What annoys the most on here?

[Wordsmiff]

Originally Posted by bottomedbear

Have you ever heard of Edward Snowden.

Some people might be kinky, but aren't that brave to share nudes with secret services.

Did I mention nudes?

[Switch Lucy]

I agree with a lot of what's already been said.

Not a big issue, but it annoys me when people don't have an avatar. Just don't like the blank grey silhouette lol

[FoxFire]

People who can't read/steal random people's photos to use as profile pics.

Mainly people who can't be bothered to read

[Twisted Kitten]

When people give a dare (in person above fpr example) but pay no heed to the person aboves limits, likes, or dislikes. I mean, I didnt take all that time on my signature and in my blog posts talking about what I like, what I dont and what I wont do just so you can flat out ignore it!!

[JustSomeSub]

Originally Posted by Switch Lucy

I agree with a lot of what's already been said.

Not a big issue, but it annoys me when people don't have an avatar. Just don't like the blank grey silhouette lol

Fixed!

Very new here but I've noticed a trend with dares where a thread has good activity and then someone ups the stakes way too much and it kills the thread. Like it goes from doing something mild to "loser is winners no limit cam slave for a month with face shown."

[Edgeandenial]

What's annoys me on Getdare

1) private messages that say "Hi slut" or "do you want to do a task or dare for me" "will you mail me your wet panties" etc from strangers.

2) people who respond very vaguely to adverts and expect you to do a task for them the first thing

3) when people continue to ask about your toilet habits even after you tell them that you are not into toilet play

4) when Doms threaten their subs to break their limits as a form.of punishment

5) when people dissapear without any apparent reason or intimation

[RainbowSky]

Originally Posted by Wordsmiff

All the female members seem to put pics on their dislike or limits list. None of them seem to want to share pics. What do they have to hide? I'd love to exchange pics with a female member but can't find one that does it. ��

Originally Posted by bottomedbear

Some people might be kinky, but aren't that brave to share nudes with secret services.

Between you you've basically summed up the reasons why a lot of females have pics as a limit. Because for a large number of members on this site when they see the word pics they automatically think that a) they are happy to take pictures of their nude bodies and b) they have a right to spam the girl for nudes and pics that they might find uncomfortable, and c) they are entitled to those pictures, d) they can use them for blackmail and demand more. It's a vicious cycle.

There has to be an element of trust, having a picture on the internet can be really life-damaging for a lot of people depending on their jobs, their friends, even their family life. You don't know what the impact or implications are, and if there is no trust there's no guarantee that pictures you send - nude or otherwise- won't end up in the widespread internet.

I know for a fact that my family situation is so awkward that if an identifiable picture of me doing something from this site ended up in the widespread internet, my family life would honestly disintegrate.

I'm not criticising you for wanting to share pics, it's something that when I develop trust begin to do, but they will always be unidentifiable of me and my location, and never nude because that's uncomfortable for me. I don't have anything to hide, I'm just hyper-aware of my reality.

[naked_lego]

Originally Posted by FoxFire

People who steal random people's photos to use as profile pics.

Agreed, I wish all had one of themselves or that represented their username.

In general the lack of effort in most of the dares posted in the dare thread or the "in style" dare right now. None of them are interesting and most of them are the same. I kinda wish there was an easier way of regulating dares that have been posted so duplicates don't keep popping up. Force people to actually make something new then just another dice dare that has the dares in different orders