gD relationships + playmates

[lola.fox]

1. How many playmates have you had on getDare?

2. Have you ever posted explicit photos/videos of yourself with the intent of being “exposed”?

3. How did your previous getDare relationships start?

4. Do you prefer longterm gD relationships or would you rather have one off play sessions with whoever sparks your interests?

5. If you’ve had any gD relationships/playmates in the past, what was the reason for them ending?

6. Have you ever been duped into believing you were talking to someone of a different gender? How many times has this happened to you?

7. Has anyone ever stolen photos you’ve posted on gD/kinktalk and passed them off as their own?

8. Has anyone ever downloaded/kept your photos? What was their reasoning for it if you confronted them?

9. How many of your gD partners have you found through an advertisement?

10. Have you ever gotten any of your real life partners to join getDare if they weren’t a member when you met?

[Butterfly]

Originally Posted by lola.fox

1. How many playmates have you had on getDare?
I am going to say 7 official relationships. I have done casual play with a few other people, but I am very selective with who I would consider a playmate.

2. Have you ever posted explicit photos/videos of yourself with the intent of being “exposed”?
I am not really into exposure. Although I do post some photos on getDare because I like people seeing them. Not sure if that counts ...

3. How did your previous getDare relationships start?
Hmm ... most of my relationships have started through either an ad or talking to them in chat.

4. Do you prefer longterm gD relationships or would you rather have one off play sessions with whoever sparks your interests?
Long term.

5. If you’ve had any gD relationships/playmates in the past, what was the reason for them ending?
Reasons for ending were: time constraints, life getting too busy, and needing things that the other person couldn't offer/could no longer offer.

6. Have you ever been duped into believing you were talking to someone of a different gender? How many times has this happened to you?
I really don't care too much so I don't know if "duped"
is the right word. It has probably happened a handful of times.

7. Has anyone ever stolen photos you’ve posted on gD/kinktalk and passed them off as their own?
Not that I know of.

8. Has anyone ever downloaded/kept your photos? What was their reasoning for it if you confronted them?
Not that I know of.

9. How many of your gD partners have you found through an advertisement?
Mr. Devious is the only person who I found solely through an ad. The others were a combination of knowing them previously,
beginning to chat in the chat room and blogs.

10. Have you ever gotten any of your real life partners to join getDare if they weren’t a member when you met?

My ex joined getDare to stalk me ... but other than that, no.

[Jaro]

1. How many playmates have you had on getDare?
3. Miss Butterfly and Miss Icey are the current and obvious two. But before that I had a live session with sir sam (with little pet) as well.

2. Have you ever posted explicit photos/videos of yourself with the intent of being “exposed”?
No, never

3. How did your previous getDare relationships start?
There was no previous relationship

4. Do you prefer longterm gD relationships or would you rather have one off play sessions with whoever sparks your interests?
Longterm

5. If you’ve had any gD relationships/playmates in the past, what was the reason for them ending?
N/a

6. Have you ever been duped into believing you were talking to someone of a different gender? How many times has this happened to you?
No

7. Has anyone ever stolen photos you’ve posted on gD/kinktalk and passed them off as their own?
No

8. Has anyone ever downloaded/kept your photos? What was their reasoning for it if you confronted them?
N/a

9. How many of your gD partners have you found through an advertisement?
I 'found' (although I knew her a bit already) Miss Icey via an ad she posted where she was looking for a blackmail sub.

10. Have you ever gotten any of your real life partners to join getDare if they weren’t a member when you met?
Nope. None in real life knows about this part of me.

[Aethi]

1. How many playmates have you had on getDare?

A handful. Less than ten, more than two.

2. Have you ever posted explicit photos/videos of yourself with the intent of being “exposed”?

Nope.

3. How did your previous getDare relationships start?

Usually as the result of PM dares, me searching through threads, or me PMing someone in a thread to buddy up for a dare.

4. Do you prefer longterm gD relationships or would you rather have one off play sessions with whoever sparks your interests?

Longterm.

5. If you’ve had any gD relationships/playmates in the past, what was the reason for them ending?

Lack of interest, lack of communication, lack of connection. Sometimes people just don't click, but also sometimes we're both satisfied and just stop talking. I don't think I've had any that left me sad or upset.

6. Have you ever been duped into believing you were talking to someone of a different gender? How many times has this happened to you?

I'm gay, so I don't actively seek people of the other gender, but ironically, I've had the opposite happen to me. It was on omegle, not getDare, but I actually did end up becoming acquaintances with them.

7. Has anyone ever stolen photos you’ve posted on gD/kinktalk and passed them off as their own?

No, I've never publicly posted any of them.

8. Has anyone ever downloaded/kept your photos? What was their reasoning for it if you confronted them?

See above.

9. How many of your gD partners have you found through an advertisement?

None.

10. Have you ever gotten any of your real life partners to join getDare if they weren’t a member when you met?

I've never had a partner.

[johnnynomates]

1. How many playmates have you had on getDare?
I've not yet found anyone that wants to continue play past the odd dare, although I'm quite shy and not great at striking up conversations for fear of coming across as pushy.

2. Have you ever posted explicit photos/videos of yourself with the intent of being “exposed”?
Yes

3. How did your previous getDare relationships start?
See answer #1

4. Do you prefer longterm gD relationships or would you rather have one off play sessions with whoever sparks your interests?
I would like to develop long terms relationships with a small number of people.

5. If you’ve had any gD relationships/playmates in the past, what was the reason for them ending?
N/a

6. Have you ever been duped into believing you were talking to someone of a different gender? How many times has this happened to you?
I've suspected it, but never had confirmation. They usually just disappear when confronted.

7. Has anyone ever stolen photos you’ve posted on gD/kinktalk and passed them off as their own?
Not to my knowledge.

8. Has anyone ever downloaded/kept your photos? What was their reasoning for it if you confronted them?
I don't know, I currently have a photo on temporarily.exposed which has been downloaded a few times.

9. How many of your gD partners have you found through an advertisement?
None, I'm a little suspicious of mistresses advertising for subs.

10. Have you ever gotten any of your real life partners to join getDare if they weren’t a member when you met?
No

[sir sam]

1. How many playmates have you had on getDare?
5, including my current pet.
Current pet almost 2year, the others few weeks.

2. Have you ever posted explicit photos/videos of yourself with the intent of being “exposed”?
No

3. How did your previous getDare relationships start?
My current pet started by sending her a pm-dare. I added some personalized extra to it, it made us talk.
The others started by playing on a thread, then getting bit more personally in pm. Mostly by talking about non-ds stuff. Real interest.

4. Do you prefer longterm gD relationships or would you rather have one off play sessions with whoever sparks your interests?
I like Long term
It has much more emotional impact.
One has not to worry about being too harsh or too soft, worry about “not being interesting”


5. If you’ve had any gD relationships/playmates in the past, what was the reason for them ending?
Sub did leave. Mostly after a “call from rl”.


6. Have you ever been duped into believing you were talking to someone of a different gender? How many times has this happened to you?
Not really, but I have “dumped” someone I was getting in conversation with over a thread who was clearly faking the excersizes.

7. Has anyone ever stolen photos you’ve posted on gD/kinktalk and passed them off as their own?
No, but I do not post them

8. Has anyone ever downloaded/kept your photos? What was their reasoning for it if you confronted them?
No

9. How many of your gD partners have you found through an advertisement?
None, all by pm, get to know over threads or blogs.

10. Have you ever gotten any of your real life partners to join getDare if they weren’t a member when you met?
No