude where others could see. I didn't get a lot of chances to enjoy this until I was an adult but I tried to get naked as much as possible as a kid in locker rooms but it was difficult because I would get erections.

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
nope

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
I've shared it a little bit with a significant other but not the full extent of it.

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
no but it would be great

[Jaro]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
Female feet

2) Why do you find it so arousing?
They are cute, pretty and extremely sexy. Especially when she takes good care of them - which most women do - and if she paints her toenails. There is so much variety among feet, no two pair are ever alike. I also think the smell - which can be strong even when they're clean - is very arousing. There is something very humbling about being at a women's feet too and since I am a submissive worm I feel that is the proper place for me.

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
About 10 years ago. I don't know how it started.

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
A bit, yes.

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
I keep it pretty much private. I had once had the pleasure of rubbing, kissing, smelling and licking a women's feet. It was great.

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
It is a must that she is accepting of it. I can't have someone who hates feet and wouldn't allow me to touch hers. But I want someone with an open mind anyway.


(Thank you, I appreciate any and all answers. )[/QUOTE]

[cariadferch]

Originally Posted by Truckernaut42

I hope this makes sense it's hard for me to explain why I love it so much.

Thank you for the reply.

Does it make sense? Yes and no. I have a similar kink and what you described makes perfect sense, since I would answer in the same fashion. However, does it truly explain why? Not really. I guess a kink is just a kink. A strange fetish we pick up.

But thank you again for answering. It is greatly appreciated.

[cariadferch]

Originally Posted by Jaroface

There is something very humbling about being at a women's feet

Oh, so your love of feet is tied to the desire to be submissive to a woman?

Is that common for most guys with a foot fetish?

Oh, and thank you for answering my survey.

[feetandtickling]

Originally Posted by cariadferch

Is that common for most guys with a foot fetish?

Yes, it is! Lol

[corsa198]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
Female wetting & desperation

2) Why do you find it so arousing?
It's difficult to determine but I think the naughtiness combined with innocence has something to do with it. Just the image of the wet patch spreading on a pair of tight jeans is great!

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
When I was about 12/13 and discovered it was actually a real thing.

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
Sometimes a little.

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
It is generally private but I have shared it with one person. I wouldn't feel comfortable telling all my friends etc in case for the fear of being judged.

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
It's not a necessity but would always be welcome.

[Forrest]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
Omorashi

2) Why do you find it so arousing?
There's a lot of aspects to it, the humiliation and shame from wetting is huge. It's also the matter of how much it's built up so knowing that they couldn't take it anymore it anymore and failed to do a basic task any adult can do makes it great too. It's very obvious when it happens as well and the humiliation from it can linger quite awhile. Humiliation isn't the only factor, there's also warmth from it, I'd love to start rubbing a girl right after she wets herself.

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
Probably when I was like 9, but maybe earlier, I know I was intentionally wetting myself before I knew what masturbation was.

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
Not really.

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
No one in person but I've been pretty open about it to my online friends.

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
No, but I would be disappointed if she wasn't willing to participate in it in some form.

[rrichmon]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
--Spanking I love to be spanked.

2) Why do you find it so arousing?
--Something about the warmness in my bottom is just pleasurable.

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
--early signs at like 14 years old when I would get aroused by spanking media.(Particularly Stacy keibler in the WWE)

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
--at times, yes.

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
--Exactly 1 person in real life know about it.

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
--Would it be a requirement? No. would I like it yes.

[lop747]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
My biggest kink/fetish is femdom (female domination)
2) Why do you find it so arousing?
I find that when a woman takes control in certain situations it is very sexy. Femdom can be quite a broad term though. A lot of femdom includes tease and denial. Normally the female is hypersexy during this which is a huge turn on and when release does finally come it is extreme. Any other power play (ball busting, verbal stuff, etc.) Just adds to the fun. Also, when the dom brings in a new type of play, it can be very exciting to explore new things for the dom.
3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
Very soon after joining this website
4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
I don't normally feel ashamed about it
5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
I've kept it to this website
6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
Require... no. I wouldn't mind it but it isn't a requirement

[Scrap]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
- humiliation. I get totally turned on at the thought of being sexually exposed, degraded, and used.

2) Why do you find it so arousing?
- if I knew that, I could save myself a fortune on therapy

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
- it has been relatively recently. my other fetishes (public nudity, x-dressing, etc) all are secondary symptoms of the desire to be humiliated.

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
- Well, yeah. That's sort of the point.

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
- no one IRL knows. I cannot "let it out" without jeopardizing my livelihood and family.

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
- Not really. I could very easily expose myself to the world all on my own.

[Lovelife]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?

Women's farts. Specifically facefarting.

2) Why do you find it so arousing?

I find the smell to be intoxicating, butt it's much more than that. I love how dirty/taboo it is to want to smell a fart. It also really ties into my humiliation, degradation, submissive fantasy/fetish that I have. I love being beneath a woman both literally and fuguritavely. Being viewed by a woman as so worthless that she can just fart in my face whenever she wants is just sheer pleasure.

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?

I was 14 while watching a wild on e episode. There was a dancer/performer who accidentally let one rip during an interview. It was the first time I had seen or heard someone I found sexually attractive fart. I was instantly turned on. As time went on I continued seeking this fetish out online and eventually in real life.

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?

I did at first, but as I've gotten older it's just part of my kinky repertoire!

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?

I definitely kept it private at first, but for the last 6 or 7 years every girlfriend has known about it.

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?

At this point I think my partner has to be willing to indulge me once and awhile ��

[Jenniferxcd]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish? Panties and exhibitionism

2) Why do you find it so arousing?Not sure

3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?I have known of both kinks since puberty

4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish? Gosh no!

5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life? No, I have share this with a few select friends

6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish? It would be fun, but no, not a requirement

[grambow]

1) What is your biggest kink/fetish?
at the moment spanking but it chages between that, diapers and chastity
2) Why do you find it so arousing?
the helplessnes is amazing
3) When did you first realize you had this kink/fetish?
about age 15 when i began watching porn
4) Do you ever feel ashamed about this kink/fetish?
no not ever
5) Do you keep it private? Or have you shared it with someone in real life?
i do keep it privat, i have told one friend he took it ok
6) Would you require a lover to have your kink/fetish?
yes because selfspankings just aren't the same