Old 02-11-2013, 08:21 AM   #1
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Default questionnaire: What floats your boat(BDSM/Kink)

A somewhat "open" questionnaire i am putting together on different arousal patterns. Not only to figure out exactly what a person is into but also some indication of why he/she is into it. Therefore certain question indirectly or directly gets asked more than one time, that is because even if it is the same action it can be done with different motivations so to say.

Off course the better one can understand ones partner the more awesome the play gets.

So this is what i have come up with so far:

Instructions:
Answer the topics in the following way


I: Love it,- Like it, - Its ok, - A little or very curious about it,- A limit but i fantasize about it, - Tolerate it, - Dislike it, - Hate it, - Hard limit.

Leave a personal comment if you have one.
Also add If you like (Reciving), (giving) or (Everything)
Eventually your experience or a fantasy about it.
Leave blank if you have no opinion:


I will of-course go first

1.0 Exhibitionism and being watched:
I love it (Everything) I have always enjoyed showing myself off.

1.2 Public:
I am very curious (Everything) but it is difficult because of legal issues, the thought turns me on a lot

1.3 Group:
I like it (Everything) only have experience trough webcam yet but i liked it a lot

1.4 Strangers watching:
Love it (Everything) Only experience trough webcam, strangers make it extra humiliating and exiting

1.5 Naked while others are clothed
I love it (Everything)


2.0 Humiliation and degradation:
I love it! (Everything) and it is one of the things a lot of my kinks revolve around

2.1 Being dehumanized (having to act like a animal or object):
I like it (Everything). In my mind i like the thought of being used like that for a long time, but not in reality. Shorter time periods are exciting tho.

2.2 Messy (spit, food or makeup smearing):
I love it (Everything)

2.3 Being nasty(Taste your own pussy or cum, ass to mouth, ass-licking):
I love it (Everything) especially when me or the sub reaches that "Yes i am a dirty slut" mentality

2.4 Being bullied:
I am curious about it (Everything) Only have very limited experience. Its a big fantasy being bullied by a group of females

2.5 Verbal abuse:
I love it (Everything) Very much online experience, a little in real life.

2.6 Body writing:
I like it (Everything)

2.7 Being laughed at/ Being someones entertainment
I love it (Everything)


3.0 Having to beg/ask permission:
I love it (Everything) To be asked "sir may i please suck your cock" turns me on allot, also the other way around "may i please eat your pussy miss?)

3.1 Being controlled, having daily routines: (Clothes to wear, having certain
task on different days, both sexual and not ):
Like it (Everything) as long as it is not to much, like wake up blowjob once a month, and "slutty clothes Sundays" or something would be fun. If overdone i think it will lose the sexy aspect tho

3.2 Tasks:
Like it (Everything) Same as over, i enjoy picture task a lot tho

3.3 Domestic-service (housework, maid/butler, house slave/servant):
I tolerate it (Everything) Would be fun once in a while on a rare occasion, like "Go do the dishes and laundry and get naked on all fours when your done".

3.4 Speech restrictions:

4.0 Being overpowered, forced, thrown around and manhandled:
4.1 Face slapping
4.2 Hair pulling
(all above)I love it (Everything, but mostly give) Being physically in charge

5.1 Bondage (normal):
I like it (Everything) Only got medium experience and want to try more

5.2 Gags:
I like it (Everything) Especially when i or the sub starts to drool and gets messy

5.3 Collars/Leashes
I love it (Everything) The symbolism of it turns me on a lot! Like "You belong to me now"

5.4 Cages
I am curious (Everything) but not for longer periods of time, could be hot with some role play or punishment

5.5 Shibari, suspension bondage and advanced bondage (hanging from
ceiling etc)
I am very curious and want to learn (Everything) One must feel so helpless and powerless in those intricate bondage setups


6.0 Pain:
6.1 Wax:
6.2 Spanking:
6.3 Pussy torture:
6.4 Cock and ball torture:
6.5 Nipple Torture:
6.6 Whips:
6.7 Flogger:
(all above) Its ok (Everything) Nothing to severe, especially with CBT, I am not to focused on the pain aspect. It can be hot sometimes for punishment and when one is in that "Do anything you want with me" state of mind

6.8 Cane/crops:
6.9 Clamps:
I like it (give), I dislike (receiving) .

6.10 Electric stimulation:
A little curious (Everything) I have no idea how it feels tho

6.11 Pee hole insertions:
Hard limit (Everything) It just freaks me out

6.12 Things more “uncomfortable” then directly painful:
I like it (Everything)

6.13 Extreme(Needles, knifes, fire):
Hard limit (Everything)

7.0 Being punished:
I like it (Everything) as long as the punishment fits the "crime"

7.1 being punished for long periods
Dislike it (Everything)

8.0 Orgasm Control
8.1 Tease and denial
8.2 Forced orgasm
8.3 Ruined orgasm
8.4 Orgasm torture (continued stimulation after orgasm, when genitals are
over sensitive)
8.5 Edging(keeping on the edge of orgasm)
(all above)I love it! (Everything) I gets in a very horny and desperate state of mind from it. Also love seeing the girls quiver and beg for more or to stop

