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foxknot69 · 01-27-2018, 06:32 PM

I'm not sure if this is the right place for this, but...oh well.

Do any of you have a place where you can just...get away from all the people and noise in your life and just sit quietly? Maybe a place you go just to cry?

Or am I just that fucked up that I need an escape from life just to cry eyes out?

johnnynomates · 01-27-2018, 06:39 PM

For what it's worth, I don't think that's fucked up at all. I wish I had a place I could go just to get away from all the shit. I tend to get by listening to depressing music (randomly that seems to cheer me up).

My advice would be to reach out to your friends. I know it's hard to open up, but you might be surprised how much they can help.

Diapered_prince · 01-27-2018, 07:01 PM

I used to have an escape before moving. I was a short walk from the beach and I would go out to the end of the dock with the waves crashing (it as a solid wall about 300 feet long) and I could escape and vent about whatever was upsetting me. It was nice because even though it was in the open, because of the waves and distance I could see anyone coming and compose myself and not worry about being heard.

It is okay to admit that life sucks sometimes because it truly does.

Switch413 · 01-27-2018, 07:39 PM

I usually go online, the folks over at /leftypol/ used to always cheer me up but after BO Stalinized the board i abandoned it. /leftpol/,GetChan,and BunkerChan are still very good and have all the brutal debate,shitposting,and fun of the old leftypol but not as good

Runesmith · 01-27-2018, 11:38 PM

I just get in the car, drive down to the Black Forest. There are so many places where one can simply sit and stare at the wilderness and no one bothers you.

Wolf007 · 01-28-2018, 12:24 AM

It's all quite natural actually. We're meant to run and hide when danger occurs. Although in modern society it's become "weird". We're all supposed to be able to cope with all the crap that comes our way. But honestly, we just can't. We can not just ignore our primal instincts.

As for me, when i had a really bad day where too much has gone wrong, i tend to take a short sleep. That way I'm out of reality for a short time and my mind is able to solve internal issues. I always feel ready to take on the world again when i wake up!

PupEzio13 · 03-11-2018, 10:39 AM

FWIW, you need your down time. My bestie just reminded me of that. There were days where I just felt guilty after fapping pretty much all of it away, save to find food, and he just told me to like give a fuck-all, ignore the phone, set 3 quick things you can accomplish and maybe make a 3-item to-do list for tomorrow, then just disappear.

Read a book, binge watch, get high (if it's legal).

I wanted to propose some puppy training for me and my husband this weekend but I just felt so out of everything. I ended up asking him about just doing jack all this weekend and make next week fun instead. I think we both needed it, just catching a movie, bitching, driving around, getting lost, raiding the fridge to cook dinner, basically it was just us and whatever the fuck we wanted, and I think we both are felling much better.

I'm lucky we've our own home to be zoned out in, but I used to just drive out, recline the seat, peek out into the open sky, smoke a few cigs and reset. It happens, you're not alone, you did good by reaching out.

shiloh · 03-11-2018, 06:59 PM

Definitely not fucked up
When I was a teenager there was a spot in my yard I would go to, i would bring a picnic blanket and my iPod and a journal and just cry and journal for hours.

I think we all need a place like that. Now that Im in college I like to take long showers when I need to cry. Often in the daytime when I don't have class, and almost no one is in the bathroom I share with my floor.

littlemissslave · 03-19-2018, 02:19 PM

There used to be a spot in my park I would always go and sit in when I was sad. Or i would go down onto the beach. Now I just sit in my room.

Mieann · 03-19-2018, 06:45 PM

That is not fucked up. Again.

I live in a rather crowded city and there's people everywhere. Literally. Everywhere. My favorite spot is my bathroom. Really. I had so many roller coasters in there.

Outside... If I really have to, I go to a particular industrial area. There's definitely less people on weekends and just walk the road there. I don't really like there. There are big wild dogs which I am afraid of. So I don't walk there unless I really, really, really. Have to.

LitDarkness · 03-31-2018, 06:00 PM

Everyone needs downtime. I put on my headphones in and relax for mine. Being alone or crying is not weird. It's natural.

FoxFire · 04-03-2018, 10:03 PM

So I'm going to be the devil's advocate on this one.

It's absolutely normal to seek out solitude and silence for the sake of well being of ones inner self.

If you're looking to settle some inner ( or external ) turmoil I suggest looking into vipassana or other meditation styles.

Here's the devil's advocate part.

Don't confuse needing time to yourself with running from your problems.

Humans having internal coping mechanisms for a reason, but over use of them or consistently avoiding your problems will only compound them.

Either way best of luck to you !

