Dares for holiday with my sub Matt

[Sam~]

I am going on holiday with my sub Matt on the 7th April.

Thought it would be fun to ask for dares we could do together
Maybe rules for Matt to follow.

Please bear in mind our roles (ie I'm the domme ) I'm not totally against giving Matt some control, but only for short dares and nothing too serious. (he would be uncomfortable anyway)

Also our limits, although Matt's limits are a bit less with me, I am thinking of pushing his pee drinking limit

We will be staying in a self catering cottage in the countryside.

Also hoping to meet up with Lucy either on the way there or way back, but time with her will be much more limited.

(Just a note it won't be a 24/7 BDSM holiday, we will be doing normal holiday activities too.)

[Matt:]

Posting here so people can see Sam's pets likes & limits. As Sam says, her pet is a bit more open with his limits with her.

[pirahnna]

Have fun you two , and I'm just bumping this thread to get back to first page

[bubba51]

Matt can only wear bra and panties as underwear. For more fun if Sam is willing it put him in your dirty panties. While alone in the cottage he should wear a dress

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by bubba51

Matt can only wear bra and panties as underwear. For more fun if Sam is willing it put him in your dirty panties. While alone in the cottage he should wear a dress

Thank you, I'll go for the underwear rule for Matt, but maybe not the dress, as I like him to wear less clothes inside

[highheelsissy]

Make him wear pantyhose under is pants for 3 days

[Grand.Master691]

Also, make him wear stockings with garter belt or colorful thigh-highs and mini skirt. If possible, make him wear a make up and earrings.

[Sain]

Some ideas, I might post more later if I think of some:

Play a game of "hot and cold". Have Matt get into the shower. When you say "hot", he has to switch to hot water, and when you say "cold", he has to switch to cold water. He should try to edge when he has hot water (and you can "help" him, use your imagination). When he has cold water, he should kneel in the shower and beg you to let him use hot water. Play until Matt reached a certain number of edges, or until you decide to stop.

Take a shower together, but have Matt's hands handcuffed or otherwise tied behind his back. You should wash both you and Matt, and you can grope Matt as much as you want while you're doing it.

Straddle Matt's face. His goal is to give you as many orgasms as possible in 20 minutes using only his tongue. If he makes you cum X times, he gets to spank you 4 times for every orgasm he gave you. If not, you get to spank him as much as you want. (I don't know what a good number for X is; have you or Lucy decide).

Spend an evening and night together, with Matt blindfolded the entire time. I'm sure you can think of fun things to do while he's blindfolded.

Without Matt being able to see it, pick up a toy and hold it in your hand. Have Matt guess what it is. If he guesses correctly, he gets to use it on you for 2 minutes. If he guesses incorrectly, you get to use it on him for as long as you want. Repeat as many times as you want. (If there's a variety of toys, Matt's not very likely to guess correctly.)

Have Matt wear his cage (and maybe his collar, if he's feeling brave) whenever you are in public together.

[Sam~]

I like Sain's idea's

Just a note, I'm not really that into Matt cross dressing, only use it for a bit of fun/humiliation. so probably will only do the bra and panties rule. Thanks for posting though, I should have made it clear in 1st post.

[MarvHarvey]

Originally Posted by Samishere

I like Sain's idea's

Just a note, I'm not really that into Matt cross dressing, only use it for a bit of fun/humiliation. so probably will only do the bra and panties rule. Thanks for posting though, I should have made it clear in 1st post.

So there would be a price to be paid for wearing civilian (i.e. male!) underwear...wear with something else like:

• corset
• fishnets
• cock and ball strap (don't know correct term: presentation strap to lift and present)
• other accessories ? ?

[DarkSoul11]

I'll put a pin in this if I think of anything fun since I'm less busy these days.

[Greatcornbow]

Originally Posted by Samishere

I am going on holiday with my sub Matt on the 7th April.

Thought it would be fun to ask for dares we could do together
Maybe rules for Matt to follow.

Please bear in mind our roles (ie I'm the domme ) I'm not totally against giving Matt some control, but only for short dares and nothing too serious. (he would be uncomfortable anyway)

Also our limits, although Matt's limits are a bit less with me, I am thinking of pushing his pee drinking limit

We will be staying in a self catering cottage in the countryside.

Also hoping to meet up with Lucy either on the way there or way back, but time with her will be much more limited.

(Just a note it won't be a 24/7 BDSM holiday, we will be doing normal holiday activities too.)

Matt to wear a kilt at all times.Nothing underneath of course, except you have him in a chastity cage so he wears that.

[MarvHarvey]

Originally Posted by Greatcornbow

Matt to wear a kilt at all times.Nothing underneath of course, except you have him in a chastity cage so he wears that.

I thought of that the other day! It is a great idea.
I am not in touch with any of my distant cousins who could lend him one, but with a bit of effort I might be able to . . . . . .

[Sam~]

Originally Posted by Greatcornbow

Matt to wear a kilt at all times.Nothing underneath of course, except you have him in a chastity cage so he wears that.

Haha, maybe if can get hold of one

[MarvHarvey]

You could make up your own board game to play at a table, or on a rug, or indeed everywhere. Think of games you know (readers may have suggestions) and make up, cards or choices using the dice rolls that seems most suitable and other things to do. Of course the his/hers instructions would be different.

This is not a fully operational idea, but others may be able to fill in out a bit.