Are you submissive or dominant in real life? - Page 2

MsRuthE · 09-01-2017, 12:56 PM

I believe I was born dominant. My earliest childhood memories are of being in charge and organizing things. In my work history as a business owner, being "Boss" seemed to come naturally.

I think that I would find it impossible to be submissive in the bedroom, it would be the total opposite of my lifestyle . . . . Maybe that's why I'm on my third husband.

AbusiveMaster · 09-01-2017, 01:14 PM

I am an easygoing and relaxed person in every facet of my life. I am not at all concerned with control, Dominance or any of these silly things. Placid and unruffled, nothing could ever bestir me to even attempt to impose my will on another human being.

nina@ · 09-02-2017, 12:42 PM

I actually have a dominant type of personality in real life.. however my dominance is more reflected in my assertive behaviour rather than an aggressive one. However kinkwise and sexually I am a submissive.

Kaat Doucet · 09-03-2017, 12:52 AM

I'm dominant untill I meet someone more dominant then I'm very submissive.

Dman1212 · 09-03-2017, 04:29 PM

Im more of a follower (sub) in real life. That is if there is a leader that has stepped up. But if no one takes charge that is when I will step up and take control. So it all depends on the situation for me.

LilPrincesss · 09-04-2017, 06:55 AM

I'm submissive both online and real life

Techguy · 09-04-2017, 08:16 AM

I'm a leader and more dominant in real life as I like things done when I want them and how I want them. However, being submissive is a real turn on but not sure if I would like it. I won't just do whatever someone wants unless they had a very strong domination side. I wouldn't be easy to break though.

Alcd87 · 09-06-2017, 01:51 PM

Day to day life I'm dominant, and for work I need to be. I didn't used to be and behind closed doors being submissive for kinky things is fun

RinOkumura · 09-07-2017, 12:30 AM

Kitten is 100% submissive he may not always obey but he could never be a from if he tried

badboy3892 · 09-07-2017, 02:07 AM

Definitely submissive. I like to think I could be dominant too sometimes but I really don't do it well -- even if it's something simple like writing a dare on here I'm always afraid of going too far to the point I probably end up not going far enough.

Fritzy · 09-07-2017, 05:11 PM

I'm dominant in both my everyday life and sexually. It ruffles all my feathers to have to listen to hemming and hawing about things. I am the friend who will make a decision if the discussion goes on for too long.

Maybe is stems from being the oldest sibling haha? I'm also the only manager at my place of employment and was previously a teacher.

Scrap · 09-07-2017, 08:08 PM

I am very much a submissive, though I can Switch when the need arises...

Blue Fox · 09-07-2017, 10:09 PM

Submissive in both, but do have a bit of dominance at work. But that is because I am a subject matter expert in my job...

PAChastity · 09-07-2017, 10:50 PM

I'm dominant at work but very much submissive in my personal life.

fwesmac · 09-08-2017, 12:29 AM

i am submissive bordering on being a real life slave to a sadistic Mistress or Master

09-01-2017, 12:56 PM	#16
MsRuthE Member Join Date: Aug 2017 Location: So. Cal Posts: 30	I believe I was born dominant. My earliest childhood memories are of being in charge and organizing things. In my work history as a business owner, being "Boss" seemed to come naturally. I think that I would find it impossible to be submissive in the bedroom, it would be the total opposite of my lifestyle . . . . Maybe that's why I'm on my third husband. __________________ *************** F/54/Bi/Mistress Things I enjoy doing to others: M/s, D/s, moderate S/M, Chastity, Keyholding, CBT, Pegging, Bondage, Humiliation (both private and public), Cross dressing, Spanking, Face-sitting, Electro-stim, Interesting dares. Things I will do to others if requested: Whipping, Fisting, Spiting, Intense S/M, Kicking, Punching, Smothering, Peeing, ballbusting. Things I won't do: Scat, Kids, Animals, Illegal acts, Narcotics.

09-01-2017, 01:14 PM	#17
AbusiveMaster getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: In Icey's heart. Posts: 395 Blog Entries: 83	I am an easygoing and relaxed person in every facet of my life. I am not at all concerned with control, Dominance or any of these silly things. Placid and unruffled, nothing could ever bestir me to even attempt to impose my will on another human being. __________________ I love IceMaiden. She is my everything. She is mine and I am hers. I am extremely happy with the wonderful girl I have. I do NOT want anyone else. This includes casual play or giving tasks/punishments. Do not ask!!

09-03-2017, 04:29 PM	#20
Dman1212 Butterfly’s Edging Bitch Join Date: Mar 2016 Location: Ohio Posts: 390 Blog Entries: 10	Im more of a follower (sub) in real life. That is if there is a leader that has stepped up. But if no one takes charge that is when I will step up and take control. So it all depends on the situation for me. __________________ LIKES, LIMITS, DISLIKES, TOYS Male 32, Discord, UPDATED PM DARES Triangles Task 19 out of 25

09-04-2017, 06:55 AM	#21
LilPrincesss Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2017 Posts: 9	I'm submissive both online and real life __________________ 18 female submissive UK Kik is rubybabezz give me dares Likes/ Limits (Work In Progress) Likes:Masturbation (insertion but mainly clit), light pain, ice, toothpaste Dislikes: Anal, denial, spanking Limits: Messy, diapers, public, family, pee, poo. permanent, pics/ videos, long-term denial, family

09-04-2017, 08:16 AM	#22
Techguy Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: Orlando Posts: 92	I'm a leader and more dominant in real life as I like things done when I want them and how I want them. However, being submissive is a real turn on but not sure if I would like it. I won't just do whatever someone wants unless they had a very strong domination side. I wouldn't be easy to break though. __________________ Kik: techguyslave Telegram: techguyslave Likes: Everything. Humiliation, Denial, submission, domination. Limits: Scat, Blood, illegal

09-02-2017, 12:42 PM	#18
nina@ getDare Succubus Join Date: Jul 2016 Posts: 1,665 Blog Entries: 25	I actually have a dominant type of personality in real life.. however my dominance is more reflected in my assertive behaviour rather than an aggressive one. However kinkwise and sexually I am a submissive.