8.6 Chastity
I tolerate it, but not over long periods of time.

9.0 Sensory deprivation (blindfolds/eardrums, head in a closed box ++)
I am very curious (Everything) I only have experience with blindfolds so far. I have a big fantasy of having a sub with her head in a closed box so she cant see what is going on or who is touching or fucking her

10.0 Pet play
I am a little curious (Everything) but mostly for the symbolism and humiliation, nothing to serious

11.0 Obedience Training/Behavioral modification (Training to please the Dom
trough feedback, punishment and rewards)
I am a little curious (Everything) as long as its not to serious. I love training girls on how they must present their ass and tits to me and so on

12.0 Tickling
I dislike receiving it but like giving it.

13.0 Pee(not on anyone)
Its ok (Everything)

13.1 Golden shower
13.2 Pee drinking
(all above) I like it (Everything) also play with ones own pee

14.0 Anal play:
14.1 Fingers/butt plugs, small toys:
14.2 Medium toys:
14.3 Strap-on:
14.4 General insertion
(All above) I love it (Everything) I get really got orgasms from ass play, also i love a girls butthole

14.5 anal penetration(cock):
I love it (giving, also reviving on very rare occasion)

14.6 Ass stretching
14.7 Large toys/ Fisting:
I like giving it, receiving is a Hard limit,.

14.8 Enemas
I am a little curious (Everything) a hot way to punish someone i think

15:0 Risk of being caught.
I like it

16.0 Bi-play
I love it on rare occasions, only IRL, i can get fucked an suck, fucking a guy is a hard limit, and dislike being blown

16.1 Forced Bi
I am very curious about it (receive)

17.0 Threesomes (MMF)
17.1 Threesomes (FFM)
17.0 Orgies/swingers
17.1 Gangangs (M on F)
17.2 Gangbang (F on M)
(all above) I am very curious and interested (Everything)

18.0 Spontaneous service (Suddenly ordered to pleasure partner during an
everyday situation. Watching TV for example ++)
I love it! (Everything)Suck my dick while i play videogames, or eating a girls pussy while she watches TV.

19.0 Medical-play (role-play of examination)

20.0 Play-rape
I like it(give)

21.0 Sissyfication (cross-dressing)
I love it (receive) Little experience and want to learn and advance.

22.0 Body worship (Oral service at specific body parts)
22.1 Queening (face-sitting/pussy worship)
22.2 Foot/legs/shoe/feet worship
22.3 Ass worship
22.4 Breast worship
(all above) I love it! (give)

22.4 Cock worship
I love it (receive)

23.0 Pussy stretching
23.1 Pussy Fisting
(all above) Tolerate it (give)

24.0 Panties
24.1 Jerked of with panties
24.2 Panty insertions(pussy/ass)
24.3 Panty gagging(panties stuffed in mouth)
24.4 Panty sniffing/licking
24.5 Cum on panties
(all above) I love it(Everything)

25.0 Voyeurism (looking at others)
I am curious about it

26.0 Age play
26.1 Mom/son RP
26.2 Daddy/daughter RP
26.3 Baby-girl/boy
(all above) I am curious about it

26.4 Diapers
Hard limit (Everything)

27.0 Other role-playing/theatrical scenes
I am curious about it

Fetishism:

28.0 Leather / latex/rubber:
Curious (Everything)

29.0 Sexy lingerie(garter belts, Corsets, stockings, bra/panties)
30.0 Uniforms/costumes
31.0 Business suits
31.0 Skirts/miniskirts
32.0 Dresses
33.0 Skirt/dress with no panties
(All above) I love it (Everything)

34.0 Masks/hoods
I tolerate it (Everything)

It would be interesting to see other peoples answers, and let me know if there is something else that should be here as well.
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Old 02-12-2013, 04:19 PM   #2
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I really like the questionnaire. It's generally well thought out, thought bits and pieces are missing. Also, it's unfortunately only applicable to people who already have some experience in BDSM, as most of the things would freak someone new out.
As for the answering, I'm really not into it right now. Actually, you may want to put it in the Truths section of this forum, you'll probably get a lot more answers there.
P.S., Mind if I steal this one (with some reworking), for personal use?
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Old 02-14-2013, 09:53 AM   #3
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Originally Posted by Sindrato View Post
I really like the questionnaire. It's generally well thought out, thought bits and pieces are missing. Also, it's unfortunately only applicable to people who already have some experience in BDSM, as most of the things would freak someone new out.
As for the answering, I'm really not into it right now. Actually, you may want to put it in the Truths section of this forum, you'll probably get a lot more answers there.
P.S., Mind if I steal this one (with some reworking), for personal use?
Thanks, and yeah sure go ahead and use it. I am making slave_E fill out the new and re-worked edition of it as soon as she can. Maybe i should have her post it and deliver herself out like that in the truths section.
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