Manarus · 04-04-2018, 03:42 PM

Hmmm, good question. I think lately I am really lacking of such a place. Also I feel quite well when I am going with my dog for a walk. Just him, me and nature

cloudness · 04-12-2018, 10:48 AM

I use my Minecraft server as my hideaway xD

01-27-2018, 06:32 PM	#1
foxknot69 getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: In the (furry) trash Posts: 1,184 Blog Entries: 3	Hideaway I'm not sure if this is the right place for this, but...oh well. Do any of you have a place where you can just...get away from all the people and noise in your life and just sit quietly? Maybe a place you go just to cry? Or am I just that fucked up that I need an escape from life just to cry eyes out? __________________ 28 / Male Non-Binary / Pan / Pet / Furry / Nerd Likes/Dislikes/Limits PM Dares Remaining PM Tasks Edges Before Orgasm: 0 Wedgie Time: 0 minutes Ball Slaps: 0 Spanks: 0 Days of Denial: 0 "I'm a silhouette asking every now and then: Is it over yet? Will I ever feel again?"

01-27-2018, 06:39 PM	#2
johnnynomates Member Join Date: Apr 2016 Posts: 41	For what it's worth, I don't think that's fucked up at all. I wish I had a place I could go just to get away from all the shit. I tend to get by listening to depressing music (randomly that seems to cheer me up). My advice would be to reach out to your friends. I know it's hard to open up, but you might be surprised how much they can help. __________________ 44/m/straight/UK Likes: Exposure (online/cam), hidden public, masturbation, nudity, CBT, mild pain, dare games Dislikes: cum eating, insertion, anal, piss Limits: personal info, blackmail, scat, blood, extreme pain, family/friends, illegal, wedgie, permanent, cross-dressing

01-27-2018, 07:01 PM	#3
Diapered_prince Distinguished Member Join Date: Sep 2017 Posts: 703 Blog Entries: 23	I used to have an escape before moving. I was a short walk from the beach and I would go out to the end of the dock with the waves crashing (it as a solid wall about 300 feet long) and I could escape and vent about whatever was upsetting me. It was nice because even though it was in the open, because of the waves and distance I could see anyone coming and compose myself and not worry about being heard. It is okay to admit that life sucks sometimes because it truly does. __________________ So it turns out that I am a girl and not a boy. YAY!! though that does make me a diapered princess. Sad that I can't update my username though.

01-27-2018, 07:39 PM	#4
Switch413 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2017 Posts: 276 Blog Entries: 1	I usually go online, the folks over at /leftypol/ used to always cheer me up but after BO Stalinized the board i abandoned it. /leftpol/,GetChan,and BunkerChan are still very good and have all the brutal debate,shitposting,and fun of the old leftypol but not as good __________________ M/18/Switch Kik:Switch413 Likes: degradation, humiliation, pet play Dislikes: spanking, pain, CBT, public Soft Limits: Piss, anal, denial Limits: scat, illegal, family, friends, social ruin, long term, etc PM DARES http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=85674

01-27-2018, 11:38 PM	#5
Runesmith Stranger with candy Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Stuttgart, Germany Posts: 989 Blog Entries: 20	I just get in the car, drive down to the Black Forest. There are so many places where one can simply sit and stare at the wilderness and no one bothers you. __________________ Male, Straight, Dominant Likes: Anal (giving), rough play, CNC, bondage, humiliation, degradation, objectification, obedience training, online control Limits: scat, underage, playing with males; text speak To play with me, you must be able to prove your gender. Runesmith's Forgiveness thread - you're gonna need this My stories: Non-consensual Roleplay With a Stranger The Cabin in The Woods The Shanghai Girl Palace on The Beach My poems (yeah, poems): The Winter

01-28-2018, 12:24 AM	#6
Wolf007 Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: Vognor-7 Posts: 415 Blog Entries: 3	It's all quite natural actually. We're meant to run and hide when danger occurs. Although in modern society it's become "weird". We're all supposed to be able to cope with all the crap that comes our way. But honestly, we just can't. We can not just ignore our primal instincts. As for me, when i had a really bad day where too much has gone wrong, i tend to take a short sleep. That way I'm out of reality for a short time and my mind is able to solve internal issues. I always feel ready to take on the world again when i wake up! __________________ ________________;-)__________________ Bye folks! And thanks for your cooperation! End of transmission - Wolf out

03-11-2018, 10:39 AM	#7
PupEzio13 Member Join Date: Nov 2017 Location: Johor, Malaysia Posts: 35 Blog Entries: 3	FWIW, you need your down time. My bestie just reminded me of that. There were days where I just felt guilty after fapping pretty much all of it away, save to find food, and he just told me to like give a fuck-all, ignore the phone, set 3 quick things you can accomplish and maybe make a 3-item to-do list for tomorrow, then just disappear. Read a book, binge watch, get high (if it's legal). I wanted to propose some puppy training for me and my husband this weekend but I just felt so out of everything. I ended up asking him about just doing jack all this weekend and make next week fun instead. I think we both needed it, just catching a movie, bitching, driving around, getting lost, raiding the fridge to cook dinner, basically it was just us and whatever the fuck we wanted, and I think we both are felling much better. I'm lucky we've our own home to be zoned out in, but I used to just drive out, recline the seat, peek out into the open sky, smoke a few cigs and reset. It happens, you're not alone, you did good by reaching out. __________________ 30/Gay/Owned pup/GetDare Armed Forces Navy Seaman Recruit Married to my Master! Go: Nipple clamps, edging, anal, boots, uniforms, bondage, breath play, floggers, boots, ripe feet No go: Scat, parents, alcohol, crossdressing Trying: Analgasm, piss drinking, ET-312B Toy List 1 dares done.

