Couple, M 24 F 23, requesting Dom/Sub Dares

ACouple · 08-19-2014, 10:13 PM

Hey there! I know this isn't a common type of post, but, I'm going to try it anyway.

We're a couple, male and a female, and I've (the female) been reading through dares on this site that I found absolutely fascinating, and incredibly fun to silently partake in.

So, here's our thing: we're new at this. Completely.

But, I think it may be fun to start off slow, and see where this site may take us. In the bedroom, he's the Dom, while I am the Sub. This is not a Master/Slave relationship though, it remains in the bedroom.

So, what dares do you have for us?

Limits: Blood, Urination, Feces, Overly Public, Family. There may be others.

Likes: Bondage, Whips, Spanking, Choking, Gagging, Head, Different Positions, Biting.

Let's see what you've got!

onipran · 08-19-2014, 11:15 PM

can you dare to change the bedroom

that is you may play some scenes. As, you (f) will be cooking in kitchen while he appears as a stranger and force you and fuck you in the kitchen, you may use some kind of tying may happen, he may cuff your hands, tear off your clothes, gag you with either his or your underwear, slap you, tie you with the kitchen table, spank you using kitchen items, fuck you there.
Same thing can happen at bathroom or any other rooms, or even backyard at the night time when no one will notice. If thos is not possible you can play same force sex role in bedroom too.

Sometime he can try to orgasm you by just gentle biting of your nipples, clit, pussy lips etc.

He can fuck you while you are in some kind of rope made hanging cot

vladimir_bz_lion · 08-19-2014, 11:47 PM

Enter some shop, grab several things and pretend you are going to try them on in the dressing room with your partner. Once inside, you must give a blowjob to your partner and beg him to cum in your mouth. After he's done, quickly leave the dressing room.

ACouple · 08-20-2014, 09:55 PM

We've already done around his house, there isn't a yard though.

And the public thing isn't something we do. Can't chance getting caught.

onipran · 08-20-2014, 10:52 PM

Strip naked and go to bathroom without taking a piece of clothes with you. Now while you are bathing, tell your hubby to lock all of your clothes including bed sheet or any other thing can be used to cover your nudity. And he must hide the key in a certain place of the house, you have to search the house for they key. With each 10 mins of your failure you have to come to him and get spanked/ wipped for 30 times and after that he may give you a clue, continue this for 40 mins that is four clues and 120 spanks/ whipping. Then if you still could not find the key he will gag you with his underwear and then will give you another clue and you have to search with the gag on. If can't this time, he will get the right to bite your pussy lips and pinch and twist your nipples for 10 mins and give another clue, failure in this time will give him the chance to fuck you by making your hand down and legs up and when he fuck you while standing. After that you will give him a nice blowjob and possibly rimming (if you are into) and get your key back.

vladimir_bz_lion · 08-21-2014, 09:29 PM

I would let you sit on a chair, your legs spread and tied to the chair legs.
Masturbate on command and, what is much more important, you have to stop on command.
Basically I would watch the scenery. How you get closer and closer to your orgasm. No permission to cum.
Maybe a proper spanking is required to cool you down again and start again. Or a nipplechain to take over control.
Blindfold, gagball, clamps, pussyspanking, mouthfucking,…. Depending on how the situation is developing.
Orgasm or not, let’s see how you behave.

SecretTrainer · 08-22-2014, 03:10 AM

Welcome to the site, it's great that you're wanting to experiment.

If you're completely new to this then I would advise you don't just jump in and try some of the crazier suggestions you'll be getting. You want to take your time and enjoy slowly ramping up what you do with each other.

I'd suggest you start with taking a little bit of the D/s dynamic out of the bedroom. Assuming you have your own place, and you're relatively confident about your body, then some forced nudity can be fun. For an entire day you can't wear any clothes, apart from heels if he chooses to put you in them.
On top of that he can feel you up whenever he wants.
Beyond that you can spice it up with some edging. You have to edge yourself during the day every hour. Your partner decides if he wants to watch or if you're sent to the bedroom to do it. Both are actually sexy. Your reward is going to be to cum, a lot, at the end of the day.
The other thing I'd add for your naked day, is that you have to ask him if he wants a blow job, at least every hour. If you forget to ask you get spanked over his knee.
The twist is, that it can be a very much submissive blow job, if you both like the idea, then having him do something while you're sucking him can be very hot. It might be gaming, it might be watching a movie, but hottest is probably for him to watch porn, as you suck him off. DO it for a LONG time, use your hands too, kneeling between his legs, so you can make the most of it.
However, if you want to keep him really horny, think about NOT always letting him cum when you're blowing him. The hornier you leave him the harder he'll treat you, so it's a good way for you to actually balance out just how you want him to act.

Let me know if this is the kind of thing that floats your boat and I can give you more ideas if you want them.

James

ACouple · 08-24-2014, 05:51 PM

James,

I've given him head while playing games before, but we do both enjoy the idea of it. Especially when it's interactive.

