25 f dom looking for help

[Alice92]

Hey you all!
I'm a 25y/o, freshly married wife my husband and I are new to this topic and just started dominance an chastity play. I am the dominant part of it.
My husband is 24y/o and also registered here. His Name is Grinser.

So far we have made experience with chastity cages, a little bondage and anal stimulation. He has more knowlege in this topic, because he was interested in this long before me. Since I'm new to all of this, I have a lack of creativity, so he is a bit frustrated about this. But I want all of this as much as he wants it. Jet (since it's all new to me) I don't want to start with the most extreme things.

Now I'm searching for some inspiration I don't quite know what tasks I can give him for a normal day...
Already we have some rules for him, like doing the work in the household, making sport and pleasure me when ever I want it, also I decide when he has to wear his cages or an anal plug/anal vibrator. If he didnt follow his rules he feels the cane.

Toys we own:

• 4 different sized Dildos

• 1 Strap On with a smal Dildo insde for me

• Magic wand

• Nipple clamps

• A tight and a lose castity cage

• Lockable metal ballstretcher

• Ropes and handcuffs

• Anal plug & Love Balls

• Milking table with cockhole

• Remote controlled Prostata Vibrator

• Cane

His Houserules:

• Doing the houseehold.

• 30 minutes sport/workout daily.

• Making the bed after waking up.

• Every second day practising with prostate vibrator

• Always wearing one peace of Metal (Cages,Plug,Ballstretcher)

• Every second day, Alice get a massage

• No porns, masturbating or comming without permission

• Remember Alice to take pictures of our activities

So now it's your turn to give me some advice/ideas for our daily life and maybe a longtime goal

• His Likes: light Pain, Orgasm Control, Joi, Bondage, Anal, Being Obient, Being under Control, getting surprised, hidden outdoor, ruined/denied Orgasm, Blowjobs, Edging

• His Soft-Limits: Harder Pain, Nettles, ruined/denied Orgasm, Cum eating, Gags

• His Hard-Limits: Scat, Blood & Pee, Diapers, Bladder Control, Family, Full Public, Messy

Thanks a lot and see you later

[barefooted83]

Do you tie him up from time to time?
Maybe in a hogtie?
As okay and torturing feet is my favorite, did you try something in this direction?
You could put clothespins between the toes for light pain or pour some hot wax on the toes or soles.

[grinser]

Sorry barefooted83 she hate feets...

[Alice92]

Thanks for the fast answer!
we have tried the hogtie a few times

but sorry, i hate feet they gross me out

[barefooted83]

Originally Posted by Alice92

Thanks for the fast answer!
we have tried the hogtie a few times

but sorry, i hate feet they gross me out

That's too bad! I love them!
But anyway, I'll send you a PM in a few minutes

[grinser]

Alice didnt let me see the picture. But her loughing was scary

[barefooted83]

Originally Posted by grinser

Alice didnt let me see the picture. But her loughing was scary

I'm glad she likes it. Hope she'll help me out

[Sammylikes]

How about pet plays ?

You could force him to wear a collar/leash and force him to crawl around on all four, only eating/drinkibg from a bowl.
To spice things up a little he could only be allowed to cum by humping things.

[Dottie]

Make him take cold showers every second day

[subby999uk]

Keep him on his knees for a day while he does chores around the house and serves you with drinks and food and whatever else you want.
Make him do tasks that will be much more arduous while on his knees like vacuuming the whole house, you should relax on the couch while he works away around you, you could be wearing some sexy underwear or just be naked to tease him while he works.
Tell him his cock needs to be hard the whole time as well, but he's not allowed to cum, then he'll have to keep interrupting his chores to stroke his cock to stop it going soft, if you think he's spending too much time playing with himself rather than working then that's a good reason to punish him, as well as punishing him for losing his erection of course.

[grinser]

Originally Posted by subby999uk

Keep him on his knees for a day while he does chores around the house and serves you with drinks and food and whatever else you want.
Make him do tasks that will be much more arduous while on his knees like vacuuming the whole house, you should relax on the couch while he works away around you, you could be wearing some sexy underwear or just be naked to tease him while he works.
Tell him his cock needs to be hard the whole time as well, but he's not allowed to cum, then he'll have to keep interrupting his chores to stroke his cock to stop it going soft, if you think he's spending too much time playing with himself rather than working then that's a good reason to punish him, as well as punishing him for losing his erection of course.

Wow, that sounds hard..

[cj07]

How about he as to act like naked furniture for a set period. You could have him as your naked footstool and every time he moves over a set period of another day/week in Chasity belt.

What both of your thoughts on Crossdressing. All his male underwear is locked away and he does not get to key, all he can wear is panties

[grinser]

Alice is stil searchiing for new ideas...

[barefooted83]

Originally Posted by grinser

Alice is stil searchiing for new ideas...

Did she already try some hot wax on you?

[grinser]

Originally Posted by barefooted83

Did she already try some hot wax on you?

years ago probably with wrong candles... it f****** hurts!