Sex or Love Life?

andrew_b · 02-15-2019, 02:29 AM

What is more important to you, your sex life or your love life?

SasssySlavePuppy · 02-15-2019, 02:38 AM

Woof woof

So for me, they are usually intertwined, so I guess maybe that means my sex life? I want my sex life to be free and unrestrained, so I pick lovers who embrace that idea instead of me having to hide who I am.

So I guess, gun to my head, sex life is more important

Woof your horny puppy woof

andrew_b · 02-15-2019, 02:58 AM

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Originally Posted by SasssySlavePuppy

Woof woof

So for me, they are usually intertwined, so I guess maybe that means my sex life? I want my sex life to be free and unrestrained, so I pick lovers who embrace that idea instead of me having to hide who I am.

So I guess, gun to my head, sex life is more important

Woof your horny puppy woof

Mine would be intertwined too but love would come first

SasssySlavePuppy · 02-15-2019, 03:02 AM

woof woof

Totally fair. I think my opinion of love is jaded from my days of not knowing my sexual orientation and who I could love. I was emotionally scarred by some of the lame-os I dated when I was younger

Woof your horny puppy woof

Peachybaby · 02-16-2019, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by andrew_b

What is more important to you, your sex life or your love life?

Hmm... in a sense of what do I look for more is sex life because if someone can’t share the same sexual interest than me then no. But in a relationship probably my love life is more important than the sex itself

Ringthebell · 02-16-2019, 02:14 PM

Sex life purely because I’m very cynical when it comes to love and involves way too many feelings for me. A good sex life is just what I want

Consensus · 02-16-2019, 02:25 PM

Hmm, interesting question. I would have said love life were it not for the fact that I have lived in a situation where love life was generally sound and there was very little sex for well over a decade now. On that basis, and the fact that I clearly care about it, I would have to honestly answer that sex life is more important to me at the moment.

Mousey123 · 02-16-2019, 02:26 PM

Love life, they are some one who will support through thick and thin, and if you are lucky with have a good sex life with it, if you desire but that's a plus, extra on the side.

kurious kat · 02-16-2019, 04:52 PM

I might say sex life - mostly because I've seen what not having one over the long term does to my ability to stay present in a loving way.

I wouldn't commit to an ongoing sexual relationship with someone unless I could trust and respect them as an individual (ie: I could imagine having a solid love life with them), but historically I've found partnerships hard to sustain if my partner has no sustained interest in my sexuality. Long-term over months and years, it takes its toll on feeling connected and desirable in their presence.

Lucyy · 02-27-2019, 04:38 PM

Love life, I would rather have a steady and loving partner and no sex than great sex with a bf/gf that I didn't love/didn't love me. Love is more important to me

rhode64 · 02-28-2019, 04:47 AM

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Originally Posted by andrew_b

What is more important to you, your sex life or your love life?

For me the 2 go hand in hand so both are important to me .

ebsia · 02-28-2019, 06:24 AM

Love life, 100%. A great sex life is amazing, but nothing beats true love. Certaiy over the last few month my sex life has been amazing, but I still feel empty knowing that I couldnt get in a relationship with that one girl I truly loved. I would give that sex life up, just to be loved by her!

But thats just how I feel about it

02-15-2019, 02:29 AM	#1
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SasssySlavePuppy getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2017 Posts: 354 Blog Entries: 2	Woof woof So for me, they are usually intertwined, so I guess maybe that means my sex life? I want my sex life to be free and unrestrained, so I pick lovers who embrace that idea instead of me having to hide who I am. So I guess, gun to my head, sex life is more important Woof your horny puppy woof __________________ F/25/ 64" tall/ 128 lbs/ 34C Sissy Playground AMA Read My Stories: Selina’s Fantasy PM Dares: Likes and Limits:

02-15-2019, 03:02 AM	#4
SasssySlavePuppy getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2017 Posts: 354 Blog Entries: 2	woof woof Totally fair. I think my opinion of love is jaded from my days of not knowing my sexual orientation and who I could love. I was emotionally scarred by some of the lame-os I dated when I was younger Woof your horny puppy woof __________________ F/25/ 64" tall/ 128 lbs/ 34C Sissy Playground AMA Read My Stories: Selina’s Fantasy PM Dares: Likes and Limits:

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02-16-2019, 02:25 PM	#7
Consensus Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: In a house alone Posts: 643 Blog Entries: 48	Hmm, interesting question. I would have said love life were it not for the fact that I have lived in a situation where love life was generally sound and there was very little sex for well over a decade now. On that basis, and the fact that I clearly care about it, I would have to honestly answer that sex life is more important to me at the moment. __________________ Clothing / Preferences // PM Dares // Team-Up Calendar (please add) // Chastity // Femdom IRL old/transwoman/attracted to Females & Femininity/shaved pubes, legs and armpits And that's all she has to say about that.

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Mousey123 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2016 Posts: 470 Blog Entries: 12	Love life, they are some one who will support through thick and thin, and if you are lucky with have a good sex life with it, if you desire but that's a plus, extra on the side.

02-16-2019, 04:52 PM	#9
kurious kat getDare's Kinkiest Kitty Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: USA Posts: 700 Blog Entries: 26	I might say sex life - mostly because I've seen what not having one over the long term does to my ability to stay present in a loving way. I wouldn't commit to an ongoing sexual relationship with someone unless I could trust and respect them as an individual (ie: I could imagine having a solid love life with them), but historically I've found partnerships hard to sustain if my partner has no sustained interest in my sexuality. Long-term over months and years, it takes its toll on feeling connected and desirable in their presence.

02-27-2019, 04:38 PM	#10
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02-28-2019, 06:24 AM	#12
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