Neither of us have our own place, or an entire day, to spend playing. If we're going to be fooling around, it's usually a couple hours at most, so the running around naked thing isn't for us right now.

SecretTrainer · 08-27-2014, 04:56 AM

Okay, that all changes things quite a bit, but no problem!

So if you don't have your own places then there's lots of other fun options.

I'd start with some clothing control, let him pick exactly what you have to wear. You can start off doing that together but even a message from him every day telling you what underwear you can, or can't... wear is very sexy. Let him dress you really sexily and then have to go out together, he'll love that. Something else you can add to that is before you go out, he takes a marker pen and writes over your body. 'Property of...', if you like it, then 'slut, slave' etc and arrows to your holes with what he's going to do to them later. Then you have to wear clothes over it both of you knowing what's underneath.

You can also give him a blowjob somewhere public and let him cum on your breasts and you're not allowed to clean it off. Or wear a skirt or dress and fuck when you're out and you have to just let it run down your legs as you walk around. If you use condoms then just get him to cum on your thighs instead.

In the times you do have at home you should try spanking. Don't take it to seriously, just have fun with it. But the trick is he needs to masturbate you in between the spanks.

If you like gagging then try lying on your bed on your back and dropping your head back over the edge, and then have him fuck your mouth and throat. If he can make you cum with his fingers while his cock is choking you it will be an amazing experience.

Also if you don't currently do it, try anal sex. It's incredibly submissive to allow him to fuck your ass. It shouldn't hurt though, you need to work up to it slowly, you should try an enema beforehand to make sure you don't worry about it being dirty,and you use lube, lube and more lube. Proper lube, not spit!

Personally I'm a big fan of orgasm control so I'd make a rule that you have to edge yourself every morning and evening, but can never cum without his permission. I make my sub do that four times a day... but you're new to this

Let me know how you get on!

08-19-2014, 10:13 PM	#1
ACouple Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: Arizona Posts: 119	Couple, M 24 F 23, requesting Dom/Sub Dares Hey there! I know this isn't a common type of post, but, I'm going to try it anyway. We're a couple, male and a female, and I've (the female) been reading through dares on this site that I found absolutely fascinating, and incredibly fun to silently partake in. So, here's our thing: we're new at this. Completely. But, I think it may be fun to start off slow, and see where this site may take us. In the bedroom, he's the Dom, while I am the Sub. This is not a Master/Slave relationship though, it remains in the bedroom. So, what dares do you have for us? Limits: Blood, Urination, Feces, Overly Public, Family. There may be others. Likes: Bondage, Whips, Spanking, Choking, Gagging, Head, Different Positions, Biting. Let's see what you've got!

08-19-2014, 11:15 PM	#2
onipran getDare Devil Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 1,338	can you dare to change the bedroom that is you may play some scenes. As, you (f) will be cooking in kitchen while he appears as a stranger and force you and fuck you in the kitchen, you may use some kind of tying may happen, he may cuff your hands, tear off your clothes, gag you with either his or your underwear, slap you, tie you with the kitchen table, spank you using kitchen items, fuck you there. Same thing can happen at bathroom or any other rooms, or even backyard at the night time when no one will notice. If thos is not possible you can play same force sex role in bedroom too. Sometime he can try to orgasm you by just gentle biting of your nipples, clit, pussy lips etc. He can fuck you while you are in some kind of rope made hanging cot __________________ GOOD bye

08-19-2014, 11:47 PM	#3
vladimir_bz_lion getDare Addict Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Europe Posts: 2,361 Blog Entries: 37	Enter some shop, grab several things and pretend you are going to try them on in the dressing room with your partner. Once inside, you must give a blowjob to your partner and beg him to cum in your mouth. After he's done, quickly leave the dressing room. __________________ I expect your detailed and exciting report. PM me for punishment if you failed my dare. "You're going to women? Don't forget your whip!" Friedrich Nietzsche “No woman, it is said, knows truly what she is until she has worn the collar” John Norman, Raiders of Gor Initiative whores - most ask for punishment to look forward to a man, to be a continuation of his motion, momentum, thoughts. Who yearns to be punished, craves and needs the pleasures of pain?

08-20-2014, 10:52 PM	#5
onipran getDare Devil Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 1,338	Strip naked and go to bathroom without taking a piece of clothes with you. Now while you are bathing, tell your hubby to lock all of your clothes including bed sheet or any other thing can be used to cover your nudity. And he must hide the key in a certain place of the house, you have to search the house for they key. With each 10 mins of your failure you have to come to him and get spanked/ wipped for 30 times and after that he may give you a clue, continue this for 40 mins that is four clues and 120 spanks/ whipping. Then if you still could not find the key he will gag you with his underwear and then will give you another clue and you have to search with the gag on. If can't this time, he will get the right to bite your pussy lips and pinch and twist your nipples for 10 mins and give another clue, failure in this time will give him the chance to fuck you by making your hand down and legs up and when he fuck you while standing. After that you will give him a nice blowjob and possibly rimming (if you are into) and get your key back. __________________ GOOD bye

