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sweetandsour · 11-18-2013, 12:52 PM

...do you find that you're mood tends to change when you Dom/Master's mood change? For example, if your Masters upset or mad and you can't do anything to change it, do you kind of get upset as well?

SlutPuppy · 11-18-2013, 08:46 PM

Yep.

I'm like this with most anyone I'm around, though. If someone gets pissed off or in a bad mood, my mood goes downhill.

But when I know he's upset with something, and especially when I can't help with whatever it is, I'm not in the greatest mood.

sweetandsour · 11-20-2013, 06:57 PM

Yeah, my mood does tend to change with just about everyone I'm around, although some more than others.

It just kind of sucks when you can't do anything to make them feel better.

MistressLexxi · 12-25-2013, 11:50 PM

A good submissive is generally in-tune with his/her/its dominant.
When the dominant is in a mood, for whatever reason, the submissive will be able to feel (at least part of) whatever emotion the dominant is feeling.

The submissive naturally wants to comfort the dominant, even if the submissive was not the one who upset the dominant. Just like the dominant is responsible for the submissive, it is also the submissive who is responsible for the dominant (in a way).

At least, in my experience. My submissive(s) that I have been with have always been able to tell when I'm happy, disappointed, upset, etc. and will do the best he can to try to make me feel better, whatever the cost.

Empathy. And paying attention and knowing your dominant.

(This is all from my POV. I am in no way saying I'm 100% correct.)

11-18-2013, 12:52 PM	#1
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11-18-2013, 08:46 PM	#2
SlutPuppy getDare Succubus Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Plut hole Posts: 1,811 Blog Entries: 97	Yep. I'm like this with most anyone I'm around, though. If someone gets pissed off or in a bad mood, my mood goes downhill. But when I know he's upset with something, and especially when I can't help with whatever it is, I'm not in the greatest mood. __________________ I'll be your bad girl... booty booty booty booty rockin' everywhere Sex Map HERE Likes/Dislikes/Limits

11-20-2013, 06:57 PM	#3
sweetandsour Member Join Date: May 2013 Posts: 35	Yeah, my mood does tend to change with just about everyone I'm around, although some more than others. It just kind of sucks when you can't do anything to make them feel better. __________________ Owned by: JR Toys: vibrating dildo, 3 dildos, clamps Likes: slight pain, teasing, slight humiliation, edging, insertion, cilt pleasure, ice Dislikes/punishments: anal, moderate pain, hidden and semi-public, cilt pain/torture, pussy torture, nature, spanking, toothpaste/hot sauce/deep heat, forced orgasms Limits: family, permanent, blood, scat, severe pain, enemas, public, pics/vids/other recordings, eating/drinking anything weird

12-25-2013, 11:50 PM	#4
MistressLexxi Junior Member Join Date: May 2012 Location: PST, USA Posts: 17	A good submissive is generally in-tune with his/her/its dominant. When the dominant is in a mood, for whatever reason, the submissive will be able to feel (at least part of) whatever emotion the dominant is feeling. The submissive naturally wants to comfort the dominant, even if the submissive was not the one who upset the dominant. Just like the dominant is responsible for the submissive, it is also the submissive who is responsible for the dominant (in a way). At least, in my experience. My submissive(s) that I have been with have always been able to tell when I'm happy, disappointed, upset, etc. and will do the best he can to try to make me feel better, whatever the cost. Empathy. And paying attention and knowing your dominant. (This is all from my POV. I am in no way saying I'm 100% correct.) __________________ ~Miss Lexxi ^.^ There are many people who are approaching me as strangers asking me if I want to have a wham-bam-thank you ma'am session. Let me get one thing straight, guys. I'm not here to get your rocks off. If you just want that, find someone else. I'm here for me and my pleasure, and perhaps for the sub of my choosing if he is lucky. Sorry 'bout the rant. And yes, these are actually my lips.