09-03-2017, 12:52 AM	#19
Kaat Doucet Account Banned Join Date: Sep 2017 Location: Belgium Posts: 26	I'm dominant untill I meet someone more dominant then I'm very submissive.

09-06-2017, 01:51 PM	#23
Alcd87 Distinguished Member Join Date: Oct 2016 Posts: 858 Blog Entries: 2	Day to day life I'm dominant, and for work I need to be. I didn't used to be and behind closed doors being submissive for kinky things is fun __________________ In lingerie until 10/12/18 Limits :Involving others,naked dares permenant, toilet, family/friends/work, messy, anything illegal [COLOR="Lime"]Likes :Humiliation, tease and denial, crossdressing, hidden public crossdressing , orgasm control, cum instruction, risky public dressing (chance of discovery), public crossdressing (away from home area), Internet exposure Add days in lingerie

09-07-2017, 12:30 AM	#24
RinOkumura Member Join Date: Jan 2017 Location: California Posts: 78 Blog Entries: 2	Kitten is 100% submissive he may not always obey but he could never be a from if he tried __________________ Mommy’s cute asexual transfeminine kittten (pronouns she/her and they/them) Kitten isn’t allowed to cum or touch without her Mommy’s permission PM kitten GOOD GIRL to give kitten a treat (a sour patch kid) Punish kitten if she doesn’t talk in third person (she can’t use I/me) kitty’s likes, dislikes, and limits rules and Pm dares

09-07-2017, 02:07 AM	#25
badboy3892 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2017 Location: Somewhere in the USA Posts: 121	Definitely submissive. I like to think I could be dominant too sometimes but I really don't do it well -- even if it's something simple like writing a dare on here I'm always afraid of going too far to the point I probably end up not going far enough. __________________ 41/M/Straight...ish (it's very complicated) Likes: furry, plushie, sadomasochism, chemical play (icy hot, tiger balm, hot pepper), genital torture, cam pics/video (no face), forced orgasm Dislikes: anal, feet, ruined orgasm Limits: scat, puke, blood/gore, piss/cum drinking, permanent, public, family, showing my face

09-07-2017, 05:11 PM	#26
Fritzy Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2017 Location: US Posts: 3	I'm dominant in both my everyday life and sexually. It ruffles all my feathers to have to listen to hemming and hawing about things. I am the friend who will make a decision if the discussion goes on for too long. Maybe is stems from being the oldest sibling haha? I'm also the only manager at my place of employment and was previously a teacher. __________________ 28/F/Pan/Single. Mommy Domme, with little practical experience, exploring. Not looking for relationship at this time. OSA Tumblr Discord: Fritzy Likes: Gentle humiliation, chastity, impregnation, begging, desperation Dislikes: Age play, incest, hardcore C&B torture, forced fem Hard limits: Scat, public, caught, sharps, breath play, full face

09-07-2017, 08:08 PM	#27
Scrap Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: US Posts: 725 Blog Entries: 34	I am very much a submissive, though I can Switch when the need arises... __________________ Scrap D Flasher 49/gf(m)/US/pan/sub Likes: nudity, public, watersports, humiliation, cross dressing, bondage Limits: illegal, social suicide, scat, blood, young AMA: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=293024 kik: scrapdflasher snapchat: scrapdflasher

09-07-2017, 10:09 PM	#28
Blue Fox getDare Devil Join Date: May 2017 Location: United States Posts: 1,154 Blog Entries: 1	Submissive in both, but do have a bit of dominance at work. But that is because I am a subject matter expert in my job...

09-07-2017, 10:50 PM	#29
PAChastity Member Join Date: Jul 2017 Posts: 77	I'm dominant at work but very much submissive in my personal life. __________________ Sissy looking to be locked in chastity. Single and bisexual. 54, 5'8", 160 lbs, in the USA. Likes: chastity, humiliation, exposure, panties Limits: blood, scat, anything illegal Https://PAChastity.sarahah.com Kik is Pocono333 Locked in chastity with emlalock. Userid is 4jfmarawlstelsc and API is ey93yzkhqs Requirement link www.emlalock.com/#/r/2iqey https://bit.ly/2NwbeJY

09-08-2017, 12:29 AM	#30
fwesmac Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2017 Location: Belgium Posts: 2	i am submissive bordering on being a real life slave to a sadistic Mistress or Master __________________ likes: slavery, intense hardcore sm play, exhibitionism, making movies dislikes: fakes, shallow players limits: will not show face online available for real-life exhib and sado-maso games in my area. accept all friendship requests and will meet you for hardcore sessions in private or in a group. online use by experienced Dominants is welcome but real life preferred.