08-21-2014, 09:29 PM	#6
vladimir_bz_lion getDare Addict Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Europe Posts: 2,361 Blog Entries: 37	Tease for lady I would let you sit on a chair, your legs spread and tied to the chair legs. Masturbate on command and, what is much more important, you have to stop on command. Basically I would watch the scenery. How you get closer and closer to your orgasm. No permission to cum. Maybe a proper spanking is required to cool you down again and start again. Or a nipplechain to take over control. Blindfold, gagball, clamps, pussyspanking, mouthfucking,…. Depending on how the situation is developing. Orgasm or not, let’s see how you behave. __________________ I expect your detailed and exciting report. PM me for punishment if you failed my dare. "You're going to women? Don't forget your whip!" Friedrich Nietzsche “No woman, it is said, knows truly what she is until she has worn the collar” John Norman, Raiders of Gor Initiative whores - most ask for punishment to look forward to a man, to be a continuation of his motion, momentum, thoughts. Who yearns to be punished, craves and needs the pleasures of pain?

08-20-2014, 09:55 PM	#4
ACouple Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: Arizona Posts: 119	We've already done around his house, there isn't a yard though. And the public thing isn't something we do. Can't chance getting caught.

08-22-2014, 03:10 AM	#7
SecretTrainer Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: London, UK Posts: 100	Welcome to the site, it's great that you're wanting to experiment. If you're completely new to this then I would advise you don't just jump in and try some of the crazier suggestions you'll be getting. You want to take your time and enjoy slowly ramping up what you do with each other. I'd suggest you start with taking a little bit of the D/s dynamic out of the bedroom. Assuming you have your own place, and you're relatively confident about your body, then some forced nudity can be fun. For an entire day you can't wear any clothes, apart from heels if he chooses to put you in them. On top of that he can feel you up whenever he wants. Beyond that you can spice it up with some edging. You have to edge yourself during the day every hour. Your partner decides if he wants to watch or if you're sent to the bedroom to do it. Both are actually sexy. Your reward is going to be to cum, a lot, at the end of the day. The other thing I'd add for your naked day, is that you have to ask him if he wants a blow job, at least every hour. If you forget to ask you get spanked over his knee. The twist is, that it can be a very much submissive blow job, if you both like the idea, then having him do something while you're sucking him can be very hot. It might be gaming, it might be watching a movie, but hottest is probably for him to watch porn, as you suck him off. DO it for a LONG time, use your hands too, kneeling between his legs, so you can make the most of it. However, if you want to keep him really horny, think about NOT always letting him cum when you're blowing him. The hornier you leave him the harder he'll treat you, so it's a good way for you to actually balance out just how you want him to act. Let me know if this is the kind of thing that floats your boat and I can give you more ideas if you want them. James

08-24-2014, 05:51 PM	#8
ACouple Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: Arizona Posts: 119	James, I've given him head while playing games before, but we do both enjoy the idea of it. Especially when it's interactive. Neither of us have our own place, or an entire day, to spend playing. If we're going to be fooling around, it's usually a couple hours at most, so the running around naked thing isn't for us right now.

08-27-2014, 04:56 AM	#9
SecretTrainer Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: London, UK Posts: 100	Okay, that all changes things quite a bit, but no problem! So if you don't have your own places then there's lots of other fun options. I'd start with some clothing control, let him pick exactly what you have to wear. You can start off doing that together but even a message from him every day telling you what underwear you can, or can't... wear is very sexy. Let him dress you really sexily and then have to go out together, he'll love that. Something else you can add to that is before you go out, he takes a marker pen and writes over your body. 'Property of...', if you like it, then 'slut, slave' etc and arrows to your holes with what he's going to do to them later. Then you have to wear clothes over it both of you knowing what's underneath. You can also give him a blowjob somewhere public and let him cum on your breasts and you're not allowed to clean it off. Or wear a skirt or dress and fuck when you're out and you have to just let it run down your legs as you walk around. If you use condoms then just get him to cum on your thighs instead. In the times you do have at home you should try spanking. Don't take it to seriously, just have fun with it. But the trick is he needs to masturbate you in between the spanks. If you like gagging then try lying on your bed on your back and dropping your head back over the edge, and then have him fuck your mouth and throat. If he can make you cum with his fingers while his cock is choking you it will be an amazing experience. Also if you don't currently do it, try anal sex. It's incredibly submissive to allow him to fuck your ass. It shouldn't hurt though, you need to work up to it slowly, you should try an enema beforehand to make sure you don't worry about it being dirty,and you use lube, lube and more lube. Proper lube, not spit! Personally I'm a big fan of orgasm control so I'd make a rule that you have to edge yourself every morning and evening, but can never cum without his permission. I make my sub do that four times a day... but you're new to this Let me know how you get on!