03-11-2018, 06:59 PM	#8
shiloh Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2017 Location: Louisville Kentucky Posts: 114 Blog Entries: 1	Definitely not fucked up When I was a teenager there was a spot in my yard I would go to, i would bring a picnic blanket and my iPod and a journal and just cry and journal for hours. I think we all need a place like that. Now that Im in college I like to take long showers when I need to cry. Often in the daytime when I don't have class, and almost no one is in the bathroom I share with my floor. __________________ 20 f, bisexual, 5'1", 140 lbs, c cup Likes:pee holding and wetting, wedgies, pussy insertation and stretching, panty stuffing (putting things into panties), ice, pillow humping Limits: too much pain, public, pics or videos, poop, involvin others or animals You can call me Shy for short 😘 I am not looking for a dom/domme right now, but would probably be willing to play! Feel free to message me when I'm online! Ask me anything: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=330992

03-19-2018, 02:19 PM	#9
littlemissslave Distinguished Member Join Date: Jun 2017 Location: england Posts: 684 Blog Entries: 13	There used to be a spot in my park I would always go and sit in when I was sad. Or i would go down onto the beach. Now I just sit in my room. __________________ Likes: light orgasm control, light pain, humiliation being teased, some pet play my sofa, my bed, orgasms, corner time and being a brat Dislikes: cold, medium pain, discomfort, boredom, bladder control, Limits:extreme pain, permanent, blood, family, friends, public, pics, videos, diapers, being flicked on the nose I Am LPVs Princess

03-19-2018, 06:45 PM	#10
Mieann Member Join Date: Jan 2018 Posts: 48 Blog Entries: 10	That is not fucked up. Again. I live in a rather crowded city and there's people everywhere. Literally. Everywhere. My favorite spot is my bathroom. Really. I had so many roller coasters in there. Outside... If I really have to, I go to a particular industrial area. There's definitely less people on weekends and just walk the road there. I don't really like there. There are big wild dogs which I am afraid of. So I don't walk there unless I really, really, really. Have to. __________________ Hello. Call me Mieann (Mee-ann not mean!) I am just a normal girl who can't stop making mistakes. Please be nice. >> My Sexual CV if you are interested. My vacation story/report 1 2 3

03-31-2018, 06:00 PM	#11
LitDarkness Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: May 2014 Location: Earth Posts: 6,116 Blog Entries: 289	Everyone needs downtime. I put on my headphones in and relax for mine. Being alone or crying is not weird. It's natural. __________________ M/Novisexual/24/sub Do have female parts. 30/1,603 edges+ 2 more days of denial after edges Make My Denial Harder Denial Diary 6,000th post tasks and reports Likes + Limits Stuff I Can Use for Dares BDSM Test Results PM DARES Stories & Poems Spelling or Grammar Mistake: Let Me Know Help Break My Cursing Habit Live with people and do not own toys. Keep in mind when daring me please. Not your bitch and calling me names or trying to Dom me is probitted. Violators will be declared as idiots.

04-03-2018, 10:03 PM	#12
FoxFire getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Earth..ish Posts: 253	So I'm going to be the devil's advocate on this one. It's absolutely normal to seek out solitude and silence for the sake of well being of ones inner self. If you're looking to settle some inner ( or external ) turmoil I suggest looking into vipassana or other meditation styles. Here's the devil's advocate part. Don't confuse needing time to yourself with running from your problems. Humans having internal coping mechanisms for a reason, but over use of them or consistently avoiding your problems will only compound them. Either way best of luck to you ! __________________ L ~ CrEaTiViTy~semi-public/messy /edging /anal play/denial /common sense and creativity ~dislikes~ ice/heat ~Limits~ bodily fluids, pee... poop etc.. Switch ~mildly searching.

04-04-2018, 03:42 PM	#13
Manarus Distinguished Member Join Date: May 2017 Location: Bavaria (Germany) Posts: 694 Blog Entries: 38	Hmmm, good question. I think lately I am really lacking of such a place. Also I feel quite well when I am going with my dog for a walk. Just him, me and nature __________________ Likes: Bondage, Spanking, mild Pain, Pee, Anal, Outdoor, Wax/Ice, Positions, Pet, Hidden Be careful: Long Term, Denial/forced Orgasm, Cum Eating, Poo, Heavy Pain, Rules, Bladder Control Limits: Permanent, Blood, Non-Consensual, Public, Shaving, Sissification, Time Wasting Toys: Ropes, Whips, Clothpins, Plugs, ... See my full Likes, Dislikes, Limits & my Toys Current Rules and TODOs PM Dares!

04-12-2018, 10:48 AM	#14
cloudness getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2015 Location: Uk Posts: 396 Blog Entries: 8	I use my Minecraft server as my hideaway xD __________________